SILU BEST SELLING WRITER AND MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER

Hi guys, good afternoon.

Welcome to the third episode of the second season of Cat on the Loose.

I am super excited today because, for the first time, I'm going to be doing a bilingual episode.

I'm here with our guest, Silu.

She's an author of a book that I love, Diario de la Ex Gordita.

She's Brazilian, but she lives here in the United States.

So, we decided we are going to do the interview bilingual.

I'm going to ask her the questions in Portuguese.

She's gonna speak Portuguese and Spanish, which is really great since we have such a huge Latin community here in Miami.

We decided to do it that way.

And then, for you guys that don't understand what we're saying, I'm gonna post the translations right after.

So, Silou, first of all, hoy, hi, botagi,

hi, good afternoon.

Obrigada, puerta fazenduísu.

In tasi, vom fa vomo logo duma vez international porque unos podcast evinci menuchinos.

I will continue a poco dash story.

Asilu, she's a writer.

Hello, I create

a lot of genés, gordita, ja livaras vez porque elimin spira.

You so vivio concerniga.

Voce viroma y tem ten a historiolog pa que nos sabi.

Voce pedo muinto peso.

You lost a ton of weight.

30 kilos, 30 kilos in pounds.

I don't even know.

It's like 16, 60.

It's more.

Yeah, it's a lot.

It's like, I think a hundred pounds or something.

I don't know.

A muy to pieces.

Oce voice turned your life around.

You go toda adversity,

Portuguese adversaries.

And

crivio limonada.

And

all I was

mega fitness, you

instructor, you have a motivational speaker.

And all

the podcasts about dating and relationships says super happily married.

So we can say you are the girl that has it all.

You're able to do everything, para bings.

Aguora, counto pragalera.

Giondamos encountra forces because

pandemía principo mênchena.

Tenta gente dismociivada, tenta jench cancada, tenta jin chincazo, sosina, and you pa so very pierres.

Coqueam sagen cosmanda,

we have forces for

us?

I describe a library, which is a very

good thing, and

for a time, it is

incredible because they don't,

because I will try to do this.

Because

we

are,

I feel like, the way that they are fast.

And

here, as people

are

pod in concern

for the problem,

what

geos

to make.

She's saying that the most important thing is how you face the problems.

Maís very vegas,

very valuable, not a world,

So, we sport

in case,

or

intelligent, the

mind, but

combined for a concern:

and you can firm,

I mega sounds

videos of fitness.

By the way, you guys should follow her because her fitness videos are insane.

What I first passed, amigo, But

completely very simple, as

people who

are

first

identified.

Because I think very

much, very

well, very

fitness, but it is oppressive.

Verda.

And

here you are,

here is the champion.

If it is not

because

you have very

much

today, I think I

live in people

for

you.

And because

people

are incident and

when you don't credit

and when

take

what

you have

for success, success.

Because when I say

the world,

that the migration is what very happy, I created

it, I learned my experience, and I don't know if it is,

So, very

queer, who don't prepare, who don't know that

first

in voice and

queer than

you

don't like.

Yeah, I love that she said that we should do things for ourselves.

The motivation to do anything comes within us, and she's so right.

Agora, vamos a blaron poquite puño porque me gusta fraticar.

Tuesta casada, no, you she's married, she's happily married.

And I'm excited because I don't know if you know that.

You are the first person that I interview

that were talking about it, like in terms of a relationship.

You have a great marriage.

So, and I explain, although I talked a lot about my bad experiences with men, this is not a man-bashing show.

We want everybody to be in love and be happy like you.

How long?

Cunto tienpuesta casada?

Yo estu es casada, pau comple cuatro avenos de ni caprín.

Cuatro años.

Enton si lo cuanto mión poquito.

Tell us a little bit about your love story, like super quickly.

How did you guys meet?

And I was a group of

groups, and there

all comes to converse, and I came to aquí stadiums, and I don't know if it was a power in English.

And I fall,

I'm sorry, I don't speak English.

And

he said

that.

I have my translator.

That's so sweet.

Which goes to show that you can be from different cultures.

And I think where there is love and there is interest, you manage.

He le llipaís.

I do not see

that

all.

We are like,

every

change,

we are talking like a migrant, and everything

is a

little bit more

instinctive,

and I came,

it is fast,

but

I put

Desperation is not a good idea,

desperation, desperate.

You see,

you have to

revise it.

You know, that's what I'm saying, you know, who have

told you.

But

there are things

that you

have in the person,

that you can see the

Yeah, that's a horrible idea.

Don't beg for love, Elata Flando.

In my case, it took a huge break from dating because I had some really bad experiences last year.

Then I fell in love.

I haven't even told you guys that story.

And then all of a sudden, he disappeared and ghosted me because he didn't accept my work.

So now I'm like you.

I decided sometimes it's better to take a break than to just be with the wrong person, the wrong person, the wrong person.

And she's saying exactly that.

You can't just, because you're desperate, just go out with anybody and accept any behavior.

So that's really beautiful that you're saying that.

Because first of all,

I want you to desperately,

especially

if you're a non-care,

But

here, a question that I think is concerned, a lot of

times,

I

started, I

feel, I think,

and you

all

problem, that is

problematic,

a problem that

is

ridiculous to you.

It is a problem that is mulery, like a

little

scholars who

are

not without how

we

pass,

but

very good.

So that domains, the state is always bishops, all extragalds,

but they

are more of

life, that they

were.

And I said, no, it is not,

he said,

there they are,

he said,

all

myself.

When you

are,

when you

procure me,

when you speak, when

I

say, that I

carry

other

people,

it is another time, also.

I want to cast

more

than

one

kilometer.

Because you are very certain.

And when you are saying, the vague

of Jate.

One

is super important.

That follows the amigos.

I have amigos,

caring date, date, date, date, date.

I'm here, I'm quiet, I'm doing my work.

And if one day somebody's gonna find me and like me, I think they should like me the way I am.

Yo, someday very good

out there, that

a lot of force projects.

is very

much that I

could

do.

And why

all

very

much that

you have to do?

Thank you.

I introduced my expertise of relationship to

look at yourself.

If all all the relationships are not working, you have a pattern,

you will try to misma cuisa, and you break this pattern of repentance that

very difficult because

imagine the moment in their destination

that you

see that you

imagine

the

paddle

pad, but the practice for pray the most

for me.

This

is not because the job,

that they understand,

that they don't have instability,

it is very nice,

many people, many

people who are collecting so that they don't consume that because it is not important.

So, how do you

contrage other millions of people to

allow?

Because I don't

Asu is targeting

many

pieces.

I need to bring her back because her story is so amazing.

And

relationships like my jovial relationship, it's fantastic because it shows when there is love, there is no prejudice, there is no barriers, there is no culture, there is no nothing.

And I think I love letting people know about that.

Because very

well, like my job, nothing contrary,

and you have

important

or whole aspects of

our children, including

and other things that

I pass.

And

I don't know if the

next gourd

and speak,

you know,

of the people, I do speak, the mirror diet.

And I also

live inclusive for you, that

what transformation comes from

to

be able to do it.

And

if you

look like this,

for the people who are motivation,

encouragement.

I live a nina

out of time,

I don't have

a

paranoid, I would say,

I am not very

interested in the verdict.

I consider

everything

that you have in life, all the content that you

So, everybody,

the data of the people can

be that I live

in my children.

It is very difficult.

It is all very difficult because today,

the time that you have

social, you are working, you are

all, and so live in automatic life.

And that is not with your reaction, with your

digital,

this is not,

this is not

very,

so that you mirror

this and

this moment, I mirror,

and this,

I have

to change

my

life because it can be peopled in my pocket, in the

day,

you know, that

you

disparate my

family, and because we

are

not

afraid of this, a timetro, a million

tube,

that

it laid with all vegetables, and that

of transformation

to all your vida, sir for all the things that you want to do in the work of relationship because a woman can

women

that have

worked, he has their case, he has their

relationship perfectly, because when

all

that proposed,

like relationships that

And that

history of the nineteen states

the sum of everything that is today.

I have to procure that in your district

that

the name, the

name,

what

is decoration,

you see the verdict of your life.

Impossible

that they are queen,

my

past,

I think, per day.

My case, I separate, I want to say, my cases, pandemic,

pandemic,

perdin, my work,

all, I don't have,

I don't have anything that is not.

I had to lose everything, a marriage, money, dad, and start from zero and go through so many bad relationships to realize that's her message.

We need to be good with ourselves and take care of ourselves first.

And then the right person is going to find us and love us.

¿Qué a que conté sión uno seo caso con si el marido, na o si el marido cho con eso y si a passiono know, for you,

you are a bond link,

you are very

good because the

folks who are in that, you are modeling adaptation for the world, it is very important.

Because PG, very time,

Amiga,

who are

working, my cajer, my life,

and other

circumstances,

if you plan, we have to be a plan, and that's why

I

think

that you can see

that it is

that we

are.

No,

I see my visions, and I first

First of all, and you cannot let anybody take that away from you.

I think that's the most important message.

When we

say that we are here in a metro

Because I also have the innovation,

more inspiring,

like

a posture that is not legal.

It was a brand

I clap for her because I love her and her message is so powerful.

I'm gonna have to invite you for an episode too.

Because I'm a cabanda in that list of

people, and I say that

involving very

good.

Hopefully, if she agrees, this is gonna be part one of Silou.

And

it's the podcast,

it was a part two because I like the

ricochet, he laid

Superwoman.

And the fan

who has

Leia Diari duna ex Gordita because you think it's about PES, you're wrong.

It's about so much more.

It's on Amazon, Amiga.

It's on Amazon.

Yeah, and

my website.

You can

see the hope.

don't like

because

you are in Crib, you dafforce to all the mules, all the mules of

invoice.

Thank you so much, Amiga.

And

many,

I think you bombard

a episode number two.

Brigada, Amigo, a vegetable for benefits, but the work, but

you

Mara Virginia,

Miami, you are

here to

work out, and I love explicit life coaching,

and

you can't be able to do it.

This is Kara on the Luz.

We'll come back with another episode with Silou, I promise.