Incredible Women Uncensored!!

Here we go.

This is such a special episode of Cat on the Loose because today I am not interviewing one guest.

I'm not interviewing two guests.

I'm interviewing a gorgeous group of, I don't even know how many of you, one, two, three, four, five, six, nine girls, eight girls, nine with me, and then all here with me at Little Brazil in Miami Beach.

And they're kind enough to be doing this.

Hi, girlies.

Hi.

Thank you so much.

This is so exciting.

I am so honored that you all came.

And you know we're going to talk about sex, dating, relationships.

Are you ready?

Are you ready or are you ready?

As I was saying before we started recording, I'm going to ask a bunch of questions that my listeners always send me.

Some are mild, some are super spicy.

So feel free to answer whichever ones you want.

So let's say if I ask you, whatever, is the sky blue?

Whoever wants to answer, just jump right in, okay?

Be nice, be courteous to each other, but please misbehave misbehave a lot.

We're not talking about finances, we're talking about the fun stuff, okay?

So, before we get started, I'm gonna ask who you are.

Introduce yourselves, what you do.

If you wanna tell me if you're single, if you're married, if you're in a situation, that's the new word.

I don't want to have a guy's word.

I have a lot of guys.

So, let's go.

My name is Michelle Maestock.

I am separated and happy to be here.

Hi, Kat.

My name is Liz.

I'm in a relationship situation.

I like that.

Hi, Kat.

My name is Juliana Leyte.

I am an attorney, and I'm single.

Single ready.

Jamingo.

Especially single.

Hi, Kat.

I'm Simone and I'm a medium and an author, female empowerment coach.

I'm divorced and I'm also single.

Hi, Kat.

My name is Marie Elena.

I am a model.

I'm a fitness instructor and I am single one.

Separated, single.

Well,

maybe Marielena is not sure what she is, but she doesn't know.

Hi guys, my name is Trina.

I'm a young instructor of Sister Conference and I'm actually married.

Yeah, so we have one married lady in the group.

Yes!

I have a question,

girl.

My name is Tawani.

I'm a Ryoder and I'm recently divorced.

Recently,

in

situation relationship,

future single.

I don't know.

I don't know.

Yeah, here you go.

Hi, girl.

My name is Alexandra.

I'm a professional.

I'm the darcer and I have a son.

I like that.

And we have one here with us via Zoom.

Oi.

Hi, Lou.

Hey, my name is Lucien Savior.

I hope that we have someone that is fine from Miami.

And

I'm the first

thing.

Get it.

Thank you, girls, so much.

So, we only have, we're gonna do this in two parts, okay?

Two parts of 30 minutes.

So, I'm gonna jump right on it.

And again, I really hope you girls are not shy because this is gonna be fun.

I'm gonna start with a mild, easy one, okay?

And I'm gonna answer all of them myself to be fair, since it's my podcast.

So, let's go.

First question: Are you girls sexually happy and satisfied or not?

Not one of them said yes.

Lena,

okay, Lena is the only married one.

Ah, Luciana said yes.

Okay.

Okay, so the married one said yes.

I said yes, but I want more.

Oh,

I like that.

So you're satisfied, but you want more.

And Luciana is

rock and roll there.

We gotta talk.

English, please, yeah.

I know.

We gotta figure out where you meet all this hot men because you have no idea where to go.

Okay, let's spice it up.

This one was easy, right?

Everybody's relaxed, everybody's game.

So, anything

that you guys have a fantasy or you would love to do in bed, but you are always too shy to ask.

Does anybody have the balls to answer this one?

The LASTAY.

So, you don't have any fantasies, anything that you never did that you like.

I think that fantasies are also fantasies.

Like, you have the fantasy of hotline.

Anybody else?

I agree with Lita.

Like, yeah, it would be so cool to have a dick in each hand and a hot guy and the hot ass and the ass and this.

But like, when it actually happens,

I don't know, do I really want all that shit in my mouth?

I don't know.

Like, in theory, yeah.

I don't need six.

I don't need one.

You just want one.

Yeah, I never had two.

I agree.

I never had two men at the same time.

And I'm not even sure if I want that.

But yeah, that's a fantasy of a lot of girls.

Did anybody ever do that?

Two guys at the same time?

Yeah.

It's great.

It's the best.

Oh my gosh.

I I want to get everyone differently.

I want to try.

I want to try.

It's amazing.

I would think that men wouldn't want to be like nor women, like threesomes with women, not men, right?

Interesting.

No, because

it doesn't mean they're gay.

Like, that's the whole misconception.

Men think that there's other people.

They don't need to focus on the girl.

They don't need to focus on the menu.

And it's

that both of them are the girl.

On the girl.

Yeah.

I know mean, I have had threesomes, but like me and a girl and a guy.

I never had the threesome like me and two guys.

Have you guys had threesomes like your guy and another girl?

No, no.

No, I would kill her.

Yes, me too.

Does anybody else?

Lena has done with your husband or somebody else?

I have her friend with somebody else.

Luciana.

Luciana, have you done it?

No, Luciana is too freaking jealous.

She will kill her too.

Have you?

No, no.

It doesn't end well sometimes.

I agree, yeah.

And honestly, I didn't like it, but I like doing it if it makes my man excited.

But I'm not into it, so I don't like women.

I mean, I like women, but I don't want to fuck them.

So one married one, because a lot of married girls send this question.

How do you keep the sparks alive?

like the hot sex well first you have to go to the acceptance that not all the the time they have to be a spark you know like marriages go through phases marriages go through phases and there's not always a spark you know so yeah we're focused on something else yeah maybe there's moments where we have a lot of spark you know maybe it's you know maybe you do three

i think you know at this point no not really like maybe at this point in our relationship um

I think we understand we really respect each other's space.

And for me, kind of like, I focus a lot on myself.

And I think that makes my partner

you know feeling satisfied because I take care of myself and I yes you know and I'm and even sexually you know like I know what I want so it's not

yeah there is honesty

makes sense okay that doesn't sound like it helps a lot other than

I'm not sure what I would do either

okay now that's a really tough one and I hope one of you can help me out believe it or not I get this question a lot When you're giving a guy a blowjob, the area like below the balls, between the balls and the ass,

is a very sensitive area for men.

And most men don't want you to go there.

It's taboo for a lot of men.

But when they do let you go there, they love it because it's a very erotic area.

So the question girls send is, do you girls do that?

Do you go there with your fingers, with your tongue in that area or to you it's also taboo does anybody has the balls

so you go there below the

all over the place

right youtube especially if you feel like they're aroused and they like what you do it so it just gives you more power i agree so the ones that didn't want to answer you guys are shy about doing it as well.

Or you don't want to talk about it.

We don't want to talk about it.

I mean,

I've done it.

I've done it, but I mean, how far in there are you going?

How deep are we going?

Deep?

I'm talking about like

leaking the ass.

I don't know, like glass.

But they're not.

Men love that.

And that doesn't have a problem.

say I think that's something you need to talk about because people have this preconcept that if a man allows you to touch in the back, he tends to be gay.

And I don't think

exactly

the men need to get rid of that taboo and allow and free themselves and just, you know, open themselves up like that.

Exactly.

You just nailed it because most men have this taboo in their head, but the ones that let you go there, usually they love it.

I believe it's mostly Lat Latin men's.

We have more this tackle.

I think American men tend to be a little more thick.

Am I right there?

Or no?

I don't know.

I think it depends.

I thought that.

That happened to me and the guy was American and he was super mature about it.

He actually liked it, but he wasn't gay.

And I think that's it.

I think it's about the guy.

Okay, so I think we got that kind of out of the way.

By the way, I learned this with one of my ex-boyfriends.

I had never done it before, and he was a former doctor, and he told me to do it.

And that man, like, he's like, Oh, and he probably knew he wasn't going to stay with me because he was like, I'm going to teach you something really valuable for the next guys that you're going to have in your life.

I know, right?

Now, the uneasy one.

I think, moving with this topic, I have a question.

Yeah.

Have you ever asked by a man to actually have sex with him wearing a belt?

Yeah.

Have you ever done?

A belt?

A belt with a tilde?

A belt with a tilde?

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I have, have you?

It's actually very

pleasant to do that.

You have some questions in your hand, but you gotta remove them.

Focus on the situation

and actually go for it.

I know.

I think a lot of men have this fantasy, but like we were saying, a lot of them are too embarrassed to ask, or in their mind, that makes them gay, but that's not the situation, right?

Anybody wants to share the answer?

No.

We're getting like a major triple X-rated territory.

So I'm going to ask Kamay Odua now, okay?

How long that's for all of us single?

That's a huge controversy.

Girlies, when I'm...

Thanks.

No,

please do me a favor, don't talk when I'm doing it, because I need to hear all of us.

Thank you so much.

So, that's one for all of us single.

The million-dollar question: How long do you wait to have sex with a guy when you're dating him?

I've interviewed experts on my podcast before.

The dating experts usually say, wait, if you want to have a relationship with a guy, don't have sex with him right away because he's going to run away.

Do you girls agree?

Do you not agree?

Do you wait?

Do you don't wait?

Who wants to answer this one?

I don't agree.

My ex-husband was the first night.

Yeah, you had

married for almost a year.

Wow.

I agree.

I think there is no correct answer.

It's both.

I know, but me as a woman, I do have this taboo.

Even if I want to do it on the first night, I said, should I do it?

I need to be hard to get.

Even though the one that I had this bogus relationship with didn't have such a first night.

So it's a paradox.

And I'm too confused on the answer.

I don't know.

I know.

I think it's a lot depending on how much you drink.

I don't know.

I know.

And then we're afraid of them thinking we're gonna be like a slut, right?

If we have sex, if we give up the goods on the first night, what do you think?

I think it's individual.

You know, it's personal.

Personally, I choose to wait.

You know, it's just something I do.

I don't not the first night for me, personally, but I would wait like a month.

A month.

Oh,

I love you, my God.

I married my reign.

How about you, 20?

Well, I

usually wait.

I never had

some

night night span.

I don't know the expression, maybe the

first

10, first night span, something like that.

But I think, depending on the guy, the tech depends on the chemistry, if he's way too hot, I could not resist a month.

I would try to resist at least the first day.

But yeah, how about your listeners?

For me,

yeah, for me too.

But it's funny that the expert that I interviewed on my last season, and she was very controversial, because she said, and she's a, she owns an elite luxury matchmaking company and she said if you want to have a serious relationship with a guy you should hold on

two months three months

because no man is going to want a relationship with you if you give up

i don't know if that happens because i'm getting older but nowadays it happened it was otherwise when i was on my point is but nowadays they don't fight so hard if you don't go on the first on the second on the third night they go off with somebody else

When I'm going to change this,

when I was single, um, you know, I have like five years in between of my

marriages

that I was single, and um, you know, I used to just like go with the flow, I was willing to

go the first time,

and then I wrote a book.

I don't know if you know the book, The Rules, I gave it to both, yeah, like it's very

conservative book about dating,

And it's been around for years.

And it says, you know, unfortunately, you have to make it a little hot.

And

I started making it a little hot.

And I had like all these guys of the honor to change the game.

I wouldn't meet a guy for a drink.

I'll be like, pick me up, the whole thing.

But the interesting thing is that I don't find guys that behave that way.

They are the ones always very active.

Have you ever, it's so hard to find a guy that it's hard to get.

So all over us all the time.

It's just so hard for them to go after a guy and try to conquer a guy.

Absolutely.

You know, and we have that expectation or idea that if the guy doesn't go after us or doesn't perform on the first night, we Latin lady, we tend to say, oh, he might be gay.

Yeah.

I can imagine that.

Do you think it's a Miami thing?

No, it's a South American thing.

Or like, do you think guys in Miami, Miami?

Like there's so many beautiful women here and we happen to be like the melting pot of the most beautiful.

Like do you think if we lived in a city,

our experience would be different.

I would say living in Brazil, say São Paulo, Rio,

it's not so different from Miami.

I think in the United States, Miami is one of the hardest cities to date because it became a party town.

A lot of men come here to have fun and there are a lot of escorts.

there are a lot of prostitutes, there are a lot of girls that will do give you a good job if you take them to Carbon for dinner.

Let's be honest.

A lot of my guy friends, yeah, a lot of my guy friends say, you know, I meet this girl, and they're like, I love you, I adore you.

Let's go to dinner at Carbon.

Then they get to Carbon and they're like doing videos of themselves without showing him.

Oh my god.

Yeah, so Miami, Miami's a tough one.

Yeah, Miami is tough, but you know what?

When I said, wait a month, that is not what I would pursue.

Honestly, I would be like the expert.

I used to be a therapist.

I'm an athlete,

and I specialize in marriage and family therapy.

So, I mean, that's something, honestly, I would side with the expert.

I would wait longer.

Really?

I did.

I mean, what do you know, Simone, what most men say?

Because I've asked tons of men the same question.

Most men say they would not wait.

They would think, like, seriously, this girl, girl, I take her on a date, I take her on two dates, I take her on Fridays, and you move on.

She's not attracted to me, he's gonna go and bang somebody else.

You know what?

I honestly, I think it boils down to self-love because if you really love yourself,

you want the best for yourself.

And if you want the best for yourself, you wait for the one that

you want to do and the one that does it.

That takes a lot of discipline, yeah.

But if you love yourself, you also get hoarding.

You wouldn't want to have sex.

And that's loving myself.

I want to have sex with this guy tonight yeah just exchanging ideas not attacking you

no because sometimes i think that way what about us what about what we want to be always behaving and being hard to get i know

i think the point of hard i think the point is also like do you really want to date this guy or do you just like

so we're talking about if you want a relationship with a person no future definitely definitely yeah definitely

That long, like two, three months, and then you go to bed with a guy and he sucks.

Oh, my God.

I know.

I am so sorry for the guys that have a small chick.

There's nothing they can do.

All of these questions, I want to be able to hear all of you, so we have to talk one at a time.

All of these questions are coming up, but yeah, a lot of people said what it was said.

What if you wait three months, six months?

And it's okay, I'm close to the thing if you wait three months six months and the chemistry is horrible i mean would you stay in a relationship with somebody if the chemistry sucks would you no no no would you

would you

that's i know there's a lot of like if you're christian

they say that you cannot get married if you cannot have sex before you

get married that's a religion yeah well that's not what i we're talking about like yeah people like us.

I have a question.

Like, depending on how bad you want to get married and how tired you're being of single, if you meet a great guy, yeah, he has a terrible dick, but he checks both boxes.

He has everything else.

How important is that dick to you?

Oh my gosh, right?

Everything is.

I think that's individual.

That's very individual.

And I learned, I'm sorry, I've only had one thing because I've been married for 25 years.

Wow.

But my daughter is 25 and she's taught me all this bunch of stuff.

And she's like, you know what?

She checks all the boxes.

He checks all the boxes.

I'm like, what's going on here?

What are you talking about?

She's like, well, his dick is too small.

And I'm like,

that's a no-doll.

It's too big.

To her, it's important that the dick,

aside from other important stuff, too, as well.

But not that's checking out them.

It's a tough one because to me,

if I answer that question, I don't care if he checks all the boxes and he doesn't check my dick box because

I want to be in a relationship with a good dick.

Otherwise, I continue to sleep with my dogs.

So to me, that's super important.

And I know all the other boxes are important, but if I ever marry again or even have like a serious relationship, in my life, sex is super important.

So I'm thinking, if I'm going to let some dude sleep in my bed again, I need need to have that for me.

How about you, girls?

Would you take it without the dig?

I just want to say also that what Marielena was saying about her daughter.

I think it's both sides.

When I was single, I got a guy who was checking all the boxes, but he's sequestered to me.

Too big,

I just couldn't handle it.

So, there is such a thing.

Yeah, I've heard girls say that.

Well,

the size question is coming up.

The size question is coming up.

Oh my god, that's a tough one.

So, what is your answer to that, Liz?

I mean, for me,

I've been single my whole life.

I would love to get married.

I would love to have a family.

Maybe the dick's not that important.

I've had a lot of dicks.

It's not your priority.

I've had a lot.

So maybe at this point, it's not as important as it used to be.

But maybe it is.

I'm tour.

No, I love that answer because I guess maybe it's like depends on

which point we are in our lives right now.

Some people, like you, maybe they're concentrating in something else other than give me the sex, give me the dick.

I mean, I still want the dick.

Yeah, no,

I ideally want a guy that checks all the boxes and has a fabulous dick, right?

I think

about all the dicks, about how they

eat you, and how they block you.

Yeah, that's true, of course.

No, of course.

Now, girls, that's an easy one.

Do you guys masturbate?

Yeah,

yes, of course.

Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Do you guys have sex toys?

Even though

I'm tripping over the equipment.

Are they sex toys and eyes?

I love it.

I love it too.

So,

if you're in a relationship or if you have a boyfriend, would you show him the sex toys?

bring it into the bedroom does it spice it up or are you too embarrassed to do that no show

show the boyfriend i bring it on and i'll tell him listen that's your best buddy

be friends that's your best buddy

simone

yeah i would definitely try it my husband doesn't

yeah i love her husband doesn't he have like brothers best friends cousins

he sounds like a really nice guy i mean first of all all, he's married to you and you're hot as hell.

And you told us, you said, life is good.

And you've done threesomes.

I mean, that's the kind of husband.

You should start a husband academy.

Teach men in Miami how to date.

20 is eating, but yeah, that's okay.

Alexa.

I love that.

For the men out there listening, I think this is super amazing that all of you are successful, talented.

Have you married?

Have love you married.

I have gazillion relationships and you're completely well resolved with your sexuality and what you do, and what you like to do.

I am super happy and impressed.

Absolutely.

So, men are there, you know, you have best buddies, and you have girls that know what they want.

I'm going to have porn hog.

Pornhog.

I haven't even asked that yet.

So, does everybody watch porn?

Yes.

Everybody watches porn.

Michelle is like the one she's a little shy about it.

She's premium.

What are you talking about?

I confess I love it too.

Guys, we're gonna take like a five-minute break because Tuani got here a little late.

We finished eating, and then if you guys are game, we're gonna do the second half.

Is that okay?

Yeah, well, you guys are doing amazing.

This is Cat Carondale Live from Little Brazil, Miami Beach.

And by the way, Little Brazil has been kind enough to host us.

They are an amazing, very small business that just survived this huge pandemic.

And part of their procedures helps Brazilian kids in need in Brazil.

They literally send a check every month to help a Brazilian orphanage.

So their job is amazing.

And they're sending meals to first responders here in

Surfside.

And they don't even want to talk about it.

it they don't want to advertise but they're like the most amazing people and this is why i decided to host this incredible meeting here and i hope you guys are enjoying the food and yeah

if you guys can tag them in your stories in your social media that's a huge help and i'm sure they appreciate it we'll be right back

They all got so quiet and serious.

You girls are doing amazing.

And I thought some of you would be shy, but obviously you're not at all.

And I love it.

And I hope the men out there are feeling very afraid.

So, speaking of men feeling afraid, that's one question that I have, and I want your opinion.

All of us are super independent women, right?

We all work, we all have careers, some of us have very public careers.

We work on social media that are out of photos.

Do you guys agree that most men out there are intimidated by powerful women, successful women, women that make money?

I agree.

agree

I don't want a man that gets intimidated by me I agree

everybody agrees

everybody and there are a lot of kids out there right there are a lot of guys that like I don't know what.

But I think real men appreciate us and they're excited by it and they're turned on by it.

A real man wants a woman like us.

Yeah.

Like a career and we're smart, we're successful, we're confident.

Fucking pussies are losers.

Can I lose that?

Now, question girls.

Would you girls date or I and I think I know the answer, but would you girls date or marry a guy that told you you he's not gay, but he's interested in experimenting, bringing another guy into the bed, into the bedroom?

Would you be gay for that or be like, not really.

Not really.

No, no.

Lena would, yeah, Lena would.

No, no.

I have an open mind, so if we have good arguments, why not?

Liz?

No.

She doesn't want to ask me.

I don't think straight men will success.

No, we didn't say suck.

I said if your boyfriend said, well, you know.

Well, you know.

Like, only

a second.

Bring a woman.

Which fashion?

Or basket.

So a guy will have an sexuality.

So I actually like...

Girlies.

I think the culture has to

have a big deal on this.

I dated an American guy that I always thought was attractive to men, but he was also attractive to women, but he wasn't, you know, he couldn't get out of and be open about it.

And I always kind of felt bad because I was like, I wish it's Florida, you know, I'm around.

Yeah.

You know, and

I also have met men that are mostly European that are bisexual.

Oh, yeah.

And they're very clear about it.

And they're very cool about it.

And it doesn't mean they're gay.

I know.

They're just whatever.

There are a lot of guys in Miami like that.

They don't tell you there a lot.

I'm okay with that.

Yeah, that was a tough one.

Um, now,

blow jobs: do you girls love to do it, or is it just a job and you do it to turn the guy on?

They're like, so quiet,

depending on what

much

it depends if it's well-treated, if it smells good,

how boy you are.

Are you it's all

goes together.

Guys, not one of them says, I love it.

Oops.

And you know, I've got to confess, I freaking love to do it.

Right?

It turns me on big, big time.

I love it.

And they tell me I'm really excited.

And what do you

think when a man makes you choke at it?

I like it.

I like joke.

Sometimes

forgotten.

Do you ever pretend to choke on it to make them think it's so big?

I learned this trick.

This instruction learned from my Kayboy.

Okay, wait, say that again.

You pretend to choke.

You pretend to choke and you pretend to gag.

Like, oh my god, it's so big.

Oh, no.

Meanwhile, I deserve the Oscar.

I have a question for you.

Yeah, go over everybody else.

Yeah, yeah.

Do you like to swallow?

I don't like it.

No.

I think, honestly, I like to swallow if I'm like in love with a guy.

If I'm like madly in love, I'll do it.

But in general, no, but I do love blowjobs.

It turns me on big time.

And that's the second part of it.

I should have been a porn star.

Well, it's never too late, right?

If everything else fails.

Give us a message.

next time you guys are gonna be seeing me, like on what's the name of the thing pornhouse?

You never know.

So, that the second part of this question is: so, blow jobs.

I think you girls kind of answered without answering that it's a job.

Yeah,

they're going like this in their head.

Yes, it's a job.

Now, how about the other way around?

Do you love getting

ROSEX?

Yeah, yes,

they know how to do it, because we don't like to keep teaching more to the right, more to the left.

We don't want them to know.

Do you like it?

Yeah, do you like it?

Everybody likes it,

everybody.

You guys are not gonna believe it.

I do not like it.

You don't like it?

You probably never found one that you did probably.

Every single man tells, Oh, I'm gonna change your mind, but I can't believe you don't like it.

And then it gets me more irritated.

Oh, yeah,

and the longer they sit, I'm like, stop it already.

I like the mouth kissing me and I like the hand stuff.

I don't like

both points.

Yeah?

Both points.

So you love giving blowjobs and you don't like when a guy goes down.

So men are there.

Most women love our sex, but some girls, like me and Michelle, don't like it, right?

It doesn't turn me on.

I don't love it.

If the guy's great, I love it.

But if he can't do it, it's a waste of time.

We get it.

I'm going to get irritated.

How does men learn those skills?

Is there a way that they learn it?

Oh my god, just like, okay, what is the word one?

No, this is one that I'm sure every man out there wants to know the answer.

So please be super honest if you can.

And I know the answer to this one too.

Do you guys sometimes fake orgasms?

Yeah.

There is a question.

Do you guys sometimes fake orgasms?

No.

I don't.

You never do.

I did when I was 26.

You all know.

They helped to make it happen.

I actually walked out from a guy a week ago because he was like,

he didn't do anything.

And then in the middle of the night, he woke up like touching himself.

Oh, do you like this?

Like, no, I don't like to see you touching yourself.

No, I'm actually out of here.

I love Jillian.

So Jillian is like, I don't fake it.

Make me calm or get the fuck out.

Exactly.

Who are you, girl?

Do you fake?

Do you fake?

Do you fake?

Do you make it?

Sometimes you can't.

Don't fake do you make it?

Don't fake it.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Are you guys really serious?

You never fake it?

I fake.

I make that choice.

You have to.

We fake.

Yeah, we fake.

You make the guy feel terrible all the time.

No, sometimes you know.

Sometimes you know that you're not going to terrible.

Calm down, calm down.

Sometimes you know you're not going to take it.

Sometimes you lie.

The guy keeps banging you and saying, oh, okay, yeah.

If you have a day,

like, get it over with.

I don't know what you're about.

Unfortunately, I agree with you.

It gets to a point that we're like, oh, yeah.

Okay, thank you.

job

now um one-night stance like the single girls do girls do one night stands because you just want to get laid or not

it happened but it doesn't make me happy

i don't feel good afterwards most of them are saying no with their heads no i agree i don't i've done it a bazillion times but i like it it's not my bad listen i mean i'm in a relationship but even before him i like it i think it's like if you go into it knowing what it is you go into knowing i'm I'm not going to date this guy, I don't need to get married to him.

I'm Hortony, I look hot, I like my outfit, I'm feeling sexy.

Like, I want to just, I just wanted it, you know, and like, I have, I don't slut shame, I have no guilt about sex or sexuality or

anything, like, love it.

You want to get like, get, like, fuck in the bathroom with the nightclub.

Suck a ticket in the bathroom.

Like, whatever you want to do,

yeah, I don't know.

That's just name.

Look, my assistant is 22 years old, and she's helping me film, and she's like, oh my gosh, that's this one.

Our boyfriend will thank us.

Oh my God, I know.

Her boyfriend will thank us.

But I can see her cute face.

She's like, oh, these women are too much.

Yeah, they go for her.

But she's not underage, so she's good.

I love that you guys are saying that because whether we do one-night stands or not, I mean, what the hell, men do it, right?

Men do whatever the hell they want.

And I think women should have the same rights, correct?

Exactly.

The problem is that we don't, I never think it's a one-night stand.

I always have the hope that it's more

that it's more.

But unfortunately, most men

claim that a one-night stand is a one-night stand, and most of them are going to think we're a slug and get the hell out of there.

But I agree, women should do whatever the hell they want.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Okay, now,

if you girls, I think that's kind of what Liz asked before, but a lot of guys send this question, someone asks, if you're dating someone and you waited a month, like Simone, or whatever, a week like somebody else, two dates like me, and you don't have great chemistry, but the guy is super nice.

Would you stay with the person and hope that the chemistry gets better, or it's a deal breaker?

Yes, I would wait.

You would stay, Michelle would stay with you.

I would stay.

I would wait a little longer because I had a relationship in the past where on the first time or first week, so that we had sex, it wasn't great.

I was a bit frustrated, but I insisted and and eventually it developed yeah it got better

how about you

because i mean if you're getting the emotional thing

you want to wait separate the rest yeah yeah

so everybody would stay with a guy if they had better jesus i was gonna say no

way

no but you know guys what happens is like it's not the first that the first time it's not like oh my god this is so amazing at least for me like

why do you meet that person and you guys have a like chemistry and getting to know each other I think the site gets better and better

that's true that's true

if the kiss is bad if you kiss somebody and the kiss is really bad do you go for

do you go for sex or do you think it's a deal breaker

breaker but it happened to me to have an amazing kiss

it didn't break it was the other way around yeah i think the kiss

everybody agrees so I hope you guys out there are great kisses because we all think

by the way this is a really good free master class for men out there

I know I'm gonna send it to all my friends and all the guys out there hey here you learn everything that we want and everything that we don't want and it is what it is right

so for the single girls,

is that if you're looking for all of you here that are single, are you looking for a relationship or no, you want to stay single?

I'm looking for a relationship, relationship,

relationship, true relationship.

Marielena is saying zero with her hand.

Marielena is happy, single, and she's like,

You love your vibration.

She has one man in her room.

That is one man.

Yeah, that's autophilic.

Yeah, Amiga, get out there.

I understand.

We're not allowed right now.

I mean, I met 25 years.

So now, you know, I'm building myself.

I'm building myself.

I'm enjoying spending time by myself.

I'll find the right one.

Exactly.

Yeah, but you're not in a hurry.

Most of us, most of you, want to be in a relationship.

Is there anything, like you're dating a guy, you meet a nice guy, is there anything that is 1 million percent a deal breaker to you?

Lie.

Lies.

Lies.

lies

that's the next question

to me a deal-breaker for sure because I have been in super abusive relationships like totally abusive

and I yeah and I think being respectful and being a gentleman is like 1 million percent on top of my list.

My mom always told me, my mom always told me, she said, you could take off my pants easily if you treat me well and street me well, but you won't see me.

Yeah.

Yeah, so that's an easy one.

Don't lie and be respectful.

Be decent.

But apparently, it should be so easy, right?

But apparently.

Now, one question.

Apparently, it's a trend that annoys the hell out of me.

Ghosting.

I feel like a freaking teenager talking about ghosting.

Ghosting is like you're dating someone, like it happened to me.

I was dating this guy, and the story is already there on the podcast.

And we went on a bunch of fabulous dates.

And all of a sudden, he went from texting every day, every day, every day, two, three days a week and just disappeared.

That's ghosting.

Instead of like calling you or sending you a message, of course, everybody has the right to change their mind about us.

But I think it's something that teenagers teenagers do, like college kids that are immature.

But we're talking about 40-something, 50-something-year-old men and girls our age.

But apparently, it's a very common behavior right now.

It's like a trend because I have a lot of women sending these messages like, oh, I was in a relationship, a situation with this guy, and you just ghosted me.

What do you guys think?

Isn't it super disrespectful?

Do you ghost?

It's about the line that I just said.

the guy is not being honest of the situation that is going on.

Somebody's lying.

Somebody's not being honest.

I think the worst part is that it's scary because you could think that everything is amazing, and then one day

you never hear from them.

I know.

And like, that's the scariest part of dating.

But it's so rude.

That has never happened to me, but I think the problem with women is that they may start thinking that they have a problem or they are the problem where sometimes the guy might somebody else or he's just not interested.

Yeah.

So how about has it happened to you girls there?

Well you know I'm as a mom.

Yeah.

And I have two kids that are dating.

I have two kids that are dating.

They're not kids.

One is 25, the other one is 75.

Amazing.

You look like you're 25 yourself.

So like I talk to them about this thing.

And I tell them you have to have the courage to tell someone.

And

my youngest son, when he broke up with his girlfriend, he was devastated.

And he told me, I am so sad that I have to tell her, but I just can't just.

And I was like, perfect.

Wow, this should be like a coach.

And your son is 25.

25 and 17.

Yeah, so I mean, I agree.

Everybody can change their mind, but come on, don't boast, right?

That is so enough.

And it irritates the crap.

A 52-year-old man boasting, like, seriously, send a message, right?

Because sometimes they don't have the courage

to say,

be a man, man up.

I know, man, up.

Did any one of you ladies have done that to someone?

No, I haven't done one.

This happened to me in college with a guy that

I was seeing him for over three years and one day he just disappeared.

Yeah, no.

And many years he was seeing somebody else and the girl was pregnant.

Oh,

I was like, okay,

we've been pregnant

since we were kids, and then we date in college, and he just like disappeared.

And he was like, oh my god, I was so crazy about the whole situation, but it just, yeah, but in your case, it it was has anybody else been ghosted or just me?

No, no, I you know what?

The thing is, with ghosting, that's when they have something going on.

Oh, yeah, if they're hiding something,

or if there's someone else,

yeah,

but I think we all agree, don't ghost, right?

Yeah,

it just sucks, yeah, but denies, right?

Yeah, it takes long.

Not all men up.

Oh, no, yeah, a lot of men in Miami apparently don't.

Now, the question that every guy wants to know and I don't think they're gonna like the answer but we all know the answer.

Does size matter?

Yeah

it does.

It does.

For my daughter it does.

I don't think so.

No, Lena is the married one.

She's saying no.

Money is a good size.

I don't think so, but as long as it's money.

No, I just

women are responsible in a way of their own orgasms.

And even if a dig smaller you do, all the guys out there are gonna love you.

And I think it's just like are you telling us that the guys are not responsible for how no?

I think it turns out it's like both ways, but also if you know your body, you know, you know what you want, it's just responsible to show what you want.

Yeah, how to do it.

Well, I've been with people that are way too big and wasn't good, and

too small that wasn't good.

I think that has to be like a medium-size

not too thin, I don't, not not not too thin right not too thin

like like a microphone like a microphone

does anybody want to try it

oh my god these girls are perverts

Kathy already put your hands on the microphone.

Yeah, it's too big.

It's too big.

Oh my gosh, what happens?

I think everybody

your toy and then for me, for instance, if I meet somebody and the toy is actually bigger than the

penis.

Oh the toy.

Oh that a lot of men made it bigger.

But you know a lot of men have problems with that.

Oh my gosh.

Yeah, you need a menu.

Oh my god they found a microphone online that's shaped like a dick.

I have no idea how the hell they found that but they just found it.

They're fast.

I have that.

I think I got you guys are too funny.

Last question, last question.

Would you guys stay with someone if they cheated?

Would you give them a chance?

Or then no, no.

Simone is like nothing.

I think depending on the circumstances,

it's possible to forgive once.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I agree with you.

I think everybody makes mistakes.

I'm not that radical.

One time.

But that's it.

One time.

One time.

One time.

But then we have to be able to

get back.

We get the halls.

i know i don't i don't i would not be with somebody that cheated on me this happened before and i and you don't want to because i can't trust that person and when you do not trust like someone you set you start paranoid about everything so you start thinking like where are you going so you're probably seeing someone yeah and then the relationship is not gonna work i know that is such a good point like a snowball now would you last uh last season on my podcast i interviewed a guy and he he didn't want to show his face, but he's a swinger.

He's married, happily married.

They have a super successful business.

Liz met him.

They have a super successful business together.

They had a daughter and he's obsessed with swinging.

He likes going to swinging clubs every week.

The question is, would you girls go?

If your partner said, I want to go, let's go.

Come with me.

And would you even accept somebody that does that?

They're all like so quiet.

They're like looking at me like that.

okay are you going as a friend and the wife is there

if your boyfriend if you were if your boyfriend came to you and said i want to swing baby okay so does your boyfriend want to have sex with other girls

club

they want us to swing or they want them to swing the swingers club is like couples switch with each other

what if you want to just go and see what happens yeah do i have to do something you don't have to do anything but would you go there?

Yeah, I've been I've been to what I just watched,

but would you be in a relationship with somebody that loved to swing?

I swear

I didn't like it

so we had like a moment that we want we had a moment that we're like okay let's let's find out like so okay let's try right

the places here in Miami were disgusting sorry

like did you just go there and just like what it we're just okay, never again, never again.

Never again.

Okay, so I got it.

So if anybody out there is curious about swinging, come to the Miami Swingers Clubs.

It's gonna suck and you're gonna change your mind.

But it sounded to me that none of you is too open-minded for their lifestyle.

So I had a boyfriend who was into it.

And I was like, yes, let's go.

Let's try it.

We're in New York and the swinging underground, like alternative lifestyle, they call it, is maybe like sexy in New York with gorgeous penthouses, checkback up, whatever.

But you get to these parties and like they either expect you to like have sex, watch, or just be part of like the group.

And I think you have to go into these parties knowing where you're going to be.

Are you going to be a lawyer?

Are you going to be a spectator?

Are you going to be involved?

Like do you feel comfortable having sex, watching people watch you?

Like what's going to be your part in this party?

And I think maybe going into it, knowing what you feel comfortable with is half the

yeah that's super interesting i think at the end of the day all of us i think just want to be in a nice committed relationship and want to have nice hot sex as much as possible does everybody agree with that yeah yeah i'm not i love i i think that's something that's missing is being a cancer woman I like romance.

I do too.

I love romance.

I love a guy that we make love and gives a hug afterwards.

I think that's missing.

That's missing nowadays.

I agree with you completely.

It's not just about sex.

We want a connection, right?

Yeah.

The connection is real.

Connection.

So guys out there, be nice, be courteous, don't lie.

Have a really nice dick that works.

By the way, that's all that.

Don't get dressed.

Don't get dressed and leave, right?

Don't do it.

Oh my god, yeah.

Don't, yeah, I agree.

That was another question.

We don't even have time for that.

If you have sex, it's nice if the guy stays, right?

Don't don't put your pants hug afterwards.

Yeah, yeah,

and treat us with respect, right?

That's what I think.

Every woman deserves to be respected out there and you can have a fun, great

sex life.

Girls, you are amazing.

Thank you so much.

I can't believe one hour went by.

This was an incredible episode of Carondaloos.

If everybody wants to see their faces and follow them, they're on my Instagram.

I'm going to publish the videos.

You girls are incredible.

I cannot thank you enough for being here and doing this amazing.

And I wish you lots of love.

The best possible man out there.

I'm sure we are all going to find him or he's going to find us.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

And before I finish, I want to thank Little Brazil.

They have been so amazing, nice to give us the space.

And it's like a super adorable restaurant in Miami Beach, getting through this major crisis.

So, again, if anybody can tag them in the stories, recommend it to friends and families, we really appreciate it.

And we are working, we're moving on with our lives.

But I think all of us can say that our hearts are so heavy because the tragedy of the building that collapsed is like a few blocks north of us, and it's just so horrible.

So, before I close this episode, I want to say that our hearts go out to the families, to the community, and to everyone affected.

And we're all doing the best we can to help.

Thank you so much.

Thank you.

This was amazing.

See you guys next week.

Love you.