Kylie on Super Bowl Suite Headstands, Odds Jason Goes Shirtless Again & FAFO Parenting | Ep. 9

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Speaker 2 Not gonna lie, I swear my kids are having meetings that I don't know about to figure out who's going to wake me up at night and how many times, just to make sure that my sleep is interrupted.

Speaker 2 Let's start this podcast.

Speaker 2 Welcome back to Not Gonna Lie, a Wave Original brought to you by Cinnamon Toast Crunch.

Speaker 2 I'm your host, Kylie Kelsey, Conflicted Eagles fan, owner of multiple wooden spoons, and I brought my OBs to a Super Bowl one time.

Speaker 2 And I'd do it again. As always, make sure you follow us on social at NGL with Kylie and subscribe to the Not Gonna Lie YouTube channel.

Speaker 2 Coming up on today's Super Bowl special, you're getting my first ever solo episode. Yikes.
I said it before and I'll say it again. With the Super Bowl only a few days away, life is not happening.

Speaker 2 The Eagles are happening and the Chiefs.

Speaker 2 Go, Trev. So, since I can't focus on literally anything else right now, I'm going to talk to all of you for the next 45 minutes.

Speaker 2 Oh my gosh, about all things Super Bowl, a new parenting trend, my kids' Disney movie obsessions, and of course, more Super Bowl.

Speaker 2 But first, last week I asked you guys to send in your best ideas for the name of the Not Gonna Lie fan base. And no surprise here, you delivered from at tight end for Tay on Twitter.

Speaker 2 Can we call the NGL podcast listeners the outliers?

Speaker 2 Honestly,

Speaker 2 not terrible. Next up, at Susie Schupa K5188.

Speaker 2 This one's up for debate. We're unsure on this end if it's the Kylites or the Kylites.
I am unsure. As someone who,

Speaker 2 as I've said, maybe a million times,

Speaker 2 I am unsure how I feel about my name being included in

Speaker 2 the

Speaker 2 fan base name because

Speaker 2 that feels so self-serving.

Speaker 2 I don't like it. Okay.

Speaker 2 Yak Garf. Wow.
Interesting name. Says

Speaker 2 fan base should be called

Speaker 2 the 93%ers. Not sure what you're referring to with the 93%.

Speaker 2 uh

Speaker 2 it also sounds oddly familiar so i think until i can put my finger on where that came from uh we're gonna leave that one out call us

Speaker 2 kylie's fire dogs

Speaker 2 shout out to bryce harper and his banana bread

Speaker 2 from fern tella fan name kylie's lucky spoons See, the only problem with that, Fern, is that that suggests that my spoons are lucky. And we are still unsure of whether or not the spoons are lucky,

Speaker 2 but we will continue to knock on them just in case. West Coast K Ebb wrote, fan base name suggestion, FAFOs.

Speaker 2 Honestly, I'm going to need to find out. Are we calling these like FAFOs or are we calling these FAFOs? Because my brain goes to FAFOs.
That's what I defaulted to, and that's what I'm going with.

Speaker 2 You know, I'm never against that. Charlotte says, at NGL with Kylie, Kylie's court, the court for short.
You're a pony. You didn't even know it.

Speaker 2 My dad actually popped into a FaceTime I was on with my mom yesterday and just out of the blue, with no context whatsoever, said,

Speaker 2 The royal family.

Speaker 2 And I was like,

Speaker 2 great.

Speaker 2 What are you talking about? And he he was like,

Speaker 2 the royal family.

Speaker 2 And I was like,

Speaker 2 cool.

Speaker 2 Still no context. And finally, he said, I'm saying that that's what you should call your fan base.

Speaker 2 Which, honestly,

Speaker 2 I'm very impressed by his creativity.

Speaker 2 But it also leads into the idea that

Speaker 2 I am anything

Speaker 2 just

Speaker 2 anywhere close to a suggestion of princess, queen, royalty, duchess,

Speaker 2 and again,

Speaker 2 unworthy.

Speaker 2 A lot of you also like the idea of keeping it as NGLers, so we can add that to the fan vote. And some people suggested we let my girls name the fans.

Speaker 2 I don't know if you've seen the late show, they call it late night with Jason Kelsey.

Speaker 2 The girls actually made a mascot for that show, and then they were given the freedom to name it. Do you want to know what its name is? Dragon McFart Fart Butt Butt.

Speaker 2 So I think it's safe to say we're just gonna

Speaker 2 leave them out of it. Stay tuned and make sure to follow us at NGL with Kylie so you can vote when we put out the poll.
We want to know what you think. Moving on,

Speaker 2 I'd like to use this special solo episode to debut a brand new segment I'm calling, you know what's fucked up?

Speaker 2 There's of course been non-stop headlines about the Super Bowl this past week, but one in particular really got me thinking. Now that's fucked up.

Speaker 2 The headline from 6 ABC Philadelphia, three Philadelphia area school districts announced delayed start for the day after the Eagles play in the Super Bowl. No.

Speaker 2 Uh, how about

Speaker 2 no?

Speaker 2 Now they claim the reasoning is because kids will be up late watching the game, which can lead to quote rough mornings.

Speaker 2 But

Speaker 2 holy jinx,

Speaker 2 oh my lord, let's not.

Speaker 2 What?

Speaker 2 Here's the deal: you regularly

Speaker 2 will put a two-hour, one or two-hour delay

Speaker 2 or a complete day off

Speaker 2 on a snow day the morning of the school day.

Speaker 2 So why are we issuing this two weeks in advance?

Speaker 2 I can't get down with this. Here's the deal.
The only way I'm getting down with this is if we can retract this statement. Okay.
It's not a hard, we're definitely

Speaker 2 going to get a delay.

Speaker 2 I think that it should be a warning that you should call the hotline or check the news the morning of Monday after the Super Bowl so that we don't have to make the jinxy decision.

Speaker 2 Do I need to send you guys some spoons? This feels so

Speaker 2 we're jumping the gun. I will say, though,

Speaker 2 for the sake of the teachers,

Speaker 2 specifically the educators that are involved in these situations,

Speaker 2 you could do them this solid. Like, I get that it will be rough for the parents, but then the parents get to send them to school, the parents get to go to work,

Speaker 2 you know, because a lot of parents still have to work on Monday at regular time.

Speaker 2 But I do understand that

Speaker 2 I'm gonna let you in on a little, a little theory.

Speaker 2 I truly believe that when you are in a bar on a Friday or Saturday, and there is someone in there that is just like absolutely popping off, just going buck wild, there's a 75% chance that they're they're a nurse or an educator.

Speaker 2 I'm just letting you know what my research has told me.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 2 And I'm not even a bar person,

Speaker 2 but I'm telling you right now, all my nurses and my teachers back me up here.

Speaker 2 This is not with a negative connotation.

Speaker 2 This is me respecting. the hustle of work hard, play harder.
So here's the deal: I can get behind a delay on Monday, but I need the school districts to issue it on Sunday night, post-game,

Speaker 2 or Monday morning. I think we can all agree on this.
Again, this is not that far-fetched. We do it for snow days.
You just have to give the schools a warning now.

Speaker 2 Cut the teachers a break.

Speaker 2 We know they'll need it. Queen Emma is asking, should the day after the Super Bowl just be a holiday to avoid all of this? Why the hell not? And that does it for you know what's fucked up.

Speaker 2 Next up, we've got a Super Bowl predictions game

Speaker 2 where none of the scenarios have anything to do with the game itself. Thank

Speaker 2 goodness.

Speaker 2 So for example, instead of guessing how many yards Saquon is going to get, I'm going to predict how many times I'll say fuck in the second quarter.

Speaker 2 So Queen Emma has prepared a bunch of these made-up props for my personal Super Bowl weekend experience. Number one, how many times will I text Jason, where are you this weekend in New Orleans?

Speaker 2 I'm going to say

Speaker 2 two times.

Speaker 2 I luckily do not lose him often because he is usually at specifically when it comes to functions like this,

Speaker 2 he has a schedule set where I know where he is. And if I don't know where he is,

Speaker 2 I know the people who are with him and I've probably talked to them.

Speaker 2 And that sounds ridiculous, but

Speaker 2 hopefully we will be less ships passing in the night where we will not need a where are you text.

Speaker 2 Hopefully I can just enjoy some time with my husband in New Orleans eating beignets without a child saying, can you fill up my water bottle?

Speaker 2 That's that's what I'm so I'm going with two.

Speaker 2 Last year in Vegas, it happened a few more times. Number two, what will be the color of my shirt on game day?

Speaker 2 I have no idea. I genuinely don't know yet.

Speaker 2 I can pretty confidently say

Speaker 2 I will not be wearing red.

Speaker 2 Speaking of, a lot of fans have suggestions for the girl shirts. Amber Elise said: the Go Trav shirts have to be in Philly colors.
I do believe that we've gone completely neutral on those shirts.

Speaker 2 I'm unsure, but they have been ordered, so

Speaker 2 too late now.

Speaker 2 But I appreciate the suggestions, and I see where you're coming from. Number three, how many times will I swear during the entirety of the game on Sunday?

Speaker 2 Emma's suggesting an over, under of 100, I would would say over

Speaker 2 over a hundred times.

Speaker 2 And specifically, which curse word will I say the most?

Speaker 2 My dad's favorite one that I say, that's sarcasm. The only person I do not say the F word in front of is my father.
He has requested a no-cursing episode. It's not this one, dad.
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 2 Plug your ears. Fuck is going to be the frontrunner.
I am going to say fuck the most.

Speaker 2 Um, and any iteration of fuck, any version of fuck

Speaker 2 fucking fuck this, fuck that, what the fuck,

Speaker 2 holy fuck, fuck shit, god damn it, fuck

Speaker 2 all of those are options

Speaker 2 for what could happen.

Speaker 2 Holy fucking shit,

Speaker 2 frequence

Speaker 2 while watching football.

Speaker 2 When I am at a game,

Speaker 2 specifically at a game around other people,

Speaker 2 I prefer to curse more quietly,

Speaker 2 but not necessarily less.

Speaker 2 Usually I'm watching the game in Safe Space, aka next to people or in earshot of people who either feel similarly or know that I curse like a sailor. So

Speaker 2 it's happening. And

Speaker 2 it would not be quite as loud as if I were in my own living room,

Speaker 2 but

Speaker 2 still a substantial number of fucks. And the best part about that is, is that

Speaker 2 they, they, it's a conscious, it's like a stream of fucks, whether it's going well or going poorly. So

Speaker 2 over 100 fucks at least. I'm so sorry, dad.

Speaker 2 Number four, what are the odds of a video of Jason taking his shirt off during the game goes viral? I do think that he kind of

Speaker 2 he, I think he's moved on from that. I think he was very much feeling

Speaker 2 the vibe of Bill's mafia when he did that. He had gone out and enjoyed the tailgate.
I don't think he broke a table even though he wanted to.

Speaker 2 He was

Speaker 2 being at one with the people of Buffalo when he took his shirt off, even though it was in celebration of the Chiefs. My husband is very much someone who

Speaker 2 can just get down with a good fan base. And I think Bill's mafia has shown that they are just a good,

Speaker 2 passionate fan base. That's why he

Speaker 2 let everyone see his,

Speaker 2 you know,

Speaker 2 chest.

Speaker 2 I will say

Speaker 2 that

Speaker 2 our girls did see that after the fact, and I believe it was, oh, actually, they saw it live, and my mom texted me.

Speaker 2 and said that Ellie said, I could be misquoting this, but it's something something along the lines of why are dad's boobs out.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 I think,

Speaker 2 I don't think his shirt's coming off this time.

Speaker 2 It also helped that it was freezing cold in Buffalo. And so taking his shirt off was like a

Speaker 2 just like embracing the cold.

Speaker 2 Whereas in New Orleans, it's a dome. Not as exciting to

Speaker 2 disrobe. Number five, if the Super Bowl broadcast cuts to the Kelsey Suite, will we see you hiding in a corner? Maybe.

Speaker 2 Depending on how the game is going and at what point in the game you've caught me,

Speaker 2 there's a pretty good chance I'll be standing in the corner.

Speaker 2 If I'm doing like a headstand in the back, like if you see feet in the back

Speaker 2 of the shot, it's me doing a headstand, thinking that like if I get upside down, maybe that'll help.

Speaker 2 Because I'll do anything i think i've made that clear

Speaker 2 like a crazy person

Speaker 2 it's rational

Speaker 2 no it's not um

Speaker 2 i know that i've said a number of times that i am a stand person but our family will be sitting in a suite um so we will most likely be joining them which makes me so happy because I've said this so many times, but when your family is so spread out and you only get to see them a select number of times a year,

Speaker 2 even if you're not cheering in the same way, it's so much fun to see them and get to catch up in those little moments and

Speaker 2 get to get a good squeeze. Number six, how many times will a fan shout go birds at you while walking around New Orleans? The over-under is a thousand.

Speaker 2 I would say, oh, that's a good one. I would say

Speaker 2 over 500 times, under a thousand times, I have faith in Eagles fans,

Speaker 2 and I will be repping Eagles Green in New Orleans. So

Speaker 2 people will know where

Speaker 2 my loyalties lie.

Speaker 2 But again,

Speaker 2 I love my brother-in-law, and

Speaker 2 I'm cheering for him too. I want to make that abundantly clear.

Speaker 2 There is

Speaker 2 a

Speaker 2 balancing act act that's happening here.

Speaker 2 So just respects it, okay?

Speaker 2 Number seven. What will be the first New Orleans delicacy I eat? Easy.
I'll read you the finalists,

Speaker 2 but I'm going to tell you right now which one I'm going for. The finalists are beignets, gumbo, crawfish, jambalaya, po-boy, king cake.

Speaker 2 It's beignets. I

Speaker 2 had a beignet the last time we were there. Beignets

Speaker 2 were delicious. Also, I don't know if it was divine intervention or what, but last week there was someone who pops up on my For You page all the time.

Speaker 2 She reviews food everywhere that she goes, and she was just in New Orleans. And she had a po-boy, a shrimp po-boy.

Speaker 2 She poured this gravy on it.

Speaker 2 I will be seeking that po-boy out. That specifically, I have it saved and I sent it to someone who I will be with in New Orleans so that we can find it.

Speaker 2 So, Queen Emma asked:

Speaker 2 any of these kicks starting a pregnancy craving? I would say from that obnoxious rant:

Speaker 2 yes.

Speaker 2 Yes, they are.

Speaker 2 What wooden object will I knock on the most?

Speaker 2 Will I pack the wooden spoons?

Speaker 2 I

Speaker 2 will be packing the wooden spoons just in case.

Speaker 2 But

Speaker 2 my go-to if I do not have wood present, this is so serious.

Speaker 2 My go-to if I don't have a wooden object present is to knock on the back side of my head because that's what you do. I can't explain it.
It's just what you do.

Speaker 2 There are quite a few fans concerned about the fact that the knock block is new.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 we have people commenting that we should not be touching it.

Speaker 2 I will keep my hands off of it just in case.

Speaker 2 And we can save it for another time. But what I will tell you is that usually I do not discriminate.
If it is truly wood, I will knock on it.

Speaker 2 That does it for my non-Super Bowl, Super Bowl predictions. Not gonna lie, I'm proud to admit to all of the NGL viewers and listeners out there that I, Kylie Kelsey, am a milk before cereal person.

Speaker 2 I know that this is giving

Speaker 2 psychopath, but I've been doing it this way for a very long time because

Speaker 2 I do not like soggy cereal. It's as simple as that.
I only pour the milk first so that I can can take the box to the table with me and pour it in layers so that I pour one layer on top and I eat it.

Speaker 2 And then I pour another layer and I eat it. Does it make me consume way too much cereal?

Speaker 2 Who cares? I love the crunch,

Speaker 2 which is why

Speaker 2 I love cinnamon toast crunch. There you have it.
It's a better ratio, less mess, crunchier bites, and a cinna cinna dust management system. I rest my case.

Speaker 2 Go grab your own box of cinnamon toast crunch and try pouring the milk first. Now, before I get to all of your Super Bowl questions, let's do a little doom scroll of the week.

Speaker 2 This past week, I was actually doom scrolling Instagram and came across a post from the Scary Mommy account titled, What is FAFO Parenting? The Parenting Style Explain. The caption says,

Speaker 2 FAFO parenting, which stands for we know, fuck around and find out parenting, is the act of having your kids experience the natural consequences of their actions without getting too involved.

Speaker 2 They also shared a TikTok

Speaker 2 from, hey, I'm Janelle

Speaker 2 to further explain, Queen Emma, hit it.

Speaker 3 They get their natural consequences and get to figure out the way through them. This weekend, I took my kid camping for the first time with the Cut Scouts, and we had a great time.

Speaker 3 But at one point, it was raining pretty hard. It was raining all day.
It was real wet. And the kids were all just playing around at the campsite.

Speaker 3 And my son decided he didn't want to wear his rain jacket anymore.

Speaker 3 Okay, that's up to you. I'm not fighting my kid on a jacket unless temperatures are such that it could be dangerous to be without it.
He got to decide for himself when he'd had enough.

Speaker 3 He got to decide for himself when he needed to go find a new shirt and stop playing and change.

Speaker 3 And we pretty much do that with everything that there's not a safety concern. If there's a safety concern, obviously they're not finding out from that.

Speaker 2 Her bringing up jackets hits close to home. Elliot is very much in the camp right now where she thinks she doesn't need one.

Speaker 2 And two weeks ago in Philadelphia, it was single-digit temperatures. So we did have

Speaker 2 the

Speaker 2 discussions that turned into arguments about putting on our jacket,

Speaker 2 which resulted in

Speaker 2 when I had had enough of the argument and clearly was not getting anywhere, my husband so graciously tagged in to the discussion and absolutely nailed it with

Speaker 2 asking Ellie if she would like to go outside on the front porch to feel how cold it was. So he opened the front door, took her outside for just less than a minute.
So no safety concern here.

Speaker 2 Less than a minute, she's outside. She comes back in and she's like, It's cold out there.
And I'm like, great, let's put your jacket on. And then, guess what? She put her jacket on.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 it was just a matter of

Speaker 2 that. That's one, one of those instances where,

Speaker 2 and my husband does this all the time, where he will realize that I have reached the point of no return and that we're not getting anywhere.

Speaker 2 And then he will tag in and we do it sort of vice versa when someone needs it, but he's very good at that. There are also times where

Speaker 2 I discuss things with them about safety and that the reason I don't want them to do things is for the purpose of their safety.

Speaker 2 And sometimes I still get met with, well, I'm going to do it anyway.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 we tote this line once once an injury is received, like once an injury is sustained, we tote this line of i'm going to give you comfort but also i told you not to do that

Speaker 2 i think there are some misunderstandings about the idea of gentle parenting i think it's a very wide spectrum when it comes to gentle parenting where i've seen that there are people who gentle parent in a way that their kids have no boundaries and are never told no.

Speaker 2 And I just don't feel as though my kids would be equipped to enter the world and hear no from other people, which is a legitimate answer outside of our house if they don't receive it at home. So

Speaker 2 we

Speaker 2 don't meet people on that end of the gentle parenting side, but I've also seen quite a few people on my algorithm discussing that it's not always this like very

Speaker 2 coddly,

Speaker 2 spoiled situation where they just get to do what they want.

Speaker 2 Sometimes it's just trying your best not to raise your voice, making sure that you explain why you're telling them not to do something or why you're telling them, asking them to do something,

Speaker 2 or even just explaining

Speaker 2 what the consequences are going to be ahead of time, like giving them an opportunity to receive information and make a decision on their own.

Speaker 2 But also, my kids are five, three, and two.

Speaker 2 So I will guide them in their decision making at this point in their lives. And that does it for for Doom Scroll of the Week.

Speaker 2 All right, let's get to it. It's time for the Super Bowl edition of Ask Me Some Things.

Speaker 2 We tried to do Ask Me Anything,

Speaker 2 but you guys really got in deep. So

Speaker 2 we switched it to Ask Me Some Things

Speaker 2 because I like boundaries.

Speaker 2 From Amy Gorey. What was your favorite halftime performance? This is

Speaker 2 so easy. It was Rihanna.
The Rihanna halftime performance at the Arizona Super Bowl was.

Speaker 2 I will start with the negative.

Speaker 2 She shouldn't have been wearing red. That felt biased.
I didn't like it. From what I understand, she is not a Chiefs fan.
So why were we wearing red?

Speaker 2 Moving on. The reason it's my favorite halftime performance is because Wyatt was living her absolute best life.
It was one of the moments where she just

Speaker 2 let the freak flag fly. I don't know.
She just had her stadium headphones on and her passy in her mouth. And she was just, I mean, girl was getting after it.

Speaker 2 And we, of course, obviously she had heard songs by Rihanna leading up to that, but it wasn't enough where she knew lyrics or could recognize those songs. It was

Speaker 2 hilarious. I mean,

Speaker 2 whenever you get in a situation and your kids are experiencing that much joy, you are then

Speaker 2 you're just, you're also experiencing that much. You just can't help yourself.
It was incredible.

Speaker 2 So I'm going with Rihanna as my favorite halftime performance from the Super Bowls that I've seen in person.

Speaker 2 From class of 22 Swift on Twitter. What is the best thing about being an Eagles fan? My favorite thing about being an Eagles fan is the community it creates.

Speaker 2 I know that

Speaker 2 people outside of the Eagles fan base have a lot of difficulty understanding our passion.

Speaker 2 And that's what I'm calling it. I'm calling it passion.

Speaker 2 But it is

Speaker 2 so ingrained in the city.

Speaker 2 It's ingrained in our traditions. It's ingrained in how we bond as a community.

Speaker 2 Our

Speaker 2 tendencies in

Speaker 2 our fandom really lean into

Speaker 2 who we are as like a Philadelphia culture.

Speaker 2 That being said, I think there is obviously a

Speaker 2 population of people who take it one step too far.

Speaker 2 I can acknowledge that,

Speaker 2 but

Speaker 2 if you really look at it for what it is,

Speaker 2 people love to bring up the snowballs, people love to bring up the batteries, people love to bring up how terrible we are to other teams.

Speaker 2 Players who come to Philadelphia to play will tell you straight up that the Philadelphia fans are batshit.

Speaker 2 We know it, we are aware, we embrace it, it is

Speaker 2 us.

Speaker 2 That being said,

Speaker 2 removing the eagles

Speaker 2 from our fandom, I do think there's a lot of other fan bases that can

Speaker 2 see our passion and appreciate it because they feel passionately about their own teams that they cheer for. So

Speaker 2 everyone wants to point the fingers at the Eagles because I think everyone loves to hate our fan base.

Speaker 2 My husband said it perfectly. No one likes us.
We don't care. Keep hating.
Do it.

Speaker 2 You really, you're only fueling our fire. And sometimes you got to look in the mirror and recognize that every fan base has those asshole fans.
All right.

Speaker 2 We'll be back with more Ask Me Some Things After These Messages from me.

Speaker 2 Hey guys, Kylie again. I'm back to interrupt your regularly scheduled Kylie programming to talk to you about my favorite cereal, Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
And I gotta tell you, no lie.

Speaker 2 This is not gonna lie. Cinnamon Toast Crunch has been my top pregnancy craving.

Speaker 2 I love the idea of waking up, pouring cold milk into that bowl or mug,

Speaker 2 and then

Speaker 2 getting layers of that crunchy, cinnamon-y deliciousness.

Speaker 2 And then when you're done, it leaves you with a cool glass of cinnamon milk. Are you kidding me?

Speaker 2 Baby girl number four clearly can't get enough of cinnamon toast crunch right now. And I'll tell you,

Speaker 2 she's going to grow up to be a milk first before cereal kind of girl.

Speaker 2 And I support it. Just like mama, go grab your own box of cinnamon toast crunch and pour the milk first.

Speaker 2 You'll thank me later. Just take the box to the table.
All right, let's keep the ask me some things theme going. But now we've opened it up to some questions beyond the Super Bowl.

Speaker 2 First up from Jenna's scrapbook: How many times a week do you have to watch a Disney princess movie? Surprisingly enough, the girls are not super into Disney princess movies.

Speaker 2 I would prefer to put on a movie because I think that it sort of loses their attention and then we can move on to reading books or playing games with it on in the background.

Speaker 2 But they do like the very song heavy movies right now. So for a while we were on Tangled because that has a great soundtrack.

Speaker 2 We were very much on Ariel a while back, but have not revisited for a few months. And

Speaker 2 Bennett, I know,

Speaker 2 crazy. She's not even two.
And Homegirl wakes up and says, I watch Elsa.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 last night for a good 10 minutes,

Speaker 2 I was trying to figure out why she was telling me

Speaker 2 cat cross was what she kept saying. Cat cross, and I could not figure out what she was saying.
And finally, she said, with Elsa, and then she said, with Anna. And I said, Are you saying Christoph?

Speaker 2 And she said, Yes.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 we are back in the frozen era in our house, which is fine. We love to just belt it out a little bit.

Speaker 2 We've also been belting out the wicked soundtrack, Why It Loves Define Gravity, and I'm not mad about it. Cynthia Arrivo, you

Speaker 2 fucking nailed that.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 2 Jason prefers the movies, as do I,

Speaker 2 where it does not always involved, it does not always involve a princess being saved by a man.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 we don't have to always lean into that storyline, ladies. From Abby McRae 15, what genre of music do you typically like to listen to? My go-to every single time, if I am in the car by myself,

Speaker 2 is early 2000s hip-hop and RB without fail. Every single time.
Sometimes I will lean into some 90s, and sometimes I will try and get a little closer to current day.

Speaker 2 But for the most part, early 2000s hip-hop and RB,

Speaker 2 like

Speaker 2 ludicrous,

Speaker 2 50,

Speaker 2 they just hit.

Speaker 2 I love them. I love early 2000s hip hop and RB.

Speaker 2 There was a,

Speaker 2 I love RB because that was the genre that my dad listened to a lot. So we would listen to a lot of like slow jams.

Speaker 2 It was good.

Speaker 2 I will say I tried my very best.

Speaker 2 to

Speaker 2 walk in to our wedding reception to Chingy's right there there and got vetoed immediately by my husband.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 I tried.

Speaker 2 I

Speaker 2 do,

Speaker 2 I have definitely branched out since

Speaker 2 even dating Jason because Jason has such an eclectic taste for music.

Speaker 2 He really opened up my eyes to some outstanding artists across significantly more genres because otherwise it would have just been me and my early 2000s hip hop and RB playlist on Spotify.

Speaker 2 Chilling

Speaker 2 with no,

Speaker 2 not even a taste of Chris Stapleton or

Speaker 2 some of the other artists that Jason has introduced me to that I have thoroughly enjoyed. From mommy Alana.
You mentioned that you coach field hockey.

Speaker 2 Are you planning on coaching your daughters if they play sports? I don't think so. I don't think that I want to coach them because

Speaker 2 I will happily go and play with them or practice with them in their free time because I do think it's really important to put in those extra minutes outside of your practices.

Speaker 2 I will happily go and do that with them. If it's a sport that I don't know, I will try my best to learn it so that I can help them and give them feedback.

Speaker 2 But even if they play field hockey, I do not want to coach them because I think it's so beneficial to have that coach-player relationship.

Speaker 2 And when you get a really good coach in that situation, it can drastically impact not only your skill level and how that improves, but also

Speaker 2 you might get life lessons from that person that I do not have for you. Or

Speaker 2 I firmly believe that athletes listen to their coaches sometimes better than they listen to their parents on the whole life advice thing.

Speaker 2 So,

Speaker 2 I do want them to have the experience of being coached by other people and not necessarily coached by me. Um, in terms of

Speaker 2 like little league soccer and stuff, I wouldn't be surprised if Jason taps into that. Um,

Speaker 2 I think it would be absolutely incredible to watch, and I think it would be enjoyable for all. Um,

Speaker 2 but we'll have to see if that's in the cards.

Speaker 2 We're not quite there yet. And now it's finally time to get honest.
In this week's edition of You Guessed It. Can I be honest?

Speaker 2 Before I lock in on Super Bowl 59, I thought I'd close this Super Bowl spectacular by throwing it back to Super Bowl 52. Jason and I were

Speaker 2 due to be married the following April

Speaker 2 after

Speaker 2 Minnesota. We jokingly called it his two ring season

Speaker 2 because

Speaker 2 I

Speaker 2 got a ring,

Speaker 2 the first ring,

Speaker 2 in preseason, a week into preseason when he proposed. And then he got a ring at the end of the season at the Super Bowl.
And then we both got rings in April. It was lovely.

Speaker 2 It was

Speaker 2 pretty crazy to and then and then Queen Eva is pointing out that he lost the the ring in Chili. That is correct.
He did. I have not let him live that down.
I will always bring that back up.

Speaker 2 It still stings. I think.

Speaker 2 I think I'm just continuing to rub salt in the wound, but it is a wound that should remain open for the pouring of salt because of how ridiculous it is that he insisted that we put his actual Super Bowl ring in a kiddie pool of chili.

Speaker 2 I can't.

Speaker 2 I love him so much. He's just so ridiculous.
Oh, God.

Speaker 2 What was it like leading up to the game for you guys as a couple? I don't remember.

Speaker 2 I remember trying my best to manage all of the things around

Speaker 2 our first Super Bowl because it is as if you're flying blind. So

Speaker 2 people who have been there before,

Speaker 2 I was just talking to a friend the other day who is now going to their third Super Bowl with the Eagles.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 it's so much easier now to know

Speaker 2 what happens,

Speaker 2 even if they're not sticking to the same timeline or the same number of passes or the same ticket expectations.

Speaker 2 All of that. is more easily managed because you've done it before.
So we were flying blind for the Minnesota Super Bowl.

Speaker 2 It had been such a long time that the Eagles organization had been back to a Super Bowl that it was new for everyone. So everyone was trying to figure it out.

Speaker 2 And I think realistically they did an outstanding job. They made it as easy as possible for the families.

Speaker 2 But

Speaker 2 I don't remember leading up to the game outside of trying to manage.

Speaker 2 the ticket requests that we had, making sure that all of our family was accounted for for their hotels and their tickets, and then passes, passes, making sure that we distributed passes appropriately to whoever was going to be there for certain events.

Speaker 2 Because every single event that happens for the team, a welcome party, a post-game party, the pre-game tailgate, all of those things are passed.

Speaker 2 So, like, you must have a pass to get into those spaces. And there are only a certain number of passes available.

Speaker 2 So, they are divvied up between people in the organization and the players and coaches. And then

Speaker 2 people have to sort of trade amongst themselves to make sure that everyone has the appropriate allotment for what they need personally.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 it's very fair in the way that they first initially distribute, but then it just gets a little dicey with how quickly you need to figure out how many people you have in every single situation.

Speaker 2 It gets very difficult. My favorite moment from the game, I would love to tell you, but I blacked out.

Speaker 2 And by blacked out, I do not mean that I was intoxicated. I mean, I genuinely

Speaker 2 blacked out.

Speaker 2 What I do remember is that our seats were directly behind Brent Sellek, a former Eagles player, former Eagles tight end.

Speaker 2 We were directly behind his family. And

Speaker 2 when it got down

Speaker 2 to the wire,

Speaker 2 I was getting texts from all of these people saying that they were already waiting in the family corral.

Speaker 2 So what happens is at the end of the game, there are two corrals in the tunnels for one for one team and one for the other team.

Speaker 2 And it's all of the family members who are passed to enter the field post-game

Speaker 2 for the on-field celebration.

Speaker 2 It is like hunger games trying to get those passes, first of all.

Speaker 2 And second, you are put into these corrals, and then

Speaker 2 if it's a tight game, you don't know whether or not your corral is going to be let out onto the field, which is crazy.

Speaker 2 So, all of a sudden, one of the corrals will just start moving, or you're trying to see one of the rare TV screens that are in the bowels of the stadium where you are currently being held.

Speaker 2 My superstitious ass couldn't leave my seat until I was absolutely certain that we were going to be entering the field. So, naturally,

Speaker 2 Mrs. Sellek was sitting in front of me and was like, Are you going to go? When there was, I think it was below the two-minute warning or at the two-minute warning.

Speaker 2 And I just remember saying to her, I can't leave my seat.

Speaker 2 So,

Speaker 2 needless to say, when the clock hit zero and the Hail Mary pass hit the ground,

Speaker 2 I did a full sprint,

Speaker 2 a full sprint through the Minnesota Stadium.

Speaker 2 I eventually made it onto the field and found Jason. I do remember meeting up with him and then taking him to the corner so that he could wave to where our family was sitting.

Speaker 2 But it was, I was not leaving that seat. I wasn't going to do it.
So I don't think anyone's surprised about that.

Speaker 2 We were super fortunate that game. My parents came with us.
My sister was with us. And then all of Jason's family members were with us, including Travis, which was really special.

Speaker 2 Because, like I've said so many times, our families do not get to be all in one place very often. It was so cool to come together for that.
And also, it ended up being a celebration.

Speaker 2 So that was a lot of fun. I do remember how happy that felt.
And I do remember the very end of like the celebrating, but everything else is

Speaker 2 a black hole.

Speaker 2 And that does it for, can I be honest? That also does it for this episode of Not Gonna Lie.

Speaker 2 I'll be back next Thursday with a brand new episode, and not gonna lie, it's gonna be another special one. Speaking of which, it's Valentine's Day next week and shocker

Speaker 2 Queen Emma guessed this ahead of time, and I love that she nailed it. I'm not a Valentine's Day person, regardless.
I'd love to see what kinds of Valentine's questions you guys have for me.

Speaker 2 Send them into at NGL with Kylie because

Speaker 2 plan is to have a pretty special guest.

Speaker 2 Romance.

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