EASY BREEZY SUMMER DATING GUIDE
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If someone doesn't communicate with you or makes plans with you, trust me, they're probably doing it with someone else.
It's about time that we stop making excuses for people who are unavailable and don't communicate well.
I mean, come on, girls and boys, communication is the very, very, very minimum basic.
Do you guys agree?
Number two and I learned this the hard way by making this mistake.
If you guys met on a dating app and you're exclusively dating and you find out your person is still fishing around to see what other fish are in the ocean, they don't respect you or they don't care enough about you.
Cut it out, move to the next one.
I really, really believe respect is key.
If there's no respect, what else are we going to have?
Number three, and I think this is really important, especially now that it's summertime.
The way you look, your body type, is not measurement for how much or how little somebody's gonna like you.
It's not about being perfect.
The right person is gonna love us.
A little fatter, a little skinnier, tall.
It doesn't matter what kind of bathing suit you wear, whatever makes you happy.
So please remember, before you're embarrassed, like, oh, I don't want to wear a bathing suit in front of him.
Oh, my God, you know, my body's not perfect.
have fun enjoy your summer the right guy the right girl for you is gonna love every little bit of you or like john legend saying oh you're perfect imperfection i think one of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to dating is people that tell you they're ready they actually want a relationship but they're emotionally unavailable meaning sometimes they're hot sometimes they're cold sometimes they make plans sometimes they don't i've made that mistake before like oh he's gonna change for me he's gonna change for me Guess what?
They're not.
If somebody is not consistently making plans, making a part of their life, move on to somebody who actually is.
Nobody is going to change for us.
If a guy tells you they're not ready, believe me, they're not ready.
Let's move on.
Let's not waste any more time.
Have fun.
The right person is going to want to enjoy it with you.
Bottom line,
if you care too much about what people think of you or how your body looks, you're never going to be happy, you're never going to enjoy yourself.
So, love yourself first.
Enjoy life, every minute of it, and don't care that much.
I want to say thank you, Previale Luxury Concierge Services, for the gorgeous locations that we've been shooting at on the Luz this past few days.
They have the most amazing houses for short-term rentals, vacations, Coachella next year.
So, thank you, Prevelli.
I look at you, and it's easy to see.
You are the someone I've been trying to meet.
I got your number, won't you pick up the phone?
Don't leave me hanging on the dial tone.
Think back to the night that we met,
jumping in the pool, talk to you.