Friendship Breakups, Recession Bush & Cowboy Romance

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Geez, you walked 13 miles out of Bakery Corral?

Yeah, because all of a sudden, like, we'd already done like 10 miles, and she's like, we have to get this cupcake that was three miles away.

Olivia, what you walking 13 miles for?

I know.

What?

Smash burger.

What am I walking for?

Yeah, what are you walking 13 miles for?

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I am one of your hosts, Alona Marr.

And I'm another one of your hosts, Olivia Marr.

And I'm the other host, Adriana Marr.

Coming up on today's episode of House of Marr, we are talking recession bush, birds, and best friends.

We're also diving into a few perfect tens, so stay tuned.

Let's get right into things.

Let's touch some grass.

And I think there's some people out there that should really go find some earth to touch because Sydney Sweeney, bless her heart, is selling her bathwater in bars of soap.

Have you seen this?

Selling her bathwater in bars of soap?

Yeah, there's like drops of her bathwater, I'm pretty sure, into a

product of a brand that she's been working with.

And how are they proving that?

Right.

Keep going, though.

Right.

But here's my thing.

I'm not judging Sydney, right?

I'm judging the people that are maybe going to buy it because, like, that's genius.

That's that's like good on her.

How much is she selling these bars for?

Do we know?

They are $8 a pop for these bars of soap.

And because I now know like what happens behind the scenes of like a marketing campaign like this or how things get made, did she get in a tub like fully clothed?

How are we proving this?

Like, how do we know that her bathwater is in there?

So she's doing this with like a soap brand that she's been working with.

Yeah.

And

you can buy this for eight bucks they've put a few drops in

okay so my question is would you ever do this alona yeah yeah you're not doing it that was a quick answer you wouldn't let me do that no you're not doing that why not

yeah i think i saw somewhere where like people were like you know feeling like it wasn't a very feminist move of her interesting but is feminism not also letting women do exactly what they want And profiting.

Yeah, and she's profiting off.

And supporting them.

Oh, and yeah, profiting off of men.

Is that not a key feminist ideal?

Yeah.

Indiana?

I'm letting them with no.

I don't know if selling your bathwater in soap is particularly

pushing feminism forward.

My biggest question is, what does the FTC and the FDA have to say about this?

Because is it even sanitary to include this bathwater?

I mean, it's a few drops.

How can you prove that she are they proving that she's in it or is it like

false advertising?

I'm all about a woman making a buck.

I bet bet they could just like say it's Sidney Sweeney's bathwater if she just like dips a finger in.

Oh, you know, so right, like legally, all sorts of little things.

I bet it's just something like, uh, for it to legally be your bathwater, you have to have submerged this percentage of your body.

Yes, some lawyer somewhere is like, what the hell is my job now?

Right.

Huh.

Well, I mean, there's always people in my DMs who are like, they want my

undergarments, dirty undergarments,

they want, you know, they want sweats, they want sports bras, they want all sorts of weird stuff.

And there is money to be made in it.

Right.

I don't, I don't judge.

No, no.

I don't judge.

I think.

I judge a little bit.

I judge people buying it a little bit.

I judge people buying it.

Oh, heavy.

Why are you into that?

Doesn't he?

Did you make a kink shamer, though?

Does that make you a kink shamer?

Yeah.

For judging that.

You know what?

I think that this is an acceptable time to

shame.

Remember that vine?

You can't kink shame me.

It's like kink shaming is my kink.

Wow.

What do you do?

You know, this kind of reminds me of those like loke, loci bracelets, where it was like

the water from

the deep sea, and then it was like soil from Everest or something.

And I'm like, everyone would cut into the water side, and they're like, I don't think there's any water in there.

And I'm like, is this actually just really soap?

Yeah.

With no bathwater.

Is this the new bracelet?

Interesting, the new loci bracelet.

Locali bracelet.

I mean, Sydney, sweetie, girly, get your bag.

And it gets men to take a shower.

Hey,

we thought about that.

Huge.

Thank you, Sydney.

The mind.

Hey, thank you, Sydney.

I will say the mind power of men to like

get this bar of soap and just be like, this is Sydney, Sweeney.

Like,

I have a pretty good imagination, but I wouldn't be able to imagine that.

No.

She also worked with some other brands, too, where I think she, in a way, uses her, the way that she's being sexualized so much to profit off of her.

Absolutely.

People are going to sexualize her.

She's like, okay, fine.

Might as well make a

bit.

Yeah.

I just happen to be very hot.

It's going to be my body either way.

So Olivia, you could do it if you got your tits out more.

Again.

Fuck.

It's coming.

I've already started boobs talk.

The drinking game starts again.

Take a sip, everyone.

Take a sip.

We said tits.

Early, too.

Early on.

Early and touch grass.

Oh, my gosh.

Olivia recently posted a video.

And what comment did you get?

Yes, yeah.

So I was popping off of my content in Miami.

We know this.

Hopefully we saw it.

I was feeling myself.

I was putting a little bit more out there than I normally do.

Content and body.

Content and body.

And I think you could say there were, I was thirst trapping to a certain degree.

Yes.

No?

Do you agree?

That words do that trapped.

It's all the time.

You do it all the time.

So it's just.

I thirst trapped to my ladies.

Yeah.

Right.

No, it's for the, it's for the women.

Absolutely.

Right.

So I posted some fun videos, bathing suit content, whatever.

This is what my body looks like.

And I got...

Well, one, I was confused.

I even asked, we were at like that pool party.

And I was like, now, if someone comments woof on a post, are they hyping you up or telling you look, you look bad?

Because to me, when someone goes woof, that's a bad thing.

No, woof,

barking.

Like, they're barking, like, a good thing.

Good thing.

We're barking now.

Hyping you up for sure.

But tell me, like, does that not make sense?

Woof, like a woof.

Like, I think you just use it in that way.

Interesting.

Because that was good to know because I was like, hey, that's pretty rude.

I look pretty good in this.

Why would they think, why would you think they're, you look?

Because I was just like a hater on the internet telling me I looked bad in my comments, which I didn't believe them, so I was confused.

Well, I got another DM off of something.

It was a DM.

I don't know if it was off of one of my posts.

It was just like a cold DM.

It just said, you should do porn.

I was like,

sir.

Sorry to say it again.

Sorry, she has big tits.

Yeah, sorry.

So I can't have big booze without being sexualized.

Let's touch some grass.

Touch some grass.

Touch some grass, everybody.

Have you heard like recession bushes in?

Oh, wow.

I've seen this, like the fact that like bushes are coming back is a recession indicator.

Is that what this is?

Why is it a recession?

Yes, upkeep.

You know, you're not paying money for waxes or razor blades or anything.

You're just letting it be.

You're going to have money for it.

Yeah.

A recession indicator.

Hmm.

I've seen also some girls though who've gotten like lasered it all away who are now sad they did that.

Oh, I saw one girl.

She said that she got it all lasered before her prefrontal cortex completely developed and now she yearns for a bush.

She yearns for a bush.

Yes, that's what I saw where she yearns for a bush.

We yearn for the bush.

Do you guys yearn for a bush?

I have, you know, I have a bush at times.

Recession's been happening my whole life, I guess.

2008 really impacted her.

Yeah.

I think that we come from a household too where our mom was always like, what are you?

A young girl?

Yeah.

Women have hair.

Women have hair.

That's what you have.

Women look like.

And so, you know,

wouldn't want to be fully bare around her like that.

So I've also, I think we are also a lazy bunch yeah

okay

hello just pointed out olivia if you are listening i mean i'm get i've been in some long-term relationships you know like i think you get comfortable you get happy you're with someone you love and they accept you in all ways so and there's nothing wrong with the bushes there's nothing

i'm gonna i'm gonna grab your bushes when i say this There's nothing wrong with a little

hair down there.

Nothing wrong with a shag carpet.

No.

Back to feminism.

men have it yeah why women have it it's so it's so natural and normal and yet viewed at as disgusting or not sexy or uncleanly to have a bush if it wasn't supposed to be there it wouldn't be there but it is supposed to be there yeah it's kind of like hair in your ear canal i think it protects stuff from maybe this is supposed to protect you so it's probably

probably when we were like cavemen or something to get keep dirt from going up there because sometimes like i don't know

because nowadays i feel like it could be like a hygiene issue you know to have it or not have it.

When you have it, like if you're not cleaning it right.

Uh-oh.

Yeah.

Because I do say, well, I do appreciate what like men keep things clean and trim.

But a manscaping, you know?

Good amandscaping.

But a manscaping.

I appreciate that.

So I can also see like in the reverse, like keep things clean if you want, but also do what you want down there.

Do what you want.

Do you want to do that?

But also don't make such.

Rash decisions by like lasering your whole bush away.

It's a status.

No.

I get lasering bikini lines.

Yeah.

But I'm like, everything

for the rest of your life.

It's like the equivalent of getting a tattoo.

Too young.

Of course, because you can laser off a tattoo.

You can't laser it back on.

Hair transplant to your bush.

Did you go to Turkey for a bush transplant?

Oh, yeah.

They're like, oh, I got a hair transplant.

Where?

You look completely normal.

Oh, no.

She has a walking weird.

This should go in the episode, but this dad dad just reminded me of that.

You know when a man posts a thirsty, like, or like posts a thirsty rap online and girls in the TikTok comments are like, both my lips are smiling.

See that?

I haven't, but I like the comments where it goes, oh, my clit just perked up.

That's one of my favorite comments I've ever read in my life.

Thirsty comments on TikTok.

Women, maybe.

It's women.

Women are the funniest ones about it.

Hilarious.

They are hilarious.

Like even the simple ones that are like, like, hi, louder than everybody else, or like, hi, quiet, so I seem different than the other girls.

Like just so good.

The funniest things on TikTok are the comments.

I was on TikTok the other day and for some reason the comments weren't loading, but the videos were.

And it was not an enjoyable experience actually.

I was like, ooh.

It was a weird glitch.

I don't know what was happening.

And I think it feels like the weird way that like you do connect with other people via social media.

Because it is just you scrolling, but having those comments, you feel connected to the other people that were liking and enjoying this video as well.

Like you don't feel so alone for like thirsting after someone or whatever.

Not to get back to bushes.

No, please.

Please.

What do you say when a man doesn't like it?

Grow up.

Heard.

I don't care about your opinion.

Okay.

Interesting.

I love that.

What if he's, it's not his preference?

Okay.

What about my preference?

Trim yours.

Steve.

How about you go bald?

How about you laser it off?

Is that a red flag, though, if he, if his preference is nothing?

I don't think it is in a lot of cases because it's so normalized.

Right.

Like when they're watching porn or when they're watching other things, like it's become just the way about it.

So it's like almost normal for them not to see it.

So it can easily just become their preference with how they're

with what they're watching.

Probably.

I don't know.

My preference with guys,

shave your underarms.

I hate men.

Shave men underarms.

That is a hot take, Adriana.

Hate armpit hair on anyone.

No, I hear you, especially when there's deodorant stuck in there on men.

You've heard about like feminism of like women like who grow it out?

Because you do that.

But guys, shave it off.

I hate it.

I hate it.

And even on women, I'm like, get it off.

I've never heard this take before, ever.

Have a man with just

hairy underarms.

Okay, but then imagine them shaving and then it comes back and it's like that short.

Ewa, Adriana.

Shave everything.

What are you thinking about their legs?

Oh,

that's fine.

Hairy legs, but they're just the clearest underarms.

I remember so clearly watching high school musical as a kid and like it was like Troy or Chad and I was like, ew,

shave that.

Just handle that.

Okay.

He's like, I just like prefer no push.

Like, yeah, same.

I actually prefer no hair in my underarm.

So handle that.

What are you doing?

Absolutely.

Interesting.

I've had it before where I've had men who prefer like it shaved.

And like, I will be like, okay,

I'll do a balance with it.

Like, I'll, I, you know, I'll keep it groomed, but like, I don't, I personally don't want it fully bare.

I hear you.

So I think it's also about balancing.

Like, there are some things about, like, you, you don't like fully armpit hair.

There's things that you, you have preferences for.

So I don't think it's fully a red flag if they feel that way.

I think there's a conversation to be had and some maybe,

you know, compromises to make.

There's this one video of a guy, I think he's, he's British or something, where he's like saying,

He's like, Oh, no, I don't want you down there.

I haven't shaved, I haven't hailed it.

It's like, I eat lollipops after they drop on the carpet.

Let down your own bushes.

My man, my man, my man.

Who do we be talking about?

Bushes and tits so much.

No, it was so like this is the strongest start to this episode.

Well, most of you are women listening, so

we love you.

We actually looked at our demographics.

95% of our listeners are women.

And I'm not shocking.

I'm blessed.

Have you love that?

A safe space.

This is a safe space.

Sketch your bushes out, Lee.

I also fully need to say that when I made that line to camera about, like, I'm gonna twirl your bush when I say this, I made direct eye contact with our audio camera guy who's right behind my camera and laughing right now.

That's my new favorite thing.

And I'm gonna hold your bush.

And he didn't blink.

So,

you know what, Chad?

Let's see the marm pits, man.

Let's see who you got rocking with.

The one man in the room.

You got one over here, too.

Hope y'all got stressed.

You better have bare armpits over there.

Yeah, I love the armpit situation.

What's your armpit situation?

This is workplace harassment.

Right, right.

Just saying.

It's quite serious, isn't it?

Quite serious.

Anyway.

Anyway, ladies.

Should we roll into some tea time?

Let's roll in.

What's going on, guys?

I'm laughing my sweet cheeks off.

This is another reason you should be watching on YouTube to really hone in on this energy.

Feel it.

So this is what I'm saying.

You're missing it.

You're missing it.

She just spread her legs.

That felt weird.

She's like,

I got a cameraman back there.

Sorry about that, sir.

Sorry about that.

Guys.

Many harassment complaints after this.

Hey guys, so you're not allowed to record here anymore.

They don't want us back to New York City.

Why not?

God.

I was quite serious.

Alma's going to love this.

Alma.

Don't listen to this one.

Alma, turn on me.

Look at me.

Tunnel in, take her iPad away.

Alma.

This isn't for you.

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Should we go into some tea time?

So, we already decided, but we are here in New York City.

The greatest city in the world.

Great city.

Greatest city in the world.

If you make it here, you can make it anyway.

You make it anyway.

Yes.

Streets are alive here.

It's fun to be here all together.

Welcome to my home.

Oh, yeah.

Yeah.

I'm a New Yorker.

No, I can't say that.

I cut myself off, guys.

I didn't say that actually.

She almost said she's a New Yorker.

No, I didn't.

No.

And I don't think people are always like, when you're here, like, maybe 10 years, would you call yourself a New Yorker?

No.

You still wouldn't?

No, because

I think you have to be born and raised here to be a New Yorker.

10 years, you can say that.

Okay.

I don't know.

I also like don't think I'm going to make it 10 years.

Oh.

And I knew that moving to New York of that, I'm going to move here for my career and I'm going to enjoy it.

But I love Vermont so much that I could probably see myself moving back to Vermont.

Interesting.

Or maybe try somewhere else.

Like I've always loved going to other places, living there.

So settling down in one city for the rest of your life is daunting to me, I will say.

You like the possibility.

Yeah.

But I love New York.

It's so fun.

I've met wonderful friends here.

I got very lucky.

And for now, it's the greatest city in the world.

You've subscribed to that grind.

Yeah, how does it feel to be back?

I actually like it when the weather's nice.

And Alona said to you say you really like it here.

I always love coming to New York.

I think it's so cool.

There's so much happening.

It feels like just, it's, you know, a place to be.

I'm never here for long.

I'm always here for like a day.

Yeah.

So I never really get to get out there and experience, but I love, like, I just went on a jog through Central Park, went from one end to the other.

I thought I was turning around.

She wasn't.

I didn't.

I went all the way to from top to bottom.

And then I would look at my map like, oh my God, I got to be somewhere in a half hour.

But I love it.

I think that there's so much to do, so many people to meet.

I'd spend more time here.

I spent a summer here a little bit, but that's about it.

Yeah, yeah.

But you used to play rugby here.

I used to play rugby here, yeah.

In the Bronx, a team called the Village Lions.

It was like my first kind of club rugby experience, and I loved it.

I loved like the vibe of it.

After practice, we'd go to this bar called like Glackens, or and we'd get like these $8

really strong drinks.

It was like mostly, you know, vodka or tequila in it.

And then we would just, you know, chat and have so much fun after rugby.

Like that, that's club rugby.

It's like you go to to play the rugby, but mostly it's for the socialness and fun vibe.

And then we would go play tournaments and we'd come back into the city and party in the city.

So I really loved, I think I also associate New York with like that really fun summer and I had a great time.

So

I think I could see myself spending more time here, but I don't know if I could live here

as you get older.

This is a good time.

We're here.

You know, it's, it's summery.

It's the weather's nice.

I think people start to feel a little bit nicer too, like New Yorkers and whatnot when the weather isn't as cold and wet and gray but it does the city feels so possibility as so full of possibility as i've spoken about before but i could see you spending like a couple weeks at a time here just being a new yorker for two seconds well there's so much like especially in my job there's a lot that can be done here yeah in the media i mean i do shoots here constantly so it'd be good at times i like a home base here home base in la and whatnot So we'll see, but I don't know the city as well as you guys do.

Do you guys have a favorite spot?

Like girl dinner recommendations?

Where are you getting that dirty martini?

Where you getting the fries?

What rooftop are you checking out?

So, I moved away from here in 2022, early top of 2022, yeah.

And I feel like the city is changing constantly post, also, especially post-like pandemic.

Like, there were many changes that occurred when I was here for that.

And so, things continue to shift.

And a lot of some of my favorite places are, are no longer.

Um,

but I'm still, I would still love going out and adventuring and finding something new.

You don't, it doesn't always have to be like a rooftop.

Sometimes rooftops can be a bit like seamy, like wait in line to get to the top for expensive drinks.

And it's kind of, eh, whatever.

Unless it's the Margaritaville one.

Oh, you want to speak to that?

I have these yucca fries at the top of Margaritaville.

In Times Square.

In Times Square, yes.

Spooky.

Don't go to like the fifth floor level.

You got to go to the rooftop.

Sorry.

That's crazy.

Good for you.

Hot New York City tip from a local, everyone.

The Margaritaville in Times Square.

I got good recs.

She got good wrecks.

I love spending time in the West Village.

One of my best friends lives there.

And so I'm often down there drinking wine or we'll go to dinner.

And it's just fun exploring those streets.

And it's so cozy.

You sent Nanny down there too.

And then I recently stayed in the Lower East Side, like we talked about.

And also, I just like, I love stepping out and being in such a vibrant energy and vibe and just walking to find a cool place.

But I have actually been stumbling upon a couple of the places that we would host after parties when I worked for Dr.

Alex Schiller, like the sex doctor.

We do our events and we go to these cool cozy bars and I'm like, how did you find this?

How do you know about this?

Why do you know the owner?

Like why?

And I'm seeing more of those and I would love to kind of revisit those as the as my 30-year-old self instead of my, you know, post-graduation, kind of nervous, but just figuring it out self.

So maybe we should go do that.

We should go get a dirty martini somewhere.

What when?

Yeah, I'm down.

Let's do it.

Tonight.

Oh,

Dr.

Do you have like a favorite bar?

bard

i love this one it's called the dead rabbit i brought you there when you were here recently it's this irish pub on the bottom but then it's like this elevated experience like parlor on top and they're like chipping the ice cubes and putting to make them fit in your glass you got to get the moonlit it's the most incredible cocktail i've ever had okay and like

you get the fries with all the different dipping sauce i love it it's a stark difference on the bottom floor and the top floor but both are incredible it's down in Fidei.

Yeah, that's literally on the bottom of Manhattan.

Like you step out and you can kind of see the rivers.

Something I've always wanted to do, if you guys want to come with me, is do the broad city thing of walking from the tippity top to the tippity bottom like Alana and Abby do.

How many miles is that?

12.2 or something.

Why do you know that?

That's a matter of because I know so many people who have done it.

Oh, they've done it.

Oh, yeah.

It's a huge trend.

Oh, and do that.

I haven't done the full thing, but I've joined in on several people's walks

um and that's always fun because it goes right through the upper west side yeah and i live on the upper west side so i can always just like hop and meet them and like it's usually right when they're taking like a lunch break so it's great for me so would you ever do it i would do it however the last time i walked 12 miles i kind of fucked up my ankle so i'm a little nervous to do it again

yeah

where is this injury um when i was on a bakery crawl last year with our cousin how many miles is that 13.

geez you went you walked 13 miles at a bakery crawl?

Yeah, because all of a sudden, like, we'd already done like 10 miles.

And she's like, we have to get this cupcake.

That was three miles away.

And it was the worst cupcake or the worst treat of the entire day.

And you were like, no subway.

We have to walk a couple miles.

And I remember it, because what happened, I don't want to actually get the injury, does not make sense to talk about.

But I remember being like, hey, could we bust the last thing?

And she's like, we're so close.

And I was like, this shit wanted to make sure the whole day was walking.

Yeah.

And so I did have to go to PT for that.

So I'm a little nervous to

to play rugby

walking, that is a serious

crawl walking, bakery crawling.

That is a seriously dangerous sport, guys.

Be careful.

Well, you've got to be careful out there.

You've got a weak ankle already from when I twisted it.

No, I hear you.

I'm

it's dangerous out here.

It is careful of the bakery crawls, guys, or you might end up actually crawling.

Olivia, what are you walking 13 miles for?

I know

what smash burger.

And I just had a really good Smash Burger.

I hadn't had 7th Street Burgers before.

I love Smash Burgers.

We know this.

I go all over Los Angeles.

I know all the best spots, but I hadn't had 7th Street Burger here.

I think I actually, nope, that's a lie.

I had it.

I think when they first opened or something, their first location, I was sort of, eh, maybe their griddles weren't seasoned enough or something.

Who knows?

But I went back recently and, oh my God.

And I don't know if it's because I was.

So hungry after the Beyoncé concert in New Jersey and I was dripping wet because it was dumping rain the entire time.

That Smashburger almost made me see God.

I just like, it was so good.

What am I walking for?

Yeah, what are you walking 13 miles for?

That was

no.

What's like, what's something I always am eating?

Get margarita.

Oh, yeah.

I can walk a lot for margarita.

You're walking for like a cold East Coast oyster.

I would do an oyster walk for sure.

Oyster walk.

That's great, Olivia.

Yes, I'd join you.

I constantly send Olivia a TikTok.

John doesn't like oysters.

I constantly send Olivia oyster TikToks of like this girl.

I think where was she?

She's in like England, right?

There's a woman in England.

She goes to these places and eats like 50 oysters in a city, which is

she finds dollar oyster hours all over England and goes and I'm not, she puts away like hundreds of oysters.

The servers are concerned.

Yeah.

An oyster walk would be a great idea.

A great walk.

Because you just, because then you can get taste and flavors, and each place would probably do theirs a little bit different, or they'd have a house mignonette sauce or a house-made hot sauce that was a little bit different.

And each place, I love an oyster.

A cold oyster.

One time we got served oysters

on a platter of salt.

Our family has not shut up about this.

And that place is no longer in business now.

So I'm not saying that that's a happy.

On a platter of salt.

So they were almost like...

Loof.

They better be cold oysters.

You got to be cold and crispy and just like salty.

And like.

We like mignonette on the side.

We like freshly shaved horseradish.

Lemon juice.

We sometimes put cocktail sauce on, but not often.

And not a cocktail sauce.

And then our family, we're so annoying.

We need to find the peppermill wherever we go when we're at an oyster place.

My mom is up looking around the bar for a peppermill.

If they don't, if they're not bringing it.

My orchestra pill.

She actually has one she pulls out of her purse.

Oh, yes.

They have a little mini one.

Has it's a little case in her purse.

Bless her.

Can you believe that?

Yep.

Well, I can.

It's me and a kid.

It's literally you.

I can't wait to do that oyster walk.

Let's do it.

Let's make it a reality.

Hey, John.

I'm like, the way Ajana's ankle is set up, she can't do it.

No, she's got PT that day on her ankle.

Her bakery crawling.

So my insurance doesn't come.

Goodness me.

Goodness.

All right.

Well, let's pop into the reading now.

A new segment?

A new segment.

We're big readers.

We don't always read the most

intellectual educational books, but we read fun books which i think you all will love as well so this is a new segment we're just gonna go over what books we're reading currently yes uh mine is something i just finished which i'm not currently reading anything because i literally last night uh it's called rewind it back it's by liz tom ford it's the windy city series it's the fifth book actually so i guess you could start with the first one oh um you've read it is this the flight attendants the the first one is a flight attendant you haven't read the first one no i have read the whole thing oh you should have the whole thing i've read the whole thing.

But I think that this book might be my favorite out of all of them.

Really?

Okay.

It was really good.

Like, the premise is that they were like childhood sweethearts and then like this big tft happened and like you're kind of figuring out what it was

and then there's a little bit of groveling.

It's just well written.

Nice.

I love it.

Are they enemies at all?

Kind of at the beginning, but like they still love each other?

Even after all these years?

What is that?

What's that trope called?

Rekindled or something?

Second chance?

love second chance love that's what that trope is called yes and I just enjoy it was just a fun read but I'm kind of sad that the series is over but you can tell that she's setting it up for the next series because all of a sudden it's like well the neighbor her her brother also it is a hockey book I was gonna say I feel like this we're missing some context here but like it's not so so much about hockey do you watch hockey for how much hockey books you read

have you ever watched a full hockey game yes I have okay I went to some of uh our college's hockey games and I i actually really love them yeah mostly for the fights um because for me not that i'm supporting the fighting but i'm like

energy yeah i know i'm like when you were playing 15s and sometimes fights would break out like i haven't ever seen that in your rugby games i was like oh that was really fun it was so fun it was mostly hannah boderman just shoving people when they tried to come for her on the field and i'm cheering for her i think we need more of it in women's sports for fighting yeah i do genuinely i think people Americans want to see that.

They love that.

It's ingrained in the culture of hockey and people love seeing it.

It really is.

I won't be fighting.

No.

No.

I actually should start doing it.

No, we don't.

If people act like, start doing dumb stuff to me.

Are people doing dumb stuff to you during games?

In PWR, there was a couple girls who would just do like little backhanded things to me.

Like what?

Hair pulling?

One time she'd like shove my face into the ground.

The play was over there.

And then one time when I was scoring a try, this girl came in and like, kind of knead, like, she wasn't going to stop the try being scored.

And she'd like kneed me in the head with her knee.

and you could see me get up and i watch her walk away i should have shoved her yeah i encourage you to shove her actually so i gotta i think people want to see that and for that it's like they're just jealous and to that i say jealousy is a disease get well soon bitch

can you make a stink about this to the refs and to be like or would you get yelled at because they're supposed to be the

no i mean it's maybe i could do more so i'm gonna try to do more if something happens world cup advocate for yourself created a viral moment or something like that but i mean you are being the bigger person by not yes meeting them at their level well to me if you're gonna judge me, I'll just hit you harder later on.

So get them back.

No, that's just like so untasteful.

That's just no, I know.

Lack of class.

Lack of class.

Anyway.

Okay, sorry.

Hockey book.

No, I think I already sold it to everyone.

I think everyone's gonna read it.

And I'll be reading her next series.

Oh,

they're going to a different town.

And I think it's baseball.

So.

Famously your favorite sport.

Famously my favorite sport.

I'll read any sports romance except for rugby one time I read a rugby romance book and I was like

Was it just not well written or something?

No, it was more so that like rugby is a Lona's thing and it felt like almost wrong reading it.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

No, I hear you.

I do.

Anyway.

Lona, what are we reading, Darlon?

I actually read a great, great cowboy romance.

Well, like rancher romance.

It's called Cash, a Lucky River Ranch book by Jessica Peterson.

Oh.

And I've read a couple cowboy romances.

We read one

like over winter time or a little before that and it was too quick of a build.

You know what I'm saying?

Too quick of a payoff.

Not enough.

I was like, we need more.

So this one is

Little Enemy Slovers.

She,

her and her dad are estranged, but her dad owns this massive ranch.

But he dies and leaves the ranch to her with one stipulation that she has to live on the ranch for a year to get it.

His foreman, though,

is named Cash.

And Cash also has four other brothers that sets up for a whole series.

Oh, I thought it was about to be something else.

Enemies to lovers because he's a foreman and he is like, oh, well, he said he was going to leave the ranch to me.

He's pissed, right?

Right.

And then she comes in in her sparkly cowboy boots, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

And turns out she's actually a really hard worker.

And he sees her working so hard.

At one point, this was a great point.

They both take two horses to go see the ranch.

Oh no, her horse runs away.

There's only one horse.

Only one horse.

Like the one bed trope.

There's only one horse.

So they both get on that thing.

Save a horse ride a cowboy.

I'm all right.

On a horse.

Well, yeah.

This one was very good.

It had the classic scene where they go to the local dive bar, you know.

And somebody else wants her.

Oh,

somebody else wants her.

And he's like, no, come on.

And they go dance and he pulls her.

Some guy goes to ask her to dance and pulls her away.

Wow.

And this was a slower build too.

And then the scenes are great.

I got to read this.

It's really, it's good.

It's fun.

It's fun.

And then it was definitely like pretty well written.

I mean, you kind of knew what was happening,

what was going to happen, you know,

as is going to happen in any book.

But you're, yeah, that's what makes it fun.

No, it was, it was really fun.

I'm now on to the second one, which is called Wyatt.

That's his name.

That's his name.

I think that's how they're going by him.

A bit on the nose, but okay.

A bit on the nose.

They're hot cowboys.

I love it.

Hoping to meet a cowboy in real life.

Yeah, we got to get to a ranch.

Spicy.

It's a little spicy and a little kinky in there,

so yeah, check that one out.

Should we go to a ranch?

Should we take a vacation to it?

I mean, we've been trying to have a tropical sister vacation, but maybe we got to go.

We should go to a ranch.

At some time, we should go to a ranch.

Would you ride a horse?

Absolutely, I would.

Really?

No, I don't know if I would.

Not until you've retired from rugby, please.

Whoa.

What's that quote from Sherlock Holmes where it's like, oh,

you know what I'm saying?

It's like

crafting the middle.

I think the both ends and crafting the middle.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So that's why I don't trust them a little bit.

They're big beasts.

I trot.

Have you ever ridden on a horse?

I've ridden on a pony.

Okay.

Good.

When was that one yes?

In the Netherlands when I was young.

Oh, right.

The only time I've been on a horse is also in the Netherlands.

Interesting.

Okay.

Now I'm jealous.

First time I tried to get on it, I fell off the other side.

Really?

Yeah, so then they had to get me an even smaller horse, and then I got on just fine.

Olivia, what are you reading?

I've just finished, same thing, A Great Big, Beautiful Life by Emily Henry.

Wow.

Yeah.

Can I make a guess?

You may.

What's up?

Is it a cartoon cover with a pastel background?

You bet your bottom dollar.

Actually, I think it's a bit of a darker blue-purple this time.

Oh, she's chained.

For her, yeah.

She has chains.

Oh, it's orange.

Sorry, I've just heard it's actually orange.

Oh.

you're the black and white e-reader.

You want it now?

Yeah, I know, exactly.

What happens in it?

This one is, so it's the latest by Emily Henry.

Love her books.

I just, there's something about the way she's, the way she writes these kind of courtships.

I feel like I'm, I think I've talked about this.

I feel like I'm the one being courted.

Like, I'm having the banter.

Like, I have a crush on these characters.

Like, they just, like, like when they, when they're just, they're flirting, I feel like I'm flirting.

And that's such a fun feeling when reading.

This one is very cool.

When I first started it, I thought I wasn't maybe going to like it.

I was like, oh, maybe this is too different from her normal stuff.

It's not, it's not too different.

But the way I've been describing it is that it's a classic Emily Henry combined with like a Taylor Jenkins read book.

The way she writes

Daisy Jones and the Sixth or Evelyn, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, how it's like this backstory of like these people, famous people's lives, fictional people's lives, mixed in with what's going on.

So it's the normal characters falling in love, classic Emily Henry style.

They're both writers,

interviewing this iconic woman who grew up in the public eye, in the media.

Her family was, you know, tabloid people and whatnot, and who went into hiding and nobody knew she existed anymore.

But she seeks her out to like write this book about her.

And so we're getting the love story that's happening in the present, as well as the woman's backstory and the woman's family's backstory and the right, like the fame of it all.

It was so,

it was so good.

I think I rated it very highly.

i just it was cozy it was fun it was romantic and a bit of a twist from her normal stuff because that that that that other plot line running through it in the same way that like nicholas sparks books i feel like always have two plot lines one of my favorites being longest ride cowboy

what that's an amazing movie a movie the two plot lines in that are both incredible it's like two two for the price of one in that way so i've sobbed at that movie oh yeah the first time i showed you the longest ride like i'm in that corner like almost dry heaving.

It's a good movie.

I think next up I'm going to go for another iconic cartoon cover author, Abby Jimenez.

I'm excited for you.

I don't know if I've read her.

Have you read any of her?

No.

I've only read one.

I feel like they're good.

Yeah.

I read the, I think I've read one, like the third or second one in a series.

I didn't realize it was a series, but it, um,

you can't tell.

Like you can start wherever.

But then she went and followed me on Instagram.

Very cool.

I was honored.

And I've learned from that that she has like bakeries and she bakes a special cupcake that for each of her books like when they come out.

So you can go like have the book that like corresponds or have the cupcake that corresponds with her books.

So I got to get to one of those.

Put that on your next 13 mile.

My bakery.

Love.

Shifting gears.

It was recently National Best Friends Day.

So let's dedicate the next section to our best friends.

Livy, tell us about your best friends.

Ah,

I love talking about my best friends.

My best friend, Liz, California with me.

We met in college.

We lived together.

And I think that's how you know, like, a friendship is for real because we could live together with no consequences.

It was the most beautiful time.

You know, there was an issue.

It, it, like, making or breaking, like, it made and made stronger.

So very blessed in that way.

Um,

and then I just like, as I've gotten older, you just, you also, I think start to gather, hopefully, and luckily and blessed for me, like more friends and more besties from other parts of life.

So like, I also have like my best friend here in the city.

Like I've got my people that like are my people, the ones I'm in contact with constantly, whether it be sending memes or sending, you know, a text here or there.

And I've got like a great, unbelievable group of gals in Los Angeles that I am so blessed to have who are also,

most of them are single as well.

And we're very much still in the same places of life where we,

you know, we go out to bars hoping to like maybe meet someone, but also at the end of the day, we still have each other.

And I had them at the, during my breakup.

And after that, I had a summer full of them and I think to say that save my life is so dramatic you know but it was so

important

and so grounding and helpful to have those people physically with me to keep me laughing and giggling and know like hey it's gonna be okay like I have all of these unbelievable women at the end of the day and they we've got the funniest group chat I love that you have these amazing women surrounding you love women Love women.

Shout out to all my women everywhere.

And Joe.

Love you.

Noni, what about you?

My best friend is Nicole Haverland.

She is my teammate on the USA rugby team.

I never like had, I have like longtime friends from like, you know, back in the day, but never somebody that I got to choose myself.

You know, the friends I had from like, you know, even preschool to middle school and whatnot, like...

They were more in my life and whatnot.

And like they were, those were my siblings in a way.

Like in Catholic school, you know, it was a group of nine of us.

So they were, you know, was forced proximity in a way.

So so nicole was the first one where i really got to choose her like that's my person and she chose you and she chose me as well that's what's beautiful um we first kind of met you know that summer when i was first there and vibed a little bit nothing too crazy and then

the season the next season came around and that's when i felt like i was really more part of the team it wasn't just coming in at the end for the last two tournaments i feel like i felt like i was really part of it and You can just get a vibe from somebody.

We're kind of vibing.

And I remember we were about to go on tour and I went up to her and I was like, you know, we asked for a roommate survey, and I put you down as my first roommate option.

She's like, That's crazy, I put you down as my first roommate option.

And that kind of like kicked it off for us.

We were roommates at our tour in Colorado, and it was kind of created a safe space for both of us.

Like, we just all kind of showed our quirks, and we figured out how to do it together.

Like, we both just like to be, you know, butt naked in the room, like really safe space.

She is, you know, she'll say she's farting constantly.

It's a fart-friendly space.

And we just got along really well.

And then like

afterwards, I remember we like hung out that next weekend.

And I think it was like my first time ever having a best friend.

And I was really scared.

I was scared to like tell her, like, I think you're my best friend.

She's like, it sounds like I'm, you know, having my partner here, my boyfriend, but my girlfriend.

But I was, I think we got drinks and I was like, I just want to let you know, like, I think you're my best friend.

And she was like, oh, I think you're my best friend too.

Oh, that's so cute.

Isn't that cute?

So I think we just collectively decided to like, you know, be each other's best friends.

And how did you know?

Like, how did you feel?

I think it's when you feel like you can be yourself around them and you don't feel judged and like whatever.

You can tell them anything.

I think like I've told Nicole more than I've even told you guys.

Like that's where I like know.

That's when I just like, I think you know that that's your bestie, but she's also, she just doesn't judge.

And

it's just different, you know?

Still kind of all night.

I think the sisters are best friends.

The sisters are best friends, but

you know, right.

I don't know how to explain it, but she's just always been there.

And we've, you know, been through so much together.

I think we've been through a lot of ups and downs, like times where it was like, why are you doing that?

And then getting angry at each other or whatever.

But we've continued to kind of power through it.

And even when we've been far apart, it's always like knowing that, you know, we have her.

She really has like, been such a light in my life and to finally have somebody I can call my own.

Like I call her my soulmate because

I sometimes wish that I was attracted to her.

And like, I think we could have had a perfect marriage at this point.

But I think that's also what makes it so pure and perfect: is that, you know, nothing that doesn't come between us, and we're just, you know, the closest.

And that you still like see each other despite maybe the things that like maybe annoy you or you don't agree.

Yeah, I mean, we know each other for sure.

Yeah, yeah.

All the time.

Yeah.

For me, what I knew, like, with Brie in college, was that I kind of realized we'd spent like several days together non-stop.

Like,

a stupid amount of time together.

And I just had this realization randomly.

I remember I was like going up these stairs to our other friend's apartment and I was like, I don't get sick of you.

Like I just felt so at home and so normal.

And I could say this craziest shit to her and she would not bat an eye and she'd be like, bitch me too.

Like you're so valid for that.

Like I just felt heard and seen and comfortable in every way that I was like, oh, this is, this is what a best friend is.

Like that's what this feels like, you know?

So I would say also if you can stand a Europe trip with your friend.

Yeah,

you don't deserve a Euro trip.

You can, you're best friends.

Italy and Spain together or something.

Italy and Spain are so hot.

And like, I was doing most of the planning of it because she's like,

I was like,

you've got to tell the sleep talking, sweating.

Oh, my God.

Sorry.

We're in Florence, Italy.

A heat wave is hitting it.

I think it's AC, mind you.

To 107.

And I get an Airbnb.

I should have freaking checked, but this is the time where I'm kind of penny pinching, like not being the smartest.

I get an Airbnb that doesn't have any AC in it.

Holy butter, is it hot in there?

We are both butt naked on the bed because we can't have anything touch us.

The windows, I don't even notice having anything we have a fan on.

I'm so hot that I sleepwalk to try to open the door.

I'm butt naked, like at the door, fiddling with the lock.

And she's like, oh, no, what's happening?

And I was like, I got to get out of here.

I got to get out of here.

Butt naked.

That really bonded us because that was so uncomfortable.

And yet, like, we didn't get mad at each other.

We were just like, I found it funny in it.

And then we go to, we end the trip in New York with Olivia to go to Pride.

And I think, I guess Olivia remembers, like, she comes down her stairs to come get us into her apartment.

And the relief I see when I, when I see her face, she's like, oh, God.

And I get to be an AC.

Holy, that was, that was amazing.

Yeah.

But she's, yeah, we've, we've done through, we've been through a lot together.

We've been through two Olympics together, you know, tournaments all over the world together.

We're always roommates at our tournaments.

We We just know each other so well.

Um, you know, it's been cool to be with her because she's been through different stuff with, you know, selections and whatnot and trying to figure out her path.

So, and we're kind of going in two different directions now as well.

Like,

I'm, you know, it's not just rugby now for us.

It's not just, you know, USA Sevens.

It's like I'm doing this and this and this.

And she's, you know, hasn't going to have to do this, this, this.

So it's been interesting that we're going to, our lives, I think, are changing.

And it's not going to be as easy to be, you know, around each other.

Because you've been co-workers too for many years.

Yeah.

It's a new chapter.

A new chapter, I think, yeah.

Figuring out your friendship

with all these changes.

Sounds like your friendship will withstand.

It doesn't seem daunting.

Like I'm not worried about it that we're going to change.

Like she's, she's recently been making so many new friends.

I'm like, who does she keep trying to tell me a story?

I'm like, who's this person?

And who's this person?

Who's this?

Oh, I'm going to dinner with Jen now.

Who's Jen?

Yeah.

But I think it's just, it's awesome.

She's a, she's the loveliest, kindest person who just, her energy brings people in.

And for her to, for somebody like that, who I think is so beautiful, so perfect, to choose me as her best friend is, it's such an honor.

And I think she says the same about me.

So I'm happy for her to make new friends, but I also always know I'm her number one.

Hey, good.

You can try to be friends with Nicole, but I'm here.

Do you want to?

I'm Numero Uno.

Do Numero Uno.

Don't call her your best friend.

I hate that.

But she hates it too.

Whenever somebody calls her her bestie or like, even just, I, because I don't mess around with best friend.

Like, for me, you have one or two best friends.

You don't have many best friends.

It's different for some people.

whenever people jokingly like oh they like when we recently did like a bestie like oh my bestie's going away i was like you're who you're who take that off but even when i was with dancer stars with alan and i would like i would call him my bestie but i had to like let her know i was like nicole just like no i'm just calling him my bestie he's not really my bestie

i love him he's my my my friend he's a good buddy but you're my bestie you know but it's like we we always know that even no matter what like to us that's my best friend i think you can have maybe you can have besties that's my best friend i love yeah the difference between a best friend like full governmental best friend yes or you know besties the bestie the street turn

yeah i love that if if she says i can't believe i'm marrying my best friend to her partner

what are you gonna do what if what are you gonna do when brie does that when she does that when brie does it

She's for sure gonna do that, dude.

Yeah, I know.

She's erasing her vows.

You better be erasing those vows right now.

I'm officiating that wedding, so I'm going to be, I'll be, I'll be watchful.

Liar.

If that's what she chooses,

okay.

But it's a choice.

You get up.

You leave the wedding.

Like, yeah, I leave the officiating.

You rip up your certificate of officiant or whatever.

I close the booklet.

Well, we're done here.

But I mean,

Taryn is her best friend.

They're life partners.

They're life partners.

That's why I get that.

We'll forgive it, I guess, now.

Maybe.

You're injecting.

Audrey, you've been on kind of a different journey with your finding your best friendship and your friends in general.

And I think a lot of people go through that too.

And she's had friends longer than you and I.

Yes.

So that's, can you speak to that?

I find it interesting because so many people, I think, find their best friends later in life or like they're really close friends.

I think.

At least maybe our generation, a lot of people are like, no, I don't know anyone still from high school or friends with them.

I'm still friends with people from middle school.

Those are my best friends.

I was somehow very lucky.

I think we've talked about this.

Middle school had some rough spots for me.

It was very brutal.

And I wasn't maybe friends with these girls through every single year, but we found each other.

I have three beautiful besties from middle school.

Luckily, two of them are in New York City with me, which is such a blessing.

One of them is so close to me.

The other is in Brooklyn, so it's basically a long distance.

And one is in Boston.

And the one in Boston, Alyssa, we started becoming friends in sixth grade because she came up to me.

She was in a ladybug t-shirt, gym class, and she goes, hey, is your birthday April 30th?

That's a weird question.

That's a weird opening.

And I was like, yeah.

And she's like, oh, that's my birthday too.

And so from then on, we were just kind of friends.

And we found so many like odd

similarities in our lives.

And like, it was just beautiful to find these.

And she was such a confidant in those tough years of middle and high school.

Like, I had

rough years in middle school, like, socially, but then rough years in high school, like, personally.

And she was like my number one confidant.

Like, interesting.

Yeah.

I would go to her for like these, as you said with Brie, of like, you would go to her and be like, say, this wild thing, be like, do you understand this?

And I remember, I went to things for her.

Like, I was so scared.

Like, I didn't even tell you guys or like mom and dad.

And I was like, hey, like, yada, yada, yada happens and she was just such a wonderful like open ear

and like oh like such a great like grounded person to have in my life and it's not even about them like necessarily like relating but as long as they understand and don't judge and just hear you and give you the space to like absolutely like say these things and feel these things and that that's just as important absolutely and we've been long distance since college now really we work beautifully over video calls and i still fill her in on everything sometimes maybe a little late and now I get into the problem where I tell so many people like fun things or like things that are happening with my life and I forget to tell her I remember I didn't tell her about the podcast until it was like a week out from filming and she was like hey what

hey hey what because I was about to be like oh I should talk about that on the podcast and she thought I was joking

and based on her reaction I was like hey I think I forgot to tell you this.

Right.

But that's the, I think that's growing up though.

Things change.

But then you feel like you're almost betraying that friendship because that's what that dynamic used to be.

But things do shift and change.

And I've had to grapple with that a lot in my own best friendships and whatnot.

And it's not a reflection on you or the other person like we've spoken about before.

It's just like things change and that's okay.

But the fact that you still love each other and have one another, I think.

I also got very lucky when I moved to New York.

She had two roommates in college who moved really close to me.

And when she was visiting once, we all went out together.

And I got along with these girls so well.

And so I was like, hey, can you send me their numbers?

And I texted them and we made plans.

And we just had this beautiful, immediate friendship.

And they had just moved to the city.

And they had become friends with their neighbors literally across the hall who had also just moved to the city.

And we kind of created this little group.

And it was such a friend situation.

You know, like two apartments literally across the hall from one another.

And then one girl who doesn't live in the building.

You're the Phoebe.

I was the Phoebe.

And it was such like a

like

an amazing time.

I felt like I was in a movie for a few months of just, it was very collegiate of how close we all lived to one another.

Like we would just text in the group chat to be like, who wants to grab a drink?

Let's do this.

Let's do that.

We all went to the Dominican Republic together and had an amazing and it's kind of seamless trip.

And so I'm very grateful for those two girls who introduced me, but just the friendships that I've had with them are very special.

And unfortunately, one is moving away to Chicago, bitch, but the other is staying, but moving 20 blocks away.

Ugh.

So I'm surrounded by some really wonderful women.

From what I've like heard, though, it's kind of been, you know, your friendships have been changing.

Like, I think it's hard for even a friend you've known for so long.

It sounds like it's changing in a way to me.

Definitely like getting older, I've seen changes and I've had difficulties of adjusting.

And, you know, me and it's not only me, but it's them.

And it's, you know, you see what the influence of someone having a partner will do.

And I'm someone who's never been in a relationship.

And, you know, that also I think can difficult, make things more difficult.

Like, I can't maybe see it.

But I also, I hate, you know, doing saying that about myself because I'm like, I think I am very level-minded when it comes to this, but priority shift.

I think that's kind of what it comes down to.

And I have felt a few times that like I have been deprioritized, But I will say like I've spoken up and I've had very uncomfortable conversations with friends to be like,

something is different.

And

one time I was even like, I feel like you don't like me anymore.

And that

was tough.

And that took me months to kind of like get the courage to be like,

hey.

Yeah.

But we are so much stronger for it now.

Like when I was saying that, like, I was like, this friendship is over, you know?

And so I think it takes like finding that courage to be like,

just even address it.

Yeah.

You know, and because you're just in your own mind.

I think it's the same thing of when you are in a relationship.

You need to have these like little things

be communicated and talked through.

Absolutely.

I mean, we talk about a lot though on this, like how much we're changing and how much we find ourselves.

So like, you as you change this person, they're changing.

And sometimes you might just not vibe.

And I think friendship breakups or friendship changing is also something that's very like normal, you know?

Like I think it's hard to like let go.

Well, they were my,

they're my friend, but like we're all changing and we're all kind of becoming different vibes.

Yeah.

It's natural to grow up and maybe grow apart in some ways.

Like you are becoming, you've seen each other in so many phases of life and you've made it through all of those and you know, you're continuing to grow and to become the women you're supposed to be.

Like.

And with love and respect, like if they're supposed to be there, they will be.

And some friendships, like, you know, phase out.

And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

It's heartbreaking.

Grow apart.

It is incredibly heartbreaking.

Like a friendship breakup or a friendship, like kind of grow apart.

That's, that shit hurts, like, a, like a, like a relationship breakup.

Because it is.

It's almost like female friendships were almost deeper sometimes than than

the certain boyfriends I've had.

You know what I mean?

Like that is.

That is tough.

That's, and I feel for that.

And I think women go through it all the time.

People aren't who you expect them to be or who you thought they were.

Or they changed and they're allowed to change, but maybe they're not changing the way you want them.

But you can't control that.

Like, you just got to be yourself.

And if you guys slot into each other's lives, but it's not easy.

No, I've only, I've had one friendship breakup that really wrecked me.

And I've, as I said, never been in a relationship, but I was.

In that moment, I was like, this feels like a breakup.

And it was a breakup, you know, but it was a platonic breakup.

And it took me years to get over.

It was between high school and college.

And so, you know, people always say like friendships will kind of break up then anyway.

But this was like, there was a blow-up fight and it felt like you were kind of like

losing a part of yourself, you know?

Absolutely.

And it was just,

I still like, I think it was kind of just a situation of like time heals.

And I thought about it for like years after.

It's the same thing as a breakup.

Like that person's no longer in your life, but you still have so much like love for them.

And it's like, where do you you put that love?

Hello?

Where do you put that love or like the things that you would want to tell them or like the things that's like, because you would, you would tell them more than you would maybe like a boyfriend because they would understand it on a level that only a woman would.

So, oh, this is pressing on something over here.

Holy smokes.

Yeah.

It's just like getting older is scary.

And like, it's nice to get.

older and have the people that have seen you and all those faces like do that.

And if like they're not,

it's nice to still have people that have known you and loved you you through every version of yourself.

And if you don't have that anymore or in a way that you're used to or in a capacity that, you know, you've, you've felt for a long time, that's like, that's just as hard.

Yeah.

You know?

And a blue?

You're a pretty crier.

Yeah.

Yeah, girl.

No, I think it's about growing and like that's going to change.

Like I do.

worry about that, you know, with Nicole.

Like, I think our relationship will change.

Yeah.

We're not going to be together all the time.

We're,

you know, gonna move here, there, whatever.

I hope to make more, you know, more friends and whatnot.

So I think it is also about taking action to keep those relationships, but there's some that you do need to let go of.

Yeah, yeah.

That's natural.

It's hard, but

maybe it's best for both of you.

Kiss your best friend on the mouth today.

Yeah.

Kiss them.

Smack on the lips.

While Olivia

dries her eyes.

The thing is, Olivia, Olivia loves her friends.

Wonderful Olivia is.

I I have so much love for my friends.

She loves

genuine.

If you become Olivia's friends, she will spend all the time with you.

She will truly like, she wants to hang out with you.

I mean, never has a boyfriend gotten in the way of that.

You can have a very, a very solid partner and she will make time for you.

I think that's what it is.

It's loving so much and wanting to give so much.

And then, like, not necessarily not getting it back all the time, but like...

Yeah, I just have a lot of love to give.

She does.

She will give a lot to her friends.

And it's really a blessing to be friends with Olivia.

I think anyone who gets that, I think is really

very nice of them.

Oh, no.

Oh, God.

They're both crying.

I love my friends.

Guys, we need to go into a new segment.

Put the wine down.

We need actually some wine.

No, literally.

We need actually wine.

Oh, God.

Female friendship is so beautiful and important.

If you have male friends, too.

One of her friends is a male.

I don't know why she's saying that.

Thank you.

This is Adriana's worst nightmare.

I'll have it.

No, you need to double.

Cheers with us.

You need to take a sip on camera.

This is fun.

This is why you need to be watching on YouTube.

Adriana is about to drink olive juice.

Cheers.

Cheers.

Cheers.

Adriana, take a sip.

Take a sip.

Red favorite form of content.

You should see her eating an oyster.

Cheers.

Oh, you're going to love it.

No.

You're going to love it.

Adriana?

I hate you.

Come on.

Be a classy bitch.

Take a real sip.

That's not a real fucking sip.

You let it touch your lips like church.

I'll take it.

I'll take it.

I'll take it.

Thank you.

Okay.

Whatever.

Double fisting for the next segment.

I am double fisting over here.

All right, we're going to play Perfect 10, but best friend edition.

So, they are Perfect 10, but chronically late to everything, including things that really matter to you.

It's not cool to be late.

No, it's not.

We value timeliness.

Yeah, it's timeless.

I'm early.

Early is on time.

On time is late

except if you're the queen of genovia

are you are you merging now

alone is merging her drinks hold on keep going you don't need a trip with martini right now can i say something about martinis i heard this recently yeah martinis are like tits one is not take a drink hold on

one is not enough and three is too many interesting herd

i'm I'm not trying to have a four-drink summer.

People are only people are shopping at two drinks.

Let's get let's get loose.

Let's have a little bit more fun.

Okay.

I need to go home at 9:30.

Okay, is this to other people or is this about you?

This is me and my friends.

Okay, there we go.

There we go.

So, best friends, perfect 10, but they only want two drinks.

So, yeah, negative two.

You know what?

I don't actually understand dirty martinis.

Okay, talk us through it.

Sorry, this segment's going off their rails.

We'll get back to it.

Um,

It's almost soup.

You know what I'm saying?

It's meat.

It's like vodka.

Do you even actually like the taste of it?

I don't know if I actually like the taste of it.

Love the taste of it.

I just drink it because it's cool.

You sip pickle juice.

Yeah, sure.

You got her there.

It's delicious.

I don't know.

It does something to me.

Okay, they're chronically late.

They're perfect time, but they're chronically late.

That's disrespectful to your time.

That's not, they don't like.

That yeah, I don't like that.

I want to be friends with that.

Honestly, a three.

I'll go five.

I judge people for that.

Be better.

Maybe they're a really good time when they get there.

I don't care.

Seven and Leah, I need you to figure it out.

Oh, we're naming names.

She's had one sip of a martini.

She's coming for all of you.

She's messed up.

Okay, perfect 10 best friend, but they get jealous when you have other close friends.

That's possessing me and not okay.

They're still 10.

I don't know what the problem is.

Oh, that's interesting.

Actually, maybe 11.

I think that when you're first becoming friends, it can be like maybe you're not sure of your placement.

Right.

But I think you have to also come to terms with

it's good to have other people in your life.

And also, you kind of should have that conversation of where you are at.

Like, you know, how do we, you know, what do we, how do we feel about each other?

It's not like, it's almost like you're dating.

Yeah.

You're with your best friend.

It's like you're dating.

You have to figure out what this is.

What is this?

What are we?

Yeah, you can't be, but you can't be toxic and not about it.

Don't do that.

Don't do that.

So

four,

five.

That was for a five for me, Dre.

Well, I don't know if I have this many opinions on it.

I'm sorry.

I want to say eight.

I've had possessive friendships.

So

it's a lot.

Okay.

Maybe I have haven't had something like that.

That's okay.

You don't have to answer.

Maybe I hold off on answering.

Until I ever do.

Okay, so we'll circle back, guys, after she's not.

How many years?

Maybe I am the possessive friend as well.

I've told I can be confused.

Alona's eating her garnishes, everyone.

Hey, she's got another glass, though.

I'm going to read this.

Perfect 10 best friend, but they bring their poorly trained dog to every hang.

The dog's hair gets on everything.

Two.

You already know how we feel.

So I was bit by dogs a couple times.

I got bit one time, like

on the eye.

It was just like a dog barking, having fun.

And then he like all of a sudden jumped out and bit me.

And then I don't remember the other time, but I just remember being bit.

So like I can't, I get very scared of dogs and so when like dogs come up and like if i love a very calm well-trained puppy but if it's a very dog that's going to jump on me i just remember this dog was jumping on me then all of a sudden it went and bit me so i just don't trust it i think we have this idea that everybody just loves dogs and i like dogs but i like well-trained dogs i'm just i get scared around them and i think it's okay to feel that way but also you have to give people that space to yeah and not assume that everybody's gonna just love your puppy.

That's how the reaction happens.

Who knows what's happened in their past?

When I walk into like a cafe or something and there's a dog in there and the owner just lets it, like one of those extension leashes just come right up to you and start jumping on you.

I'm like, I act like, like,

it's dramatic.

Like when somebody's smoking near you on the street and you're like,

like that's me with like a dog that's jumping in an establishment.

I'm like, don't like, no, that's not an okay reaction, you know?

Yeah.

And it's not, as you said, it's not a reflection on the dog.

It's the owners too.

Like, people get puppies and then don't train them well.

Like, this is another life.

It's another life that you have to take care of.

You have to train.

You have to take big responsibility.

I can't wait to have a dog, but I want to be in a place in life when I can give it the best life.

Give it the best life.

Train it, give it a good home, be walking or outside, like all that stuff.

So,

yeah.

So, what's the answer?

Two.

Two.

Three.

Three.

Three.

Best friend, but they have a bird.

One.

And my best friend, Alyssa, had birds growing up.

People People with birds are a different breed.

That is the point.

They throw blankets over the cage, but they still sense you.

What?

Why would you want that in your house?

But birds are meant to fly, too.

Birds are birds.

They're meant to fly.

And they're stuck in a cage.

You're going to cage them.

You monster.

They're tweeting all the time.

I was bit by a bird.

I lost something once.

It was a swan.

She was chased by it at a zoo.

Ugh, God.

And then the next time we visited the zoo, a parrot shit on me.

I just don't like birds.

Sorry.

Alona hates birds too.

Hate them.

I'm constantly in New York when a pigeon fly

dunking.

Pigeons are a sad story, though, guys.

They are.

I love pigeons.

We get rid of them when they stop being useful to us, which is very sad.

So they weren't made to be in the wild.

That's why their nests look like shit.

They're domesticated completely.

They don't know how to be in the wild.

you know what i learned is that those tiny little birds in new york are like invasive and they're everywhere i believe it which birds the little tiny ones

at least that's what my friend kevin told me so in uh amsterdam the vondelpark which is like their uh central park there's a shit ton of parrots because people kept getting them as pets pets and they're a lot so then they would release them into the wild so now there's wild populations of parrots in amsterdam can they survive the winter they apparently do yeah so i guess not a super harsh winter well that

was fun.

Guys, thank you for joining us for another Perfect 10, but best friend edition.

Somebody's watching with their dog on the couch.

Their bird in the corner going, hey, what the fuck?

What the fuck?

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