Deli Shivers, Chopped Liver and Ben’s Embarrassing Celebrity Text?!

Deli Shivers, Chopped Liver and Ben’s Embarrassing Celebrity Text?!

February 06, 2025 52m Episode 181

Happy Thursday Morons!! We're back with another *scrumptious* solo episode for your listening pleasure. Today, we're kicking things off by recapping Ben's dreamy night at Katz Deli, getting invited to ski in Sunny Florida, Josh's past buying dr*gs, and an embarassing text sent to friend of the pod, Chrissy D. Plus, we answer YOUR messages and guess exactly how many calories are in a Krispy Kreme donut... What are ya nuts?! 


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Benjamin, how the hell are you? Oh, I am wonderful. How are you, sir? Better now.
I went to the event of our dreams last night. I'm sorry that you weren't there because this was just, Josh, Hellman's rented out Katz's Deli.
They shut it down. Wow.
I go into Katz's, okay? First of all, unlimited pastrami sandwiches. Whoa.
Completely in a blanket it was just it was unbelievable okay all of a sudden as if this night couldn't get any better first of all let me paint the picture we're in there small group unlimited pastrami unlimited ruglach unlimited diet dr browns all the stuff okay what would be playing blink 182 oh my god They're playing Blink-182, Josh. Unbelievable.
Wow. And this, all of a sudden, I get tapped on the shoulder.
I'm like, yes. He's like, hi, I own Cats' Deli.
It's lovely to meet you. I meet the owner of Cats'.
Josh, not only is he a fan, we could go there if we want to. First of all, we can get a reserve table.
Okay. Second of all, if we want to do, I know we're thinking about doing our theme song music video in LA, but we could do it at Katz's.
Wow. Unreal.
And then the last thing that I wanted to tell you about this evening is that he told me that they do, it could be in private information, but I'll share it anyways. Upwards of 2000 orders a week, just in the mail.
Oh, I believe that all day. I've received it.
My friend, David Manheim, Dave Manheim from the Great Dopey podcast is, I think they're the head of all that for them. And he's, he's shooting out packages left and right.
This, this is a five generation business, Josh. Vaismir.
How unbelievable is that? Five gens. Send a salami to your boy in the army.
I'm going to get him to send you some stuff. This is quite the operation.
Unbelievable. And yeah, Hellman's.
Wow. Hellman's.
And you're a Hellman's. You're not a best foods man.
You've been a Hellman's king since Jump Street, right? I've been Hellman's since I made Russian dressing when I was 12. Wow.
Hellman. Hellman's has always been my brand of choice.

Now, you tell me, when you're eating said sandwich, are you only doing Russian dressing,

or are you considering a nice spicy deli mustard?

I'm really, really a big Russian guy,

but I do love a deli mustard with a little bit of mayonnaise.

I don't love the just straight mustard i need some

i need a bit of cream i need a bit of that cream filling spicy deli mustard is very good but i don't don't talk like that i need a little bit of cream and you gave me like the shivers Whoa

Oh my god

I know jazz you gave me like the shivers whoa oh my god i know jasmine's gonna use this for the first 30 second clip i want to kill myself shut out jasmine me first um okay give me your can i start uh my perfect deli order. Sit down for the table.
For the table, we're doing an order of latkes. Potato pancakes for the table.
I'm talking sour cream. I'm talking applesauce.
You know, just bites. Bites, bites, bites, bites, bites.
Then everyone's getting soup. You're not a soup person.
You're getting soup. You're either getting a mushroom barley, you're getting a

matzo ball, you're getting a kreplach,

or you're getting something in the

noodle, the chicken noodle family.

Okay? You know? How good

is mushroom barley, Josh? You

said it best. You said it's the king of soups.

It's the king of soups.

It is. It's the king of

soups. Continue.
Because this is fantastic.

You must have soup. Because you must

be sweating before the pastrami comes.

100%. You get a plate of soups.
Continue. Because this is fantastic.
You must have soup. Because you must be sweating before the pastrami comes.
100%. You get a plate of pickles.
How do we do them, Ben? You say it best. How do we want our picks? 100% sour.
100. Half sours? Take your half sours and shove them up your keister.
Keister. Then, with the the main dishes we're getting an assortment right

because what i want to what i want to happen is you get turkey you get corned beef you get pastrami you get brisket and we all go i'll take a little bit of yours i'll take a pull of yours i want to bite a brisket i want to bite a corned beef right russian dressing overflowing r Russian dressing in squirt bottles.

Right. Yes.
So it's just like. OK.
And then for the table, thick steak fries, extra, extra crispy. Come on.
What are we talking about? Unbelievable. I forgot to mention that they had unlimited thick steak fries last night.
So this Josh was it was unbelievable. And you don't realize how big how big cats deli is until you see it with all of the tables cleared out it is enormous it is enormous the owner said he had his bar mitzvah there the guy's name is jake there's a sign that says jake's bar mitzvah they threw his bar mitzvah there i have another one for you josh i don't know what it would cost our first live good doing it at Katz's.
That'd be awesome. That would be fucking sick.
I would get fucking sick. The amount of pastrami, the Ozempic forced me to only have half a sandwich last night, Josh.
Oh my God. ED.
I know. I know.
But I had two pieces of rugelach. Not rugelach.
I had two pieces of thinly sliced paprika wow this is the most jewish centric podcast on earth so good this conversation can you enjoy this podcast without being jewish i'm not sure i think so cats is beloved look you need to here's the thing if you're not jewish you just need to get with the program. Okay.
Get with the cultural references. Yes.
Okay. Do your research.
We're welcoming. We're not going to change who we are.
We might change the weather, but not ourselves. No, we're gluttonous.
We're going to get out. Oh my gosh.
Well, that sounds like a perfect New York night. It was.
It was. So that's all.
I just wanted to share that with you. So what's on the docket, Josh, for this week? What do we have to look forward to? How's Los Angeles treating you? It's pretty amazing.
I'm getting ready because my son has ski week, which is a week off from school in February. So we're going to go up to the beautiful state of vancouver canada nice or as donald trump would say america light or as donnie t calls it 51 and i i you know i couldn't be more excited we're gonna go for like six days bring my little guy up and uh my in-laws are going to come.
Hopefully I think they want to come. But, you know, I spent a year up there making the show Turner and Hooch.
And so it feels like home when I go back and I made a show there last year. Yeah, it's just it's a good it's a good time.
I wish I could take you around. And let me tell you, the eating, the amount of Southeast Asian food that I'm about to just plow down my throat i'm talking indian i'm talking taiwanese i'm just gonna be in heaven babe it reminds me josh we both cannot go but we were invited on quite the ski trip yes i think we should talk about this because we were invited was it sonos shout out sonos invited.
We were, I think. Okay.
We were invited. No? Olivia's behind the monitor.
Or was it one of those emails where they were trying to understand if we would be interested? Olivia's like, are your names Claudia and Jackie? We were invited. We were invited to the Italian Alps.
The Dolomites. Who who even knew i didn't even know that there was a mountain that you could ski on in italy right we dodged a bullet honestly we would have gotten there and we would have been imprisoned this is a fake trip oh for sure we're we're inviting you is skiing sunny florida i'm in in.
Yeah. Never seen again.
But Vancouver, Vancouver. Does Paige ski? She has skied before, but she's not a big skier.
Her mother is, though, and she has requested that we spend a day in Whistler, which is about an hour 15 from Vancouver. So it's an easy drive and spectacular.
Now, does she bring her own skis? No, she's a renter. She's a full renter.
No, bringing her own helmet, goggles, etc. She's a renter.
I would imagine so. Yeah, I mean, unless she's been hiding a helmet from me.
Yeah, I've never understood these people that bring these skis. I get it if you're like an Olympian, of course.
But the people that own sk just rent them it's so it's just such a schlep and by the way if you're skiing skiing is a rich man's sport if you're trying to pinch pennies skiing by buying skis once you don't have to rent every time you're in the wrong field sure well but i do understand right like for instance i took my son ice skating and I love ice skating, but I don't own, like, I like hockey and stuff like this, but I don't own a pair of skates. And so I use the rentals and they're garbage.
Like what I would have done to have my own skates, but I just feel weird with them, you know, around my neck, walking in like Charlie Conway, Mighty Duck 7. I'm getting you skates.
That's skates that's your next birthday present no don't power's hooking me up shout out shout out power what size shoe are you an eight and a half how dare you i'm a size 11 very wide i have a splayed foot it's like a duck foot that's especially honestly honestly as i was talking about not eating my own skis i've never found a pair of ski boots that fit this wide foot of course not so uncomfortable so honestly i'm the person who needs them jews need ski boots we should not be skiing our people don't come from these places we're sand people we're people from you know we're we are desert people we are we are this is why we do so well in miami why we do well in palm springs like this is it no i'm kidding our feet were not meant to be put in these binders that's what it really is to ice skates they're binding your feet it's too tight that said i love skating. You ever go to Walman Rink? Well, I broke my arm at Walman Rink.
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It is still. Fun fact.
I think so. What if Trump came out and was like, the presidency's nice.
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Yeah, no, skiing is, I wound up skiing for the first time in my life when I was doing this charity thing and it was Microsoft sponsored it and it was this really beautiful thing with the Special Olympics. So this girl is teaching me how to ski.
And I was like, I'm like 32. And this is not the time to pick up skiing.
Because immediately I was like, this is so. Wait, it was for the Special Olympics or you were being taught to ski by somebody that was a Special Olympian? Both.
Okay. Both.
Shout out. She was damn good too.
She kicked my ass. out she was damn good too she kicked my ass she was like what what are you so afraid of and i'm like everything like i've had orthopedic surgery before i tore my pec off of my arm like i know what can happen if i twist a knee and it's it was over i didn't enjoy it oh i.
Do you ski? Yeah, I ski. Really? I ski and I can ski.
Yeah. I'll get up to the blues.
That's what I like to do. I've done a black.
I've done these moguls. They're too scary.
I just don't have any interest in being full of fear. I like light adrenaline for sure, but I'm not, I'm not an adrenaline junkie like that.
I would never jump out of a plane. I'd never like, that's not, that's not what does it for me.
A nice pastrami sandwich. That's what does it for me, but not this going steep thinking I'm going to die going so fast.
I like, I like going, I go like going fast, but not so fast, you know, but I ski, I ski. I love it.
I love just like the feeling of being free. That's one thing that you really do feel when you're skiing and on the mountain.
You can't possibly access your phone. There's nobody around you.
It's you and the slopes. Yeah.
Like I like getting my adrenaline rush from like buying drugs in bad neighborhoods. You know? Yeah.
Like bring the adrenaline here. You don't have to travel for that just go to your local bad neighborhood look for someone shifty name like i don't know spider mike shout out and you know and see the wares and then you know and it's a mission right because it's like you got to get it from them you got to hope that there's not going to be like you know someone's going to break down the door and there's going to be a raid and then you're going to get home and not die while doing it.
It's a whole thing. It's fine.
The best is you text them. They come and you're expected to get in their car.
You're immediately filled with adrenaline before it even starts. That's a New York thing.
That's a New York thing. Is it? Oh, yeah.
I did that in New York when I was 20 years old. I remember distinctly being surrounded by four guys in a town car I should not have been in and thinking this could be it for me.
Honestly, it's completely I'm happy that you brought up that it's a New York thing. It's so common practice.
Like there was a time where like I would I would pick up some weed. I wasn't necessarily a smoker, but, you know, people are coming over.
It was something that i would do i've been in at least at least 20 2001 toyota camry's yeah without question or a nissan ultima or a nissan ultima yeah you get in they're blasting music it reeks and you're like are you not afraid of the cops they hand you the stuff you hand them your 20 and you go on your way i I didn't that was a new york thing yeah that's really much scarier so in los angeles you have to go to their house yeah usually or they'll come to your house the going to their house would freak me out them coming to my i don't know why god them coming to my house is less scary oh i know why because i guess so because the dea is probably not outside of your house but it's definitely outside of their house and it's just are you is it going to be we i had friends growing up in north hollywood like guys who you know they were addicts and it was almost like you were always rolling the dice and you knew eventually like your number was going to come up like you'd be like ah Philip got picked up and like you know usually for a guy like that you know a buddy of mine who's like unfortunately very addicted and is going to go spend 50 or 100 bucks buying like he'd get out the same day right with like a notice to appear in court but I just would never want to be in that position that's really scary really scary

yeah dude i don't know but i have another story i remember once i i'll never forget how lucky i was i remember i went to go pick something up from this guy's house and he was like a nice guy he played world of warcraft totally nerdy guy and i'm like you do not belong in this world but he was he was reliable and then I remember my buddy had called me and was like yo like I'm eating around the corner like why don't we go get a bite so I went to go meet him and I just like walked to go meet my friend because it was like a block and a half away and then as I was walking back to go get my car I see that the building where the guy lived is surrounded by police and tape and a guy is getting brought out on a gurney from being stabbed and then and then next is my world of warcraft buddy coming out in handcuffs apparently what had happened was when i left a guy showed up and tried to break down the door to like rob this kid and he took out a knife and stabbed him and he went to jail the guy was you know didn't seem that serious but yeah it was close it was close my god the only look the world of warcraft guy i just want you to know would have protected you too you would have been on his side you wouldn't have gotten stabbed you would have been protected by him. I always paid on time.
Yeah. He was your friend.
Yeah. Well, we should go see him.
We should have him on the podcast. You think he listens? I don't remember his name, but I'm glad.
All those people got deleted from my phone February 15th, 2008. By court order.
No, I'm kidding. By that, I mean my mother was like, I can't take this anymore.
Ay-yi-yi. I mean, it's so funny because, you know, God willing, it'll be 17 years sober on the 15th in February.
And, you know, because it's the 15th, people always ask like, oh, like what happened on Valentine's Day? I was just about to say, what happened on Valentine's Day? People think I got my heart so broken that I was like, I need to get sober. And I'm like, dog, if you think that I was in any position to be anyone's Valentine the day before I got sober, you're tripping.
It just so happens that that was the day. But it was a couple wild years.
I was still fun. I think you just, my friend once said it best.
He was like, you know, Josh was still there. You just felt bad for him.
And I was like, thanks. Yeah.
Well, don't, don't, don't give me applause. I appreciate it.
It's like when people talk, I sometimes say this. It's pretty fucking cool.
Honestly, we were talking about it on the episode with Kid David, just like you mentioned that his father gave you some wisdom about what a bar mitzvah is, right? And how bar mitzvah is, you know, they might not make much sense, but if you're able to get through it, it's something that you really like you have forever. forever and like i know that i am like the opposite of real like when i say that i keep kosher i don't keep kosher i do my best right josh you know this i wish i could i wish i could but at the same time sobriety is almost like your version of kosher i know that you have to do it but it's i'm getting there with some i'm getting somewhere with this.
We're with you. Olivia, you on board? I'm all in.
It's this idea that you have something that is constantly guiding the best version of yourself, and I think that's so awesome. That's all.
Thank you. I appreciate it.
I've seen guys lament aboutety, you know, lament about the trials and tribulations and the challenges that life presents in sobriety. And I always want to tell them like, oh no, like getting sober didn't guarantee it was all going to be like sunshine and lollipops.
I'm like, what we got is a ticket to life, right? Like on life's terms. Before that, we weren't even playing, you know, playing the game because we were too caught up.
But like now we get to actually live life like every other human and, you know, experience the highs, experience the lows, everywhere in between. But that's the gift is the ability to feel all of it.
And I don't mean to like sound like a boomer but i think everybody's addicted to tiktok i'm definitely addicted to tiktok yeah and i have to say i think that it would do me a lot of good if i could somehow delete that fucking app because it really is just like you talking about missing i'm missing two hours a night wow i get it every single night i'm missing two hours a night now perhaps that will change with a child i'm not going to be on tiktok with a baby yes you will it won't change eventually but not like it not in the beginning within a week and someone with two kids and a third on the way i love you but like but like i just it's a good tool dude like you'll get up in the middle of the night and you will be so dead dog tired and you'll have that beautiful tatala in your arms and you'll be feeding him because you're a wonderful attentive husband and that light from the screen blasts your face and suddenly you're not so tired you're like this sucks but this algorithm is incredible i just it's so good and it just keeps me there and it knows what i need but i just like i wish i could just read a book but i can't i don't want to it's so funny because now that i and by the way i don't mean to trivialize your sobriety by relating it to me being addicted to tiktok no i get it look now that i've upgraded to my new samsung s25 ultra with a stylus but because i upgraded to a new phone recently i can't if you have a phone, you can't download the TikTok app. Oh, yes.
So I'm not, I have TikTok on my old phone. So like if I go home and it's on Wi-Fi, I can kind of look at it, but I can't just be constantly scrolling while I'm walking around or whatever.
And I miss it. I do miss it.
That algo is good stuff. It's fire.
Olivia, you like this TikTok. You like this fine app.
The algorithm is so good. It's so weird.
The randomized nature of it, it's like the dopamine hit you get from that is like no other. It is dangerous.
It's so good. It's beautiful.
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This Gracie Abrams, Josh. Unbelievable.
Unbelievable. You brought her up when we had the great Matt Matthews on the show because he was talking about how in love with Chapel Rhone he was.
And you were like, you think that's good. How about Gracie Abrams? And he was like, never heard of her.
And you said, okay. She is unbelievable.
Yeah. Unbelievable.
Hard pivot here, but I have a story for you, Josh. Wait, I do want to hear the story, but may I ask one more thing? Yes, you may.
I listened to the Great Pivot podcast with Kara Swisher and Scott Galloway, and they were saying that, and I hadn't thought of this in the moment, but they basically said, look, the government can't agree on lunch, but this bill that was enacted six months ago was agreed upon by like 70 plus senators, 350 plus Congress people. It was, you know, ratified by the president.
like all of these things came together a bipartisan bill to ban tiktok and then at the 25th hour when it was time to do it we blinked right like it was put up or shut up and we said you can have an extension and i'm sure it was sort of exacerbated by having six months of this app to feed us all these videos of like, can you believe it's going away? This isn't fair. Totally.
So, you know, they basically and this was Scott got a quote from Scott Galloway. He said, it makes us look unserious that when we make a decision, when it really comes down to things, we blinked.
What do you think? I agree. I agree.
And but it also it is strange that we were all as a country aware of how much time we had. Like

it 100% should have been private information that there were six months because if one day

the app just went away, sure, there would be some hysteria. But you're 1000% right that the

lead up and the build up and the time of your life Green Day style videos of looking at TikTok

God bless you. area, but you're a thousand percent right that the lead up and the build up and the time of your life Green Day style videos of looking at TikTok at a glance, like it made it all too real and very

sad. And then it pivoted to everybody's making so much money.
You're taking away people's money,

the creators and all this stuff. And yeah, no, it the way the whole thing was incredibly poorly

executed.

And I agree it makes us look incredibly weak. What can you do? Okay, pivot.
Hard pivot. Okay.
I had a very, very embarrassing moment this week, Josh. Good.
Very embarrassing. Yes.
With our good friend, Chris DiStefano. Oh, no.
Oh, boy. Ouch.
so he he posted a tiktok or he posted a video on instagram a reel and it was of his stand-up which is super funny and in his stand-up he's talking about his father in the past tense he's like yeah my dad did my dad was past tense okay and i look in the comments and i'm like people are writing like

i didn't know your dad died so i i reached out to him and i i was like you know like i didn't see you talk about it but i'm really sorry if you're if your dad died like that sucks here for you to which he wrote back dude my dad's alive so good

so good

and so like

am I an asshole

or He wrote back, dude, my dad's alive.

So good.

So good. And so like, am I an asshole?

Or I'm like, I had to say something.

I can't just go by and see that like a friend's father could have passed and not say anything.

Right?

Here's my question.

I don't consider Chris DeStefano a friend.

Light friend. And I introduced you guys.
Light how close are you we exchange one dm every two months that's right like i like friend i listened to the great history hyenas podcast with janice papis and chris de stefano it's so good and i heard chris talk about that he was finally getting married officially to basically his wife, but the mother of his kids, his wonderful longtime girlfriend, Jasmine. So I text him, you know, Mazel Babe, like on the nuptials.
That's awesome. And he was like, thanks, dear.
But like, that was it. Because I also, I've tried to be friendly with comedians that we've had on the pod before.
They're not very reciprocal. So basically, you're saying that next time, I just should pretend that I didn't hear anything.
I wonder, do you think you really felt that? Or was it your desire to have more intimacy with Chris, to be closer? I am 1000% sure that it was because I thought maybe his dad died. But now that I'm thinking about it, he was very strange of me.
I'm very embarrassed by this story. I should not have reached out to him.
Hold on. Let me just check one thing really quick on the embarrassment scale.
Check. Okay.
Got my stylus out. Well, while we leave, I'm going to check and make sure he still follows me on Instagram.
I'd say it's 50-50. Yeah, it's a tight rope that we walk with celebrities, quasi-celebrities, versions of celebrity.
Because it is. You just, you never know like who.
That's like the thing too with like, and I know I talk about it. Oh no, did I scratch my ultra? It's such a must be ultra.
Hold on, let me give a kiss to the stylist.

you know the thing about it is is like that's why i always say like my relationship with john stamos that we're actually like real friends and i can depend on him and i hope he can depend on me

like is mind-blowing because that should never have happened only because you don't meet people

that are like famous and well-known like that and have lasting things it's so rare so rare right fuck fumbled it's fine come on let's hard pivot to something else yeah let's hard piv baby okay I was thinking about day. Recently, I was, you know, me, I'm the donut king over here.
I love a good donut. I could just, I get about four or five and then I eat about a quarter to a half of each.
So to me, I'm like, that's not crazy. It's like total, maybe two, 2.5 donuts in total.
It's a little bit of an indulgence and I get to like, I get to try, I get to test, I get to sample. So I recently went into

a donut store that I love and I guess that they, because they had opened up enough chains, now they

have to display the calorie content of said donuts. I'm just going to, first of all, I got a chart for

Dunkin' and Krispy Kreme donuts. So I thought it could be fun to guess the calories of Dunkin'

and Krispy Kreme donuts. I will just say at the donut store that I was at, take a wild guess for what the apple fritter, the brick of donuts, take a wild guess what the calorie count is on that honker.
I think that the, and we're talking about a regular size donut. We're talking about a fritter.
We're talking about a fritter. A fritter.
Okay. So a fritter obviously has some like cinnamon apple chunks in it, but it's probably covered

in some type of vanilla glaze.

Of course.

If they did it right.

And the whole thing is deep fried.

I'm going 375.

Okay.

We're talking an apple fritter, which are usually quite big.

Like they're usually like the size of two donuts.

And it's the whole thing.

First of all, I'm upset that you're this far away from understanding what an apple fritter is. Fine, 750.
If it's double. I was thinking it's smaller.
750. It was 990.
You know what? The problem is crispy. Somebody once told me that a Krispy Kreme donut is 250 calories.
I thought that was light. Were they lying to me? No.
So this was not Krispy Kreme, but let's go there. Okay.

Let's guess the calorie count.

Olivia, feel free to play.

The calorie count on a Krispy Kreme regular glaze.

A Krispy Kreme regular glaze.

I think a Krispy Kreme regular glaze from what I've been told is 250.

But that sounds light.

Olivia?

I'm going to go 325.

You're both wrong. 190.
Yeah, see? Yeah, 190. I don't believe it, Josh.
Oh, I do. It's so light.
It's a pillow. It's so good.
Oh, my God. Listen, those, if you didn't have six, you're like, it's child's play.
So good. Oh, my God.
You microwave it for 11 seconds. You just black out and think about i can't believe that you live your father i mean what you you've brought donuts home donuts never make it to my house by the time i literally i'll get a box of 12 i'll eat eight of them walking and throw away the other four in disgust totally okay they don't make it home with me.
What do we think a chocolate iced Dunkin' Donuts donut is?

Calories on that.

225.

225 for a Dunkin' Chocolate Iced.

Olivia.

250.

It's 270.

Coming in at a 270.

Okay.

All right.

Jelly filled.

Jelly filled at Krispy Kreme. 425 crispy cream 425 gonna say 430 270 at crispy what what kind of jelly are they using it's light babe jelly is so caloric we're talking we're putting an investigation in a crispy cream.
A coffee roll slash cinnamon bun at Dunkin'.

Coffee roll slash cinnamon bun.

Like a Cinnabon, like a swirl?

Mm-hmm.

$3.50.

Hmm, Olivia?

$4.45.

$3.90.

Right in the middle, guys.

Okay.

Is this our new game show?

Instead of the price is right, the calorie is right?

I love it.

Yes.

I love it. And you don't win a showcase just you get to eat whatever you want okay how about just a glazed donut hole the little munchkins the little pop-ums 50.
55 70 calories for one and you gotta pop five minutes okay okay Now I'm calling bullshit on the whole thing, okay?

75 for a donut hole, Josh.

70.

How many donut holes make up a donut?

I would say three to four.

Three to four.

One, two, three, four, five, six, six.

I think at least eight.

You're nuts.

I don't trust your bargaining at all.

One, two, three, four, 5, 6, 7, 8.

You're crazy.

That's so not true.

It's probably not true.

We could do Chick-fil-A.

You want to do Chick-fil-A?

Sure.

Okay.

Or should we save Chick-fil-A for next week?

We'll do one.

Save Chick-fil-A.

We're saving Chick-fil-A.

Let's get to a story real quick and then we'll get to-

Wait, do you have info on the Boston cream? That's really what I wanted to know yes are you kidding me i'm happy to share boston cream coming at you what do you think the calories are on the boston cream 600 525 the boston cream's coming in at 370 no no no josh it is creamy. This is the second time you've brought up cream on this episode and I'm over it.
It's so creamy. But these are, remember, these are Dunkin' and Krispy Kreme.
This isn't like your local donut shop that like, is giving out big honkers. Imagine sticking your dick in a Boston cream.
Yes. I'll call that a Boston bombing.
Am I right? No, I'm kidding. Oh my God.
Jesus Christ. Disgusting.
It's so bad. Bad boy.
Well, did you know that Kenan Thompson reacts to Pete Davidson's SNL low salary reveal? You got to pay your dues. So I guess Pete Davidson was asked what he did with his first check.
And he was like, what do you mean? SNL, we get paid like three grand a week. I think I bought dinner.
And Kenan Thompson said, you got to pay your dues. What do we think about that? I think that Kenan has had a very long career because he clearly is very good at playing the game.
It would seem. It seems like he doesn't like to, which I totally respect.
Why would you want to upset the network? His life is cushy. It's not worth responding to this stuff in any other way if you value your job.
I think it's a smart play. What do you think? I mean, I think there is a nature.
I'm not that they're ever looking for good old jpec but the SNL thing has never appealed to me like I I just I think people not only love the show because obviously it's had some brilliant things over the last 50 years but it as an institution the idea of how do you are you aware of what the audition process is no tell me so for SNL you send in a tape, a six minute tape, three impressions and three characters. So any three characters that you've like basically created.
And you can also send in a writing packet. And from that, they then decide whether or not they're going to bring you to New York.
So you show up to 30 Rock and you get sat in a waiting room and they basically tell you you're going to go in

onto the stage at 30 Rock where they say like live from New York it's Saturday night like the place dead center and whomever the head writer is and the rest of the writers so you know Colin Jost and Michael Che and a couple other writers and Lauren are going to be in the audience do not expect them to laugh. Don't talk to them.
Don't react if it's quiet. Just do your thing.
So you go up and you perform your six minutes and you leave. And what happens from there is you wait to hear.
And then what happens is that they call you and they go, Lauren wants to see you. And they might give you the job.
They might not still. And I've heard it can last from anywhere to 30 minutes to hours where lauren keeps you waiting in the waiting room of his office to just kind of see if you have like enough you know if your desire is enough that you're willing to like sit around for a while too much control interesting right very interesting very fascinating i mean i'm not look i'll never do anything as spectacular as what they've done with that show and what Lauren's achieved.
So I don't want to criticize it. It does seem odd to me.
I don't know why you'd have to do it, but you know what? He wants to see what you're worth. And I feel like they didn't do that.
Maybe they did. They always do that.
Or do you think that's like newer? Like old SNL was obviously way better. Everybody says that the characters were better.
The actors were better. Like no shade besides Keenan, who I love.
And Pete was good for sure. But like other than that, honestly, I turn on us.
If I if I ever turn on SNL, it's to watch Keenan and Weekend Update. Sure.
Otherwise, I don't care about any of these other people. And I just wonder if that's because of the process you just outlined that maybe it's not producing the best talent because the funniest people are not fucking waiting three hours for something.
They're not. No, they are.
Look, clearly there's brilliant people that have come from it recently. Bill Hader.
And I mean, I think recent. Sorry.
I you but i don't know bill hater was on snl i'm just saying like every decade you have you know four or five that really crush it so anyway yeah it's just like an interesting process so i get it i think like you know you want to have the name you want to be a part of this thing and if you get paid three grand a week and after taxes and representation you're clearing 1200 bucks what can you do visibility it helps launch a career i just want to go on record i would take it yes the same here should we get to i don't know what i would do but i would take it yeah let's listen to a speak pipe and then what are you nuts oh i love it love it okay this first speak pipe if you want to leave us a question, get some advice, and don't give us your What Are You Nuts, it's probably not great. Go to SpeakPipe.com slash goodguys.
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Let's hear from Rachel from South Jersey. Hi, Josh and Ben.
I'm a moron, I guess. Whatever.
I hate saying that. But I listen to to you guys every week and it always puts a smile on my face and yeah so I just wanted to tell you guys about a dating app experience that I've had maybe share some advice to any guys listening who are on the apps so I've been seeing this guy he said he was 5'8 on his profile and it came up in conversation and he again He said he was 5'8 on his profile.
And it came up in conversation. And he, again, referenced that he was 5'8.
And a few dates later, he helped me put up this closet thing for my new apartment. And he was the same height as a piece of furniture.
So when he left, I looked up how tall the piece of furniture was. And the measurement said that the piece of furniture was 5'6".
It was an end table. Anyway, it's really weird to lie.
It's awkward to lie. We're 28 and I just thought that we were past all that.
But, you know, maybe one day I will find my tall Jewish man, the HBHBH,

and we'll have a beautiful family.

So anyway, my advice here is just don't lie about your height.

Why people insist on lying, that would be great too.

Okay, bye guys.

I don't know what's more.

It's far more nuts that you looked up the height of furniture that you thought was the same height as your boyfriend

and came to the conclusion that he was exactly 5'6".

Nobody's the exact height of a dresser.

Thank you. easy and secure and they wish that they were taller you're with a five six guy i'm not going to judge but by the sounds of you you're probably five foot so what's the problem totally right but it's taller than you he's your tall jewish king would he be mine no he'd be a squeak but to each their own listen ben and i we throw them into a ceiling fan because we're full grown this squeak you know we toss them around a little bit throw them around in the pool i was taking a five six jewish man and be like here ben you hold him olivia what is it with men in height and it's insecure for us but i also think it really does matter to a lot of women it definitely does matter to a lot lot of girls.
And I think that that is unfortunate. I can say for one, Ethan is a tall king.
He's over six foot, shout out. A glass of water.
I just, I feel bad for the short kings. There's plenty of- Midgets.
I feel bad. I think it's an unfair stigma to hold, but also don't lie about it.
Like if you own it and you're short, I think like that is much more respectable and like cool because the confidence will read versus if you're like lying about it. That is just like a major turnoff, I think to anybody.
By the way, two inches, though, is within your right to lie, I think. I agree.
He didn't say that he was six foot. 5'8 and 5'6.
My dad's been walking around. On his driver's license, it says 5'10.
This man is no taller than 5'7. Well, he just had scoliosis surgery.
Actually, now, it's a good question. Maybe he is taller now i haven't i haven't measured him post spinal reconstruction so perhaps he's gained a couple inches you're right but you know what i think it is is that we all we want our level of attractiveness to be for the table and by that i mean we want it to be for everyone yes we don't want to be fetishized and so there's certainly people who are into shorter guys or shorter girls or whatever but like you don't want to be like oh I'm attractive to one people and their thing their kink their you know whatever you want to feel like oh in most scenarios someone would find me traditionally nice looking so I get that and I under you know it's such a guy thing because like i'm six feet and by that i mean i'm 5 11 we all round up and it was which is definitely average a little above average if most guys are 5 10 you're tall but i remember we went to see the great Joey Comasta and Pat at Out and About.
And they are like, between Joey, Pat, and Ben, it was like, you know, a basketball team at the, you know, at the LGBTQ center. No.
At the YMCA. Yes.
It was incredible. But, you know, Pat is like 6'7".
Joey's 6'4". You're 6'2".
Joey's pretty tall, no? Yeah, but there's no way Pat's 6'7". He's a big kid.
He's a tall kid. I don't remember him being 6'7".
He's like Baron adjacent. Big body Baron.
I think Pat actually is 6'4". I think Joey is 6'2".
And I'm 6'1". You're like 6'2", too.
And I remember there was a photo of all

of us, and I looked like the squeak, and I

didn't like it. I did not

like it. It rubbed me the wrong way.

Who's 6'7"? Brian Kelly

is 6'7". At least.
He's

a big kid. He's

huge. Yeah, big kid.

So jealous. Handsome kid.
Oh, yeah.

Number one. Love him.
Shout out his

new book, which by the time this comes out, it'll be out. We're going to have him on the show.
We're going to promote it. Get Brian Kelly, the points guy.
Shop it. Shop it.
Should we get to our What Are You Nuts? Yes. Oh my God.
Our What Are You Nuts moment of the week is our gripes with people, places, and things. Go, Ben.
Go. Yeah.
I have a What Are You Nuts from this week. So I get a call from my dad.
I'm on a work call. So I don't pick up.
I get another call from my dad. I text him on the side.
I'm like, on a call, I'll call you right back. I get a third call.
So by the third call, I'm thinking, okay, there's a problem. Three straight calls.
And look, my dad is known to call me frequently and nothing is ever a problem, but you got to pick up the third call just in case, right? So I pick up the third call and he says, Ben, I have a huge problem. Like, what's wrong? Are you OK? He's like, I'm OK.
I've been looking everywhere for somewhere that I can order your mother a half a pound of chopped liver. Can you please help me go on one of the apps or this? Dad, what are you nuts? Three straight calls for me to Uber eats you a half a pound of chopped liver are you crazy like i just like you this is not this isn't right and mom stop ordering chopped liver like it's too much so good it's too much oh i know but like my mom she'll like show up at the movies i'm like whose cat died she's like they're eating her chopped liver you can't bring chopped liver to the movies yeah she'll bring chopped liver anywhere that is unacceptable she'll bring chopped liver anywhere all like can you imagine you're trying to watch wicked and you're like do you smell pate? and you know she's eating it with crunchy pita chips it's awful god bless her she'll have a little container of like half a pound of liver and like a couple of pieces of rolled up deli meat and a Ziploc it's a Jewish cliff bar and she'll just alternate in the movie oh my god well my my what are you nuts is i was watching a video the other day for a plastic surgeon and he was like you know i'm so into the work into the artistry of the nose job and how perfectly i want the nose like i don't think about it i don't i don't't even know how much we charge for them.
To be honest, I just care about making the perfect nose. What are you nuts? Of course, you know how much you charge for them.
Plastic surgeons in general have a hustle where they never talk money and then they leave. And then the head of their office comes in and goes, that'll be 50 K, right? It's the same reason why we have agents and managers.
They're the middlemen so that they can be the tough guys for the artist. But like, what are you nuts? You know, you set the prices.
You just wanted to seem all weird and artsy fart. Give me a break.
What are you nuts? Nuts. Nuts.
Absolutely nuts. Okay? We know you're in this for the money.
Yes. That's why you're a plastic surgeon.
You're in money for the cash for the moolah oh and by the way just side note do you ever wear viore am i what'd you say do you ever wear viore do i have a roviuri i can't hear you the athleisure wear viore you know it for whatever your mic is going in and out I cannot hear you okay just send the show god damn it anyway this is a viori shirt and i love it thank you viori and i'll get you some too ben goodbye viori the shirt yes in the end i would love one i got it love it love it i got you this episode folks if not five stars what are you nuts listen to us on spotify apple wherever

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