SHARIANE HILLIER Part 2

So I'm sitting here talking to Shady Anihiliye.

She's a super successful businesswoman.

And we're talking about the story that she was dating this total con artist.

And coincidentally, I know him from Miami.

And I was super shocked.

I thought there were some weird things about him, but honestly, I thought he was a successful businessman.

So we finished the first half.

You finally had enough when you find out this guy had the balls to take a girl into your house when you're out of town.

Yeah, so you throw him out.

Yes, exactly.

Okay, so you're like, that's it.

That's it.

Get out of my life.

Then you go after, then you find about his ex-girlfriend.

No, first, then some people come and start sending me messages on Instagram because then they started seeing that I wasn't with him anymore.

And then they started talking about him.

I was like, why didn't you not tell me?

Yeah, why didn't you warn me before?

Yeah, people that knew the real, you know, the real him.

And they, oh you wouldn't believe

okay so then i decided to approach his ex-girlfriend to see if he would you know when i sent her the message i actually didn't even ask about con artists or anything i just said you know was he like this this and that about god and everything was wrong with you and

and she says yes and i took that for five years

And then she told me the truth.

I said, so did you, did he really lose everything because of you?

And she's like, what?

I have proof.

He actually made me emancipate my will,

from her father.

A million.

She says, I spent about a million reals with this guy during five years.

Wow.

So he was honing her to the baby for you.

Well, she knew, right?

She was just supporting him.

He was a bon Vivon.

Like, he just lived the life.

And he didn't have a job.

No.

I guess his job is preying on women and making them supportive.

That was one of the red flags that I had because with time, I would pay attention on his phone.

He was always liking tons of all the same type of girls, naked in bikinis or rich, like looking rich.

Because he wanted somebody to support him.

Yes, he wanted somebody to support him.

Not only for the green card, but to support him.

To support him.

Oh, my God, that's insane.

Now, back in 2019, we did not know each other.

I was dating Minhoku for you guys that follow my first season, Minhoku, the one I had last year.

But anyways, I was at the Soho house.

I was at Ciccone's with him and a friend at the bar.

And this guy was sitting on a table.

Now we know with you and a bunch of friends.

He was sitting way out there on a table.

And I looked at my boyfriend, Minhok, and I said, I know the guy.

Because I used to see him.

He used to go to my events and everything, like I said.

And he didn't come say hi to me.

So, at the time, I told my boyfriend, Oh, he's being so unfriendly.

And my boyfriend said, Well, maybe his girlfriend is jealous because I thought it was rude and weird that he didn't come say hi.

And you told me that he said something bad about me to you, right?

Yeah, so when she passed by, and I noticed that she said hi, and it was very cold.

And I said, And by the way, I paid for that dinner.

Yeah, we told me that.

Yeah, so oh my god, and it was a lot of people on that dinner table.

Yeah, it was, it was actually somebody very, could I say names?

No,

it was somebody very famous in New York.

And he, it's a friend of mine.

And he wanted to meet, oh my god, I can leave your friends with him.

I want to meet him.

So we went for dinner together.

So you paid for everybody?

No, we shared the portion of me and him.

So let me ask you a question.

You're sitting there at Chiconis with this guy who, at the time, is telling you he's a multi-millionaire.

How does, what excuse does he give you to make you pay this bill?

Oh, I already knew there.

I already knew that.

I already knew he was broke, but his excuse was the gag's girlfriend making it, you know, she took all my money.

Yeah, yeah, no, it was like a long story.

But anyway, then, so I was supporting, knowing, thinking, poor guy, because you know, sometimes if you believe, if the story was real, yes, I mean, I would have compassion for him.

Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong

with supporting it.

He happens, it happened to all of us, a lot of us, yeah.

So then after that,

so then she came along, like to the table.

You passed by the table.

No, and he goes, you pass by and he waved it.

Yeah.

And I said, who is that?

And he goes, because I'm not jealous at all.

And he goes, oh, it's a poor woman.

Like, oh, she's, you know, she wanted to marry me.

She, she kind of, she likes me a lot, but no one.

Yeah.

Yeah.

For the record, I never had anything with this guy.

Right.

I never had anything romantic in any way, shape, or form.

I was honestly never interested.

I met him.

When I met him, my husband was still alive, really sick.

And he, and I organized, I think I told you, a huge event in Wynwood for Art Bas.

So it was an event for almost 400 people at the Miami Showroom, which is a super cool event space in Wynwood.

And so my list was very, very, very tight because it was hundreds of people, a lot of VIPs, famous race car drivers.

So, you know, everybody had the wristband, blah, blah, blah.

And I remember all of a sudden, I see this man because I knew everybody there because I organized the event, and all of a sudden, I see this man that I didn't know who was with somebody I knew.

That's how I met him at the time.

So, it was always like on social occasions.

He was trying to crash your party.

Yeah, no, he did crash my party because I don't know how he got in there.

I guess my friend took him and they let him in.

And yeah, then he introduced himself to me, blah, blah, blah.

And like you said, I looked at his Instagram and he seemed so well connected.

I thought, well, maybe this guy can be a business door for me somehow.

So months later,

after my husband Anthony died and everything, he came, he asked if he could come to my apartment.

I lived at the forces at a time.

Oh, you know, let me cook for you.

Let me do something for you.

And at the time, I thought, well, you know, you just lost your husband.

I'm thinking, oh, that's so nice because my best friends didn't have that gesture.

So I thought, wow, what a nice man so he came and he cooked whatever and we sat around the table and talked about business talked about anthony he did mention something at the time that he had visa issues blah blah blah and taxes i didn't don't even remember

and uh now looking back we both agree he was probably snooping around my life trying to figure out how can i get money out of this of course i'm 100 sure because after that i only saw him in a few different social situations.

And this night at Chicone's, I thought it was really weird.

Like, he didn't say hi to me.

So, a few days later, I sent him a message.

Hi, it was nice to see you.

I'm so happy to see you happy because he had a bunch of pictures of you and him.

And he's like, oh, no, yeah, you're a dear friend.

But obviously, he's so double-faced.

He was probably afraid.

He didn't want me to meet you.

Yeah.

I think the biggest thing now, I think you and I have one thing in common.

we are are good

hard good hearted yeah and we we get conned we used to get conned easily now we we we took a long time to learn so now looking back i agree with you i think a huge red flag when a guy keeps you from talking to people when a guy keeps you from having friendships when he's like all over you trying to control you too much that's a huge red flag well he did that with me every single person that knew me that followed me that he knew he made me block them you know one of the guys a friend that we have in common also um said oh you were with this guy ha ha ha ha ha and i was like oh look do you know him he's my friend he goes oh this guy is a jealous guy block him so every single guy every single person i'm talking about guys just in general he would just you know no block this is not a good person they're jealous of me and now i knew that they didn't want me you know he didn't want me to know so then

I started getting all these messages from the safe people.

But then I unblocked them.

They were blocked.

You know what?

I'm going to unblock this.

And they started coming and talking, telling me.

One of the guys said,

I live at the Trump building.

And he literally was, I gave him the keys of my apartment.

And he used to, and then I started noticing that he wouldn't work.

He would just spend the whole day there on the beach

at the private part for the, you know, for the people that live in the building.

And he would literally approach my neighbors, try to, you know, do business with them.

That's when I kicked him out.

I started realizing it didn't work.

This is a guy.

We're not talking about a girl.

He already knew, you know, I never met this guy.

He was just my follower.

And other people came along.

And then when the ex-girlfriend told me the real story, she showed me papers, documentation, proof.

Obviously, you believe that because it happened to you.

Right.

And nothing that I'm telling you, I'm like, I have proof of everything.

I know how it is because I feel the same way.

It's interesting that

he's still in Miami.

He managed to cone somebody else

because apparently they're married or living together or something.

And he keeps driving this fancy car.

Tell me the story about the fancy cars quickly because I asked you, how did he get this?

Would he rent this car or make a deal with the car rental companies and make believe they were his cars, right?

Yeah, yeah.

So, I don't even know.

We never really got to that point, but he did.

After months, you know, that I was knowing him already.

He told me, he still never told me if it was his cars or not.

Obviously, it was not.

But, um, he told me, Oh, I have these friends, you know, these companies that rent cars.

So, I'm assuming those are the cars.

Yeah, now I don't know.

I mean, honestly, I don't wish anybody any bad, but I just very

I would fear if this woman falls for something.

I hope they're really in love and I hope

she's happy with him and she doesn't mind supporting him or maybe he did a business of his life.

I agree.

I believe in karma.

Right.

And I'm completely with you.

If somebody does me wrong, if they treat me like shit or anything, I still wish them the very, very, very best because I think life will take care of a person like that.

He's obviously a horrible human being.

He's a rotten man because he takes advantage of women and it's obvious to us he tries to prey on somebody who's fragile, emotionally fragile.

And he's a good con artist.

He's a good one.

He's a good one.

Because if you see this guy, he looks okay.

He looks good.

He looks like a rich person.

Yeah, he looks like he's wealthy.

Yeah, we're talking about rich.

Yes.

Exactly.

But then something happened.

Not only that, we didn't stop there.

I mean, this is one of the best parts, I think.

I'm in Brazil.

Then I went to Brazil when I kicked him out and everything else in Brazil, right?

right

so i'm in brazil in sao paulo with a very famous actress friend of mine uh-huh a famous actress in brazil she's extremely famous we're sitting down for dinner and she says so how is life

and i said oh i was dating a guy that was a con artist you know my life was hell so i just broke up with him and she looked at me and for a second goes oh my god wait a minute isn't that the guy that you posted all the pictures with the girls the daughters i said yeah oh my god now i know where where i know him from i said what she goes he's hitting on a friend of mine oh wow and i said really she goes you need to tell her the truth i said i don't want to do that because you know yeah a woman is gonna think oh she's just jealous she's just trying to make me not be with him exactly so i'm like no i'm not gonna say you know let her and she goes no this has to be sorari you know you're not gonna let somebody else go through this yeah i kind of agree so i said i don't know i just feel like you know but if you want to bring her along so she came she's like my friend says i have a surprise for you and she came to meet me and when i you know when she saw me she goes oh this is cherry and the ex-girlfriend of so and so and and she was she was white pale oh hi and she goes please tell her you know how the real person is and i was trying to be nice i was like you know what i don't want to you know if you're having a good time on him if you're planning things then

he sent me a message that very day, the same day

with the girls.

Oh, mom, because they were calling me mom already.

We miss you.

We want to thank you for everything.

Super nice.

He was doing the same thing to her.

To her, calling her mom.

Oh, my God.

They never met in person.

This is just through the phone.

She kind of didn't believe me, and I didn't want to force.

Yeah.

So, but she did call him on video and he saw me.

He hung up the phone.

Yeah.

So he pulls the same stunt.

And it's said that he involves his daughters in the gesture he uses them to because every mother gets touched oh he's such a nice dad and he takes but he's actually using these girls to his advantage to con yet another girl yeah he's a predator so she didn't believe me that much but i was like i didn't want to farm so i said okay well fine bye you know and then we have a nice dinner together and then she left and then two weeks after i was still in some paulo and she called me she goes now i believe you yeah she he literally sent her a message saying because she is a famous actress, also from TV Global,

and uh, he could get a green card through her, you know.

So he's like, You have to, okay, you're coming, bring this, this, and that.

He literally like demanding documents from a girl that he never even met.

No, not documents.

Ain't crazy?

No, he was asking for money.

He, in the message said, please bring the money,

please bring, um, you know, I'll take care of the money.

Bring, and and then he made a list but he was cardier watches oh my rolex everything expensive that you have yeah because he was already thinking he's gonna marry her get the green card and con her and you would be fine

yeah this guy's a predator i mean yuck if you're listening to this you're horrible now i think the what is the end of the story the end of the story is and this goes for all women out there nowadays when you meet a guy it really doesn't matter how he looks on the outside and even if you look at his social media, that's not enough.

I think we need to be a little more diligent.

Make sure you know people who know him.

You look at references, you snoop around.

If you have to Google whatever it is, LinkedIn, ask where he works, because it does happen.

A lot of women out there think, oh, I'm too smart.

I'm never going to be a victim of this.

We are both super intelligent women.

You're brilliant.

You're very successful.

But these guys can be terrible.

so girls do your due diligence and next week i'm actually going to interview a guy shari i'm very excited about

because his name is robbie kramer and he's a man's dating and lifestyle expert i want to ask him as an expert what he recommends for women like how can we stay away from guys like that can i finish just saying yes please i mean i just said the basic stuff You guys don't know all of the stars in the drama because we try to make it very fancy.

They're summarizing.

But,

you know,

then the girl, this actress,

she started hating him.

And she's like, we're going to, you know, take his mask off.

And for months, she was trying to find people to, you know, and she found literally famous, other famous celebrities from Brazil that I have all the print screens.

I mean, every single thing that I'm saying, he said to this famous host, TV host she was like do you know he's a she's friends with them she's from the same circle so the guy was like no I was having lunch at a nice place in Miami and I posted on my social media next thing I know this guy is there also so he keeps trying to find new women through social media no there was a guy this is a guy he's a famous TV host and he says that he got because he wanted to post business with them but he has no idea how to do business and so he got to the guy and said you know oh i'm i'm a partner with uh Sylvester Stallone, and I'm very good friends with Tony Robbins.

I have all the yeah, so he throws these names off.

So, the guy believed that's how he does, he makes everyone believe, not only women, yeah, guys.

He's good, yes, he's good.

I know a lot of people in Miami that have a good image of this guy, yeah, they think he's a solid, whatever entrepreneur, businessman.

I don't know what he calls himself, and then let me just finish finish this.

I will say this, so people don't think we're just oh because he was broke you don't like him no it's not that i mean i related myself and i i had compassion about the star yes that's why i was like oh we'll go through this together but he doesn't do it in

you know he's not being honest first of all he said all the bad things about the girl when the reality was he did that to her yes so it's not that we are talking about oh the guy needs to be rich

i don't think it's about being broke i think it's about the huge lie.

Yes.

You need to be upfront.

I despise lies when it comes to religion.

To me, that's like one rule.

Don't lie because you can't build anything based on lies.

If somebody looks at you in the face and says, Look, I'm broke.

I'm starting my life over.

This happened.

Then you can make a decision.

I want to be by your side or no, thank you.

Or if somebody tells you, I'm a super successful businessman.

This is my lifestyle.

Then you decide, okay, I want to have this life.

The problem is not broke or rich.

You are absolutely right.

We're talking about the problem is being a con.

You don't meet somebody and you put this picture, and everything about him was a lie.

Where he lived, his family, his businesses, oil and text, every single thing was a lie to get to the point that he got of spending your money.

And then, I mean, and that's not okay.

When I said, okay, well, when I found out the truth, which was not the real truth, that was the lie.

If it was the real truth, I'd probably still be with him and try to make him successful.

Yeah.

But everything that he told me was a lie.

Yes.

Yeah, I agree.

I think, like you said, it doesn't really matter how much money the person has.

That's a personal choice that each person can make regarding do you want to be with somebody or not.

But don't start a relationship

1 million percent.

And yeah, and in this case, it's more than lies.

The guy is a

professional con artist.

He would put, there's a, let's close with this because I think it's too long.

He would put, there's a movie in Brazil that the guy, he plays,

he lies to the whole society, high society in Brazil, that he's the son of one of the airlines.

I think it's Tam.

I don't know if it was Tan or Go.

I think it's Go.

Even famous TV Host, Amauri Jr., interviews him in a party.

Believe he's the guy.

So he puts this guy and the guy

can to shame oh my god so stay be careful everybody i think we need to do our due diligence i think every lesson every every situation like that serves as a lesson for us it has happened to me i am so happy so proud of you that you're sharing the story because i know it's not easy now we are laughing of course we're making light of it because thank god you moved on with your life and you're doing great oh my dog woke up uh but yeah thank you so much for sharing.

It was so amazing to have you here.

And I'll have you back in a few weeks because we can talk about the responses and everything.

Last question.

Do you want him to find out?

Should we send him the link of this episode or should I leave it alone?

I don't know how I feel about that.

I honestly want him to just be happy and maybe this woman that he found because people keep sending me

pictures of it.

I just want him to be happy.

I don't care.

Maybe he found a girl that is willing to support.

Yeah.

No, if that's her choice.

Yeah, you're absolutely right.

If she's happy, good for her.

Shadi, thank you so much.

Thank you.

It was so amazing having you here.

Yay.

And I hope you come back for another episode.

I will.

This is Caton De Luz.

You guys, stay tuned because next week, Tuesday is Man's Day.

I have two hot, hot, hot, hot interviews.

One is a celebrity hairstylist.

His name is Orlando.

He's so freaking freaking hot and he's so freaking night.

And he's going to spill the beans about how are you an ether

man?

hot like hell married in the world of doing women's hair

it's complicated you know the people hit on him how does he feel about it i'm gonna promote the art so you guys see him and the other guest is robby kramer he's adorable and he's a man's dating and lifestyle expert so if you guys have any questions that you want to ask to a man's i i can't wait to listen to his point of view about these things.

Why do men ghost us?

Why do they behave the way they do?

Is it true that if we have sex too soon, they're gonna go away?

How do we protect ourselves against Conars?

I cannot wait to ask a million questions to Robbie.

So, next Tuesday is Carondalu's double whammy.

We're approaching the end of season two.

Awesome.

Thank you so much, Amiga.

This was amazing.

And you guys have a great weekend.

See you next week.

Bye.

Kisses.