John Mulaney

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We’re so back! This week Ted Danson is joined by one of comedy’s leading lights, the charming John Mulaney. John’s live Netflix show “Everybody’s Live” has injected the talk show format with chaotic good energy, and he’s talking to Ted about the fun he’s having with sidekick and announcer Richard Kind. Ted also asks John how he became so self-possessed and about the effect that going sober has had on his marriage and parenting. “Everybody’s Live” airs live Wednesdays on Netflix at 10 pm ET / 7 pm PT.

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I'm shocked I did it.

I'm shocked I was able to do it.

Become sober.

To actually stick to it in every way.

Welcome back to Everybody Knows Your Name.

I just said goodbye to John Mulaney, who walked out the door after doing the podcast, and I'm still kind of digesting it.

He is obviously one of the funniest, brightest talents out there at the moment.

And boy, I just like who he is as a man and how he leads his life.

And I can't wait for you to hear this.

I forgot to mention.

He's got a new live Netflix show called Everybody's Live on Netflix.

And you're going to hear all about that.

So let's get into it.

John Mulaney, everyone.

Hey, first off, congratulations.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Now you were, I don't know where you are now, but you were like top 10 Netflix around the world for.

We are globally live, which is very funny.

Unbelievable.

No, it's unbelievable.

It's such a funny thing to be at Sunset and Gower near the Arby's and then know you're beaming out around the world and that you're around the world on Netflix, which is truly embedded in people's homes all around the globe.

It's just a very funny thing to talk about everybody's lives.

Everybody's mine.

This is the second rendition kind of

your talk show.

And it's with Richard Kine.

I appreciate you calling it a talk show.

We do have trouble defining it sometimes.

And I like

a talk show on a high wire strung between the, you know, a bit, yeah.

And I remember it was for some sort of awards thing last year.

We really,

they timed out how much we interview people because they didn't know how to categorize us.

So it brings us some peace to have a, to have a category.

One of my favorite moments was looking at Wanda's psych

sit there going by sitting next to John Waters.

Yeah.

And what is his name?

Starbros Alchias

and Neil.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And, but there is getting a little raunchy.

And I watched, yeah, I watched Wanda, go, what the, where am i what what's going on what's going on yeah because they aren't necessarily warned they're ahead of yeah not just raunchy but like

it's like just

uh stavi and john waters are having this baltimore connection yeah you know two seats down from me they're just naming very rough lesbian bars in baltimore that they both hang out at and

Then the former solicitor general is a few seats away trying to keep trying to get real legal advice from Neil.

Uh, Stavi then declares war on landlords, they get into some sort of masturbation conversation.

I just look at Wanda and she goes, What is going on?

As if, and also, I try to have like a twinkle in my eye at that moment, like, oh, don't worry, I'm about to stir it all together, but I have no idea either.

So, you're you're

you're truly

this is you raw.

You have no idea what's going to happen next.

No,

no, it's yeah, lots left up to chance because we have the callers come, you know, calling in from around the world now.

Um, we have uh,

you know, I know Neil Katiel well, actually, but a lot of times we have experts on that I have no connection to and no one on the panel would.

So everyone's kind of meeting for the first time.

No one's they don't, you don't sit down with them backstage and say, this is how this kind of works.

No,

no, uh,

we, we do, what we say when we approach people to do it is, hey, this will be the lightest lift you've ever had.

There's no pre-interview.

There's no social media ask.

There's no step and repeat.

You come on, and

we have lots to talk about and lots to get to.

And

I kind of also present it to people as like, this would be a fun dinner party with people you might not ever have hung out with.

I would add,

what I would say to myself, if I was going to be on your show, was then dance,

fasten your seatbelt, and bring your A game.

Oh, really?

Yeah.

I really do think so.

Because it's.

Well, you always have your A game.

No.

No.

Well, here, well, careful.

We're going to live this out in the moment.

Whether or not I have an A game.

How did you meet Neil?

Neil Katial?

Yeah.

I met him through Senator Al Franken maybe

four years ago.

I knew of him well because I listened to this podcast called Amarica's Constitution with Professor Akhil Amar, who's a Yale law constitutional legal scholar who

was

Neil's sort of mentor at Yale Law.

And they wrote some articles together

for various law reviews.

And so I'd heard of Neil, and then I'd heard of him just as a person in the world.

And then Senator Franken introduced me to him when he came to one of my shows.

in Maryland.

And then Neil, through Justice Jackson, got me a tour of the Supreme Court that Olivia and I went on, which was very interesting.

That was, I mean, you know, you go to some places in D.C.

or you don't now, but originally you did.

And,

you know, you're invited in.

And

Supreme Court's just so,

there's sort of nothing to see and everything to see.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I've never had that.

I've gotten lots of different tours over the years.

What's interesting is they really decorate their chambers differently.

You mean like decor.

Decor and vibe.

Soda Mayors

were like when someone on the floor of a dorm takes over the hall with their own shit.

Like spilling out of Sodomayores are photos and drawings and paintings and mementos that people have sent her all over the walls in the hallway.

And then she has, because she loves baseball so much, she has blown up poster-sized pictures of every justice from the past 15 years who's thrown out the first pitch.

It's like John Paul Stevens at at a Cubs game, Alito at a Phillies game, taking it way too seriously.

And it's a really fun, like joyous hallway.

The Chief Justices,

dark wood panel, very serious.

You're also allowed to go to the National Gallery when you're a Supreme Court justice and pick any artworks you want to be in your chambers.

John Roberts, I think he has some of those Gilbert Stewart, you know, George Washington paintings.

Justice Jackson,

I believe she had some really like cool colorist Alma Thomas paintings.

Very sunny chambers.

Sandra Day O'Connor always had a very like Tex-Mex feel,

like

southwestern blankets.

And

I think Gorsuch still has that because he's like a Colorado guy.

There's always one Western judge who keeps that like Ralph Lorenz store second floor vibe happening.

Did you, who, who showed you around, Neil?

No, a clerk of Justice Jackson's.

She'd been, I'm trying to think at this point how recently she'd been confirmed.

So it was a little fun talking to someone who is walking around the court newer to it.

You know, Justice Jackson's newer.

The clerk is newer.

Cause they're still a bit, you know, getting the ropes and also figuring out the personalities.

Each justice, there's nine justices.

They each have four clerks for one year.

They're appointed for life.

The clerks come and go.

It's really,

it's a fun setup.

Sticking to your show that you're doing now, Richard Kind.

Yeah.

One of my favorite, favorite kind of actors.

The best.

He is funny.

He can be outrageous.

He can be soulful, heartfelt, serious.

He can literally go anywhere.

He can go anywhere.

He's like, he's, he's ready-made for Pixar and can do a Coen Brothers movie with real heart.

And just even in shooting promos for the show, he can be an intimidating guy.

I thought, oh, he could play a mob boss.

boss, yes, or he could play, you know, also a leading man.

I know that sounds.

No, no, you're absolutely silly.

He can do, he has everything to be a leading man.

Um, I can't remember who it was.

Uh,

was it Greg Bierco said about Richard Kind?

He said, There's two things: the space station that went up can see two things from space on Earth: the Great Wall of China, and every choice Richard Kind has ever made

clearly.

Richard has heard this and must love it.

Oh my God, that's wonderful.

It's great.

Yeah, it's great.

And how did you guys get together?

I know you did a Broadway show.

We did a Broadway show recently.

Rich and I met doing this IFC show called Documentary Now.

Myself and Bill Hayter and Fred Armison and Seth Myers would do it almost like a summer project from Saturday Night Live.

And

we just, we'd shoot up in Portland a lot.

It was very small.

And we did a Stephen Sondheim company parody.

Yeah.

And Rich was in it.

And mid-verse, find out they've been canceled.

Yes, mid-album recording.

Yeah.

Which actually happened to Merrily We Roll Along.

I think they were, I think the show opened, closed that same day, and they had to record the album.

My one Broadway experience was

opened, got bad reviews.

Next day, I say goodbye to my parents, put them in a cab.

They're going back to Arizona, having come seen the opening.

Walk into the stage door and the stage door guy says excuse me where are you going

i'm sorry but i work here not anymore you know bud and we closed wow yeah what was the show it was uh called

shit uh it was called shit it was like it was from the goodwin theater it was called status in Chicago.

It was called Status Corvatus.

Oh, okay.

And it was one of those, it was so well directed that every rim shot was perfect.

So the audience would burst into a big laugh because the rim shot was perfect.

Yeah.

And then you'd see them go, ha, wait, no, wait a minute.

Why am I laughing?

The whole thing was, I'm laughing, but this is not that good kind of laughter.

Oh, wow.

Yeah, it was, it was rugged.

It was almost like you had a cattle prod making them laugh, but they didn't know why and resentful.

Yes.

Exactly.

I can't remember who it was.

Someone told me that opening night, you know, around midnight when reviews came out, someone came in and just started taking the sink out of their dressing room.

And that's how they knew it was.

I was in the upstairs bar at Sardis and the metal cage came down with my drink that I was drinking just on the other side of where, you know, I reached for it and banged into the cage that came down.

It was abrupt.

We heard, we heard the, sorry, this is all about my one day bitter.

one night stand on Broadway.

Rex Reed hated Clive Barnes.

Really?

Yeah, or didn't like him or was jealous or whatever.

So Clive Barnes' review came out, and this was back when he could shut down a show with the bad review.

His review was horrible.

Rex Reed was reading out loud to all of us in Sardis, Clive's trashing us, but he was doing it and making fun of Clive in such a funny way.

We were howling with laughter.

Yeah.

While we were listening to our demise.

It was the most, the weirdest.

You were like the audience.

You were laughing.

I didn't know why.

Yes, he was prodding us with the

electric prod.

So then you just

went immediately to with Richard Richard.

It's one of those things where as soon as you picture Richard doing something, that's it.

There's no one else.

I was just sitting in the writer's room on the Everybody's in LA show, which was this pop-up six-night thing last May.

And we were looking at some opening titles footage that this guy, Brooke Linder, has shot all around Los Angeles.

And I just started saying out loud, tonight, live from Ella, and kind of doing Richard.

And then we laughed, what if Richard Kine was the announcer of the show?

And then as soon as you say that, what if Richard Kine blank?

One, you have to do it.

And two, there's no one else that can do it.

Yeah, he is incredible.

And he will go for it.

He's as outrageous as you are.

He will go for it.

100%.

And busier than.

I've never not seen him where he's about to get on a red eye.

I mean, he's always headed for a red eye to do another.

He's the busiest man in show business.

It's fantastic.

I just, Mary and I, my wife and I saw him at some place recently and we just geeked out, hugged him, had to hug him.

I know.

He's one of those people that when people just walk up to on the street and

I think someone once came up to him and went,

hey, you're a dum-dum.

And he goes, a bing-bong.

I think you mean bing-bong.

And they go, nah, you're dumb-dum.

Like the amount, he came up to me during the Broadway show.

We were doing it at the Hudson Theater.

and um

you know broadway being what it is now we had some elevated ticket prices for some seats which we were all aware of and we felt the responsibility to do a great show but we were aware that they were gouging you know these these were an arm and a leg some tickets so rich comes into rehearsal he goes are people coming up to you and yelling at you on the street about the ticket prices i go no they're not yelling at me on the street

are people coming up to you and yelling at you he goes yeah people go 400 for a ticket rich what are you gonna do this is ridiculous.

I go, you have a life where people walk up to you on the street and scream at you about ticket prices.

And I think because he would do it to them, he welcomes it.

Yeah.

That's funny.

Yeah.

Do you guys have a writer's room?

On this show, yeah.

Yeah.

And it's a lot of folks that have written and produced their own shows because, you know, we have 12 shows, lots of.

lots of live pieces,

really talented costume and set department.

And so everyone's kind of,

we were writing a lot in pre-production and now everyone's kind of running off making their own pieces come together.

You go on air around the universe.

That's weird.

It's so funny.

Can you feel it when you walk out now on the street, the different level of energy coming your way?

Because

I find it in requests to play other countries, which is nice.

Oh.

Yeah.

We're really getting a lot of buzz in Brazil.

We said Brazil.

Yeah, a lot of buzz in Brazil.

Yeah,

that'll be Richard's 11 o'clock number on the next show.

We mentioned Brazil on the first episode.

And in terms of social media, there was nothing.

I said it like you said it and said it, and then you looked straight in the camera and said it big.

Brazil, yeah.

And there's no more activated social media

crowd than Brazilians.

And so,

you know, I don't know what I would do if I'd I'd learned Portuguese to do a show.

I'm very open to it, though.

I'm hoping like a football stadium.

I'm not going to go play some comedy club in Brazil.

No, no, we need this.

The scale really.

If I can't fill a stadium in Brazil,

I'm out of your business.

You can fill it anywhere.

I had this thought that I have to, we can cut it.

You can cut it.

I'm sitting here going

live.

Yeah.

Some people go,

that doesn't make

register how amazing that is, that you're sticking your neck out live in the same moment all around the world.

And the live kind of goes over their head.

So here was my thought.

Sorry, but I'm going to empty it anyway.

Was you should have Netflix, should have watch parties in Brazil, you know, Rome, all over the world that you can cut to

while live and maybe even fire off instead of just a phone call.

You could, but people need to know that this is.

Oh, yeah.

You know, we did a joke.

We did some joke cutaways last May where we go, let's go to Paris, France now, where they're watching the show.

And then we'd cut to a group and it would look the way Paris really looks, which is, you know, just looks like any, yeah, just looks like any place.

It's just in a room, like an internet cafe.

There's no Eiffel Tower in the background.

And we would cut around the world and go, oh, this isn't what I hoped it would look like.

We were picturing like the Truman show where everyone is, you know, in bathtubs in Beijing cheering.

You know, what was the pitch to Netflix like?

Did they immediately go, yes?

They came to me to do something during the festival.

And I said, I'd like to sort of

cover the Netflix festival in L.A.

like it's an LA event.

So I said,

What's interesting to me about the festival, and it's true every time they do it, is that every comedian comes to Los Angeles.

We never get to see each other because we're always on the road, but everyone really does come.

It's huge.

And they take over every venue, downtown, Hollywood Bowl, the Greek, everything.

And so, for like 10 days, we're all kind of kicking around

summer camp and in LA, which is just a weird place.

Yeah.

So I said, I'll do it if we can be live and we can kind of cover the festival like it's an ongoing crisis in Los Angeles, like the Rodney King uprising, you know.

And they,

I remember saying the Rodney King uprising, going, John, you can't pitch things this way.

And they said, okay, that's fine.

And then that was a big success.

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expand it a little and with the global, you know, national global live thing to take, have more topics from around the country and take more calls from around the world.

A lot of Australians call.

I have to keep, I keep meaning to look up what time it is in Australia when it's 7 p.m.

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It's like 14 hours, but the day ahead or something like crazy like that.

It's really another planet.

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how did this happen how did you become you know i read that you were at five pretty clear that you wanted to do theater comedy yeah something you would go to the national archive of broadcasting and oh the museum of broadcast communications yeah right i mean that's that's amazing to know that was around age 10.

yeah i really liked um

I liked,

I liked The Simpsons, Conan, Chris Rock.

I liked everything that was coming out at the time, but I was really into comedy from the 50s and 60s and 40s as well.

And so I would go to the museum because I had these VHS things I'd get from like PBS of like the best of Ed Sullivan, but it was always the best of.

Right.

And I wanted to know what an actual episode was like.

Because I remember thinking, like, how did they fill two hours?

You know, so I wanted to watch,

it's very strange, actually.

This is a little too convenient of an origin story, but I wanted to watch a clunky variety show.

I wanted to be like, it's not all, you know, the Rolling Stones.

There had to be some bad acts and things.

So I started watching full episode.

I'd pick a Johnny Carson episode from 1972 and just watch the whole thing to see what it was like

while other people were learning karate.

It was just by yourself, me and you.

You didn't have a buddy or you had a buddy.

I had a buddy that was into it as well.

Yeah.

We both really liked the honeymooners and I love Lucy, and we both loved Frank Sinatra when we were 10.

And I went to see Sinatra for my 11th birthday.

But, you know, that's that shows a lot of respect for this

chain of comedy that you were about to step into.

Meaning, you went backwards as well, and you looked at the people who were incredible years before your time.

Oh, yeah.

I was

really interested in, it just, even in the, you know, late 80s, early 90s, it felt like, oh, there's this is a level of show business that's over.

And I wanted to know more about it, you know.

So there was still a Carson and a Leno and a Letterman and everything, but I was interested in the old.

It also shows how it's a lesson in how to manifest what you want to do in life.

It's weird, actually.

Sometimes I sit around going,

it's weird to only want to do one thing from five to 42.

And then to do it.

To do it,

it's very cool.

It's also, I go like, man,

you didn't have any other interests.

You just wanted to do this thing and now you do it.

I'm fine with it.

But it's a funny thing.

If I weren't an actor, I'd maybe be a butler because that appeals to me too.

But that'd be about it.

Serving people does.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Same.

People I like.

Oh, okay.

You'd have to

audition for me to serve you.

That's really cool.

Yeah.

When did you know you wanted to be an actor?

Oh,

second year of Stanford.

Wow.

Because I couldn't play basketball

anymore?

No, I thought I went to a prep school in Connecticut, small, 300 boys, won the league championship.

And basketball, congratulations.

Thank you.

Not enough people say that to you.

No.

Congrats on that championship.

Thank you.

That was huge.

Maybe I love your work too at the same time while you're at it.

Sure, sure.

I love your work now, but I just want to say that that was a big deal to everyone in Connecticut.

And it certainly still resonates with a lot of people.

Thank you.

Yeah, you're welcome.

Thank you.

It was short-lived.

Went to Stanford, came out.

This was the same year that Lou Alsender was a freshman at UCLA.

So basketball was a different thing.

And I walked up to the court with my buddy, who was an athlete, and it was like, oh, fuck,

just way over my head.

I'm not going to make it.

So acting six months later, I tried out for a play randomly, and it was like, oh, okay.

What play?

Mann ist de Mann, Bertolbrecht play.

Oh, yeah.

What's that?

I was the fourth, you know, soldier from the left.

I barely was in it, but I just, the light bulb went off, and I never wanted to do anything ever again, moved my car behind the theater, slept in it, just ate, drank, slept.

Incredible.

Yeah.

So you grew up in Connecticut?

No, Arizona.

I was going to say.

Oh, you went to a prep school that far away?

Yeah, yeah.

Was that, were you, were you okay with that?

I thought it was my idea.

That's it.

Because my mother, my mother loved it because it was church, Episcopal,

watered down Catholic, which I know you're not watered down.

You're Catholic.

That was so hardcore.

It's crazy.

Yeah.

We were a little watered down.

But all my friends were going away to school who were ranchers' friends who had been schooled at home and then were going to go someplace.

I didn't want to be left behind.

So I thought it was my idea and off I went.

What is Arizona like in the 60s?

Cattle, lumber town in Flagstaff had a university and

a very small university at the time, and

a museum and a research center where my father was the director.

He was an archaeologist, anthropologist, and all of that.

So we were out in the country.

My friends were hoping Navajo.

I was jumped on horses and ran that away, you know, be home by the time the sun goes down or you're in trouble.

It was so unlike

anything else.

Yeah.

Not even, yeah, this is not golf resort Arizona.

No, this is, this is going out to the Hopi and Navajo.

Wow.

Did you speak any of that language?

Kwasi, which is very dirty,

female part.

Gougie,

a butt,

anna, which is ouch, which makes sense.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

And to point with your lips instead of using your fingers, just over there.

Oh, wow.

It's very handy, actually, when you think about it.

Yeah, truly.

Where's my hat?

Over there.

It is better.

We're always flailing around with our goddamn hands.

That's great.

So off you went into, you literally started performing, singing, acting,

doing plays.

I don't remember the time I could sing.

I wonder if pre-puberty I could.

There's no recordings of it.

Wait, so I have the confidence of someone that can sing.

I just can't.

I'm just a bad singer.

But I've always thought I,

in my head, I always could.

I wonder if when I was a small child, I had a nice voice because I'm certainly acting like it.

So, if you

well, I'll put myself in things on SNL where I'm singing.

And it's just

a little

confidence come for you.

How the hell did you, that is, because you are doing live TV around the world.

When it comes to certain types of three-camera live audience comedy, I have very high self-esteem.

It's not in other parts of life.

I have many struggles, but when it comes to

direct address to an audience, I just have a real confidence that I'll figure it out.

You do, too.

You are.

But when I'm on a set, just, you know,

doing any other kind of acting, like,

there's a lot of, was that good?

I have no idea.

You know, I'm really lose my bearings, but a nice, give me a nice.

if somebody came along and said, here's a great dramatic part.

Oh, I'd love to do it.

If they yell or possibly whisper, because that can also be scary.

I'm actually doing this play status quo vadis opening tomorrow

at the Wilshire Ebel.

Careful of the rim shots.

They're deceiving.

I'm really hoping for race.

It's funny, theater is so hard to get off the ground.

And everyone's always always going, we need to, the theater business is struggling.

I'm like, well, don't close shows with reviews.

Yeah, that's one

shiv each other constantly.

Saturday Night Live?

Yeah.

That came out with Conan?

No.

Yeah, they actually saw me on the Late Night with Conan show.

So they hired me as a, I auditioned, but they hired me as a writer, Seth Myers and Amy Poehler.

Same year?

2008.

Yeah.

Will Forte?

Will was there already?

Jason Sudeikis, Bill Hayter, Fred Armison, Andy Sandberg, Kristen Wigg, Casey Wilson, Keenan.

Royalty.

Royalty.

Royalty.

Attorney.

Royalty.

Yeah, the best.

And 2008, which was that election year.

And it was a really funny time to be dropped in because it was, we did like these Thursday.

What were they called?

Thursday weekend updates.

So we did special primetime shows and the Saturday shows.

This is my first weeks.

We did 12 shows in eight weeks.

Wait, wait, wait.

I don't remember this.

Yeah, we did.

Saturday Night Live and then Thursday.

We did these Thursday weekend update specials leading up to the McCain-Obama election.

And they would be shown Thursday?

It was live Thursday.

Oh, wow.

It was probably like 9 p.m.

Eastern.

And all the writers at SNL, we got to write for those as well, obviously, which was prime time money.

I remember Steve Higgins and Mike Shoemaker and Seth Meyers saying,

you're all going to get $9,000 an episode times three episodes.

And I was like, You could make a living.

I was like, This is the greatest.

I still remember walking home going, I'm set.

I'm set.

I don't have to do anything ever again.

My rent is $800.

I'm good.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I went and bought new pants.

There was a brand of pants called Bonobos that had just come out and they looked nice.

That was their selling point.

They go, these pants don't look like shit.

Good around the butt.

Yeah.

Tapered.

Leg,

ankle.

Yeah, yeah.

They figured all the parts out.

Where did you live in New York?

I lived in Greenpoint, Brooklyn.

Oh, had two roommates

pretty close to Williamsburg.

We're right off McCarran Park.

I was there for the first couple of years.

And then one time

the bridge went up because a boat was coming through.

I couldn't get to Long Island City to get the train to Dirty Rock.

So

I moved into a studio at 12th Street and 7th Avenue next to St.

Vincent's Hospital.

And I wanted to live somewhere where, if necessary, I could sprint in a straight line to work.

Yeah.

Mary has this bizarre thing

where she'll be driving someplace home and she starts,

I don't know, two or three miles out going, can I walk home from here?

She's always asking herself, can I walk home from here?

Right.

Meaning, is there enough side street?

No, do I have it in me to walk 40 miles?

How long would it take me to walk 60 miles?

She's doing calculating while I'm driving.

I don't feel a lot of confidence coming my way for my driving, but she always is doing that.

Sorry.

Could I walk?

Yeah.

Could I walk that way?

Yeah.

I think about that, too, when I'm when I'm just on

the 405

for two hours.

I go, would I be able to figure this out?

If this just broke, you know,

all electronics in the U.S.

suddenly stop, would I be able to just figure out side streets?

Do I even know which way is north or south?

I don't know.

You came out of Saturday Night Live without PTSD, right?

I mean,

because some of your compatriots.

Some of it's, it's hard.

Oh, it's very hard.

Yeah.

And it's very competitive, yes, to get your material up.

It's competitive with yourself and with the gods of show business.

And I don't even mean the gods that run the show.

I mean the sort of larger, just is something playing or not.

But I recognize I had a very good experience there.

I just

liked having a boss.

I liked fitting into a hierarchy.

I like,

I kind of like, what would be a good word?

bizarre, strong-willed people.

I get a kick out of them.

I liked working with some of these guys at the show who'd been there since 76 and were 90 years old and were just crazy and mean.

I mean, really, like, I just got- You're not offended.

No, I delighted in it.

Yeah, that's great.

I don't want to name names, but so many of them are dead.

But,

but there were just people go, you know, I remember Phil Himes, our lighting designer,

had started on NBC radio during World War II, as did Don Pardo.

And we were doing a sketch where Fred was playing Obama, and it was like a, at one point, he gets up in the Oval Office, Fred, and he looks out the window.

So we kind of needed a special treatment, I thought, of lighting on the Oval Office windows so they were non-reflective or something.

And I'm explaining this to Phil Himes and he stares at me and he goes, I fucking lit John F.

Kennedy in the White House.

And I'm like 25 going, can you do this thing where

the windows don't shine?

Yeah.

Who is your head writer then?

Who is Seth Meyers?

That was also a big part of it.

I think generationally.

Yeah.

Tina had gone.

Tina had just left, right?

2007?

Yeah.

So generationally, I think those of us that worked under Seth

found it really friendly.

And all the writers would cross-pollinate.

So in terms of competition, we weren't.

That's cool.

Yeah.

And did you perform as well?

You were hired as a writer.

Yeah, I did a couple weekend update features when I was a a writer but right uh no otherwise when i was when i auditioned i thought they have pater and fred and andy and forte and today they don't need a caucasian man that looks like me at all so i'm gonna do this this will be a cool thing to audition but when i was there i thought i go this is cast is insane i mean i had yeah i had hopes, but it wasn't like

you'd, you wouldn't look around and go, I think there's a spot for me.

When you hosted, you were great.

I remember watching that.

Is that 1987, 88?

I don't know.

That was the first ones I saw.

You blocked it.

Are you serious?

Did you Google me just so you could say that now?

Because

you need feedback.

You did?

Oh, yeah.

You did.

And rightfully so.

All I can say is I lived.

That was my experience.

I made it.

You got zero feedback.

No one said anything to you.

Don't think so.

Or I was so terrified that it went over my head it is a scary proposition fast yeah very fast and if you're if you're a stand-up or clever lad or a writer or something you do your own monologue or you come with some ideas i i waited until saturday morning you're so crazy for my monologue and it turned out to be really mike myers monologue it was his first time on

the show i think performing and he i was

the bit was: I was this, I was Ted hosting, and he was this French Ted in this parallel universe, but being very French and over the top with his comedy to the point where he wets his pants.

And at the end of mine, I wet my pants.

I remember that.

Yeah, that's what you get when you wait till Saturday morning.

Yeah, exactly.

We did that a lot.

We'd give some of the monologue Friday night and go, Hey,

we love you.

Hope you can swim.

Have fun.

Yeah.

This is it.

I'm happy, proud that I did it or that I was even asked, but it was, yeah.

And then

you popped up in Kirsty Alley's.

Yeah, we all did.

I think all of us.

And you were there.

I was there.

I was so cool.

I was.

No, I wish I was there.

No, you watched on TV.

Wait, but you, oh, so you saw me.

on TV.

I wasn't on when you were.

No, of course not.

You were a kid.

I was maybe five.

Five.

So I had to be.

It was the beginning.

Maybe that was.

Oh.

I think that was it.

It was that monologue.

Yeah.

I went, there's something to this.

This parallel TED French bit that we're still talking about all these years later.

I need to take a break.

Bill Hayter.

The greatest.

The greatest.

He came here and I just fell hard.

He is such a sweet smidge of sadness, brilliant,

amazing actor he can go dark

light so at in you know he's in tulsa

when i'm in chicago i'm watching like old ed sullivan bill from like age nine 10 i me his grandma took him to see blue velvet in the theater when he was like seven yeah It's crazy.

That may have been so great.

One of the issues.

It's so funny.

Not just for a little kid to see Blue Belt, but to see it in the theater and your date being your grandmother.

And then

his friend Duffy tells a story that he showed up at Junior High one day, just looking spooked.

And everyone went, what's wrong?

And he went, I saw this movie, Agira Wrath of God by Werner Herzog last night on TV.

And he was like, showed up.

to junior high still shaken up by it.

So he has the greatest

depth of influences, you know, and then is like is, you know, is the criterion channel in one person and then

is able to make so much work inspired by that.

And then is also just one of the best sketch comedy, comedy people ever.

I think one of the,

I would stop anything to go see Stefan.

Oh, yeah, yeah.

Those were

Stefan.

And Bill, yeah.

Yeah.

Well, those were incredibly fun to do.

And I, and I, I know this is, these are old stories, but I love the fact that you would make up.

He thought he'd be saying something off a cue card and you will have switched the cue card.

So it was brand new material to crack them up.

To crack him up and to just keep it really off balance.

Yeah.

It had to be a clean lift, you know, because the goal was that Wally, the cue card guy that, you know, you sometimes see on the show, it was that when he, when you would lift the next card, you wanted Bill's eyes to, it wasn't just cracking up, it was also this look of, oh, everything on this card is new.

You know, and luckily it was like it's weekend updates, so it's straight down the barrel.

Yeah.

But you'd see him going, and then,

and really, it's part is one, he doesn't know what the joke's going to be, and two, it's brand new text just as a human being that you have to read live.

It was so exciting.

Yeah.

And Bill obviously has been open about, you know, having a lot of anxiety and banana on the air.

So it was an extra funny thing to do.

And Andy Samberg would stand next to the camera with his arms folded.

And I think it was almost like exposure, that type of therapy when like someone's afraid of cotton balls, and then Maury Povich would have someone run out.

It was like exposure therapy.

Yeah.

Yeah.

That was just like when you said I had a really

mean years.

Oh, are we out of them?

These were, these, yeah, these were kind of a no, no, but there was a, it's funny looking back and going, even jokes we would write or things, like I said, we'd give someone a monologue who's just in an Oscar winning movie and go, that's it.

You know, I'm 25 and I'm done typing.

I think that's really good.

It was a, it was a kind of cavalier quality.

Yeah.

I guess we had to have it, but I do look back going, man, it's a funny thing for these really young looking nerds to

demand.

NBC is yours for 10 minutes, The greatest.

That is amazing.

It's so funny.

Yeah.

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The 50th anniversary was great.

I know you was really cool.

Yeah, it really.

It was so many new pieces.

Spectacular.

I liked it.

It wasn't just like clip packages, a lot of performance and stuff.

Yeah, that was really good.

How long were you on that, working on that?

In conversations for weeks leading up to it, but nothing got done.

And then we all flew in around

the Monday or Tuesday before, and then it really ramped up.

But leading up to it was funny because

you just knew that Lauren was.

You just knew he was waiting just long enough that it got really scary.

Yeah.

It was, because we saw it coming for so many years, you had to make it disorganized in some ways so that it could all come together by the broadcast.

Were people pissed off or did they like the

scripted show about Saturday Night Live?

Oh, the Jason Reitman one?

Yeah.

No, I didn't hear anyone was pissed off.

I did get a physical though

at UCLA Hospital.

And I get all this blood work done, prostate.

They check my liver.

Everything good?

Everything good.

The doctor, knowing a little of my history, goes, I don't know how this is possible, but you have the liver of a 12-year-old.

I was thrilled.

That's really what you want in your organs, is 12.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Because they've lived a little life, but they've got some more miles.

Some more miles.

So then we're finishing up the physical and he goes, I saw that movie Saturday night.

So I have a real appreciation of what your career has been like.

And I said, oh, well, you know, that movie's not that accurate.

And he goes,

I know Jason.

He wouldn't make stuff up.

And I go, Yeah, but um, I'm telling you,

I'm telling you, some of it's embellished, but that's okay because it's for a movie.

And he goes, From what I'm hearing, it's very accurate.

And I go, Sir, I don't, doctor, I don't want to have this conversation anymore.

I'm trusting you with a lot of my blood.

Can we shift gears?

Yeah, yeah.

Your kids have the most courageous parents

I could imagine.

Start with you, and then let me.

I mean, just what you do,

stand up is courageous.

Stand up is ridiculous.

Dealing with

the courage to become sober

is hugely courageous.

Which

you

becoming sober.

Yeah, kids don't.

My children are not my

sober living companions, but they a lot of credit to the, you know, the absolute gift of them from being.

100%.

There are millions of reasons why people become sober, but it is, they're all courageous and they are all, in essence, like holy wars.

Yes.

So to me, that's a

you are amazingly courageous.

And I think it shows up in your work.

This is very nice of you to say.

I'm just taking it in.

That's it.

To your listeners, I'm quiet.

I'm not nodding.

He's right.

He's understating it.

He's getting it.

He's starting to get it.

And obviously your wife, what she went through dealing with cancer and and how she dealt with it and how she went public, all of that is so courageous.

And I just have hats off to you as that means a lot, Ted.

Thank you.

Yeah.

I was.

And none of that's easy.

No, it's not.

And what Olivia also did was

in the midst of it, you know,

before,

you know, after her fourth, but before her fifth surgery,

because to stop the potential spread of it, she had a hysterectomy and opherectomy as well.

So in the midst of it, we also

made embryos so that our daughter could be here, which she is now, which is the greatest.

And in the midst of all of this, I always look back on her,

when she was diagnosed in April.

through that whole year and go, she wasn't just courageous, but she was also so fun to be like, we had so much fun.

It's weird.

I go through iPhone photos and i go oh that was that's you me and malcolm in the backyard with the kiddie pool

when

uh

you know he decided to just pour so many pebbles into the storm drain and clog it up and whatever it was and it's i go oh that was three weeks after

um

after your lymph node dissection whatever it is it's always in the midst of that So I really,

it wasn't just the courage of it.

She also was just giving us so it's always just her greatest, best self throughout it.

Some of the, to me, courageous is also the being public about it so as to make sure other people don't, maybe some person wouldn't have to go through what she did.

And it was really this

lifetime risk assessment test that she had done is the only reason they caught it.

And it's not, you know, she had her mammogram.

She was proactive about all that stuff.

It didn't and if not, could have spread.

Would have spread fast.

would have yeah it was bilateral yeah in four different places by the time they did an ultrasound which is what found it you know not just a mammogram so

wow just like it the the the

the the the luck of it and then obviously all the work she put into it you were sober when that but you were long sober how many not long but

December 2020.

So yeah.

And this was

April of 2023.

I think that's don't you think, did you have a part of you go, thank, for many reasons, but thank God I'm sober

to be able to be here for real.

I remember not,

there was that.

And then I remember one day I'm bringing her, she's in bed.

She had the 10-hour double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery, and she still has more to go.

And I brought her a tray with

like apple juice, something she wanted to eat that her mom had made in the kitchen.

And then it had

oxy cotton and

some sort of nerve medication and a Xanax, which they also gave just for

rest and recovery.

And I'm walking and I go, oh, I haven't even,

it never crossed my mind that I was holding these medications in my hand.

Like

the

obsession of it was gone.

You know, I thought, oh, I'm so far beyond that.

And I can be a good butler

with the best

client.

And

yeah, but the presence also.

And then

it's people stay the same in so many ways.

And I'm still the same person I was when I was like five in so many ways.

But I will admit, it's a huge change, just a huge way of looking at everything.

And

I'm shocked I did it.

I'm shocked I was able to do it.

Become sober.

To actually

stick to it in every way, to not have, well, I still do this, to not, well, I'm trying, but I backs like

nothing wrong or shameful about relapse.

I just mean I'm shocked always

that it landed.

Can you see yourself

that not the oh, I'm tempted to

but oh

i i'm old i'm uh i'm i'm feeling aggrieved you know aggrieved i'm you know some sort of trigger that used to cascade into oh i'm gonna have a drug oh

that do you are you aware of those kind of things where you're this is

you know two miles out but i can see it yeah i'm not tempted to have anything but i can see it and i think i'm gonna nip that in the bud.

I'm very lucky that

life's been so great that it's always 30 miles out.

Yeah.

But I'll be doing something and I go,

huh, you really want to be this exhausted,

stretched, thin,

a little,

yeah, aggrieved.

Do you really want to be in a situation where can you now just go, hey,

I don't think what we're working on or I don't think what we're setting up in life here is going to pay off well.

Or the word entitled pops into your brain.

A little bit.

Yeah.

I deserve blank.

Yeah.

No.

Luckily, those things are miles and miles off.

And, but yeah, yeah.

That's part of it is just always knowing,

always

so addicted to the self-control of it

in some ways and so happy that I'm always present when I'm with my kids and Olivia and friends and everything.

I mean you wouldn't even have been in the same hallway as Olivia if you hadn't been sober.

You would not, you would have, she would have been in Brazil in a different hallway.

Yes.

She'd she'd be yeah, she'd be off in Arizona in the 60s compared to where I was.

She'd be in paradise and I'd be doing whatever.

No, I was, it was a bad, I was in a bad neighborhood of my brain for a while.

And

I acknowledge, you always have respect for it, that it's still there.

You go, I see you.

I know you're there, but that's not, you know, my daily life of being afraid of it.

Yeah.

Good on you, man.

That's very nice to be able to do that.

People are my favorite kind of people because

you earned something.

I mean, not all sober.

There are a lot of sober people who are assholes.

A lot are assholes.

And a lot, you know, the thing about it is you make such a major shift in your life.

You have to also remember that there's 99% of things you still don't understand.

I mean, about yourself.

Yeah, exactly.

I think sometimes when people go through sobriety, they're like, they think they've just got it on lock.

And I'm like, there's still things you could improve.

Can I bounce around some more?

How's your family with all of your immense success?

Oh, my family of origins.

Yes, your mother, your father.

Yeah, your mother and your father are alive.

Yeah, they're in Chicago.

Very alive, traveling all the time.

My dad's a corporate lawyer.

My mom's a law professor.

They recently left.

They recently both,

you know, entered more of a retirement.

But

everyone's really perfect about it in that.

happy for me, proud of me,

vocally proud, which is really nice.

And also have their own world of what they're interested in, what's also impressive.

And what it's a nice measured thing.

We grew up with a lot of,

we'd go see stuff at the Steppenwolf Theater and the Goodman Theater, and we were very, they've introduced us to a lot of things.

So I felt like, you know, it wasn't like I thought I got to break out of this family and this town

because it was Chicago and it was the 90s.

So it wasn't, you know,

it wasn't,

like

you're escaping.

Escaping, yeah.

You're not the black sheep.

You're not.

Oh, I'm

the darkest of the sheep.

Yeah.

Yeah, but someone's got to be.

Third, that's a good one to be.

The third kid.

Yeah.

Who you can't pin that guy down.

You have a younger brother and then one who.

Where was the child who passed away at birth?

My brother Peter.

He

that was after me.

And then our younger sister, Claire,

lives in Chicago as well.

That's an example of courage, too,

having a child after a child.

You know, it's amazing you say that.

I don't think I've ever really talked to my parents about that, but I just remember them telling us after Peter that

we're going to have a baby.

And

my memory is, and I was pretty young, was the three of us going, okay,

just not understanding, you know, not understanding

from my perspective, I won't speak for my brother and sister, not fully understanding what had happened, or

if that is what always happens, or you know,

it's a strange thing.

Your job is to be out, I don't know what your job is, sorry, but I would, my impression is

be outrageous, but you need to be willing to go anywhere to

accomplish whatever the

moment is.

You need to be courageous and outrageous and maybe shocking and maybe wildly inappropriate or whatever.

Where do you keep your moral?

Do you have a kind of a compass that goes,

nope, too far?

Or,

you know?

Yeah, for sure.

And what

I don't mean to sound kind of pokey, but I remember I had a joke in 2005 about

what was, I guess, 2005.

Yeah, about the ongoing war in Iraq and Bush.

And

I was working on it.

I was at a club.

It was something about how they were treating it like performance art, where it's like, oh, you're not supposed to get it because they were so cryptic about why it was failing.

And I mean, I can't remember the bit in full.

But this woman came up to me after and she said, you know, my son's serving overseas.

I just want to say, you ruined my night.

And I thought,

I don't like that.

I don't like ruining someone's night.

That's still kind of the thing in my head.

And I was once opening for Brian Possane at Caroline's Comedy Club, and I was behind this couple that got the bill.

They were really enjoying the show.

They got the bill.

And they're looking it over,

you know, tutoring minimum.

And

they're looking at it, looking at him.

And he goes, Well, we just won't go out for the next couple weeks.

Oh, wow.

Yeah.

And I thought, oh, yeah, you got to fucking deliver.

This isn't like for me.

Yeah.

And by the way, this is not me sounding off on what comedians should be like because I don't, I don't care at all.

It's one of the most boring conversations.

I care about me and my career.

Find your own success.

Go do you.

You want to debate woke or whatever.

Just go.

Go fill airwaves with that.

It's so boring.

And also, I don't give a shit.

I want me to be successful.

The rest of you can kick rocks.

But I remember thinking like, yeah, this isn't

this isn't a

this isn't a confrontational piece of performance art.

Like I like to just,

I like to at least not ruin your night and maybe make you think the check was worth it.

Somewhere in between.

Sorry, I just flashed.

Now I can't remember the name of the bit.

It was in your opening monologue, maybe of your first time back on this rendition of your show about the band that you were going to hire.

Oh, that was on Wednesday.

Oh, that was this Wednesday?

Yeah.

That was the funniest,

funniest.

Oh, I'm glad you liked it.

Oh, I loved it.

Oh, that's great.

It was.

Yeah, well, I just did that one.

I did think, like, you know,

I was like, well, yeah, I don't want to just air.

Dirty laundry from booking the show, but I was like, this was, it was so,

it was so genuinely frustrating on Monday and Tuesday and so funny to me by Wednesday.

It was really.

I encourage you all to go listen to it if you don't know what we're talking about, because it is hysterical.

But is the guy a con artist?

He must be, right?

Oh, I don't know.

I really don't know.

Well, what else?

There's been no contact.

Oh,

there's been no contact since.

I was dealing with someone.

I don't know in what capacity.

I definitely was asked for a ton of money.

He may have given you

a great monologue.

Yeah, you know, someone said, my head writer, David Ferguson, right before I walked out, he went, such a gift in the end.

And I went, yeah, but I'm still mad.

Yeah, you should be.

I was like, I almost wanted to say that on the air.

Like, unless you think this monologue is some kind of silver lining, I'm still very pissed off about it.

No, that was really funny.

I'm glad you liked that.

Yeah, really good.

That was a bit like, okay, this is a long, I remember, yeah, up to, up to Wednesday at seven.

In terms of the live thing, I thought

I had some notes on cue cards, but I was like, this is, there's so many details and I want to tell this well, but that was kind of, that gave it, for me, a really fun.

Do you have a team of people now that meaning writers and everybody who are with you?

So whatever's next, you can go.

There's a show.

No, no, the show has an amazing staff of writers.

But if you go off and do something else, it'll be something else.

Yeah, when I go on tour, it's just me.

Yeah.

Do you have a what's next?

Do you have a five years from now in your head?

No, specifically, no, five years.

No, three months.

Three months in the future is the most I'll plan.

With children now, I'll give six months.

But I find, I don't know, do you?

Five years.

I just, I just, minus please, thank you.

Yeah.

Thank you.

Please let me be able to

Martin Short and I, he was gracious enough to be on a sitcom I did in 2014.

And he said to me, he goes, John, 98% of the business is failure.

He goes, That's what most of it is.

You just do things, they don't quite work, and then you do the next thing.

And I thought, oh,

oh, okay, that's great.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I've always been successful, really.

I usually can't pull that off.

Thank you for the laugh.

Hey, I just want to say

this is extremely nice to talk to you.

It sort of hit me a little late in the interview, but I should, you can edit this into the beginning if you want.

It's a real, it's a or just on a loop.

Yeah.

It's a real thrill to be able to talk to you.

And it's extremely cool to hear you having watched anything of mine or let alone thought about it.

So I have binged you.

You know, the first thing I think all good things, all good hip things come from my stepson, Charlie McDowell, Mary's.

Nice.

Yeah.

And he, it was, oh, shoot, the, the Broadway show, Oh, Hello?

Oh, yeah.

Nick Kroll and I.

Yeah.

That was like, whoa, where did these guys come from?

Yeah, that was kind of,

that was like opening up on Broadway.

Like in a movie, a gangster movie when a guy is a Tommy gun.

Yes.

And he just kicks open a door like he can barely control it.

That's Oh, Hello was like that.

It was just

all for jokes.

Yeah.

Yeah.

no, it was, no, it was, but it worked.

It was so funny, so outrageous.

And we kind of knew having this long run on Broadway, I remember Nick and I talking about it.

Like, this is like being on the moon.

Like, I don't know how we got here, and I don't know if we'll ever be able to come back, but it was really how long a run was it?

You know, September to February, I think.

Wow.

Yeah.

That is a long run.

Eight shows a week.

Yeah.

What theater were you?

At the Lyceum.

Don't you, were you not always have this little tug in your heart when you're in New York and you walk

all the great that great show, O'Mary, is there now?

And I went to see it and it was the first time I'd sat inside the theater since that show.

It's really cool.

I don't have the whatever to do theater again, but

yeah,

it's not because of the status quo about us experience.

No, here's what it was.

Okay.

And the age helps after a while to convince you, nah, take three and take four and take five is a really good safety valve for acting at my age.

Interesting.

My wife doesn't feel that way.

She's 72 and she loves the idea of theater.

But I was at the Atlantic Theater in New York,

which is like a theater theater to Broadway shows.

And Neil Pepe and Mary McCann, who run it,

are great friends.

And they were doing the 25th reunion of the

whatever anniversary, I mean.

And so they had

25 playwrights, and each one was assigned 20 minutes of anything.

It could be opera, it could be whatever.

And each week we'll do five of you, and we'll do five weeks of this, and we'll raise money and celebrate.

So they asked people to come and do it.

And I did this.

I got a monologue.

It was 19 minutes long monologue.

And you had not real rehearsal.

You worked on it at home.

Then you came in and you ran it with Neil

maybe for an hour or two.

Who was the playwright that that wrote it?

I knew you were going to ask me.

And it was brilliant, too.

It was about this guy who sits down in front of an audience, trying to tell them why he's trying to piece together why he's so upset.

And he goes through his day.

He's kind of middle management, and he's just getting more and more, but he can't figure out what it is.

He goes home.

says hi to his wife.

His wife wants him to go down into the cellar, the basement of their house.

They get something.

He goes down and it is literal.

His basement is Hades, is hell, not like a symbolic.

He walks into hell,

horrified, terrified, walks back up.

She hands him the dog, take him, and he walks the dog.

And by the time he comes back, he's forgotten that hell is in his basement.

So you realize every, so it was a panicky kind of delivery.

And I psyched myself out.

Backstage, lights go down.

Fuck, fuck, fuck.

what do i do do i know just go out

the lights come on and i walk to my place and

20 seconds in

i dries a bone cannot remember a single word 20 seconds in

the stage manager who's in the booth probably just went back and was sitting down with a cup of coffee when i asked for a line

so she

and she i had seen somebody ask for a line yeah the week before it was not uncommon These weren't heavily rehearsed.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And I was stunned to hear, I thought someone would whisper it from the wings.

No, it's from a microphone in the back of the house.

So funny.

You have to go, line, please.

And then the line comes over there.

You know, so I thought I'll ask in a clever way, at least, I'll say.

Darcy, which was her name, Darcy,

what happens next?

That's so funny.

And she.

got to the point uh just sat down spilled her coffee over everything and gave me the line that i had said last

and not the one I needed.

Yeah.

So I started again, failed again, and I had to ask again.

But in that moment, it was like I stuck my finger into a light socket.

It was like,

fuck.

Do I run?

Do I, no, I'm going to cry.

God damn it.

My daughter's in the audience.

And then you move on.

But I had so much adrenaline in my body.

My poor daughter had to walk me around the city block three or four times, drinking two big, huge water things to get.

I had real toxic amount of adrenaline in my body.

Oh, it's so funny.

That could be the origin story of someone that loves live theater.

You know, I'll know.

Yeah.

How old was your daughter?

Oh, she was old enough to be fine with what she saw.

She just shake it off.

She was relaxed.

No one knew, dad.

Yeah.

I bet some people knew.

I'll tell you

It's also nice when people go, yeah, that didn't go well.

I almost had a meltdown last night because I'm about to start scratched out.

I had a meltdown last night because I haven't done a podcast in three or four months.

So you're the first.

And I start

the second season of the Netflix show that did well.

And now I have to see if it's going to do well again.

And we start in two weeks.

And I was just, no, I'm incapable.

I don't know what to do.

A fear just overwhelmed me.

It's a real pleasure to have sat down with you and talked with you.

You're amazing.

You're so bright.

Oh, you're so talented.

You're such kind and you're a sweet man.

You're such a fantastic

actor and creator and

person in our life.

You brought

so many happy moments to my life.

It is incredibly nice to meet you.

And everything you've said will mean a lot to me forever.

Thank you.

Yeah, we'll cut that in.

That was John Mulaney.

I had the best time talking to him.

He waited till the very end to give me any kind of compliment, but all's forgiven.

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