SEX TOYS TALK - XXX RATED FUN

This episode of Cat on the Lose is actually a B2B episode with another sex podcast that I love so much called Sex and Bacon with host my dear friend Sarah Hughes.

We recorded the episode and we are going to drop it on my podcast, which I'm doing right now, and she's dropping on hers Sex and Bacon.

So it's a collaboration and I love, love, love women that do the same thing, joining forces in projects.

I think women need to stop looking at each other as competition.

It's like music, there is space for everyone.

It's about time that more women collaborate and help each other.

So, I'm incredibly grateful and honored to have Sarah doing this episode with me.

And I am very, very happy and honored to call her dear friend, Sarah Hughes, from Saxon Bacon.

Hey, girlies and guys out there, welcome to our Cat Kingdom.

Happy Friday.

I hope you have a life that you love every day, not Friday through Sunday, but I'm going to get you.

We can start it with some hot, hot, hot, fun, fun, fun, XX rated conversation.

So, before today's episode, I am going to warn you, it's going to be about sex, about sex toys.

And I am trying to break barriers and normalize this conversation

for once and for all.

But if you're squeamish, if you don't feel comfortable talking about sex, if you don't feel comfortable listening to girls openly talk about sexuality, bodies, and

sex toys and all of these subjects, this episode is not for you.

But this is a no judgment zone.

I have almost 200 other episodes about dating and relationships.

And there are over 3 million podcasts out in the world right now, which is fantastic.

So if you don't like this content, please just move on to something you prefer.

If you do love talking about sex, if you are interested in knowing more about sex toys, or if you want to explore the subject, like a lot of my girlfriends, they want to use sex toys, they want to know more about sex toys, they want to introduce sex toys in bed with their partners, but they don't know how to do it.

We're going to give you as many suggestions as we possibly can.

And this is a very, very, very special episode to me because I've been doing Cat on the Loose for three years now, a little over three years now.

And in three years, I have gotten over hundreds and hundreds of of messages from you guys asking me which sex toys do you use?

Do you have a brand that you recommend?

Where should we buy one?

What should we do?

And I've been doing tons and tons and tons of research.

I have talked to several sex toy brands out there, and I finally, finally, finally found the right partner in this brand new, innovative sex toy brand called Prazeris.

Prazeris, for those of you guys who don't that don't know, means pleasures in Portuguese.

We all all know that Brazilian culture is very open-minded when it comes to talking about sex and exploring sexuality and having healthy, fulfilling sex lives.

And I love the name.

Let's explore all of that with Prazeris.

And I am super, super happy and honored that I am actually teaming up with them.

All the sex toys are incredibly sexy, really fun, really flirty.

A lot of them are miniatures, which I love

because you can literally put it in your purse.

You can take it on vacation with you if you're going to fly.

We're going to talk about it on today's episode: how you can use these miniatures as major fun for play on date night or with your partner to spice up your marriage.

So,

even before I watch, this episode is going to be very visual because we're talking about sex toys and I have all of them on video.

So, this is what I recommend: before or after you listen to the episode, check out the website prazeris.com.

If you don't know how to spell it it's p-r-a-z-e-r-e-s dot com prazeris toys.com sorry and check out the instagram the same name prazeris toys and go take a look at my insta youtube twitter i'm putting it all over my social media the videos that i did about it showing you every one of those the products photographing because one thing is listening about it but the other thing is when you actually go and can see it for yourself So, check out the site, check out everything, and come back and listen to it.

And I really hope if you've never used sex toys before, that this is an open door for you to go and explore and have fun.

Obviously, needless to say, this is adult-oriented content, 18 and above.

If you're not, move on to something else more appropriate for your age.

But if you are a consenting adult, I highly recommend you guys go check out Prazeris.

And you know what?

Buy some sex toys.

Tell your partner about it.

So many men want to do it and they're embarrassed to tell their partners.

So many girls want to do it, want to bring sex toys in bed with their partners and they're embarrassed to talk about it.

This is your chance because sex toys have never been sexier than Prazeris right now.

I hope you guys enjoy it.

I hope you have an amazing weekend.

And I hope all of us have an incredibly happy, fulfilling, amazing sex life, which is a huge part of a healthy, fun adult life.

And before I let you go, one more thing that I want to mention that kind of breaks my heart, but it is what it is.

I think we live in a world of huge hypocrisy, because if you go on social media, you can buy prescription medication right off of Instagram.

I'm not kidding you.

There are posts about, oh, if you're depressed, if you're overweight, if you're this and you're that and you're that, and it's totally fine.

Medication.

Now, if you try to sell a sex toy on Instagram, you can't.

The word sex is constantly banned, constantly shadow banned, constantly associated with negative things.

And it breaks my heart because I'm always saying I'm not a doctor, but you guys can Google it.

You can talk to your own doctors about it.

Having sex, having orgasms is one of the most natural ways to battle depression, to make you feel better, it fills your brain and your body with amazing good feeling good endorphins and hormones.

And to this day, I cannot believe it.

It's still such taboo for us to talk about it.

So my goal with the podcast, with my work with Praziris, with all of this work that I do, is to normalize men and women especially talking about it, using sex toys, talking about sex to their partners, asking for what they want, fulfilling their needs, fulfilling their fantasies instead of dying frustrated and embarrassed.

Because I think it's more than late that this

topic becomes normal and mainstream.

Okay, so the entire podcast.

Thank you, Praziris, for sponsoring it, for providing us with amazing videos, photo shoots.

I love you guys, and I hope you guys enjoy it.

Moir.

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Moi.

Hi, guys, girlies out there.

This is like a really fun, fair warning, XX rated episode of Cat on the Loose and Sex and Bacon with my dear, dear friend Sarah Hughes, host of Sex and Bacon, who is here with me to dissect the world of sex toys.

Hi, Sarah.

Hello, cat.

Thank you.

I'm excited for this.

This, for both of our, for our shows and our podcast for us to go out.

This is amazing.

Right.

I know.

I think it's, it's obviously both our audiences, hopefully, they're super interested in the subject.

My podcast is about sex, dating, and relationships.

And I always say that I think sex is a huge and really important part of any relationship that you might have and even with yourself.

And it breaks my heart that it's still such taboo to so many people to talk about it.

Oh, I know, it's crazy.

And it's, it's, I think, like, the big thing, too, I'm noticing is like even masturbation, just talking about that, people are so uncomfortable with.

It's almost like sex, sometimes they can kind of get on board with having a conversation about, but then, like, the minute you start talking about like personal self-pleasure, people are like, whoa, I know, I can't tell you about that, yeah, exactly.

And even like on Instagram, I don't know if it happens to you, but like, I think I told you, like, with my accounts, whenever you use the word sex, they the the the algorithms detect the word as something illegal something bad something that like child pornography and all this crap and it breaks my heart because obviously it's not the case i think sex is something very healthy if it's done by consenting adults and i really really think if more people had happy fulfilling sexual lives the world would be a much better place seriously oh totally right who's miserable when they're getting off all the time and you're on like that orgasm high?

Like, even my friends tell me that all the time.

Like, when I've had sex, they're like, oh, she's on a dick high.

If you want to ask her anything, ask her now because she'll be really nice.

And when it wears off, it's like I'm back to that like harsh truth that they don't like.

But like when I'm on this like elated dick high, it's like, oh, you know, yes, I think that's wonderful.

Totally, 1 million percent.

And I think it gives us the flush in the skin, you know, makes your skin look good.

It just makes the world a better place.

So today,

because we both partnered with this new sex toy brand called prazeris which means pleasures in portuguese i love it they uh came up with something very innovative which is number one this mystify that using sex toys is something dirty and that only perverts do number two the toys are very sexy super adorable and very user friendly and a lot of them are very small miniature toys that you can actually travel with that you can put in your purse that you can use it discreetly so let's talk about all the sex toys that the Prazeris have to offer and I'm sure you can help me I came up with this idea tell me what you think about it because we didn't plan anything because we do everything organically non-scripted I there are some people out there in the world that never used sex toys then there's some people that use it but are embarrassed to talk to their partners about using it together and then there's the more advanced group How about we give ideas for all of these groups one at a time?

Yes, I love that.

I think that's a great idea.

Absolutely.

I know you have a lot of experience in the subject, and I know you're very comfortable talking about sex, so let's rock and roll.

Yeah, it's like my specialty of like passion, the only thing I'm really good at talking about.

So,

you're very good at talking about it.

So, I'm literally to keep this very, very real, I am sitting in my bedroom in my bed at at home and i put all the sex toys that i love and use the big box of sex toys that i got from prazides and i know yours is on its way but you have been helping and working as a creative collaborator so you know a lot about it so for me i'm single now i'm not in a relationship i use my vibrators my vibrators almost every night the girls out there listening to us let's start with the single girls that because i have a lot of friends like that they're intimidated they're like oh what should I buy what should I do my suggestion tell me if you agree or not to like for a beginner I think the basic of the basic of the basic is the bunny I love the bunny do you love the bunny

you know what that one's been around for like decades and decades that kind of like style and I think they're actually just getting better because when I was really young like in my god early 20s so I mean I'm dating myself now they weren't that comfortable and they weren't as soft as what that one is there.

And I found them very hard and rigid on the inside.

And it wasn't comfortable, but like come a long way.

And that one is amazing.

And it feels more real, it feels gentle.

The angles, they're getting way better with the angles now.

Before, it was like they were never matching at the same time.

And so, yeah, they've come a long way.

And that is absolutely a great one to start with.

Yeah, no, I completely agree with you.

They came a long way.

And this one is like crazy soft, which to me is important.

And I think the bunny, I was talking to one of my friends the other day because she's very intimidated about using sex toys.

You know who she is, but we're not gonna say her name here.

And I told her, get the freaking bunny because if you never used the sex toy before, it's like moron proof, right?

It literally works like a dick.

However, it has an extra feature that a real dick doesn't have, the little bunny ears that will literally massage your clitoris so nicely that most girls will come very fast at least that's my case i don't know if you love it but i use it almost every night i love it yeah no it's a good one and then you know i've never really when i was younger i didn't really understand what the point of the actual like kind of bunny ears on it and how like they kind of spread a little bit but now that i'm older and i have a better understanding of my clit and this like the nerves on the sides of it it's like it is it's perfect because it kind of goes around on the outside of it and it can kind of massage it a little bit bit while it's still inside.

And you get both and you can move it whatever pace you need.

So yeah, it is a wonderful, wonderful toy.

I absolutely love that one.

Yeah, and it's interesting that you mentioned that, like, we learn as we grow older or more mature, we learn how to understand our bodies and explore our bodies better.

No shame if you're not at this stage yet, because believe it or not, most people in the world are not.

They die embarrassed to explore their own bodies, their own sexuality, their own pleasure.

Sorry, guys, had a tiny minor interruption.

Somebody called me.

But I was saying, I know a lot of girls don't know how to give themselves pleasure.

And this is the fun part about buying a sex toy.

Try it out, right, Sarah?

Try out different positions.

Figure out how your body reacts.

Don't be shy, especially if you're with yourself.

Totally.

But you know what?

It is surprising.

And I think that there's the unfortunate part of like that shame and that kind of like,

it's a sin.

It's frowned upon.

Sex isn't meant for pleasure.

Don't touch yourself.

That like people see and hear at a young age.

And then you have these women that grow up and all of a sudden they don't even know how to masturbate.

They don't know what that really looks like.

They don't know their body.

And it's not until later in life that all of a sudden

they're around it more.

They hear other people talking about it.

And they're like, oh, okay, so maybe I could figure this out for myself.

And then they kind of start to explore.

But we really should be teaching, you know, young adults the healthy habits of masturbation and toys and pleasure and orgasm and all of those things and really more education on understanding.

your body, knowing the parts, knowing the different, you know, places that you do have sensations and the nerves that feel good, touch this way or that way.

And unfortunately, it's lacking.

And then you have all these women that are missing out, right?

Oh my God, 1 million percent.

And you're absolutely right.

Most people grow up with this idea that talking about sex and masturbation and vibrators, like you said, is something dirty and wrong.

And it isn't.

It's so healthy and it's so much fun.

I am living proof, and you know my story.

I was married for 14 years to a very, very conservative man.

I couldn't even dream about like talking about having a vibrator, a sex toy, or, oh, I want this orgasm or that orgasm or their

position because I was so, so judged.

And it's just now,

after the marriage, after everything that I've been through, that I'm finally learning how to love my body and give myself pleasure alone or with a partner.

And I completely agree with you.

It's so, so important.

And I'm telling you guys and girls out there, if you're listening to this episode, hurry up, get your sex toy.

You know what?

Go have some fun because once you get used to it and you realize that it's not a big deal, it changes your life.

It's life changing.

Totally.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So the money for starters.

Yeah.

A lot lot of women struggle to, you know, have that conversation with their partner.

Yeah.

But I think like it's one thing you can kind of almost say, like, I've been with a lot of guys who actually have asked if I've had a vibrator because they like the way that the vibration feels on them, really.

Them internally.

They like the way that it feels kind of like whether it's on their balls or

pushed against their shaft while they're inside.

So it's almost like I guess you could bring it up to your partner and be like, you know, I heard that this is actually really pleasurable for men and women.

You know, we could try this toy, start with something small, you know, like something, I mean, actually, this one here from

you guys, the massage, yes,

is amazing.

It has such intense power.

I was like, what the heck is this?

I've never come across something so small with so much power.

And the best thing is, it's rechargeable.

Yeah, by the way,

batteries, which is great.

Yeah, all of them nowadays, that's something that probably a lot of people don't know.

All of them, all of Prazieri's toys are rechargeable.

Yes, no battery needed, just like you charge your cell phone.

You plug it on the wall and you're good to go.

And most of them are waterproof as well.

And I want to mention something about the massager.

The bunny, and I can't believe I'm saying that, but it's true.

A lot of girls that never used sex toys before, they're a little intimidated by the bunny because it's penetration.

It's like a dick.

The massager, it's literally what it says that it is.

It's massaging your vagina, your clitoris, whatever you want.

And, guys, like you said, the more conservative guys, or maybe they're not conservative, they're just brought up to not talk about it.

When the girls say, let's use sex toys in bed, a lot of them think, oh, what if she likes the sex toy more than my dick?

Oh my God.

And guys, it's such a misconception because this is not what we mean.

We can still love, love, love your dick, which hopefully, right, if you have a partner, hopefully you love your partner's dick.

But it just adds a little spice to it.

Like you were saying, guys, don't be shy.

It doesn't make you gay if a vibrator is going to touch your body.

Right?

Absolutely.

No.

And like,

I mean, I know that a lot of girls, sometimes they're like worried that, like, same thing, like you said, my partner will think that he's not good enough or that I'm missing something.

But it's actually for both of you just to have fun with, for both of you to explore.

Turn it into like a little game, you know, like, okay, this month you go to the store, you pick out a toy, you want to try, and we're going to try it together.

Hey, next month, your turn.

You go, you pick out a toy, we're going to try it together.

No judgment, no anything.

It's just like, make it fun, make it spicy, make it different, right?

And like, that's a great way to introduce them.

I will tell you, honestly, I never had a partner that did that to me, but I would love if my next boyfriend was more open-minded to do that.

Like my ex-boyfriend that I had last year, we talked a lot about it.

Like, he was like, oh, let's go to a sec, because I think maybe he never did it.

I don't know.

And we talked about let's go to a sex store together or let's look.

Because by the way, guys, you can get these toys online because a lot of people are intimidated going to the store.

So that's the cool thing.

You can literally buy them online.

And I was interested.

I was like, oh, like you said, how sexy.

If I come home and he has a little toy for us in the bedroom, he keeps spicing things up.

I love this idea that he came up with like buy a different one every month.

Yeah, right.

Because you never know what you'll actually like and what you won't like unless you try different things.

And sometimes people aren't even aware of what is there and what's available.

Right.

And it doesn't necessarily always have to be a toy.

There's so many other things at those stores, from massage oils to different types of

candles, or there's little lotions and creams that are enhanced, say, a blowjob.

I mean, now they have literally pop rocks for blowjobs that you put in your mouth that are meant for that to enhance it.

Like, there's a lot of fun, creative things in

the middle that you can play with.

1 million percent.

The next one that I want to show you guys, and you're going to get yours hopefully in a few days because I sent you a box.

I'm in love with this one, the cherry.

And when I tell people about it, when I said, oh, you got to try the cherry, they're like, what do you mean?

What do you do with the cherry?

And I'm telling you, Sarah, it's very soft, right?

It's not too big and it's not too small.

It's the most delicious sensation I ever felt.

It's kind of like you're talking about the massager.

It's basically a massager in the shape of a delicious cherry.

And it's waterproof.

So, like, for me, I like to masturbate either in bed, or I love a bubble bath that really relaxes me.

So, you put it there and it gives you the best feeling in the world.

If you can have an orgasm without penetration, this is perfect.

But it's like the most.

It vibrates.

It vibrates in three speeds.

Yeah, it has three speeds, and it's very soft, guys.

Very soft, the little cherry.

I'm like in love with this cherry.

No kidding.

And I gave it to one of my best friends, his birthday was last week, and I gave it to him to try it out with his girlfriend.

And so, as far play, he was like massaging her pussy and everything with the cherry and put it inside her.

And he told me it turned her on.

Of course, she came and he turned they both on, like big time.

And then he got it from her pussy to his mouth.

So it's like a really, really fun foreplay little toy.

Oh, I love that.

Okay, that I'm excited to try that.

I wasn't sure when I saw it, too, but like that, it vibrates.

That's amazing.

Yes, it vibrates in three speeds, probably like the massage.

So for you guys that are listening, and don't forget to go to our instas because we are going to put videos of all the toys that we are talking about.

Because what I also love about Prazeris is not just about selling sex toys, it's about educating people and opening up like a very, very open, liberal conversation about the topic.

So there are a lot of blogs there, and we're going to post all these ideas, how to use the toys, how to talk to your partner about it.

But, like Sarah was saying, if you're a guy or a girl out there listening, maybe this is a fun, innocent one.

If you never

try to introduce a sex toy in bed with your partner, I think this is a really fun farplay one.

I would love to try it out with someone.

Yeah, absolutely.

Now, moving on, if you're a little bit more like naughty and not too shy talking about sex and sex toys, I think you've seen this one.

I'm in love with the little bullet necklaces.

The bullet necklaces are a miniature vibrator.

Actually, they come in two sizes.

The one that is a little bigger, but the mini one, I totally love because, first of all, I think you can wear it to go out as a conversation piece.

Like if you're single, if you go to a bar, because I promise you, tons and tons of people ask you, What is that?

What are you wearing?

And you can travel with it because it's discreet enough that nobody knows what it is.

And it's very delicious.

It's small, but it's powerful.

Same, it has a bunch of speeds.

I love that it's like a statement piece for jewelry that you never know.

I think that is actually what makes it even hotter.

I agree.

Exactly.

So like if you're like I said, if you're single, many times guys are shy approaching you.

It happens to all of us, right?

You go to a bar and stuff and the guys say, oh, she's so cute, but they're embarrassed approaching.

I actually have been approached by guys

because I had the bullet necklace and they were like, what is this?

Some people are like, oh, do you have Coke in there?

I'm like, no, I don't have Coke.

I don't do Coke, but it's a really cool, fun little vibrator toy toy that I like and if you're a couple I have a couple of my friends they're married and she wore it out to a restaurant and in the middle of dinner he was like giving her like a little dare and he said oh get the bullet off like because you can literally like unscrew it from the necklace And he was like, just start, yeah, so you can like play with yourself in the restaurant or the bar or something because it's so tiny and discreet.

I love that idea because I think a lot of people are like into, you know, like foreplay while they're out, you know, little bathroom kind of dips, you know, for some fun.

And like, even like, I mean, like a big thing that I think is kind of hot is like, you could literally take that to the bathroom and take like a quick like 30 second, one minute video of you playing with yourself for your partner, send it to them, you know, build up that sexual tension.

You're doing something naughty.

You're essentially masturbating in a public place.

Who doesn't want that?

I love that.

I never thought about that one.

I really like like that.

Yeah, so there's like a million different ways.

And again, if you're single, you do it to get people's attention.

You do it for yourself.

And if you are in a relationship or even dating, right?

If you're dating a person and you want to spice it up, I'm going to guess that most guys would be crazy turned on.

Like if you do a little video like that, you said, or you literally unscrew it in the middle of dinner.

And you're like, ooh, I'm going to do a little massage on myself.

Hopefully, any guy would be turned on by that, right?

Oh god, yeah.

Yeah, I would be.

I would be too.

I'm getting turned on as I speak.

I wish I had a hot day tonight, but I'm going to play with my toys.

This one is coming your way too.

And by the way, the little mini bullet, I want to show it to you guys.

They do it in gold and silver, so it's very fashionable.

Depending on your outfit.

Depending on your outfit.

Now, before I move on to the more advanced ones, because I know this is going to be really x-rated, but I know you're comfortable talking about it and I I need your help.

Let me ask your opinion because I get this message a lot from girls.

You know, a lot of girls tell me, Oh, I want to use sex toys and I want to masturbate, but it's really hard to get me in the mood.

Because obviously, it's easier if you're in bed with somebody that you really like and you're turned on.

How do you, if I do, if I have any rituals, anything that I do by myself that makes me turned on to actually use my sex toys and come, do you have anything that you do or you're you're always turned on

that's a tough one because it takes like sometimes it can take like nothing it could literally take you i'm out in public i see a cute guy or he walks by and he smells really good some like sometimes a smell can get me like very turned on and like thinking about that person on me um and like me smelling them they're close to me it I'm huge in like of words too.

So like I have obviously like some guy friends or guys and whatever that like I talk to and stuff and sometimes just even like the little message of somebody telling me what they were thinking about of me for the day or you know something flirty instantly can kind of like get me like going and thinking about it yeah so then it's like I try to like mentally roll with that and like envision that picture it or I mean in all reality I mean I know guys have like the spank bank but like so do we i like to think about past experiences past times that i've like been with somebody remembering how it felt the last time somebody spanked me or all of those little things that I can like pull up from like my memory of, oh, fuck, yeah, that was hot, oh, I missed that, or thinking about fantasies of what I want to do with somebody very easily can get me in the mood to like want to crawl into my bed and like roll with it.

So, no, I do do that too a lot.

I try to think about a moment that I that really turned me on and that I really liked to.

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Someone, and I do love if I'm dating,

like if somebody sends me a dirty text or talk dirty, but it's so rare.

It rarely happens to me.

It's very, very rare.

Guys are very shy these days.

I don't know if it's the same the case with you.

No, I like, no,

I'm like, you're lucky.

I like sending pictures too.

So sometimes like I might just take a video,

make a picture, make some little clips, and like I'll send them to, you know, a guy or two that I'm talking to just so that I can get some of the validation and like the 30 messages back because like who doesn't want that to get turned on right so I know yeah I mean I don't know maybe Canadian guys are a little bit different but no they're pretty dirty and they like to they like to talk about sex all day long oh my god here the ones I've come across here not shy yeah yeah here they're a lot shyer but I guess maybe I'm gonna take some pointers from you and start sending a few sexier photos to see if I spice up my dating life but what I do

and I know it sounds silly and simple but it really really works for me and I'm I'm putting the videos on my Instagram so you guys can literally go there and see it.

I either, like I said, I take a really nice, relaxing bubble bath, which really relaxes my body.

And now that I have the cherry, it turns me on big time because it's the best massage other than a nice man's hand on me, the guy that I like.

It's the best massage I've had.

You let me know once you get yours.

But then what I do, I come to my bedroom and I light a candle because it puts me in the mood for romance, even if it's alone.

I swear to God, it puts me in the mood to romance myself and it is really important to love your body and love yourself if you guys drink I know Sarah's not a big drinker I'm not a big drinker either but sometimes I bring like a little glass of wine or champagne just for like a sip or two just to toast myself sometimes I dip my bunny in the champagne because I like doing that to my man's dick

I don't know I feel like that I love love the taste of a little bit of champagne on my, and it really turns the guys on.

I don't know if you ever try that, like, if you bring a little bit of

now, yes, like you guys can go see the videos, but yeah, literally, I bring a glass of champagne and I put a little bit.

If I'm with a man, of course, I put it a little bit in my mouth, and then when I go give him a blowjob, like I spill on it, or I spill a tiny bit on their dick, and it can be champagne, white wine.

I mean, I'm not gonna recommend

red wine because it's gonna mess up too much.

I think usually champagne, yeah, but if you drink vodka, careful because it's alcohol, it might burn his dick.

But it usually champagne and white wine, and it's sexy, and it really turns the guy on.

But going back to being alone, I do that to myself.

And then, like, I suck my bunny.

I don't know if you suck your bunny.

I suck my bunny a little bit with my shoes.

I haven't.

But I kind of think I need to now.

Yes.

I'll tell you what.

Well, I don't know about you, but I've talked about that in the past.

I don't know if I ever asked you.

To me, a blowjob is not a job.

It's one of my favorite things in the world to do.

It turns me on like there's no tomorrow.

I love, love, love, love, love giving my guy a blowjob.

It turns me on.

So even if I'm going to masturbate and use the bunny, I know it's a bunny, but the act of blowing and

playing with the bunny makes me wet and it turns me off.

I mean, I like, don't get me wrong, I love giving a blowjob, but here's like, here's the thing: I love giving the blowjob because I love seeing how worked up you can get them and then like how excited.

And like, I love giving the blowjob to completion, knowing that you were able to like create that with just your mouth.

But then I also get super jealous that like they came from my mouth and not from my pussy.

So then I can't, it's like a double-edged thing.

Like, I'm very happy that I could do that, but then at the same time, I'm really mad that I didn't get anything more out of it for myself.

I feel the same way, but maybe you give them a blowjob, not until they come, you know, but just to enjoy the blowjob.

But so that's what I do for those of you that ask me.

My little ritual is, yeah, usually a nice bath, candles.

Playing with the vibrator, literally play with your toys, decide what excites you.

And then a friend asked me the other day, but I don't know how to make the toy make me come.

And I don't know if you have any pointers, but basically for me,

be in the same position, like what is your number one position that you like being in that makes a that that makes you come when when you're with a guy?

Oh, definitely on top.

Like I can have really good G-spot orgasms, but I need to be on top about 80% of the time.

Oh, really?

20% if it's with like a good, like a guy who kind of knows what he's doing and understands like my angles.

Yeah.

From them being on top, standing though, like off of a bed or something, I can also have a really good G-spot orgasm from that.

But yeah, I would definitely say,

I think they need to go into

their masturbation session, self-pleasure session with a little bit of like curiosity of exploration

to try to find their own G-spot.

I watched a video once that literally broke it down for me of where to find it, how to like kind of like touch that area.

And so I think if you have the right toy, which that bunny is pretty curved,

you should be able to take it and maybe not even first thinking like, okay, I'm going to make myself come, but use it in a way where you're kind of like, let me see what I can feel if I'm putting it inside, moving at this angle, front, back, higher, lower, pressure, less pressure.

And just kind of feel internally if you can feel like you're kind of hitting something.

So I would say explore first to try to to locate that spot, and then you know, once you kind of have a little bit more, then you'll know.

But yeah, I think that's a good idea.

And, like you said, play with it, no pressure.

Like, I just for me, my favorite position is the basic laying down and the guy on top of me.

It makes me come super fast.

So, usually, that's what I do with the bunny, but I also like being on top.

Sit on the bunny, like play with the toy, whichever way.

Like, don't put pressure on your head.

But I think the biggest problem most people have is, like I said, it's in their head because they were raised to think it's something dirty and bad to play with sex toys.

And it isn't.

Exploring your own pleasure and your own sexualities should be right completely normal.

So if you guys never used it, literally have fun with it.

Mess around, sit on it, lay on it, suck it, do whatever you have to do.

Massage yourself, massage your boobs, whatever parts of your body you like, because you're going to have a lot of of fun for sure, right?

Oh, for sure.

Yeah.

And I think you have to carve out time.

Like, I think people have this idea that, like, to masturbate, like, you got one minute, you got two minutes.

No, just schedule your give yourself time.

Set aside 30 minutes if you can to just play and touch and explore.

Try this toy, try a different one.

It's like, I think when you have the pressure, like you said, of the goal of like, oh, I have to come, and that's the goal, then automatically, if a toy isn't working for you, you kind of start to to think, well, I'm broken.

There's something wrong with me.

Why isn't this working?

Everybody else likes it.

You just need to relax more, give yourself more time.

One million percent.

Different ones.

Well, certain ones are going to work better for other people, right?

Yeah, 1 million percent.

And another thing that I do too, and I have no shame in talking, and I have no idea why it's such taboo to so many people.

I love watching a little bit of porn to turn me on.

I love it.

I don't do it all the time, but sometimes at night, if I decide, okay, i need an orgasm it really relaxes me it to me it's better than any drug you know how people take like medication to sleep they take antidepressants they take this nobody has a problem like they advertise about it it's completely fine and it's horrible for you and it's funny enough because an orgasm is like the most natural way in nature to relieve stress to put a ton of great hormones in your brain and it's such taboo to talk about it and i i get really really turned off by a few porn videos, and I love it, and I don't see a problem in that.

Do you watch porn by yourself at all?

1000% I do.

Sometimes, if I've had enough stimulation, whether it be from pictures or videos or conversations with like a guy, I don't need to.

That in itself can get me going, or I can look back through, you know, pictures or videos that have been sent.

But yeah, there is some times where it's like, definitely, it's like I feel like I want I want to see something different.

Sometimes I like looking at different things on there that I maybe want to try, kinks or fetishes.

And sometimes there's things that, like, I don't personally

say necessarily in my sex life often, but I love watching other people do it and I'm curious about it.

And so, yeah, definitely a little bit of porn, I think, can be healthy.

I completely agree.

And by the way, I know a lot of girls out there say, Oh my god, if I catch my husband watching porn, if I catch my boyfriend watching porn, girls, cut it out.

It doesn't mean he's cheating on you because he's watching porn.

A lot of guys get get really turned on, including watching porn with their partners.

And I need so many women out there, you need to just let it go.

It's we're not talking about like a porn addict, that's a whole other subject.

We're talking about like as a healthy part of feeling turned on, getting turned on, spicing up your relationship.

And so many women complain about it.

I'm like, why the hell?

It's porn.

Watch with your guy, find out what turns him on.

Maybe you learn some pointers from the porn stars that you never tried doing.

Totally, right?

Yeah, I love it.

Oh, so I'm going to make one suggestion before we change the subject.

There is one

porn, if because a lot of girls say that a lot of the most of the porn channels are very like rough and masculine.

There is one called porn for her, I think it's called.

I'll double-check.

Yeah, and it's

made tailored on the two-minute break.

I'll double-check, girls, because I know you asked me to tell you which one I watch.

It's a porn channel.

It's specifically for girls.

So the,

and it's very hot.

They're definitely X-rated.

But a lot of the videos are sexier.

Some are romantic.

Some are very seductive.

Some have amazing backgrounds.

I think it's called

For Her Porn or Porn for Her.

I would check it out on the break.

Porn for her.

Yeah, porn for her.

Okay, there you go.

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I'm going to take a two-minute break, Sarah, and

come back.

Let's get a little heavier for the people who are experts using sex toys.

Let's talk, let's go a little bit deeper in the subject.

This is a really fun

back-to-back episode of Cat on the Loose, Sex and Bacon, dissecting the use of sex toys let's normalize that for once and for all what do you think

there you go we'll be right back

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Okay, we're back on this super fun back-to-back episode of Cat and Deleuze and Sex and Bacon talking about sex toys and how normal it should be.

And we don't understand why it's not.

And we're trying to just normalize this conversation.

Using sex toys doesn't make you a better person, it doesn't make you a worse person, it doesn't make you a whore, it doesn't make you a perfect, it doesn't make you anything.

I think it's just a part of having a healthy, fulfilling, sexual life and pleasure with yourself or with your partner.

Do you agree, Sarah?

Totally.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So by the way, I was checking the porn website for girls.

If you girls like a little softer, sexier, romantic, but it's still x-rated, okay?

It's called forhertube.com.

That's my favorite.

And it's free.

So if you need something to turn you on and you want to try a sex toy, go for it.

And then you guys send us messages and let us know if you like it.

Now, let's go and spice things up.

We talked about what beginners should do, we talked a little bit about intermediates, but some people are super comfortable using sex toys, such as me, and I think even more you, right?

Because I think you use even more

than I do.

So,

yeah, you're a big fan.

So, am I, but usually, mine are the basic ones.

Like I said, the bunny.

Now, I'm obsessed with the cherry, I'm obsessed with the bullet necklace, I'm obsessed with this one, the little lipstick vibrator.

I'm sending some your way to.

Have you seen this one, Sarah?

Oh, I haven't.

I know.

I love it.

And I love it for many reasons.

First, because it's discreet.

So, like, if you're going to go on vacation or travel or something, what an unexpected thing to pull out of your purse, even you're like on the freaking plane or in the car with your guy or like a weekend get away or something.

They think it's a lipstick and it's a very powerful little vibrator.

I'm not kidding.

I love that.

I love that you said airplane.

So now I have to ask you to see how out there you are.

So, would you, on an airplane, if you're sitting beside your partner while flying, maybe it's a little, you know, like dark, people have their blankets on, whatever, would you pull that out?

Would you have a little bit of fun?

1 million percent.

I am not a member of the Mile High Club, but I would like to be.

I am very adventurous sexually with the right partner.

I just have not had the luck yet to find a partner that wants to do all of these things with me.

But I think it would be amazing fun.

Like you're up there, like you said, and this is the fun about these toys.

They're so freaking discreet.

You can literally take this on a plane, like we said, in a car, or like even in a restaurant, like the bullet.

Right?

Yeah.

Like you said, you can pull it out when you go to the bathroom and your date is out there waiting and he thinks you're gonna touch up the lipstick, and then you go, oh, baby, look, it's just a little far play fun.

And it's small, Sarah.

Look, because the size of a lipstick, but it's insanely powerful.

I like that.

I think I would like plated it a little bit, insert it a little bit, and then pull it out and make him like lick it or something.

I love that.

Yeah, and I'm sure he would like that too.

And hopefully, most guys will like that.

And it comes in a bunch of colors.

So

I'm sending a bunch away.

So when you get your lipstick you let me know if you like it now what is your favorite sex toy

do you have one that you use the most that you can share your experience

okay

so

i recently was gifted a

a fuck machine i'm sure everybody has seen those i'm not sure it's like a fuck machine

I'm not sure if I have seen one, I swear to God.

Really?

Really?

It's on a little, like, it's a little machine.

It's got an extension, and then you can put all these little extensions on it.

And, like, essentially, it just like it's a machine, a powered machine with like a dildo on the end of it that like fucks you.

Oh my god, can you bring it on camera?

It's a different speeds.

I

am obsessed with it.

So

there's one attachment with it that literally curves up.

You can fold it, men do.

Is it big?

It curves up.

The machine?

Is the machine big?

The extension, the toy.

I can show you.

Yes, please.

Okay, everybody, hold on.

I'm going to grab this and so we can show Kat.

I am super curious because I, like I said, I use sex toys and I am insanely excited about my collection of Prazeri sex toys, but nobody ever gifted me a machine, and nobody ever gifted me sex toys.

And I am saying that because, guys,

honestly, most girls out there would love and be really, really, really turned on if their guy came home and gifted them one of these little sex toys.

So, I'm telling you, if you're a guy out there, don't see a sex toy as your competition.

Please see sex toys as something that is 1 million percent most definitely going to spice up your sex life.

And Sarah is back in her podcasting studio with some really bizarre dick machine.

Let me see,

and it has some attachments.

Oh my god, this is the actual machine itself.

Wow, it sits on the ground, suction cup, and then this is where the attachments go.

Oh, it's big, they just kind of click on like this, and then the machine literally, like a like a tool,

right?

The tip of it is literally

the seeds of it.

The tip of it literally looks like a dick.

Yeah, it's various attachments, but here's the thing.

They're thick, Sarah.

There's one special attachment

that does this.

Ah,

that.

So when we think about our G-spot, when our G-spot is inside and curved up,

this goes in and the pressure of it moving literally sits right on your G-spot.

And I can actually have full-on G-spot squirting orgasms from this.

Oh, my my god.

It sounds amazing.

No, it sounds amazing.

It really does.

But for people like me

who don't have this machine at home yet,

I'm sure Prazires is listening.

They're like, huh, we got to bring the sex machine.

The next step, and a lot of people asked me about it, so let's talk openly about it because I know some guys like it, some guys don't like it.

We're not judging anyone.

If it's not for you, it's totally fine.

Anal sex.

some sex toys really help people get a lot of pressure, pleasure when it comes to having anal sex.

So, let me ask about this one, and I'll tell you my opinion, too.

Do you like butt plugs?

I do, I really do.

Yeah, so

I'm I'll tell you, I'm not a huge fan of anal sex, honestly.

It hurts like hell.

The only time I ever did it is when I was like with a partner that I was dating for a long time and I trust so much and he really likes it turns me on if I know it's turning my guy on so much.

But I do agree with you.

If you are gonna do anal sex, a nice cute butt plug might be a great turn on.

And this one, look at this, how cute it is, especially for girls who are not very used to doing anal sex.

It's a rose.

And it's made.

I don't do anal sex, but I will do, I like butt plugs.

Ah,

interesting.

I can comfortably use a butt plug, and I mean,

I'm obviously going to overshare here.

I actually prefer using a butt plug when I masturbate on myself.

I've only once ever used a butt plug with a partner, but I will use them often on myself.

Interesting.

I only used it once.

ever period with a partner because he really really liked it And yeah, like a God's honest truth, because we are very organic and we have to share to dismystify the subject.

It did turn me on having the butt plug while he was fucking me, as opposed to like getting anal sex that I definitely don't appreciate.

So it might be, it's a, but it's a toy that most people are very afraid of.

Totally.

Right?

So do you have any suggestions if some girl out there is listening, she's like, huh, I like this idea that Sarah said, maybe when I'm masturbating, if somebody never used the butt plug, and this one is cute like hell, the rose, I haven't used it yet, but I think it's adorable.

Do you have any tips for people that never use the butt plug before?

What should they do or how do they use it?

Okay, so I find the most comfortable way for me to use that

is just if I'm laying on my back.

A lot of lube obviously is very important.

Having a little bit of a vibrator as well, stimulating your clit at the same time can make it a little bit easier to kind of comfortably get it in.

And once you kind of get it past, like obviously the barrier of your ass, it is comfortable and it feels good.

The way they are shaped, obviously, is once it's all the way in, it stays in there, it gets smaller, so it clenches on there.

Now, because I'm not a person who does anal sex, I don't typically have more of a looser or stretched asshole, to be honest.

So I do find, say, after you've had your orgasm,

I do find it can be very uncomfortable taking them out.

So, what I do recommend 100%

is, and I know that this sounds weird, whatever, but ladies, I've the times I have tried to just pull it out from just being in a lay down position, it hurts.

But if I get down and like I squat as if obviously, as if you were pushing to either, let's say, push out a baby or go to the bathroom, that position and pushing down and then gently pulling it out can help you comfortably remove it

for all the ladies who have virgin assholes and you're not having anal sex do that and then it doesn't feel painful taking it out because otherwise it can be very uncomfortable taking it out one minute no i'm the same i don't like anal sex I've had it very few times in my life with one person a long time ago.

I agree with you.

And yes, if you're going to try to use a butt plug, you got to be careful, but you might like it.

some people really enjoy it once they learn how to do it so i just wanted to demystify and i don't want people to think that because a lot of people think oh this you know only gays use butt plugs no but some girls really like that too

yeah right some girls get really turned on you know around that area

Totally.

And there's so many different sizes.

Like if you want to start playing with, you know, anal play, do not go grab the biggest butt plug out there.

They have some very small ones that you can work your way up to.

See if you even like it.

And you know, for guys, like, I've had guys that have said, Yeah, a girl wanted to try a butt plug on me, and I hated it, it was uncomfortable.

And then, when they show me it, I'm like, Whoa, that's way too big.

Like, that's not what you start with, that's what you end with, you know, months and months later.

Yeah, so make sure you are picking appropriate sizes and shop around.

And I mean, that one looks very nice and sleek, it looks comfortable.

That would be a great first, you know, starter to, yeah, yeah, totally.

I agree.

And it's interesting that you said that because I know

the ass

area, the anal area, is very, very sensitive for men.

But most of them, it's such taboo that they don't.

And I'm not even talking about butt plugs now, I'm talking about like if you're giving a blowjob and you're leaking that area.

They, a lot of guys love that, right?

They go crazy because it's such a sensitive area.

But many men don't even let you go anywhere near that area because they think, oh, that's gonna make me gay.

But I'm saying, guys, cut it out.

Letting your girl lick that area, massage that area with her finger, with her tongue, doesn't make you gay, and it can be insanely pleasurable.

Yeah,

do you agree?

Absolutely.

Yeah.

So, okay.

I think we got butt plug questions out of the way.

And

oh, there is one more.

Do you like with your machine

or with your guy

like double penetration?

The guy and the vibrator, or the now, I know your machine, I don't know if it does double penetration, but do you like double penetration or not, or have you ever done it?

So

it's funny.

I have it, it's a goal of mine,

but not double penetration, anal and vagina.

It is literally a goal of mine.

And I've even talked to the guy that I'm currently, you know, having fun with.

Okay, so double penetration is definitely on my list, but not in the typical way that most people want to do it of ass and pussy.

And I've told the guy that I'm having some fun with, like, I want to do this, but I want double penetration in my vagina.

Not a big dick and a a big toy,

a smaller toy and then a dick.

Like, I just want it.

I've seen it in a porn.

This is the thing.

So, you get ideas in porn.

I saw it in a porn and I was like, I need to try that.

Don't get me wrong, two guys.

It'd be more ideal of like, you know, my bucket list thing, but I'm willing to try it with a dildo toy and then a partner that I'm obviously with.

And yeah, so yeah, it's it's on my list.

Oh my god, I never had double penetration on either my vagina or my vagina and my ass

because I'm not sure I want it to be honest with you.

I want one delicious dick that I really like.

Maybe a butt plug if my guy is really into that.

Maybe,

or like my delicious vibrator, but I don't know how I feel about a bunch of things in me

simultaneously.

But no judgment, no judgment if anybody out there wants it.

Now,

before we're done, something really simple that I know turns me on a lot and turns on guys a lot.

And I'm shocked that a lot of couples don't do it, like they get lazy.

Super, super sexy X-rated lingerie.

Do you use like sexy lingerie?

I use it all the time.

So I love it.

I love wearing it.

I love how I feel in it.

But I'm not going to lie, unless you have a guy that kind of vocalizes the fact that he loves it and he likes it, it can make a girl feel awkward and uncomfortable.

Like, I've had, I was actually with a guy for a little while and he said he hated it.

He hated everything black, hated anything lacy.

And so like, I was like, oh.

And then I was like, oh, so then it's like, you would feel stupid, obviously, if you had something on.

So I do feel like for myself, I do need that validation.

and that verbal confirmation from a guy first that like they're they love it they're into it they find it hot

um and then I 1000% love it.

I love wearing it underneath the dress, going out, and then like you start fooling around in the car before you go home, and then they get to be surprised by it.

I love that I do too, because believe it or not, even when I'm not in a relationship, which is the case now, I do it for myself because it turns me on.

Just knowing, like, I'm gonna show you this one because I'm not kidding, I'm in love with it.

This is called the Take Me Now set,

it's like this little underwear with a little hole on the pussy and little holes where the nipples go.

So they're crazy sexy.

Like Take Me Now.

You don't even have to take it off.

Okay.

Yeah.

Just knowing that I'm wearing super, super sexy numbers, even if I'm not dating anybody, even if I'm not going out on a date, it turns me on about my body.

I don't know if it's that's crazy, but it makes me feel like, ooh, you know, I know my pussy is a little free.

It's ready for sex.

It's ready for romance, even if it's with myself.

And I think it's really important.

And maybe some people, they're going to think I'm crazy.

But I think it's really, really important to be turned on by yourself.

Even before you are in a partnership, to look at yourself in the mirror and say, you know what?

I want to make myself come.

I like the way my body looks.

I like the way my pussy looks.

Whatever it is that you have to do to your body.

But that's just something like my little intimate ritual that I'm sharing with you guys here today.

It works for me.

It always puts me in the mood for anything.

No, I love that.

I'm going to have to do more of that.

Because I do.

I like how I feel.

I like the way it looks.

I love the sets.

I love the stockings, the garter belt.

I love all of it.

But you're right.

I should do it more for me, not necessarily for somebody else, right?

Right.

Yeah.

I think for somebody else, if like you said, if the guy doesn't like it, whatever.

But most guys like it.

And believe it or not, one of the number one complaints about men, like especially married men, that the girls get lazy.

Like their wives wear those underwears that look like diapers or like the bra like looks like shit cotton bra.

And they're like, oh, but it's comfortable.

It's going.

But I agree with the guys.

Come on, make a freaking effort.

Do you really need to walk around in granny's panties?

Or do you really need to sleep in cotton PJs?

Can't you make an effort and put a cute little negligent on or a sexy little camy top?

So that's the couple's part.

I agree.

But for us,

yes, at least for me, it makes me feel sexy all the time.

And I think if you feel sexy, I remember, I don't know who it was a long time ago.

I don't know if it was J-Lo or J-Lo stylist.

I forgot.

But I remember I heard somebody saying, like, yeah, you need to start feeling sexy from the inside out.

So if you put sexy lingerie on, or even like you organize your hair, makeup, if you start feeling sexy from your body out, I think you're gonna exude that vibe out there.

No, I like that.

And I mean, for all the single ladies, if you have something sexy on when you're out and it's underneath your outfit, I feel like I would be so much more motivated for like a quick little, you know, like rendezvous in the bathroom with the hawkeye at the restaurant or the bar.

You know, you're always ready for some fun.

Yeah, I never did that, but I mean, I'm open-minded.

It might happen, right?

Like a rendezvous with a stranger once before.

totally

have you done that i don't know

have you done that before sarah oh my god i've done so much of that yeah really i love that yeah i have unfortunately i am that girl that will see a cute guy in a bar and be like hey you want to go to the bathroom of like the restaurant and i will have a hookup why did you say unfortunately

i love how you're i why did you say unfortunately i really really love

how you're open about it and you're comfortable doing it and it's like you deserve to do whatever the hell makes you happy.

Hey, if a guy does that, he doesn't get judged at all, yeah, at all.

Yeah, yeah.

And I mean, it could still safe sex, right?

Like, it's not like, oh, you're disappearing into the bathroom and it's like some dirty thing.

I mean, you can still practice safe sex anywhere you are.

Oh, yeah.

Car, parking lot, bathroom, beach, whatever.

You can practice safe sex, you can have fun.

I'm all for it.

I am too.

And you know what?

Listen, as long as people you're an adult

and you're consenting to it, I think you should do whatever it is in this world that will bring you pleasure and make you happy.

And I love that you're super comfortable talking about it.

I'm excited for all those little toys that are purse-sized because those are things that I literally have like sometimes like paddles in my purse of like, you know, for spanking and BDSM and stuff.

And like now, I don't have to worry about having to carry around such big items in such a big purse.

I can put those in my bra of dress, I can wear it as jewelry, and I can have something with me at all times to have fun, to be spicy, to get you guys.

I'm super excited for that.

All of this toys, yeah, let me know what you think when you get them and do some photos and videos.

But I'm telling you guys, go check it out.

The website is Prazeris, it means pleasures in Portuguese, P-R-A-Z-E-R-E-S dot com, and you can use the code sex and bacon, or you can use the code

cat on the loose for 10% off, whatever one of these toys or all of these toys that you guys want to buy.

And I'm not kidding you, they are so much fun, they are so cute, and they're really, really powerful and delicious.

They really, really work.

Absolutely, I can't wait to try them all.

And I can't wait to talk to you.

Maybe we need to do a next episode, and then we can talk about the more spicy things like

bondage and all that world

because that's a whole other episode.

But I hope we covered at least the basics and a little bit more.

And we are totally.

And we're really, really, really, I think our goal is to encourage you guys to go out there and explore your bodies and explore your pleasure and explore what you can do with your partner in bed if you have a partner that is game to do it, right, Sarah?

Absolutely.

Have fun with it.

Enjoy learning what you like what you don't like enjoy you know the journey of self-exploration or having more fun or bringing something into the bedroom honestly things like that those little tiny ones yes even if like you haven't done it with your partner buy them and just have it sitting on like your pillow yeah you know in the bedroom when he walks in and he's gonna be like what is this yeah then you can have the conversation and you can play so

little ways to do it yes exactly and again if you think your guy's gonna be intimidated if you bring a dildo in bed, like the bunny,

like she just said, bring a little.

I doubt any man in the world will feel bad if you bring a little cherry into the bedroom.

And, guys, I promise you, if you bring a little cherry and you massage your girl with this cherry, oh, that is the most delicious far play in the world.

So, I hope everybody goes play.

I hope everybody gets their toys.

Send us the questions, send us the messages.

Let's normalize for once and for all.

And I will definitely be back with Sarah.

We're going to keep exploring the subject and doing more and more and more

X-rated episodes and just normalizing a life filled with orgasm and great sex because the world is a much better place if everybody has great sex and great orgasms, right, Sarah?

Yes, makes us all happier.

Yes, thank you for doing this with me.

I love you.

I can't wait to have you back here in LA.

Thank you.

I can't wait to try all the toys and to share it with everybody.

So stay tuned.

Amazing.

Thank you, Prazeris, for the amazing sex toys.

We love you.

And we'll be back very soon.

Be safe out there.

Like Sarah said, do whatever you want, but be safe.

Be safe.

I'm gonna go.

Phoenix is barking for me to take him out, but I'm gonna use my bunny first.

All this sex conversation is making me horny.

I'll see you guys very soon.

Love you.