MICHAEL KRYMCHANTOWSKI - ENTREPRENEUR AND BUSINESSMAN

Hi guys, happy Friday and I'm so excited because today, finally, yeah,

I have a super brave man that agreed to be interviewed for my podcast.

And he's a very, very, very successful, intelligent, incredibly nice bachelor here in Miami.

His name is Michael Krimchantovsky.

He's an entrepreneur.

He pretty much started Wynnewood some 20 years ago when nobody even knew what Winwood was, but that's a whole other story.

The fact of the matter is, this guy is brilliant and he's intelligent and he's nice and he's sweet.

He has been married, he's divorced, he had a bunch of girlfriends, and today he's willing to answer all the questions that I have and my friends send so we can hear the male's perspective on dating and relationships.

Hi, Michael.

Thank you so much.

First of all, thank you so much for being here and being so brave and agreeing to doing this interview.

That's very nice of you.

So

first things first, Michael, as you know, this is a podcast about dating and relationships based on my life and my experiences.

And some of them are good, some of them are bad, some of them are really bad.

So the first question that I want to ask you, this is my question to you.

Why do you think so many men behave badly with women that they actually like or they say that they like?

Well, I don't think they behave badly because they

you wanna you're saying that when when the guy sees that the girl likes him he he treats her bad.

Yeah, is that right?

Yeah, like

you don't but some men do

but some women also do that some women

that's true but why do you think that happens

that keep calling and keep mail so depends on the person it's not man or woman in this case yeah that's a good answer i like that answer you you are right some girls behave badly too

second question for me

When I go out with somebody, I like to have some kind of a connection, like a mental connection.

I don't like to just go out and have sex for sex.

As a man, do you think most men are like me?

Or are you like that?

Or you think men just, oh, I want to have sex and I want to have sex and I don't care.

What do you think?

Yeah, depends what the guy...

feels about the girl is not only to have sex you know when you are on your 20s 30s probably yeah

some, majority, probably.

But when you get older, you want to,

as someone with quality on your side, for you to start to think that this is someone I want to be on my side all the time.

So

it depends.

That is so true.

So men are, in a way, just a lot like us women.

You want to date and ultimately you want to find the right partner, right?

It's not just about sex.

Yes, of course.

No,

it's not only sex.

Sex is very important.

Yes, it is.

I agree.

More importantly, someone nice on your side,

someone that is loyal to you, nice to

funny, that makes you feel vibrant.

You know, it's not only sex.

That gives me hope.

Now, do you think in general, Michael, men use these dating apps like Tinder?

not because they're trying to find a relationship.

Do you think these dating apps are more just like, oh, I want to have sex?

What do you think?

What is your opinion?

I think so.

To be honest with you, yes.

A girl that goes there and exposes herself to it,

it's like saying, I'm here.

You can, you know, you can

use me whatever you want.

I can make someone

that is interested in having

a relationship will look for this girl or even the guy.

Probably the girls also.

So for the girls out there listening to us, if we want a date or if we want to find a partner, you don't think Tinder is the best way to do it, right?

Definitely, I don't think so.

Okay.

I'm glad that you're being so honest and saying that because I'm like, you know, in between, I have good experiences, bad experience, but I'm not a big fan of it.

I wasn't sure what to do.

That's why I asked you, but I agree.

I think most people on this app they just want like a quick sex, although there are exceptions.

You don't, you lose respect, probably.

No, yeah, true.

Now, let's talk about a touchy topic.

Sex on the first date.

Do you think most men are not going to respect the woman that does that?

Or you guys don't care?

Please be honest.

Please be honest.

Yes.

All right.

It's a very sensitive point.

Yes.

I know it is.

That's why we need it.

See you.

I don't think the first time you need to have sex at all.

When you are, again, 20s, 20s, yeah, you want sex.

But

when you grow up, you want to feel,

imagine a couple meeting a couple like 40 years old, 50 years old, so many experiences of their lives.

that they want to share they want to talk about it so everything has your right time to do yeah true

I'd like to know the girl.

So true.

The vibe of the meeting, you know, going to, when it goes to a good pork, then

it completes with sex, you know?

Yeah, that's so true.

Yeah.

Sometimes it's not going to have sex to have sex.

Not on my age anymore, probably.

I agree.

Last week I had a guest.

Her name is Adriana DeMara.

She's a celebrity here in Miami.

She's been on TV.

And I kind of asked the same question to her.

And she actually said that there are so many girls that are so available out there that sometimes men don't even appreciate meeting them and getting to know them or taking them on a nice date.

So I guess you agree, right, with what she said.

Yeah, I agree with her.

Yes, definitely.

You know, it's so nice when you go on and you know someone, you talk about life

why you you you gonna spit up uh

i'm sorry i'm sorry someone called me here okay no problem

yeah why you yeah probably if you feel if you you know i believe in love at first sight i do

but even that i do too but even love at first sight not we don't have to have sex the first time we meet right it's kind of nice to wait

Yeah.

I completely agree with you.

To answer me to

answer you honestly, right?

Yes.

We want honesty.

Fantastic.

Are there any characteristics that a partner must have, like that a woman has to have for you to like her,

or it's the whole package?

I mean uh i like

like funny girl

um

funny girl you mean like with a sense of humor

yeah yes definitely you need we need that you need it you don't want someone that keeps complaining about life about everything no you don't want that you want someone with a good fight

i completely agree with you

anything else

people there are some people that they like problems so they like to meet someone else that has a lot of problems, so they are fit with this.

I don't

like a person.

Some people like drama, right?

Yeah,

now, on the other hand, is there anything that you absolutely would not accept on a partner?

Any characteristic that a person would do and you say, Oh no, I really, really don't want to be with this person.

Yeah, at the beginning, you feel when someone

contradicts herself,

at the beginning you feel that she said something and now she's saying something else different than what she said before.

So this gives you a like a red deck on this.

So you

this maybe is the turnoff situation.

Okay.

Anything else?

Well

it happens.

It happened once.

I went to pick up the girl and she came with

so crazy

thoughts and

probably she had something before meeting me.

I don't know.

But I didn't like that.

The girl was like, you know,

very,

very

crazy at the beginning.

So this is something that you don't like.

Girls don't like girls a guy that keeps talking a lot, that keeps doing, you know, and you want to have a nice conversation, calm conversation, at least at the beginning.

Yeah, you agree with me?

Absolutely.

I completely agree with you.

Now, one tough question.

Do you think most men, not just you, but most men are intimidated by intelligent, successful women?

I have met men before

that

when they see my pictures and everything, they think, oh, great, this is just an internet model, blah, blah, blah.

Then, when they see that I do other things and then I have college degrees, they feel intimidated.

Do you think most men are or not?

No, I don't think so.

No.

For me, I like,

you know, there's a phrase that says

intelligence is aphrodisic,

aphrodisi.

So I like an intelligent woman.

That's nice.

Nice, clap.

For me, it's a tunnel.

It's not something that I wouldn't appreciate.

No,

I want a

great woman on my side.

Yeah.

And

good things there.

Breeds there.

She's smart, intelligent.

Why the men don't like this?

I guess if you're a secure man and you have confidence, you don't mind having an intelligent partner, right you should want to have an intelligent partner

i want that i look for that actually

i had a girlfriend when i was 26 years old she she was the most intelligent girl that i've ever saw very intelligent i i admired her a lot you know the way she talked and everything i liked that

i really like that's really good to know so ladies out there it's you know the men that are intimidated by intelligent women, they have their own issues, they have their own problems.

A nice guy should be happy if we're successful, if we work, right?

If we're intelligent, Michael, what would be like, let's say you're gonna go on a date with a really nice girl that you like,

can you tell us, like, what would you plan?

What would be like this perfect date

for you?

What would

be this perfect date?

Yeah, like, where would you take her?

What would you do?

You know, in your mind, what is the perfect date?

No, I believe the first day you should go to a restaurant, have a nice swine, talking about

you, hear about her.

You're not going to make crazy stuff.

Oh, let's clean the mountain.

No, first, first, no, first date, you need to know

the couple.

The couple needs to know each other.

You know, a lot of girls, girls

yeah a lot of girls don't like to go on dinner dates because in case they don't like the guy they don't want to be stuck in dinner for like two hours with the guy

yeah just last week one of my girls

go have some drinks and that's it yeah i i agree with you i i love dinner dates But it is true, like maybe if you don't really don't like the guy or if you really don't like the girl, then you still have to sit there for two hours it's a little complicated right

yeah but if you don't it's a gang of all this um you're right that's why i don't i don't like this you asked me about the tinder as the thing see you don't know the girl imagine you're having dinner with some crazy girl that

you know you got you want to get rid of yeah so uh

but to go to a date you need to you need to know something about this other person so how do how do you meet people?

How do you think we should meet people if not on Tinder?

Organically, through friends?

People that know someone else, that you go to the meeting,

clubs, get together, so you meet someone.

This is the organic way.

Yeah, I agree.

I like the organic way too.

I think it's better.

I definitely think it's better.

Michael, did you ever have like a really bad date that you can tell us about?

Like the woman did something really bad that you didn't like?

anything like that.

I think you did, and you don't want to tell us.

No, I just like to have

good memories.

And to be honest with you,

I don't think I

had something so terrible like that.

No.

Well, lucky you then.

Lucky you.

You know, I was before.

I know who I'm going, even for first date.

date yeah okay

so so you talk on the phone before you get to know the person a little bit better right before you take them out

yeah of course you need to know

you need to talk on the phone well see

feel you know the return the answers to

some people avoid

you're very lucky if you never had a horrible date i don't know if i believe that but

i'll give you a test I was married for 17 years ago.

Yeah, that's true.

After that, I had a relationship for six years and a half.

So you are definitely a relationship guy, right?

Though I, I, you know, I like to stay with

a girl on my side.

Yeah, sounds like you are a relationship guy.

You like relationships, quality relationships.

Yeah, I like, I like.

Yeah, I need to have someone.

Yeah, I prefer quality than quantity any day for sure.

Now, Michael, another tough question.

You know, I talk a lot with my girlfriends about playing the game.

What is playing the game?

Playing the game is like most women, they think,

let's say

we went on a date tonight, right?

The next day,

They say, oh, don't call him first.

Don't text him.

If he texts you, you should wait so many hours or you should wait so many days, blah, blah, blah.

The man has to text first.

Most of my girlfriends play this game, and I'm never patient for that.

If I want to say something, I just say it.

If I want to call the person, I call, if I want to text the person I text, how do you feel as a man that we should play this game?

Or it's all

no game, no

secret, uh, secret app weapons you make.

this is as you said before, the word that we like, organic.

You should be

as you are.

If you miss her, you send a text message to her.

If she misses the guy, she should send a message.

Hey, how are you doing?

How's your day?

Something like that.

I like this.

I agree.

Oh, I'm not gonna see him because he will think that I'm now now.

Don't think about this, okay?

Ah, that makes me feel so much better.

I know.

Playing all this game is very tiring, isn't it?

I get tired of playing games.

I don't like playing games.

Yeah, why can't you do?

You don't need that.

So, if I go out on a really nice date and I want to say something the next day, it doesn't matter if it's the man or the woman that does it first, right?

That sends a message first.

No,

not at all.

You can send a message.

The guy, if he likes you, he will love to receive a message from you.

And the same if she liked the g the guy, she will love to receive a message from you.

Yeah.

Sounds great.

Michael.

Yeah.

Now, is there any

advice in general that you tell women about dating?

I don't know as a man, what would you say to a girl like me that wants to go out there and meet someone?

Do you have anything nice or not nice?

Don't be crazy at the first time.

Don't be crazy.

If you believe in aliens and there is a conspiracy behind the government,

don't just start saying this.

Once we have a method with a girl, she started to say that she was not from this earth.

She was not from

this.

That's funny.

Yeah, that's a good one.

Hold for your current four more times.

That's really good advice.

So keep the conversation light and friendly, right?

Don't come up with too many crazy topics.

No, no, not at the first time.

Sounds great.

Michael, I really, really appreciate having you here.

Can you tell tell girls, like if anybody wants to send you a message or if they have more questions?

Do you have

an Instagram or anything that you can give my listeners in case they want to contact you or they have any questions for you?

By the way, guys, Michael is the owner of a boutique hotel in Wynnewood, which is the arts neighborhood in Miami.

It's a fabulous neighborhood.

And his hotel is amazing.

It's called Creamwood Flats.

Thank you so much for participating.

Thank you, Creamwood Flats, for kindly, kindly, kindly sponsoring this episode.

It's an amazing hotel.

And if you guys want to see more information about it, if you want to hear about it, I have tons of stuff about it on my Instagram, Creamwood Flats, Winwood.

Can you tell us your

email or your Instagram or not?

It's private.

Mick Cream Jr.

This is connect to yours.

Mick, yeah, it's in mine.

So, girls, if you want to talk to Michael or you want to say hi, send me a message or find him on my Insta.

He's there.

You're amazing.

Thank you so much.

I really love your advice.

I think what you said is really important that we should try to keep things organic, right?

The world is organic.

I was honest with you,

and we love honesty.

And you win a medal for being the first man who agreed to be interviewed for my podcast.

Yeah.

All right.

Yeah.

Thank you so much, Michael.

Have a wonderful weekend.

You're the best.

Thank you very much.

Cat, we end ahead.

So let us enjoy this next two days.

Thank you so much, guys.

This was Cat on the Lose, Michael Krimchantovitsky, and I'll see you next week with a new episode.