SILU BEST SELLING WRITER AND MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER

Speaker 1 Hi guys, good afternoon. Welcome to the third episode of the second season of Cat on the Loose.
I am super excited today because, for the first time, I'm going to be doing a bilingual episode.

Speaker 1 I'm here with our guest, Silu.

Speaker 1 She's an author of a book that I love, Diario de la Ex Gordita. She's Brazilian, but she lives here in the United States.
So, we decided we are going to do the interview bilingual.

Speaker 1 I'm going to ask her the questions in Portuguese. She's gonna speak Portuguese and Spanish, which is really great since we have such a huge Latin community here in Miami.
We decided to do it that way.

Speaker 1 And then, for you guys that don't understand what we're saying, I'm gonna post the translations right after.

Speaker 1 So, Silou, first of all, hoy, hi, botagi,

Speaker 2 hi, good afternoon.

Speaker 1 Obrigada, puerta fazenduísu. In tasi, vom fa vomo logo duma vez international porque unos podcast evinci menuchinos.
I will continue a poco dash story. Asilu, she's a writer.
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I don't even know.

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It's like, I think a hundred pounds or something. I don't know.
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Speaker 1 Yeah, I love that she said that we should do things for ourselves. The motivation to do anything comes within us, and she's so right.
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Speaker 1 Tuesta casada, no, you she's married, she's happily married. And I'm excited because I don't know if you know that.
You are the first person that I interview

Speaker 1 that were talking about it, like in terms of a relationship. You have a great marriage.

Speaker 1 So, and I explain, although I talked a lot about my bad experiences with men, this is not a man-bashing show. We want everybody to be in love and be happy like you.

Speaker 1 How long? Cunto tienpuesta casada?

Speaker 2 Yo estu es casada, pau comple cuatro avenos de ni caprín.

Speaker 1 Cuatro años. Enton si lo cuanto mión poquito.

Speaker 1 Tell us a little bit about your love story, like super quickly. How did you guys meet?

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Speaker 1 That's so sweet.

Speaker 1 Which goes to show that you can be from different cultures. And I think where there is love and there is interest, you manage.

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Speaker 1 Don't beg for love, Elata Flando.

Speaker 1 In my case, it took a huge break from dating because I had some really bad experiences last year.

Speaker 1 Then I fell in love. I haven't even told you guys that story.
And then all of a sudden, he disappeared and ghosted me because he didn't accept my work. So now I'm like you.

Speaker 1 I decided sometimes it's better to take a break than to just be with the wrong person, the wrong person, the wrong person.

Speaker 1 And she's saying exactly that. You can't just, because you're desperate, just go out with anybody and accept any behavior.
So that's really beautiful that you're saying that.

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And

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Speaker 1 I had to lose everything, a marriage, money, dad, and start from zero and go through so many bad relationships to realize that's her message.

Speaker 1 We need to be good with ourselves and take care of ourselves first.

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Speaker 1 I clap for her because I love her and her message is so powerful. I'm gonna have to invite you for an episode too.

Speaker 1 Because I'm a cabanda in that list of

Speaker 1 people, and I say that

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Speaker 1 Hopefully, if she agrees, this is gonna be part one of Silou.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 it's the podcast,

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Speaker 1 Leia Diari duna ex Gordita because you think it's about PES, you're wrong. It's about so much more.
It's on Amazon, Amiga.

Speaker 2 It's on Amazon.

Speaker 1 Yeah, and

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Speaker 1 Thank you so much, Amiga. And

Speaker 1 many,

Speaker 1 I think you bombard

Speaker 1 a episode number two.

Speaker 1 Brigada, Amigo, a vegetable for benefits, but the work, but

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Speaker 1 work out, and I love explicit life coaching,

Speaker 1 and

Speaker 2 you can't be able to do it.

Speaker 1 This is Kara on the Luz. We'll come back with another episode with Silou, I promise.