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50 reported that

Lil Meech had to go to rehab.

See, there you go.

See, I hate how he brought that up. you don't you like see god don't like ugly see sometimes he don't like pretty but you know but but listen i will say 50s is patty i'm i'm gonna let you know i he is he's so patty but that's one thing about it you know when he's hurt he is hurt he is a cancer and he is very emotional 50 is emotional ass gangster yes yes i'm a cancer too oh that's why okay yeah i'm a cancer go, Shanna.
All right. But I don't.
I get you now. But I don't bother nobody.
No, not until somebody bother you. Yeah.
But then you don't know how to let it go after that. And that's you.
That's 50. Oh, that's.
Yeah. Yeah.
I think. I think Charlamagne may be the only cancer that doesn't that's not like that but he always starting stuff he is yeah yeah he's the opposite he starts it yes and then want to hide his hand yes yes yes yes i told him i said your little ninja turtle looking at somebody gonna get you one day well they got him that one time remember they they pulled their roll up on him? They did.
They did. And when Baby rolled up on him.
He got real quiet when Baby rolled up. Yeah.
Yeah. Certain Charlemagne pick his battles.
Yeah. He picks them.
Yeah. He talked crazy.
He talked donkey. He was donkey the other day.
He should have gave Baby donkey the other day. Listen.
And who was that one guy, the state property dude? Oh, my God. Beanie Siegel.
Mm-hmm. He was quiet with Beanie Siegel, too.
Yeah. He was quiet.
Beanie said, look, yo, don't be thumping, man. He said, okay, all right.
He said, yeah, because you don't let this. You don't know what this is.
Charlamagne said, yeah, you're right. Yeah.
That's right. But if somebody else, he keep going back and forth.
Oh, he will. He won't let it go.
He will. He don't play with me neither, though.
You know. Yeah.
What are your thoughts on 50 and Big Meech? So, listen. 50 and Big Meech.
I feel like it was business, right? So, I understand what 50 did for his family. Yes, you put money in his family's pocket.
But if Rick Ross is Big Meech's friend right like if they were a friend like they like Rick Ross like allegedly took care of this nigga while he was in jail right care this man while he was in jail you know and and before like they they've been acquainted acquainted you know I feel like Big Meech and 50 They weren't friends't friends this is a business thing so how can you get upset with little mitch for something that big mitch did right you know what i mean yes that little mitch really wasn't even a part of right now no i'm not too crazy about little mitch but i actually did feel bad for him i really got put in a bad spot he really did get put in

a bad spot and i and honestly and the the whole sending him the rehab thing i just think that was that was a lot then that could have been left out you know because we don't know what he was doing why he was you know drugging the way he was or whatever you know and whether it was for fun or not you know you didn't put it out you didn out then. You know, you put it out now.
Right. When his dad is doing the thing that you don't like.
Like. You know, so, yeah, I do kind of feel bad for the brother.
In two minutes of fame, Kiki Palmer, Kat Williams, DC Young, Fly Sinbad, Dion Cole, Carlos Miller, Earthquake, and Red Grant. What was that experience like for you being on set with all those guys? I actually didn't get to see a lot of them.
I got to be on set with uh ron rico lee okay and um jay pharaoh okay funny personalities them both now i love ron rico lee from sister sister like that man still look good to this day you know so i was looking i was like okay you know uh it's just it's just great the nostalgia of actually like knowing who he is and it's like oh my god yo and then uh jay farrell who's a funny funny dude man jay farrell man oh my god yeah yeah he's um that that was nice that was good i actually didn't even get to meet cat uh on that set um i met cat at tycoon weekend for 50 cent a couple years ago but yeah that was a good it was good it was a good movie too i got the hookup to Master P, John Witherspoon, Cash Doll, Cyril Underwood. I mean, another one, DC, Jeezy, Webby, Romeo, Michael Blackson, B.
Simone, April Jones. What was that like? All the blacks.
That movie was like a long ass skit. That's why I said, I said, why would you even touch? I got the hookup to, why would you touch the first one, one y'all it was it was nostalgic it was great you could have just did like a skit movie you know but um it was good being on set but i'm gonna tell you one thing hold on let me take a sip we'll be right back after this guys now the thing was master p there was no was no script.
I got there, right? Got on set. He said, Jess, do what you do.
I said, what the hell is that? Like, what do you want me to do? Like, what does that mean? He said, no, no, I got you being a cop. Like, you now do what you do.
I said, yo, what is the movie about right i don't know like you know i what am i doing give me some type of leeway he just wanted us to do what we do now some people may take that direction and be like okay great yeah cool i'll do what i do not me because it's like yo i i need to know i I'm an actress. I need to know.

It's not wilding out.

You know what I mean?

Right.

I know what to do.

It's in the Adelaire freelance.

Yes, I know what to do.

And yes, I can improv,

but I need a basis.

I need a foundation. There was no foundation to the movie.

There was no foundation to the project.

And while I love what Master P stands for,

no shade to that. It's just, it was unorganized and it just was an unprofessional set, you know? Allegedly, you didn't get paid.
Did you get your money? I didn't get paid for both scenes. I did not.
So how much were you promised? So $15,000 per scene, right? They used one scene, but I shot both. i shot both so i should have got 30 000 it's not about what airs i mean you know what premieres right it's about what i charged for that scene you know back in those times right and um i did i didn't get compensated for that and i kept uh have you talked to him no and every time you come at the breakfast club, I ain't there.
You need to make it, make it, make it sure you're there. I know.
Well, you need to make sure the money is there. Ain't no damn.
I need to make sure I'm there. Shoot.
So in these acting scenes, have any actors, because I remember, uh, we had Terry Cruz on, he said to Sheena on her, he had a problem remembering his lines. Yeah.
And she said, Terry, you like Terry you like to sing just sing them and he that's how he remembered his lines so I was curious that when you're on set has anybody given you advice to help you if there was something they were struggling with no no I honestly have never struggled with anything on set um no I take my my scripts very serious I take every job I do very serious, so.

What about Love and Hip Hop?

You say you was on Love and Hip Hop Hollywood, right?

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

For one episode.

That's it?

Yeah, hell yeah.

I wasn't about to be part of that whole franchise cast,

running around.

You make money, though.

Don't they pay good?

Depending on who you are, yeah.

They paid me good for that one day.

You're damn right.

That's why I only got one day.

They said, look, we ain't got it. I mean, not we ain't got it.
We ain't giving it for all that. Come on, Jess.
No. But I'm like, all right.
We're going to give you for this one conversation. But that was very situational, though.
I ended up on there because of something that went down between me, Moniece, and April. That wasn't.
I was never going to be a part of Loving Hip Hop Hollywood. That ain dang even none of my friends you and april had a fallout um it wasn't really a fall out it was it was it was crazy i i ended up uh me and me and april were friends right and then she we just stopped like she stopped communicating with me like and took like eight months off Didn Didn't talk to me for almost a whole damn year and expected for me to still be like, no, like what you talking about? Are you one of them friends that need to talk periodically? Hell no, I'm not.
But this is what you ain't going to do. You ain't going to not deal with me.
I forgot exactly why she stopped talking to me, but she stopped and took eight months off. so what i did which i shouldn't have done it was bad but we all do well not we all but you know sometimes it happens um i was actually cool with monice before i never became friends with monice but i was cool with her first before prior to meeting april and um you know apr April was dating Fizz.
Yeah. Um, with Omarion.
Omarion's, uh, band member. And you know, one of his like good friends or whatever.
Can you do something like that? Hell no. I ain't never did nothing like that.
I'm just saying you did. I said, could you? Hell no.
No, I can't do that. Not both of them was in the band and I got kids with one.
And then now, you know, you go from being my brother to, oh, how are we going to do that?

So you uncle stepped in.

I don't know.

Yeah.

That was crazy.

And that was the thing.

I didn't know any of that was going on until I was actually already her friend.

So that's why I feel like you should be able to date friends to see what they, you know, how you date somebody to see if you like them and you want to make them your significant other. I think you should have a dating period for people to be your friend, too.
Because I want to see what you come with. Because your b**** becomes my bull****.
And now people are going to think. You already knew.
You knew that. No, I did not.
I didn't know that she was dealing. Yeah, yeah.
Oh, you just co-signing it? You think that's cool? You ain't telling her that she shouldn't be dating her kid's uncle? You didn't tell her that? I'm like, listen. Everybody is telling her that.
And she don't care. Right.
That's just what it is. First, she started off as a best friend.
And then it became something else. And then it was, you know.
But that's what happened. I ended up talking about her to Monice.
And Monice, no, it was voice notes i sent monice right and then once me and april had talked and we got reacquainted i'm sitting there in the new house right her and fizz that that they had lived together with in that time right and we on live and then i see people commenting on her live like uh april monice just went live. You need to go see what she's talking about.
And so April was trying to ignore it. I'm the one like, no, let's go see what she's talking about then.
Jesus Christ. We went to the girl page.
Monisha sitting there nice and cute with her little glasses on and you hear my voice. She just playing my voice notes back.
and I'm saying everything. Oh, man.
You know you can't leave no voice message? I still be leaving voice messages. You leave me a message? Yeah, but I don't, but you know, I'm reformed.
Other than hey, it's me. Hey, hit me when you get it.
That's all I got for you. That's what it is.
You know, I apologize and so that's how I got on Love & Hip Hop Hollywood. She had, you had, April was so upset.
She cried and everything. Cried, cried, cried.
Fizz come through the door. He came through the door on the right part.
I was talking about him too. He just cried.
And he was looking like, what? And I was like, yeah. You ain't gonna like it,, bro Yeah, I did it.
It is what it is So then April in the bathroom, she wouldn't Come out. I said, all right y'all why I'm ready to go I you know, I know that It is what it is.
We just made up but apparently We done now again. So I'm just Go ahead and remove myself from y'all lives I love y'all.
Peace out, right Soon as I'm about to hit the calls April. Should we send a camera crew? What's going on over there? I don't know how.
Yeah. Cause she sit there and she was watching the live and then Monice must've called on.
However that happened. April was like, wait, don't leave.
I want you to shoot this episode. And cause this is great for TV.
It's like, what? So that's how I ended up doing that. But child, please.
I didn't care about it then. I don't care about it now.
What have you learned about public dating since you become in the spotlight? Don't do it. Don't try to hold.
If you can hold on to a piece of privacy, do it. Because you know, when you date publicly, you got to break up publicly.
Yep. Yep.
Or they will continue to attach you to names. Yep.
They're going to continue to attach you and ask you questions about people that you ain't attached to no more. And what about your partner? When they keep asking you about somebody you're not attached to and then the person that you are attached to attached yes do they feel some type of way about that no to be honest with you chris his name is chris christopher oh he is so cool about that right like i remember when country wayne's uh stand up that came out right and we were laying in the bed we Netflix, and we see the stand-up.
And he's like, you want to watch it? And I'm like, no, I don't. And he's like, why? I've never seen him do stand-up before.
Let's just watch it. Like, whatever.
I was like, no, I don't want to watch it. And he's like, all right, I respect it.
Like, he's not, he's not what I thought it would be early on. I thought i thought you know because you got to prepare yourself for things like that when you know you you were dating somebody who's also in the industry as well and somebody that has a platform you know you you got to deal with that you got to be ready for somebody to question you about that or the other person to feel insecure a little bit that's not him at all right cardi b and offset going at it online my head would you ever be in a situation where you would go at it with your baby's father go back and forth like i mean the vitriol the i mean going back and forth and he's saying this and she's saying that uh he's saying that you lit this old boy when you were pregnant and she's like and well and you know she i mean carty carty slick at the mouth right so hmm i would never do that now i never did that right no me and rome we didn't had our days our arguments you know my son's father we i've never gone back and forth with him all on hell no never ever want to do that because at the end of the day it's still us yes you know what i mean like we still got this child you know so i gotta deal with you you know now this the thing i think offset was doing him he knew cardi what he just knew that he had her he knew she would never leave he knew he knew the things to do to get her back buy two birkins buy three birkins yeah he might be good for like a couple weeks or a couple months and then you back out there doing what you're doing you know what i mean but then when she started moving on oh that baby couldn't take that.
Yeah. Hmm.
Now, he'd be upset. He'd be upset when even like.
Now, when they call him now, they call him upset. Yeah, absolutely.
He'd be upset when certain people take Cardi's side because I think he feels like it's a side y'all not seeing. Y'all ain't seeing this.
Y'all ain't saying, nah, but we seeing what you've been doing. You know what I'm saying? We see you.
And then we also hear Cardi tells us everything. That's what I said.
She don't even need to be up here. She tell us everything anyway.
You know what I'm saying? Everything. You know, like, and we see what you, and we see she also loves also loves you right and she loved you through a lot of things that she put her through great you know what i mean like cardi's a lover we obviously know that and so you know she just wanted to be happy and she she tried to make that happen several times but it don't always work out like that when i can social can social media ruin a relationship hell yeah yes it can because then you you don't live for the other person when you start living for the validation of others you know what i mean you start trying to pay attention to you start trying to fit the mold of other people who what they think you even got you don't even know what they got going on you know what i mean like you're trying to please too many people you're trying to look perfect in front of too many people that's why I will say this and I don't care who'll get mad at me I love Kirk and Rashida from Love and Hip Hop Atlanta okay that is a perfect example of a marriage going through everything in a marriage standing every test and fighting through it and actually getting through it and that's that's partnership right there that's work how long in the relationship before we stop sending our representative out hmm is it is it six months in a year because we know we got to send the representative damn right look what you see is what you get now earlier on look i used to talk different when i used to like i used to be like yeah like so like what do you think no i've always i've always listened to that song like and then that would be my representative for the first 30 days then i'll be like what you talking about like what you mean okay no i never said that you know what i mean like yes, yo, and then by the time the 30 days the representative is gone, they already in love with me, so boom.
You know what I mean? You got it. But yeah.
But you follow the false free tenses. That's right.
That's why I had to stop doing that. That's why I had to stop doing that.
That ain't good for nobody. Don't send a representative.
What you see is what you get. They're going to love you for you or they not, and that's how you know i had sure what underwood on a couple of weeks ago and she said the man no matter how much he makes should be the head of the house and the woman should be willing to follow his lead where are you on that she said the the man the man whether or not he makes the money, the man is the head of the house.
Okay. I see that.
I see it. I get it.
I get it. I think everything is so different in these times.
Yes. Everything is different.
Y'all ain't buying that. See, I see, you know, you try to come up with a way that you can get you that you can you can rock with that position but you ain't you ain't there yet yeah now listen well now i'm gonna set it straight wow i love to be led yes i love a man that leads you know i love a man with a purpose you know what i mean a man that i can learn from i still see myself as equal in the household.

I make decisions.

He makes decisions.

You know what I mean?

My fiance, he makes decisions.

I make decisions.

It's not him alone by himself.

You know?

Yes.

And that's fine.

You know, he has his own company.

He makes his own money and everything, but still. You got to have some say.
Yes. And that's fine.
You know, he has his own company. He makes his own money and everything, but still.
You got to have some safety. Yes, yes.
And that's what it is. Now, how old is Cheryl? Cheryl is probably a year older than me.
Yeah, okay. So, I understand.
Though, in that era of her coming up, you know, it's different. It's different times, you know, but but things have evolved but see jess the problem that i got with you you women today y'all want tradition without doing traditional things y'all want to be flowers and y'all want this type of what your mom and your grandma what they experience but y'all don't do none of that y'all ain't cooking who y'all ain't cooking who y'all ain't oh you see what you're saying i want some say too i my grandma ain't have no say in the house hmm she didn't hell no that's crazy you need to talk to your grandfather about no party party what play in that now now i get what you're saying see see my grandmother shot her husband so i You know what I mean? She has a lot of faith.
You're damn right. Hold on.
What you say it was? What is going to be? All right. That's right.
Shot him in his butt. Don't play with it.
All right. So, it's different over here.
It is. Right now.
Now, I cook. Yes.
I clean. I take care of my children.
Okay. So does he.
He cooks. He cleans.
He works. He takes care of our children.
He treats my son like that's his son. And of course.
And he take care of you. Yes, he does.
And I take care of him right back. Okay.
You know, I scratch his back. He scratch mine.
I'm getting on my knees. I'm sitting on his face.

All of that.

All of that.

Please.

That's right.

We both cleaning.

We both don't.

That's why I said we are both leading our household.

Now, he's leading me in other ways.

But in our household, it's both.

So this relationship. King and a queen.
50-50. say he got say that's right okay that's right that's right man that's what it is yeah uh how did how did you know chris was the guy man i'm going to be very honest with you when i first met him i was like look it's just gonna be a nice little smash buddy you know what i mean when i met him but it it led to it led to this where i am right now man i met him february 23rd 2023 i was just finishing up a co-hosting day at breakfast club this was a year before i got the position and i met him um and he he's a truck driver so he was on a stop and i went to a restaurant and i'm flirting with him and everything and he wasn't really paying me no mind so i'm like did he know who you were yeah he did but he thought that like he was like i don't want to be a part of no roast battle like i don't even that's the thing people are intimidated guys are intimidated yeah by me because they feel like i you know try to clown that's right and so he just was like oh god this girl nah so i asked him did he want to drink he's like no i don't drink i was okay you want an edible i i was feeling good i was passing you know? And he was like, no, I don't do any of that, you know? And I'm like, okay, cool.
So- You're like, Ninja, what you do? Yeah, what do you do? You know, he was like, I drink wine with dinner, but I'm just saying, I'm like, so why are you at the bar? Then why are you at the bar if you're not drinking? He said, because I'm grown. I was like, all right, don't do too much.
Yeah, you know? All right, don't get a lot. Don't get sassy on me, you know.
So I'm drinking and everything. And then we talk and I'm still picking one up.
I made him laugh. And that's when he cracked.
And then he started engaging more. And I didn't realize how drunk I was until I got up and went to the bathroom.
I was like, damn, I'm drunk. I got to get out of here.
So on my way back to the seat, he was like, hey, before I leave, I wanted to know if I could take you out would you let me take you out and I was like oh now you want to know and I'm all drunk and I'm like now you want to know I would have been and so I'm falling all around and he was like he helped me and everything and he was like I'm gonna just put my number in your phone because you probably ain't gonna be able to do it and then he he took a couple days waited a few days then he hit me up and he asked me could he take me out and the first date we went to um first date we went on i never left him since then we never ever like i swear i was like i'm gonna just sleep with him and he gonna be somebody oh the first day yeah i when i met him i'm like She like dry on her wall. Wanted to crack it.
Wanted to crack it.

Take him down all right knew i wanted to jump on that climb that tree yes what's up i mean i thought i thought like i came up in the era where you know you had to wait a month two months three months four months it wasn't no first night not if you know what you want you ain't gotta. That's what the old folks say.
That's what I'm saying. Don't jump right in bed and all of that.
I mean, I had John Legend. And John Legend say, hey, you met Chrissy.
You know, they went out, boom. It's like that? It's like that.
Women do that? Women do that. I'm a woman that did it.
I know a few that do it too. Listen, I just knew.
Where the hell got it? I ain't met no women. You ain't mean to got it.
women I'm a woman that did it. I know a few that do it.
Listen, I just knew. Where the hell got it? I ain't met.
You ain't me the guy that do it? Women, I'm the guy they want to settle down with. Right, right.
So they want to settle down with me, so they need a year. Mm.
Yeah. Mm.
That's what I said. Mm.
Everybody got a different purpose, though. No, no.
How you? Dude got it in the backseat of the car. You want me to win a year.
I feel you. I feel you.
Why they do me like that? I don't know why they do you like that, Shannon. I don't know.
I don't look like a guy that want to have fun. I want to have fun, too.
Why do I got that one? We heard you having fun. There you go, Jeff.
We heard you having all the fun you was having. Oh, Lord have mercy.
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I bet. You go to his house or he come to your house or it's a neutral site hotel? See, I don't go to people's houses.
They come to you? Never been a person to go to nobody's house. He come to you? Absolutely.
I will. Oh, no.
I mean, got to come.

No, no, no.

We got to be neutral site, neutral site.

Because a.

Women sometimes are not as forthcoming as they need to be.

And so, oh, no, I know.

I love him to 20 minutes ago.

And I've been in situations and, you know's not comfortable and so no I have not closed my eyes at a woman's house in 30 33 years and I ain't going I got you but that means something happened that you didn't get over yeah oh yeah I understand it I understand it now see Chris did not make it to my house until, like, our third date. Right.
Because, all right, so the first date, he planned at a nice, really, really nice restaurant, right? And he had, like, rented the room. Chris got brand like that? Excuse me? Shit.
So, he had rented, like, a private room. Yeah.
Some of those, like, five-star restaurants have private rooms. Yeah, I know these, yeah.
You know, people like me come in and have have parties and stuff like that and we don't want to be with you know the other doctor so he taking pictures all night yes so he rented that and he it was just us in this whole big room in this nice hotel downtown baltimore right so then he says uh i we the conversation that this man had with me on the first date, he could have a conversation. That's what got me.
You asked me, how did you know he was the one? He could have a damn conversation. And he did not ask me about Jess Hilarious one time.
He wanted to know who Jessica Robin Moore was. And to this day, that is who he's with.
That's what got you you know what i mean like i love that because you

gotta be careful when you are a celebrity you know and and you're trying to date people you gotta know like yo what's your motive who are you are you just dating me because of who i am and what i can do for you yes and i've done so much i've taken care of some men really okay yeah I'm taking care of some men

But a man will let a woman taken care of some men really okay yeah hell yeah i've taken care of some men but a man will let a woman take care of him you're damn right these days and then beginning going a podcast talking about y'all are all angry that's because we taking care of your ass should we picking up where your mom left off what's? You know? So, let me calm down because I'm reformed.

All right?

You know.

But, yes, he was able to have a conversation with me, Shannon.

Like, he got to know me.

He was talking about family values.

He was talking about how he had came up.

And I was so busy trying to get in this man drawers.

Damn!

I was. Man, it was fine.
and people say you look like Brittany Grinder but he a man right and Brittany is very attractive too I will say that but he's a man so he was fine and and I didn't want the night to end and how about the restaurant clearly didn't how about't. How about the restaurant was in a hotel? And so I was like, I'll be back.
I got to go to the bathroom. Went and got a room real quick.
Came back. This man was acting like, I got something to do in the morning.
No, he had to work in the morning. I got work in the morning.
All right, well, you can leave from here. And that's what he did.
And, yep. And I had to fly.
I had a flight. I had to work in the morning too.
I had to fly to Atlanta to film something and I didn't. You did all that, Jack? That man had no idea that he was going to be able to meet somebody back here.
No idea. No idea.
He sure didn't. He sure didn't.
He ran out, go get the condoms. He was like, I got to to the store i said listen i keeps those what we doing i already knew when you asked me can you take me i already knew so you knew you damn jazz that's right why we gotta act why do women gotta act like they don't be wanting it and that why why what that mean you are that means you're a hoe something? That's what I mean.
You do it on the first date? Not if two years later I'm popping a baby out and I'm here. You done proposed.
Excuse me? I'm doing it right. Now other times it didn't work.
I ain't going to lie. You ain't back the thousand.
A baseball player if you hit 300 you can make 700 that's 700 million it don't work all the time but when it work it work and it did work this time let me ask you this how long should a woman wait to be flown out well now that's called trafficking shannon so i don't know i didn't realize that's why i said, I was trafficked before. And I didn't know that.

When they were saying what the meaning was, I was like, oh my God, I'm a victim of traffic.

And I didn't realize.

But I think you don't wait.

It's all on the man.

If the man will fly you out, fly there.

Just make sure you can get your ass back just in case he don't fly.

You got to be a round trip ticket. That's right but and it got to be a hotel okay you you're not gonna call you're not going to his place off the rip right no so it's got to be a hotel you got to have your own space yes you know you want to freshen up when you get there absolutely i'm getting off of a flight i want to go and be able to prepare to see do he need to pick you up or do he not have a car service to take you where you need to go? Does he need to pick you up or you need a service? Or does it matter? No, no, no, no, no.
It depends. It depends on who it is.
Okay. It honestly depends on who it is and how bad you want to see this person.
You don't want him in the airport, though. He's going to be somebody.
No, you can send a car. Okay.
No, send me a car. Okay.
You know, no, I don't expect for you to do it. Okay.
Okay. Okay.
Send me a car, have me at a place, you know, have me pull up to my place, my hotel that you got, you know what I mean? But being fluid out is kind of tricky because you got to understand, ladies, these men are not obligated to do this. This is just something that they're doing and you're

gonna pay for it too whether you're paying for it with with your body or anything else but you're paying for it and you must know that so always still at least have your funds right so you don't be stranded right because i know i know a lot of people that got flewed out and didn't want to sleep with somebody.

And for that, they didn't get flew'd back.

Hold on. You came out on

the one way not me no i know somebody that i know a lot of people you know y'all know them too but there's some people that didn't that i know that that didn't happen to you i said why would you let him fly you out and and what way but you already knew what he wanted yeah what you think when you got down there you thought you was different y'all wasn't going to see world of the brooklyn damn well he wouldn't take you to universal studios yeah come on now that's it but it is what it is what's the craziest dm you ever see receive do you read do you read do you read your dms are you probably not now not now but you used to i used to yes what it was it was crazy yeah you ever met up with somebody in your dm from your deal no no i've never i've always been too scared to do something like that i ain't gonna lie no celebrity i know some celebrities don't slid yeah yeah celebrities slid yeah they did and you and And you like, nah, I ain't everything with you. No, anything that I feel like can be used back, can be used later against me or whatever, I don't even indulge.
Like, don't play with me. And you can be my celebrity crush and I still won't even indulge.
Nah. What if he, instead of sliding your DMV, he see you out and say, you know, I got something for you.
No for you no that's different back then that would have been something i probably would partake in um but no

cheating is that someone a partner cheats is that automatically that's the end of this relationship

yeah because uh cheating is intentional you know it it's intentional especially now listen i i don't i don't care about the past um it's if it's in the beginning now right now say you get in a relationship with somebody and later on they admit to you that they were still involved with somebody when y'all became official. Okay.
But they did cut it off. Cut it off, yeah.
Shortly after y'all became official. Okay.
That's different. All right, cool.
I get it. But not no one year into the relationship.
No, hell no. No, no, no, no, no.
But it gets harder, though, Jess, when you got a kid. It does.
But no, that goes apart of knowing what you want. Why are you in a relationship if you cheat you know you gotta know what you want even if you did feel like even if you did step out you tested the waters and and that make because sometimes people cheat and they get caught and that scares them straight yeah i get it but even that's tricky yo because if you had the balls to do it, you know what I mean?

You got the balls to do it again.

Do it again.

You know what I mean?

And then I took you back.

And sometimes your kindness can be taken for weakness.

And you just, I don't know.

Is it true a fan sent you a video of somebody that you were dating cheating?

Yes.

This was.

Did you think that that might be all relationships ago?

Huh?

You. Yeah.
Yeah. This was.
Did you think that that might be altered? A couple relationships ago. Huh? You.
Yeah. Yeah.
Uh-huh. Yeah.
Mm-hmm. That was probably.
It was at the girl family cookout. What? It was at her family cookout.
I saw. I saw.
I seen a t-shirt. It was a family reunion cookout.
I said, damn. This ain't.
His family? Yeah. Yeah and and this ain't just somebody you cheating with you you're mighty comfortable with this to be going to her family function it's a family reunion that means you introducing yourself she's introducing you gotta be it's crazy so no i'm done with that no we done wow yeah what about friends where are with friends into the relationship? How much do you tell your friends about your relationship? I don't tell my friends anything about my relationship.
Hell. But you used to? Yeah, of course.
Yeah, I did. But you know what? You know, you got to be careful with doing that.
Because say if you, you know, when there's static in your relationship, you go tell them that too. And now they're looking at him like, huh? When y'all get back on good terms, you gotta go tell them no we're back on good terms nah it's too much back and forth so no i keep my love life very separate from my friends i do i tell them what they what they need to know while i'm why i'm smiling they know why i'm smiling you know know what's up.
Man, what are you on with this Neo?

Neo got like three, four girlfriends.

He do.

He do.

Listen, if it makes sense for them, it makes sense for them.

I know I put him in jest with the mess the other day, and I called three of the girls a clown.

I was like, she a clown, she a clown, she a clown.

That's because it was funny to me.

You know?

But, you know, it probably wasn't funny to them.

Right.

You know?

It was a couple of their friends was in the comments like, why they be clowns if they like it then they like do you like it for your friend yeah you know and and listen if you're taking care all three and four of them if ain't no strain on that man's bank account and and and they like it right cool that's it takes. It certainly does.
Everybody ain't cut out like that. And it take a special type of woman to deal with their life.
I'm talking about the woman. I ain't talking about the guy.
How the hell you gonna walk up and kiss me and then you kiss this person and then you kiss. I thought that only happened on Flavor Love.
Yeah, yeah. Like I didn't know like that's like a real thing but polyamory is a real thing.
Who came up with that term? Somebody who got hurt by one person and was like, I'm going to just deal with all y'all. You know, that's it.
I honestly feel like that's where polyamory came from. Somebody that got hurt.
Right. Like, I think all of these things are manmade things.
I don't think these are like this wasn't a term. You know what I'm saying? This since the beginning of time right you know this is just something that this is a a result of someone being hurt somewhere right yeah do you want more kids i do how many kids you want two i wanted i always wanted a big family i'm not gonna lie always wanted to have at least like, and listen, I wanted to have like six boys, but you know, you don't get to pick, you know, the gender of your kids.
I mean, they're trying to do that, but you don't get to do that, you know, period. So, um, but now it changed when I met Chris, I was like, I can see myself with a girl.
Like I want to have a little girl. And that'll be it.
No, I actually want about two more kids but i'm 33 right you know and i and i i'm still in my career and i'm hitting my peak and i got work to do so you're gonna put to push the kids down the road a little bit yeah yep i think i have my next kid 35 if it don't work out like that maybe 36 but i know i ain't having no way at the 40. What about marriage? You ready to get married now? Absolutely.
Christopher

is at 35 if it don't work out like that maybe 36 but i know i ain't having no more at the 40. what about marriage you ready to get married now absolutely um christopher proposed to me on christmas yes he did you cry hell yeah i cried i'm a big cry baby i'm an aquarius so we're very we're no we not we air yeah you thought aquarius because because aquarium is water.
Yeah. But we air i don't know why we we air either i thought i thought i was i thought i was water a couple years ago too but i'm air obviously so yeah y'all need me to live let me ask you this the first child you weren't this just hilarious the second child you a star you got money's coming in.
How different is it raising the second child as opposed to raising the first child with no money as opposed to having the money? Man, see, I only didn't. I didn't only not have money.
I was living in the hood. I was like lights was off.
It was a lot of things I had to endure while raising my first child, my baby boy. He's seen me through

a lot of things. But with Marley, my six month old, she is different.
It's different. You know, I have money to move the way I want to move to buy the things I want her to have.
You know, her dad has the money to buy things. You know what I mean? I have we have a nanny, you you know which we are totally blessed with because it's my fiance's mother she moved home from kuwait to help out with this baby she knew that both of our careers demanded a lot of our time and uh she came over to to she came home to to help with that you know so we take care of her too, you know, and although it is different and yes, money, we got money and everything.
You need a lot of patience to deal with children. And it may look like money is all you need to have stability in raising children.
But you need to be mentally sane. You need to have it.
You don't need to have it all together. But you need self-care, self-love.
You need to be straight before you can care for somebody else. You know what I mean? And with me having businesses.
And I'm not just Jess Hilarious. I'm not just Jess with the mess i got a lot going on right you know um i am absolutely grateful for my fiance and his mother you know what i mean for how my the village it definitely takes a village i ain't gonna lie it was a little easier being broke that's that's the easy part it was a little easier being broke but I's that's the easy part.
It was a little easier being broke. But I wouldn't change anything.

You think you you think your son notices the difference between then and now?

Yeah. Yeah.
Because he's 12. You know, he's 12 now and he's he he remembers our lights right off.
You know, he remembers having to spend all these days on the porch, you know, playing with his cars until everybody else went in the house. And then we had to go in the house.
You know, we went in the house. I was determined to not let nobody see me and my son going into a dark house.
So we waited to everybody on the block, went in their house. we went in the house we lit out candles i went to steal all them came from the dollar tree yep yep that was the perfect time to be a thief you know and um i lit candles and we would play games and stuff like that but yeah he remembers all that he knows that and and that's why he has the best of both worlds he grew up like that and then

now he gets to be he gets to stream he gets to have the latest this and latest that and while i still make him earn it because that's how my parents did i don't just give him everything he's not an entitled kid you know he still lives a great life a great life and and he knows the best of both worlds.

You had your first child at 20.

This one's at what, 32 and a half? a great life the great life and and he knows the best of both worlds you know right you had your

first child at 20 this one's at what 32 32 yes that's a big big gap i don't know who the hell i thought i would start no for real like that how different are you as a mom 20 to the 32 year old Man, very, very different.

My mom helped me raise my son uh between me and his dad we were young you know and when i took off it's just hilarious i had to do a lot of traveling i wasn't able to take ashton everywhere with me so my mom played a big role right in raising my son with me like helping me you know she she bared that you know and now it is it is different uh she what my son was living with my mother okay and then fast forward now to me having a baby i'm like look i want both of my children with me it ain't gonna make sense and it's not fair for me to have a new baby right and my first son ain't even living with me because i'm doing this and i'm doing that i'm doing no i want my children with me you know so my son is homeschooled right now uh when we live in jersey because i do breakfast club right in new york um and i i got both of my kids how did your mom take that though because she did not like it because that's how we were born i was raised by my grandparents yeah yeah and then when my grandfather died my mom and my grandma said no they're not going yeah oh man i know right so you was your grandmother's baby and that's exactly how my son was my mom was like no he I don't think you should take him up the jersey. I said, yeah, well, my it's time for me to be both to be a mom to both of my kids.
I want to be with my children. Yeah.
I don't want just my baby. I think were you thinking that? Hold on.
He might look at. Hold on.
Why did he get to go live with you? And I did. Did that thought ever cross your mind hell yeah and it is so many nights i i am i still feel guilty about it like you know and and i didn't even i feel guilty about it and it didn't even happen where i made him stay with my mom and then i i'm raising marley like no i didn't want that to happen and my son there has been times where ashton wanted to be with me and he couldn't He wanted to travel with me and he couldn't he wanted to be on a roll with me and he couldn't you know And it's like nice um for my baby to be with me both of them I want I want to wake up every day and be able to make them breakfast when I can you know Sometimes it's me.
Sometimes it's Chris. Sometimes it's um nanny.
You know, sometimes it's my daughter's grandmother. But inclusive.

I need that. That family household that I grew up in.
I want that.

I think it's true. Your pregnancy, you got an epidural.

But it wasn't the doctor that delivered, that gave you the epidural. It was a student, correct?

When I had my son. Yep.

They let a student do it and it messed me up. It messed my back up up i was having back problems up until like five years my son was five and you sue no i did not i didn't know i didn't have any education on it i wasn't informed i wasn't you know i just knew i was in pain i was in pain and i was like give me the drugs give me the epidural and he came and they had a student perform it and um the the the girl was nervous you can tell i saw her hands shaking even before she went around me to do it and i was like oh my god and it's some of the most excruciating pain you can ever experience oh that back ain't nothing yeah so i didn't do epidural i had marley natural i yep slid her right on out.
These muscles get the...

Yep.

Right.

Now, is it true that your child's father,

I mean, the second child's father is Hispanic?

Yes, he is black and Hispanic.

Yep, he is Mexican, black.

And probably some other stuff too.

Because I'm telling you,

I see more than just Mexican and black over there.

Right.

So obviously the administration has this you know deportation and things going on right back so how does he feel about that well his mom is is mexican okay as hell okay so you know i i'll you know you make jokes don't you yeah yeah yeah you know every day I come home, I knock on the door like, hey, it's ice. And she, she don't laugh, you know? Yeah.
It's just, just to bring some comic relief. I just always want to be on our toes just in case they come past and it's really them.
Right. Yeah.
But. The work-life balance.
Now, like you said, you got a lot of projects, not just the breakfast club, not just your stand-up. You got a lot of other things going on.
Yes. And your mom and your fiancé.
How is this work-life balance, mom, fiancé, businesswoman, how does Jess juggle all that? I'm still trying to, Shannon. I would be lying if i tried to if i tried to make up something i don't i don't have it all figured out it's still a balance with me um i'm still i'm still trying to figure out what that formula is so everybody can get the full time you know so my kids can get full-time mommy so my my work can get full-time just hilarious so breakfast club can get full-time jessica moore you know just hilarious just with the mess whatever you know i'm still trying to do that i gotta get up at 3 30 3 45 every morning do makeup you know what time you get to what time you get to the set 5 30 5 45 because you're going to go on at six and we are done at nine and then interviews after that.
When the Breakfast Club, when Angela Lee, Angela, he left and they had all these other people coming in and they invited you to come in. Did you want the job? Did you think you were going to get the job? Yes.
You wanted the job. I did want it.
And I knew I was going to get get it i never even thought that i didn't have it i always knew and and it wasn't because of charlamagne it wasn't because that i was so cool with envy it wasn't because you know it was the people it was the way that i uh marketed breakfast club right that whole year i, I had already treated it like it was my seat, the third seat. Like, I had already treated it like it was mine.
Even times where I knew they didn't have a host for that week. It was just going to be them two.
I'm like, yo, can I come up? Like, anybody up there? Even at times when it was, like, other people up there, I'm like, yo, like, what y'all think of idea if i come up there too like i don't want to step on anybody's toes but like this could be good like let's let's go up there me and claudia jordan we we hosted together you know me and uh kendra she's also on radio um we we did that together kendra g media we also hosted together you know so i treated it very much like my seat before it even became was officiated you co-hosted the real how did that help did that help you in the role that you got with yes I actually loved doing the real I loved all those ladies I love them you know what I mean that was a really good that was my first time ever doing daytime talk okay and I was like, oh, this is great. This is something that I really could see myself doing, you know.
And yeah, so that was good. That was a good segue into it.
When you got the job, it was announced that you got the job. Ocho and I on Nightcap was talking about it.
And I said some comments and it went viral. And I said that, you know, hey, Ocho, she nice.
She nice. And I think Charlamagne and Envy, they really tried to play it up.
So if I offended you, I want to take the time out to say I apologize. That was not my intent.
But I was just like, yeah, she's a nice looking woman. She has a nice figure, Ocho, so forth and so on.
And, oh, he's 57 years old. I mean, he was this and that.
You know, they tried they tried to play it up and so if i like i'm not in my 30s grown-ass woman but see and the thing is a lot of times people being uncomfortable only happens when the person that's saying something the other person's not attracted to them or they feel some type of way because so that's what and i didn't i don't want i don't i didn't and i don't ever want someone to feel uncomfortable with my comments no so that's why i wanted to take the time to say yeah i apologize for what i said oh no it's okay that means you got some good eyes on you that's what's all that mean you know ain't nothing with it you know what is this about uh sexy red says she don't fool with you sexy redxy Red. Why you getting on everybody's bad side? Because I'm just with the mess.
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Why you, why, does I say the same thing to you?

Why you stay up in the mansion?

I ain't nobody, I don't bother nobody.

You know I don't bother nobody.

Well, look, the thing with Sexy Bread, right?

She, she was pregnant at the time.

She was very hormonal. When she came in there, I already seen like the standoffishness that she was giving out or whatever she said just i don't deal with you just i don't deal with you why you don't deal with you and i asked i said wow i was trying to figure out for the first eight minutes of the damn interview what what the hell what what you know because i'll say things about people and i forget you know i honestly i've said so much you know i forget so she couldn't even remember it you know and i'm gonna put that on her pregnancy because i when i had pregnancy brain i couldn't remember anything so i'm like all right i get it now later on if people watch the actual first 15 minutes or 10 minutes not even you know into the interview we made up we were cool i i said some things about her she didn't like it and the reason why she didn't like it is because she did like just with the mess she was like and i like your videos too i'd laugh at you everybody cool with just with the mess until they end up in it you know and that's and and that's no shot to her because she was pregnant yeah and she was hormonal and just think about it every day you wake up you see some negativity about you online and you pregnant you know what i mean and it's like and and i've only talked about things that she put out there her brand is not it's not classy you know it's it's the total opposite right and i don't agree with everything that she does and i told her that there as well i agree with everything you do, sexy.
You know what I mean? But I have a right to an opinion like everybody else. Right.
You know what I mean? And that's just what it is. You know, so that's what it was.
And she was cool. She ended up inviting me to the baby shower and everything.
And she was cool after that. But yeah, that's what it was.
You know, the Breakfast Club checks hit different. What you did? What's your first thing you bought with that money? That money is still in my account.
That money is still. That's an account I don't touch.
Damn. Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm. Them checks hit like that? Mm-hmm.
They wasn't even trying to give me the money they gave me, but they. They had to come around.
They had to come around. So I'm like, come on, light this fire up under y'all butt.
What about the purchase? You ain't purchasing that like, okay, I'm going to get me a birkin bag or i want to get this whip i have six birkins already and that was before breakfast club six yeah those are investment bags snake skin hello play play yeah them 70 000 bags and 80 000 bags yeah that in them bags i plan to sell just in case you know they ain't all for wear what's the best gift you've ever received i know somebody bought you something my engagement ring is the best best gift that i ever you got a ring somebody gave you that and you wait that big one the one that i'm not wearing yeah uh-huh yeah why'd you give it back why the hell would i give it back it i mean somebody give you a ring it's uh it's it's like an agreement that we're something's gonna we're gonna consummate something else that was just somebody just splurging and i said okay yeah. And you can't unsplurge once you splurge.
So that's on you. Okay, what about the house though? Oh, no, no, no.
Somebody else lives in that house now. I know you rented it out.
Mm-hmm. I'm a landlord.
Thank you. That's another check.
He did that for you? He did that for you? He sure did. He sure did.
You got mystical powers, Jeff. Hello.
That's what I'm trying to tell you. That's what I'm trying to tell you that's what i'm trying to tell you chris you ain't even know you you thought you got over she got you chris i sure did i put it on him and i ain't leaving him ever since look chris be like i got her she thought she was just going keep me as a smash buddy that's about to be my wife now and i love that that's the side hello it's your favorite on shannon sharp I'm a Rose Sparks sponsor.
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And I'm sitting there worrying and wondering and I'm hitting my manager and I'm talking to Chris about him. I'm like, yo, I'm losing money.
And Chris is like, yo, that is everything that you can get back. You're sitting here complaining about everything that you can get back.
Look at your account. You're good.
Look at my account. We're good.
Like, yo, you got your family. We have children.
You're good. You still going to be just hilarious after this that's how you know this is you're

you're just one person yeah and sometimes you need to sit your ass down too so just take this as a sign like you need to slow down because i was doing a lot and it is what it is but i'm back good now you mentioned uh that the breakfast club is that they wanted to pay you x and you wanted Y and Z.

What have you learned about negotiating

your worth?

That if that they wanted to pay you x and you wanted y and z what have you learned about negotiating your worth that if you stand 10 toes down you will get it and if even if you don't even if it's not from them even if you don't get it you're you will get it you will because that's the point some people if you let somebody pay you x that's all you're gonna be worth to them in their eyes and then where it travels well if he got a for x and i can get a fat yes and then now you're x you know what i mean that that's it nah but if you from the jump from the from the very beginning demand what you're worth, that sets the tone for you, you know, and then that gives people the choice to say whether I want to I want to pay for that or if I want to invest this in her or not. Fine.
Cool. Yeah, because you're going to see a return.
So what about us when you do do you share your salary? do you share i'm not saying direct numbers but like with other women in the industry when they like do stand up and you like hey nope no i don't i don't share um because what i get i earn that i'm worth that right that may not be somebody else's work you know what i mean it may not be somebody else's worth. Oh, okay.
You know what I mean? I see what you're saying. It may not be.
Somebody may go back and be like, well, Jess got this.

So, I'm supposed to be.

Ah.

No, but see, you're not Jess.

Right.

So, that's how that happens.

Is it true you was robbed twice in Atlanta?

Absolutely.

They robbed your house or they pulled up on you?

My car.

You was Jack?

Yes.

And the guy knew me from Wildin' Out. He's like, oh, you got it yo come on yo you got it and i said all right well it's yours now i said just let me get my purse outside because they they wanted to take my car uh what type of what would you add it was the expedition like a ford expedition big black truck yeah right and i'm like all right cool i say yo uh just let me get my purse out he's like all right yeah you got that and he drove off with the car yeah did they find it yes it was actually an enterprise's car wasn't mine but they got it they got it what happened the second time stripped but they had it because that's what they do they'll steal the car and they'll strip it then they'll sell the parts real quick but they they found what was left of it you know so what happened the second time uh it was i was i was at a i was at a restaurant right with somebody and i and they broke into his car and took my purse my chanel yeah so i had to get everything back that was the first time the second time was my rental car that they took crazy i had to get the hell out you had a friend to steal from you too though i had a few people stole from me but but you gave a hundred bands was it a guy or girl that stole the money that that stole from you that you ended up giving money to a girl that was a girl y'all was cool how long how man i've been knowing these people so damn long i've been knowing uh never say her name but i i knew her since i was nine or ten what yeah yo that's what i'm telling you so y'all came up in the struggle together and she did that when i was scamming.
I was nine or ten. What? Yeah, yo.
That's what I'm telling you. So y'all came up in the struggle together and she did that? Mm-hmm.
When I was scamming, I was piecing her money. Break it off.
You know what I mean? And, you know, I, yeah. Yeah.
You ain't put no paper on her? No. I put something else on her.
Oh! There ain't no paper. Jeff, you bought that? Yeah, man.
Don't play with me like that, man. Nah, not what I'm already doing for you, man.
And you start playing around with my money like that? Nah. How do you determine? How does Jess determine her circle? Hmm.
Can anybody else get in Jess' circle? Hell no. I ain't even got a circle.
I got a circle i got a triangle got damn triangle i done got rid of so many people in the last 60 days last 60 days yes because my problem is shannon i like to put people on right and that's not even supposed to be a problem but it is a problem because you can't put everybody on because everybody ain't got the mindset to take off yo i can give you the wings but i can't fly you like you gotta fly you gotta do that you know what i mean like i i i try so hard to put all my people in and that is the problem and that's why it it is no longer a circle. It is a triangle.
Do people look at your pocket? Do people count your pockets? Because they see you, man, you got, are you in the private club? You doing all this? Yes. I know you got it.
Come on now. They try to.
Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.
I know you got it. I know you got it.
Yeah. And I want to continue to have it.
Yes. I'm going to keep, too.
Yeah, exactly. I won't have it if I keep on giving it away.
So, you know, yeah. Girls trip.
You do girl trips. Are you used to? I used to until I was the one paying for a lot of it.
I'm like, God damn. That's why I got a triangle.
What's the max number of girls that should go on a girl girl's trip is it two three four five yo to be honest with you it should be that should be very small uh that should be a five or less a little enough and i still too much that's still too much too many personalities and everybody went through different things three yeah i would say three damn yeah i would say three everybody got different everybody got different personalities you got the broke friend you know you know and my brother has a joke about this but the broke friend who you gotta pay for so she there on a scholarship yep you know what I'm saying but then she start acting like she paid her own way like hold up now yeah cause you gotta eat tonight yeah and you will be hungry if you play with me you know what i'm saying and then you know you got the other friend who just come there and she want to be the boss of everything y'all we got to wake up at this and we got the time share me in and we got it you know and then you know you got the high friend you know that always want to smoke you know you got to smoke all the time when you get there and then you got the whole friend yes who had a friend my brother always say like you got how you got a friend in belize you know you know so it is it's just like you got the two and a few you got the one that's that's not aesthetically pleasing yep and then why nobody want to talk to me yeah and then she always want to be in the front of the pictures. Get in the back.
Talking about you don't even have a vacation wig on and you just, oh my God, this your work wig. Why did you wear this to Belize? But yeah.
If you could go on a girl trip with four celebrities, who would you go with? Oh my God. Four celebrities.
Hmm. That is so crazy.
Oprah, Beyonce. Ugh.
No, I don't want. Who you going with? See, Beyonce too private.
Oprah too rich and just, no, too mighty.

No, we got to let our hair down.

Hey, Oprah.

I might go with Gayle.

Gayle seemed like she had more fun than Oprah.

I don't know.

Four celebrities.

Yo.

You ain't going with nobody.

Nope.

I will say Will Ferrell. Okay.
Funny. Yeah.
okay funny yeah so yeah you gotta keep the um lady gaga okay that's my girl that's my girl and i just feel like we could shroom together yeah okay um that's it and i know that is not ideal no for being people with people gonna be like what will ferrell lady gaga yeah i don't really want to hang out with too many people yeah y'all gonna be doing yeah yep let me ask you a question what about the hollywood parties there's been the hollywood parties have been a lot in the news lately and everybody seemed to know there are a lot of people that talk about they've been there but man shanna that didn't go on when i was there maybe that was in another room maybe that was in the house at the back but i don't know nothing about it oh that was the party from 8 to 12 and when y'all left then from 12 to 5 it was another party right you know that happens really yeah it be all types of parties and you got the early party for the regulars yeah and then the late party for the freaky deekies well how do they know who the freaky deekies are oh you know oh they the people that's pulling up when you pulling off oh y'all here for the after but okay yep do you ever worry about getting canceled no not now At first yeah when when cancel culture was first like developed or whatever when at first but no not now because what i find is when you get canceled that's more attention on you you know they they talk about you more you stay in the blogs or whatever you know so and then that's the opportunity to push whatever you got going on Right. So i don't care about that i think i was the first person to be canceled honestly and i know soldier boy shut up but i i really feel like yeah i think i was the first influencer to ever be canceled for something is there a joke you won't tell online there is many jokes i won't tell right on the stage yeah you know who you paid to see so you're gonna get that offended sitting in my damn show has anyone checked you for talking about them on just with the mess no meek mill got very upset with me um i roasted his real bad back when he couldn't dress.
He probably still can't, but he's a reformed guy. Yeah.
And I am reformed too. But no, I've never had any.
I had people unfollow me. Ain't nobody ever checked me.
The closest that anybody has ever gotten to checking me is Sexy Rick. that's when she came in and she just was like i don't have i i don't i don't rock with you like that just like yeah that that was the closest and and that didn't that wasn't even checking right but that's the closest somebody has ever come was that sexy you and me you and me taking shots at each other on social media y'all cool you good now yeah cool yeah i seen seen them um uh while on gilly had a an event last year it was like a festival right um this was right after uh cheese cheese yeah i got shot and um they had an event and gilly fest that's who it was i was yeah it was gilly fest and um i ran into meek there and his braids you know they were old and you know i did tell him that i said now come on now you got a lot more money than you had when the braids were old back then right you know he just laughed and we you know we laughed about it but yeah we made up fine i still joke about him though he he's very bullyable yeah you know he he's very belieable let me ask you this five years

from now ten years from now you sit back

in that chair and we have this

conversation where it's just hilarious

what is she doing hmm ten years from now

because just coming up in the next year

it's a lot but what I want is my own

network okay I do want my own network

Thank you. It's a lot.
But what I want is my own network. Okay.
I do want my own network. Or if it's not a network, it needs to be a channel.
You know, where I can, where content lives, like funny content, drama. Like, you know, I just want my own channel.
You know, I want to give people a chance that that are victims of geeky thing you know i want to give other people like me a chance yo it's a lot of talent out there it's a lot of people who don't have platforms that are thriving and flourishing and i see these people all the time and i'm like yo you will be good in a sitcom you will be good in a movie you will be good you know having your. You will be good, you know, having your own show, you know, so that's what I want to do.
But, you know, I want to be a household name as an author. 10 years, 5, 10, you know, from now, because I plan to I'm working on a book now.
So I plan to write more, you know, and I just, I just really want to make change in that in that regard, giving people a chance who are victims of gatekeeping. Yeah, because it's a lot of them.
Anything you want to promote? Absolutely. So I'm about to launch Messy Paws.
It's a doggy clothing airline. is going to include toys, harnesses, leashes, doggy treats, and clothes, you know, for your dogs.
I have a Frenchie. His name is Bane.
He's four years old, and I'm a dog person anyway, so I love dogs, and that's where I actually thought of the idea. The idea actually came to me in the pandemic, but it was so many other things that I was doing in the pandemic i never got to launch it so messy pause will be available um very very soon and then i am rebranding my messy vision line i have an eyewear line and i see you need some glasses because i'm getting tired of you wearing them same one shannon so i'm gonna no i got like i got like six pair oh you need 10 you need four pair messy vision so we're gonna drop the men's line soon.
I appreciate that. And, you know, I got you.
I'm going to send you some up here. And you're going to have to weigh in for an episode or two.
You had me taste the shake. Yeah.
You know, and it was smooth, you know. And you're going to like these glasses, you know.
So I'm doing the rebrand, and I'm actually looking to collaborate with some influencers to push the brand. Because glasses are not only, you know, for prescription, you know, for people to to see they're stylish and everything and uh my glasses are blue light they have the blue light feature because everybody be in their phones and a lot of people are messing up their eyes these days so my glasses they have the um the blue light and then um also uh shades are coming now so we all we have shades but we have more styles that we are dropping soon.
You know, more styles, more colors and everything like that. Also, Doctor Who, my fitness apparel line, which I also launched in the pandemic.
When everybody couldn't afford the BBLs, we had to go to the old faithful waist trainers. You know, and it's just fitness apparel, you know, compression and everything like that.
And people actually buy them and wear them as regular outfits because they're stylish and yet they they insinuate your curves and everything like that so um i have that the fitness apparel and then uh also yes i'm i'm really really happy about my book so it's it's a co-parenting book what is the book coming out it it will be out 2020 we're in we're in five oh yeah so it because child i'm i was ready to say four yeah it's coming out uh 2025 yes it's 25 now yes it is okay yep it is but we in the beginning shannon stay with me we're going the book is going to drop at the end of the year and um it's a book about uh co-parenting therapy a lot of people want to know how me and my son's dad got to the place that we are now. And it's been a stigma on baby daddies and baby mamas or whatever.
Right. Especially in our community.
Right. It's very unusual to see a baby mom and a baby daddy get along.
It's like, nah, like it be a healthy environment you know because it's it's about the kids right and um you just it's just about showing up being the best versions of yourself the best version of yourself for your child so it's it's it's in story form i tell the story from the beginning of me and rome to how we ended up where we are now and raising our son so that that's really really good that's that's gonna be a really good thing because we need it definitely in our culture we definitely need this book and it's the white people that can that can thrive from it too because I you know I'm from Baltimore City them the the the white people just like the black people down South Baltimore child they be beefing with the baby daddies and stuff you ever been to to Baltimore? I used to play for the Ravens. No.
Have you been to Baltimore? I ain't saying no. No, not.
All right. Then I know you used to play for the damn Ravens, but playing for the Ravens ain't like being in Baltimore.
I mean, you're like 10. Yeah, absolutely.
But I know that because my dad is a fan of yours. I know.
So, but you ain't been to South Baltimore down Monroe Street where all the crab spots at and all of that? Well, I mean, we used to walk to the stadium. So, that's about it.
On the pier where the ESPN zone used to be. Okay.
Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
All right, yeah. So, no, you haven't been to Baltimore.
So, that's what that is. But, yes.
So, that's what I got going on. I'm very, very happy.
And then I'm also dropping my new podcast, Reckless Discussions. And it's's also it's a continuation of my talk show that I used to have, Reckless Discussions.

It still lives on YouTube, on my channel.

And it just basically hits on uncomfortable conversations, basically like things that people don't talk about, but they want to.

Right.

And so we're going to be we're going to be relaunching that as well

but that's going to be

a podcast.

Okay.

Yeah.

So I'm actually excited

about it.

Funny Jess hilarious.

Thank you.

Appreciate y'all.

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