Strange Customs: An Interview with Sasha Sagan

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Speaker 2 Very special day today. Oh, absolutely.
Very special.

Speaker 2 Will we rise to the occasion? I hope so. You better.
I have to. I'm looking at you, Eddie.
Well, this is finally, I get a skeptic. Yeah, it's nice.
It's not another crazy person I roll at.

Speaker 2 Just talk to someone and pretend to believe what they're saying. Yeah, it's not normal.
Like, you know, you don't have to roll in.

Speaker 2 We don't have to go like, yes, of course, vampires, they are an ignored constituency and they really do where is common law on this um thank you our wonderful intrepid patreon listeners i am henry zabrowski i'm sitting here with ed larson hello and we we have a very special guest today someone uh again we talked right before very bright very smart i don't know what we're gonna do with this person.

Speaker 7 Oh, you're just scared that she's gonna tell you aliens aren't real. I am.

Speaker 2 Because my my little soul can't handle it. But this is somebody I really like.
We're so excited to have the author of For Small Creatures Such as We and the host of the podcast, Strange Customs.

Speaker 2 I'm really excited because it's really cool. This is one of those things.
It's a part of the world I'm super fascinated about. Like, why do we do what we do?

Speaker 2 We have author, creative mind, podcast host, Sasha Sagan.

Speaker 8 Hello. It's so nice to be with you both.
Thanks for that hilarious and charming introduction.

Speaker 2 We're trying. We are trying.
Obviously, also, I don't want to always be like famous daughter, but you know, like you're

Speaker 2 the famous daughter of someone is the saddest, you know, I mean, but it's not, not when it's like this. I mean, well, thank you.

Speaker 8 I do. I mean, a lot of my work and definitely my worldview is based on my parents' work.
So I feel like it's part of my identity.

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah, because what do you can, what can you do? Because like Carl Sagan is your father. If I followed my father's work, I'd be in prison.
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 If I followed my father's work, I'd be drunk at hogs and heifers right now. Well, you're both doing great.

Speaker 2 We're doing our best. So it's like, can I actually, we'll just start with that.

Speaker 2 Like, as the daughter of Carl Sagan, like, does it start like, do people immediately assume, obviously, I know you're a genius because I was reading your essays and you're very smart.

Speaker 8 Way too kind.

Speaker 2 But you're very smart.

Speaker 2 But it's the idea of like, like, people, when they roll up, are they like nervous or are they like like or is it all like what's daddy like what was daddy like or is it all like because you want to find out the heart of the man you sound like you know this wonderful bold benevolent it's like yeah yeah like sweet man like so what's it like having to walk around with it is it a burden or a or a wonderful treasure Oh, it's a wonderful treasure.

Speaker 8 I mean, I feel so lucky.

Speaker 8 I mean, both my parents, my mom, Andrean, and my dad collaborated on books and essays on the original Cosmos series in the 80s, which my mom has written and produced and directed the new version of with Neil deGrasse Tyson.

Speaker 2 And I didn't even know that. I had no idea like how fully involved she was in the fact that like hunting for it for years, trying to get the Cosmos remake.

Speaker 8 Wow. Yes.

Speaker 8 Absolutely. No, she's amazing.
And

Speaker 8 both my parents, I mean, you know, in terms of like, is it a burden? It's, it's really not. I feel so lucky.
I lost,

Speaker 8 you know, my dad was amazing and he was a really fun, great dad. And I lost him when I was 14.

Speaker 8 And so when I meet people who have questions about him or read his work, like, you know, started reading his work a couple years ago when, or even weren't even born in 1996, I feel this immense like joy and gratitude that in this way, in this totally secular, real way, he is living on.

Speaker 8 And no, I love talking about it. And my book is, you know, partly about growing up in that household household and growing up with the worldview

Speaker 8 of, you know, that science is the pathway to not just understanding and like, not just to like reality, but to awe and wonder and joy and that spine-tingling feeling that we are part of something larger than ourselves.

Speaker 7 So, how does the government weather machine work then?

Speaker 2 Honestly, goods get down to brass tacks.

Speaker 2 I'm so glad you asked me.

Speaker 2 That is your problem.

Speaker 2 No, you're a science person.

Speaker 2 Why did Biden send hurricanes to Florida?

Speaker 2 Why would he do such a thing?

Speaker 8 No, I feel like, I mean, I feel like the, it's interesting because I think there is this correlation between, you know, the conspiracy theories and so much of the history of religion because we are so uncomfortable not knowing.

Speaker 8 It is torture for us. The future is so unrelenting with its,

Speaker 8 you know, our inability to predict it. It's miserable.

Speaker 8 And I mean, right now, as we are, I don't know when this is going to air, but as we are in the lead up to the election, I mean, it's what's happening?

Speaker 2 What's going on right now?

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah. You're going to want to have a seat because it'd be really intense.

Speaker 8 But I think that like just this discomfort with not knowing. the answer to small and deep, profound questions.

Speaker 8 We humans, you know, we fill stuff in because even if it's something bad, even if it's something disturbing, um we somehow are more comfortable with that than just the open space of a question it drives me crazy because

Speaker 7 you believe in the bible and god's the ultimate weather machine he flooded the earth you know apparently you know it destroyed everybody and they worship god so if they believe that biden flooded florida shouldn't they worship him it's a long story

Speaker 8 it's a web of meteorology um

Speaker 2 well i kind of feel like it's why we're at where we're at right now in terms of the temperament of the country is that we

Speaker 2 track when we travel in the world of conspiracy theory all the time.

Speaker 2 And it is funny because it is as much of a faith as anything else because you kind of believe that like a faith in the deep state means that you believe that there's a daddy somewhere making sure that there's a plan.

Speaker 8 Exactly. And I think that if you're raised with a worldview that there is someone, a man in charge who makes decisions that you you cannot possibly understand.

Speaker 8 And it seems like it's a bad thing, but maybe there's a good reason and you're not allowed to ask any questions and you just have to agree. It sets you up for all kinds of other ideologies.

Speaker 2 Yes. Now, do you find that that's like what led you towards investigating the customs of humans?

Speaker 8 Yes. Well, I think it's a combination of two things.

Speaker 6 Like, what's a custom?

Speaker 2 Like, what do you mean by like a like always, like, what do you call it?

Speaker 8 Like, so, like, if you were to take like so part of the reason i'm interested in this is because when i was a kid my dad would like love to do these thought experiments about like how would i like if i were to meet someone from you know else another planet um how would i explain what we were doing and why we were doing it and it was and it's and it was great because also when you're a child you are kind of like you know you're new on earth and you're still getting a hang of all these norms and it's very easy once you become an adult to be very blase about, well, that's just the way we do things.

Speaker 8 But when you're a child, you're like, well, why do we say something after someone sneezes, but not after they burp? Or, you know, like, why, why, like, you know, it seemed there's so.

Speaker 8 And then parents sometimes get very annoyed with the long list of why questions, because then they have to ask themselves these. And so I loved always looking at the things we do from the outside.

Speaker 8 And so that's sort of the impetus for the Strange Customs podcast.

Speaker 8 Like if you were an anthropologist from somewhere else, how would you explain, you know, marriage, anything from like marriage and, you know, rituals around birth to like April Fool's Day or, you know, I mean, Halloween is a perfect example.

Speaker 8 I think it's that. And I'm also really interested in customs and traditions because as a non-religious person, I still want to mark time and process change.

Speaker 8 And I still, you know, want to grieve when someone dies and like got married and had a wedding.

Speaker 8 And like, when the seasons change, I want to have a celebration, but I don't have the infrastructure of religion. So how do we do that?

Speaker 2 There's a, I think there's a distinct difference between ritual and spirituality when it comes to our species.

Speaker 8 Right.

Speaker 2 Do you think it's connected? Do you think it's there's a like we as a as a like like a primate, we must have rituals?

Speaker 8 No, I don't think we must, but I think that it gives us sometimes, depending on the ritual, it's either the illusion of control,

Speaker 8 if it's a ritual that we believe changes something, makes something happen, or it's about processing change, right? Like someone's alive and then they are not alive.

Speaker 8 The thing, whatever this is, goes away.

Speaker 8 How do we make sense of that? How do we process this change? Or if you think about all the coming of age rituals around the world, right?

Speaker 8 Someone is a child and then like, ah, all these chemicals come in and their voice changes and there's hair and they're in a weird mood and everything's different suddenly. And then they're an adult.

Speaker 8 And like that threshold, we have to acknowledge that.

Speaker 8 And I think that, you know, when we sort of look at so many rituals around the world, when you peel back the first layer of like the local set design and costumes and script, we are almost always celebrating the same things.

Speaker 8 And they are so often scientific phenomenon. Like puberty is like a biological change, right? The changing of the seasons.

Speaker 8 It has to do with the biology of the plants and it has to do with the axial tilt of the earth, right? And all these holidays that fall around the solstices and equinoxes.

Speaker 8 It's because we're all, you know, we sometimes make up a different backstory, but we're all trying to process the same patterns and make sense of them and find the beauty in them and alleviate our fears.

Speaker 2 That's so fascinating. Do you think it would be better for young men to be left in the middle of the woods to try to come back instead of getting Jordan Peterson?

Speaker 8 I mean, if those are the only two options.

Speaker 7 How about we take Jordan Peterson and leave him in the middle of the woods and see him?

Speaker 2 If he comes back, then we have to keep him.

Speaker 7 Now, I honestly, so my father was Jewish. My mother is Catholic.
So I'm an atheist.

Speaker 7 But I still love.

Speaker 7 Christmas. I think Christmas is amazing.
I love celebrating. I got a tree, but like sitting there and worshiping Jesus is insane to me.

Speaker 7 So it's.

Speaker 2 And it's boring.

Speaker 7 It's just, I mean, in general, I don't like people's birthday, you know, and so it's.

Speaker 8 And it's not even really his birthday. It's just co-opted from the winter solstice Rome and stuff.

Speaker 7 Exactly. But so what do you do around the holidays? I know you were, you know, if you were raised, if you had to like, identify as a religion, which I'm pretty, it's secular Jewish, correct?

Speaker 8 Yes, that's right. Yes.
I mean, my ancestors, when I do a DNA test, it's like a hundred, I think they can only say like 99.9%, but it's like Ashkenazi Jew. And I'm like, I know.

Speaker 2 But yes. Celebrate Hanukkah.

Speaker 7 Like, what do you do as, you know, someone who doesn't really have faith?

Speaker 8 I do everything.

Speaker 8 So we do Hanukkah as a kind of like historical reenactment, you know, like we do it in this way to say to our children, like, this is what your ancestors were doing for thousands of years and see this thematic thematic through line about the light and the darkness.

Speaker 8 The days are short in the northern hemisphere. And so we do this.
And then my husband's family, my husband's also secular, but his family is historically Christian. And, you know,

Speaker 8 my mother-in-law does a lot of fun Christmas stuff. And we do that stuff too.
And again, in the context of like, this is a way to

Speaker 8 honor our ancestors. And, you know, also because Christmas is so,

Speaker 8 I mean, it's so ubiquitous. It's like, you have to really make a choice to not celebrate it, you know? And

Speaker 2 especially with kids, it's hard. It's hard to be like, we don't celebrate Christmas.
Well, they have to do it. And then it makes it more difficult.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 8 Totally. And I mean, it's not like, I mean, it wouldn't be fair.
It's just because, you know, my husband did grow up with Christmas.

Speaker 8 So it's like, if I'm allowed to do my secular Hanukkah thing, we got to do that too.

Speaker 8 And then the other thing that we do is the winter solstice.

Speaker 8 And it's very, not in like a witchy way, although I have a lot of, you know, no shade about that, but in a way of saying, tomorrow, no matter what, the days are going to start getting longer again.

Speaker 8 And right now it gets dark very early and that is unpleasant.

Speaker 8 But because of the axial tilt of the earth and the way it goes around the sun, tomorrow, I promise you, little by little, we will have more sunlight and eventually return to summer.

Speaker 8 And we do like, you know,

Speaker 8 a dinner and we celebrate that too.

Speaker 8 And I just think all the cultural stuff I love, you know, but I think getting to the part that is irrefutable and real and good, that like the days are going to start getting longer and that's amazing is worth celebrating.

Speaker 2 So you don't do the extended Santa lie?

Speaker 8 No, we do not do any Santa, I should say. We do like a, we do gifts on Christmas usually with my husband's family, but we do.

Speaker 2 Straight from Jesus Christ. Santa drives me crazy.

Speaker 8 No middleman.

Speaker 2 No middleman. Straight from God.
Yes. Just like Santa Claus is just like putting the thought into all children that their parents are liars.
But I also love the lie, though.

Speaker 2 There's a part of me that wants to continue the lie. I love the idea of going in and fuck that.
I bought the gifts.

Speaker 7 You know, like, that's like, this is daddy's money. You know, like, Santa didn't fucking go out and go onto the computer and find the top wheels track.

Speaker 2 I just love fooling children.

Speaker 2 Sorry, where do you? You don't

Speaker 8 no i i feel and so in on strange pestons we did an episode about santa and it's called the conspiracy and it's with nicole ritchie actually it is really funny and um you know this idea that like it is like i mean don't and that maybe also sets children up to believe in conspiracies because it is a i mean the idea that norad is like in on the sly is incredible like

Speaker 8 dollars are spent i mean it's amazing amazing how much effort we all collectively put in. And it's like almost this, like, one of the most taboo things is to like blow that up for children.

Speaker 8 And like, don't worry, I don't go around being like, you know, that's bullshit.

Speaker 2 Like when I pick my daughter up from second grade instead of the other children, don't worry. Ms.

Speaker 2 Sagana, we're actually going to have to ask you to please stop disseminating the power of pure information to the children. Okay.

Speaker 8 She's going to have to start taking the bus home if you insist on showing up at pick up.

Speaker 2 So what do you tell her?

Speaker 7 What do you, do you say that Santa isn't real, but keep the lie going for your classmates?

Speaker 8 No, I say that everyone eventually finds out. I'm not going to ever lie to you, but it's not for us to tell other children because their parents have a plan for when they're going to find out.

Speaker 8 And, you know, what's funny though, is there's another fictional character who I did kind of, I mean, luckily my daughter's really skeptical.

Speaker 8 So it's now like this running joke open secret, but I don't feel as strongly about like the tooth fairy as i do about santa why is that why is the tooth fairy fine it feels like the tooth fairy is even more ubiquitous than santa it's interesting because it's like so the the the the scholar that we interviewed about this um

Speaker 8 on my podcast was saying that one of the big differences is everybody can picture Santa, but the tooth fairy is like very open to interpretation.

Speaker 8 And it's like, not like a singular creature that like everybody agrees on. So it's sort of more, it doesn't feel like this lie.
It just feels like this like amorphous like joke.

Speaker 8 And it's also not like, oh, the magic is ruined when you find out that your mother put $2 under your pillow. You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 It's just like, just give me the money up front.

Speaker 7 Well, that's it. It was also my introduction to money.

Speaker 2 to be honest with you.

Speaker 7 It was the first time I made it. It's like a job.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 8 Yes. And it's the, I mean, if you want to talk about strange customs, it is the weirdest thing ever.

Speaker 8 I mean, imagine if it was not, like, if we hadn't all grown up with it and you were reading in like an anthropology textbook about some distant tribe or island somewhere where when the children come of age and their teeth start falling out of their mouths, they put it under their pillow and then like a mystical like spirit from the forest with wings comes and takes part of their body that has fallen out and leaves them the like

Speaker 8 you know leaves them money

Speaker 2 yeah the currency the local currency who is the tooth fairy selling these teeth to i mean that's why

Speaker 2 does she need them no one just spends money they're either looking for votes or they're looking for something else they got something on you now she's gonna frame these children for crimes later leaving their dna at the scene i don't know oh my god

Speaker 2 the tooth fairy is jeffrey epstein

Speaker 2 I should say, Kai has to ask, though, is it more, the Tooth Fairy for some reason? Is it more here in America or is it across the globe?

Speaker 8 I don't think it's, I mean, I have to do some research to tell you.

Speaker 8 We haven't done a full Tooth Fairy episode yet, but that is something I really want to do.

Speaker 8 But no,

Speaker 8 I think it's definitely Western culture. I don't think it's global.
I'm going to look into it. This is a good question.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I don't know if necessarily everybody's paying off their kids.

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Speaker 7 now we've talked about Christmas and religion, and I really want to get your opinion on the afterlife. Your father famously said, I don't want to believe, I want to know.

Speaker 2 And so, there is no,

Speaker 7 there is nothing to me. Like, my dad died twice.
He, you know, the first time he died, he had no idea that anything ever happened. He's like, there's nothing.

Speaker 7 And the second time, you know, it was very uneventful.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it was the, it was the last time he died. It was the the last time he died.

Speaker 7 So it's, and a lot of people really, really want to believe in a life after death. Me personally, it makes no sense to me.

Speaker 7 But yet I am on a, I'm on a very popular podcast. We talk about paranormal activity and ghosts a lot and stuff like that.
And also my family is very spiritual.

Speaker 7 So I'm just kind of wondering where your opinion lies on a life after death, a purgatory, the existence of ghosts. Like, I know there's 10 questions in there, but

Speaker 2 you could just wrap that up pretty good. That'd be great.

Speaker 2 You could take your belief system and sort of kind of wrap that up.

Speaker 8 Oh, no, I, this is like my favorite thing to talk about. I know, yeah, I mean, it's, it's 10 questions, but it's really one question.

Speaker 8 And so my perspective is in order to believe, for me to believe something, I need evidence. I need real evidence.
And so to say, when people say, do you believe in something? This is like,

Speaker 8 the implication is like, is it what you like, your best guess, your hope, whatever. And my position is I, I don't believe in an afterlife.

Speaker 8 i don't believe in anything you know in the air quotes like paranormal because i

Speaker 8 without evidence how can we possibly know what is just our hopes and our wishes and our confirmation bias or our fears and what is real and i mean that is to say also there are you know we are getting more information that's the magic of science but if any of this were real and there comes a day where it is proven true it will be supported by some evidence it will be it will stand up to scrutiny right there are lots of things we didn't understand in human history that now we understand i mean if you said like a few you know millennia ago like i believe that the moon controls the ocean controls the tides right that could be like a something like a person which would say yeah

Speaker 8 a totally a what a witch would say 100

Speaker 8 but then once you get gravity and like newton like kind of works out how this could work, it becomes real. And what I think is sort of

Speaker 8 the key is that can we still hold on to like the awe and enthusiasm and the sense of like, oh my God, holy shit, this is amazing and stunning and exhilarating and spine tingling about the stuff that we have evidence for that is real and hold out.

Speaker 8 just hold an open space for the stuff that could just be wishful thinking or fears or hopes or ancient rumors. And I just think, you know, like

Speaker 8 the example I always give is

Speaker 8 there is a secret code in your blood that connects you to your ancestors that can solve mysteries that we did not know about like a few decades ago, you know, 60, 70 years ago, and that it can like is like the key to answering so many questions, reuniting lost family members, figuring out like all these, you know, history.

Speaker 8 And like, if you, by the time you're doing like your allele worksheets in middle school, DNA doesn't seem like this magical, mystical, thrilling thing, but I think it is.

Speaker 8 And so whatever things that we currently categorize as paranormal, you know, we have to just like hold an empty space until there's

Speaker 8 evidence because we humans are so inclined to fall into the traps of our own belief systems.

Speaker 2 And I do believe everything can eventually be chased down and charted, but I do think partially it's because the,

Speaker 2 would you say even the bandwidth for what you'd consider evidence also kind of expands with science and technology and understanding?

Speaker 8 Sure. And like the thing that my parents always told me that's so magnificent about science is it has this error correcting mechanism, right?

Speaker 8 You're a better scientist if you prove that the conventional wisdom is wrong, if you can really prove it. Like if you really, it can really stand up to scrutiny.

Speaker 8 And sometimes we believe things for centuries and then they end up being disproven.

Speaker 8 But like this system is our best bet because we're not that good at figuring out what's real and what's not historically.

Speaker 2 Do you think that there's a standardized version of science across the universe itself?

Speaker 8 Oh, like be like the universe, like beyond.

Speaker 2 Like if let's say we go to another place, place, right? Like, because I'm certain, does this extend to like alien life? Like, the idea that there's probably some form, right? I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 2 We don't have the evidence, right? So, the idea

Speaker 2 of an alien race living on another planet, like live with a society that can think, we just, that's just kind of conjecture, technically. But where do you stand on it?

Speaker 8 You asked me about like when like people

Speaker 2 come,

Speaker 8 like come up to me and like when I was a kid and people would come up to my dad. I mean, he would get the like in like airports and restaurants like Dr.
Sagan, great to meet you.

Speaker 8 Like, do you believe in aliens? Aliens.

Speaker 2 Where are the aliens?

Speaker 8 Yeah, exactly. I mean, like, and it's, and, and people really wanted to know.
And they were genuinely, I mean, who wouldn't want to know? I mean, it was like genuine curiosity.

Speaker 2 You're a smart guy. I'm a moron.
Right. You tell me what you think.
Yes. Right.

Speaker 8 And I mean, this is like before like social media or anything. And so you're just like, oh my goodness, perfect person to ask this question.

Speaker 8 And he would say, I don't know. And they would say, oh, but what does your gut tell you? And he would say, well, I don't use my gut for this.
I, you know, use my brain. And we just don't.

Speaker 8 And he would have loved, and I can't underscore this enough. He would have loved to have lived to see some evidence that there was life elsewhere in the universe.

Speaker 8 But he, like the quote that you just mentioned, he wanted, he didn't want to just fall back on his wishes and hopes. He wanted to really know.
And

Speaker 8 so I think just like holding that space open for not knowing. But your question about like, is science uniform?

Speaker 2 Yeah, like, do you think that if you go to another place, like, do you think that like in another solar system and another galaxy, like,

Speaker 2 would physics change? Would our stuff change? Like, do, or is the belief of science that there's like, there is a running theme that would hold true? Or

Speaker 2 is it quite, is it possible that like things could be entirely different in another part of the universe

Speaker 8 I think things would be entirely different um but I think that if we think about like

Speaker 8 I mean science as like the co like nature the way we understand nature the way the physical laws of nature exist it's this it's not a set of like it's not a list of like

Speaker 8 things to like figures and formulas. It's a method to understand.

Speaker 8 And whatever we were to encounter somewhere else, surely it would be like amazingly different. But whatever we were able to glean through evidence about what life or not life, existence,

Speaker 8 inanimate existence, maybe there was

Speaker 8 would be science.

Speaker 2 Yeah. Because I feel like almost in a way that's not.
That's not faith.

Speaker 2 You're looking for evidence, but almost in a way, it feels like science has this kind of, there is a, the, there's a faith in the idea that this side, like our ideas of science will hold right maybe or you're testing it no i disagree because it's the fact that we're like the goal is to constantly test it and then when there's new information change accordingly is kind of to me

Speaker 2 the opposite of

Speaker 8 faith gets used yes like sometimes faith gets used as like optimism or like positive like having a good attitude and like i'm all for that you know what i mean if it's like oh things things look terrible and it's like have some faith i mean like it could work out that would be great you know what i mean like that is a different thing than the idea that no matter what you're presented with no matter what evidence is brought your way you will not waver that is a different thing and i feel like that is antithetical to science yeah and science it's like a quest for truth and knowledge kind of

Speaker 7 and it would change depending on what you were testing you know and what you learned like yeah what you what is true on Earth wouldn't be true on Ramulan or whatever place doesn't exist, you know?

Speaker 2 Unless we do then find out that all science has like a, there's like a bottom law, like there's like something that we're all connected to, which is what I think is the, the, literally the hope.

Speaker 2 We hope that it would all, like, I feel like scientists would be,

Speaker 2 how do you, I'd say the term would be fucked if they ended into another section of the universe and they're like, oh no, it's all the fuel stopped working. You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 Like Like, the stuff stopped working. We're screwed.
Yeah.

Speaker 8 Sure, yes, totally.

Speaker 8 But if we could somehow, even with everything that we're used to from our planet and solar system not working, if we could somehow then glean what's different, why it's different, what the like

Speaker 8 structure of it all is,

Speaker 8 that pursuit would still be science.

Speaker 7 Yeah, because you would have to find discover whatever new elements are in this different place and like whatever new gases that we have never heard of, you know, exist in another place, you know, because it all doesn't exist in the bubble we call Earth.

Speaker 2 I agree.

Speaker 8 And I just, I just also think it's like, no matter what, like, it's the when, if we ever get to go out into the universe and get some new gases, as you say, or any of the other things.

Speaker 2 We got to get new gases. I'm sitting there.

Speaker 2 That's the number one thing.

Speaker 2 I'm ruining some of my own right now.

Speaker 8 But I think no matter what we find, but it will just underscore how precious and rare this planet is.

Speaker 2 Yes, I agree completely.

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Speaker 7 uh so we've been talking about outer space going other planets stars and whatnot i gotta ask

Speaker 7 just because it drives me crazy astrology does it hold oh my god does it hold any merit like am i the same as everyone born on october 5th like it's just like you know

Speaker 2 he's such a libra about this

Speaker 2 like honestly as soon as you start talking about it i'm like oh is the libra talking

Speaker 8 i i i have the same problem actually because i first of all happy belated birthday um

Speaker 2 because in los angeles we have to talk in astrology yeah so i hope you understand that Oh, no, I know.

Speaker 8 I wrote about this in my book and it's, and I've spent a lot of time in Los Angeles, and I have the same problem because people are like, what sign are you?

Speaker 8 And I'm like, I'm a Scorpio, but I don't believe that there is any evidence to support astrology.

Speaker 2 And they're like, You're like, Oh, of course, you would be intense about that. Yeah, totally.

Speaker 8 Yeah, start a huge argument about it.

Speaker 2 Um,

Speaker 8 no, it's a huge problem, actually. That

Speaker 8 I mean, is it a huge problem in the grand scheme of things? No, but I think I so no, astrology does not, it's not supported by evidence. And how would that even work if it were?

Speaker 8 How would, like, that's the kind of the crux of all of this? Like,

Speaker 8 how would what planets and stars were in what like position above your, like above the hospital when you were born have any impact on your personality? Like, how would that work?

Speaker 8 You know, and I think it's just, yes, no, I'm, I guess, like,

Speaker 7 my personality changes with a head injury.

Speaker 2 It doesn't matter where the stars are. Well, who knows, maybe that could reveal your rising.

Speaker 8 But I think that the thing that I really, that I, the thing about astrology that really gets me is I think the desire for it like the hunger for it and the hunger for like a lot of stuff in that genre like crystals and things like that is because we do have this

Speaker 8 desire to be to feel like we're part of the universe and we do have that desire to feel like connected to the earth and feel that like And I think especially if people are not religious,

Speaker 8 there is that

Speaker 8 hunger to feel connected to one another and to the grandeur and majesty of the universe. And I think that that is valid, but I just don't think astrology or crystals are the road there.

Speaker 2 You're just destroying the market here. Okay.

Speaker 2 There's a lot of stuff that we got to do. A lot of stuff is hinging on astrology here.
Finally, talk to Sony.

Speaker 8 That was so convincing.

Speaker 2 They're going to close up all their little crystal shapes. damn

Speaker 2 salt. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
They're burning all their tapestries, you know,

Speaker 2 throwing the incense out.

Speaker 8 Yeah, open up just a science library instead.

Speaker 7 So as I, because I'm so fascinated by the concept of religion and why people are getting so crazy about it.

Speaker 7 It seems like the radicalness of religion is on the rise, but also it seems like atheism or

Speaker 7 sometimes listed as just none when you have to click a box is also, I think, the third religion in the world right now.

Speaker 7 Do you think it's going to continue to rise as time goes? Or do you think it's going to go down?

Speaker 2 It seems to be kicking back, kind of, in a way.

Speaker 8 Well, I do think the rise of

Speaker 8 like

Speaker 8 sort of normalizing a lack of religion, I do think that it can make more fanaticism because sometimes you dig your heels in deeper when you feel like there is a threat. And I think that, you know, we

Speaker 8 listen, even the most devout, most

Speaker 8 religious, traditional person alive today is doing things very differently than their ancestors were doing a thousand years ago, right? Nobody is like

Speaker 8 perfectly following this ancient thing.

Speaker 8 We are all changing and adapting and pulling things out of ancient texts that seem important and letting other things that were were maybe the headline fall by the wayside and sort of just,

Speaker 8 you know, like anything, traditions, rituals, religions,

Speaker 8 they have to mutate in order to survive. And so I think change is inevitable.
And it's not so much a scale to me of like more religious or less religious necessarily.

Speaker 8 It's that It's going to change over time. It's going to reflect the moment.
What are the changes we want to make? What is the future that you want to

Speaker 8 create for the next generation, whether you're secular or religious? And I think that if you're holding on, like white knuckle, holding on to elements of a religion that

Speaker 8 divide, that belittle the people that are different, that cause violence,

Speaker 8 then

Speaker 8 you are not helping.

Speaker 2 I'm just saying.

Speaker 8 I'm going to just go out on a limb here and say, I don't like it.

Speaker 2 And those times, honestly, even the core of the religion that they are believing in doesn't actually reflect what they're doing.

Speaker 2 So, you know, like, obviously, look at the Christian nation state they want to build.

Speaker 2 It is specifically like, you know, it seemed that Jesus was an easy-going guy. You know what I mean? The whole thing, the live and let live thing, all that kind of whore shit.

Speaker 2 And you talked about how nice he was.

Speaker 8 He was hungry.

Speaker 2 Yes. Yes.
Taking care of the sick, all that kind of stuff.

Speaker 8 Including people who are outcasts. Yes, that stuff doesn't seem like it's so

Speaker 7 centered.

Speaker 8 That has not been the main headline in the Christian nationalist movement. And I have a bone to pick with them about that.

Speaker 2 I really do. I have had it up to here with the Christian Christofascist nationalist.

Speaker 2 We're not on the same page. No.

Speaker 8 Yeah, I mean, it's a mirror, right? Religion, like anything, it's a mirror. You want a reason to feed the poor.

Speaker 8 You want a reason to do, you know, acts of kindness, to build a hospital, you can find it.

Speaker 8 You want a reason to feel like you're better, your little group is the one good group and everybody else can just suffer, then you can find that too.

Speaker 8 And I just think more and more it's, well, maybe always, but I think. I see a lot of it is about identity and not about theology.
It is

Speaker 8 right. People who like identify really strongly with a group, but maybe haven't done the reading.

Speaker 8 You know, I think that is, and that goes back to something very ancient and very tribal.

Speaker 8 And, like, that, you know, we, maybe there was some evolutionary advantage tens of thousands of years ago to be like, we live in a band of 20 or 30 people and we got to just survive and we can't trust anybody else.

Speaker 2 But we got each other's backs no matter what. Yeah.

Speaker 8 Right. But now our village is 8 billion people and counting.

Speaker 8 And we got to start looking at it that way because the differences between the groups and like I said, like the set design and the script and the costume is superficial and it is totally unimportant.

Speaker 8 And that is the greatest gift of the like cosmic perspective is when we get to zoom out and we're not down here seeing, you know, where the world feels really big and our, you know, the differences feel really extreme.

Speaker 8 But when we can look at you know, the image of the Earth from space and we see that all these borders are artificial.

Speaker 8 And that if anyone were to show up from anywhere else, we would be indistinguishable, you know, one group to another.

Speaker 8 And that I think that we it's time we have to just, you know, use this amazing gift that science has given us to see ourselves as on this lifeboat together in this vast ocean to realize that the little things that people are willing to kill each other over are

Speaker 8 just absolutely superficial and meaningless.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 7 I I always go back to a conversation I had with a religious leader when I was a kid, and they, not a kid, teenager, but whatever.

Speaker 7 And I remember them saying, like, if you don't believe, then what actually keeps you from sinning?

Speaker 7 And now that I look back on it, you know, I said morality, but like, the, but I look back, but I also think that, like, your concept of a sin is probably different than my concept of a sin because, like, you think that I can't say the word God if I'm not saying it in the right way.

Speaker 2 You know, meanwhile like the rampant abuse throughout the entire fucking church system that it's like would you guys seem to have like like that's cool yeah but if you have to believe in hell to not steal or beat somebody it doesn't stop them from doing bad things does it

Speaker 8 right but also that's such a reveal because it's saying I would like be a serial killer if I wasn't worried that somebody was watching you know that's the really scary thing about that argument to me is because it's like the idea of getting caught or getting in trouble or getting your like comeuppance later on is the reason you're not doing like really bad things and then about the all the little other things that they don't like all the little sexual infractions of better like with between consenting adults or by yourself or like all the things that they don't like it's like well then what if no one's hurt like you're two people getting married and just because they have the same parts you know like it's like well then we don't need, you don't need to not do that.

Speaker 8 Like if no one's being hurt, then

Speaker 8 it's okay.

Speaker 8 And if someone, and if someone is being hurt, you should have another method, another system internally that says this is bad besides being, you know, on the, you know, CC TV of the universe.

Speaker 2 The Lord itself, yeah, watching you. I just do it.
It's just so fun. I think that what you're saying is correct.

Speaker 2 It's really, because we, the, the concept of people want a group to belong to, because it's scary out there. Totally.
It's scary out there and it's hard.

Speaker 2 And I think that people are willing to join a group, especially like, you know, what we're seeing in current American politics, which is this idea of like the, for one side, the barrier to entry is extremely low.

Speaker 2 All you have to do is show up and they kind of accept you no matter what. spectrum of hatred you bring to the fold.
You know what I mean? They're kind of happy almost.

Speaker 2 They're like, look, we got a new type of hate. Wow.

Speaker 2 Look how diverse our hate is

Speaker 2 i think which is truly incredible like honestly in a way of how many spectrums of hate there is and and how they can find community why can't we on the other side

Speaker 8 well i just

Speaker 8 i mean i think there is like i mean i do think there is community and like i think that when we can look at ourselves as belonging to

Speaker 8 the planet, I think we can, you know, and the thing that I really admire about religion, even though I am not religious and I am critical of it in a lot of ways, is the sense of community and the sense of belonging and having a group that comes together when, you know, times are tough and

Speaker 8 celebrates when things are going well. And I think for those of us who are not religious, like we have to build that for ourselves.

Speaker 8 And I think being in one of the best ways to get that feeling is being involved in.

Speaker 8 causes that you believe in and volunteering and like, you know, social justice, doing things to make things more how you hope them to be.

Speaker 8 And it sort of also fills that need of like, okay, this is my group and we go like stuff envelopes together or whatever canvas.

Speaker 8 And I think there's something really to be said for that because we do want to feel like we're part of something, but, you know, it just, it shouldn't be something that is, we're part of something that.

Speaker 8 makes us superior to everybody else.

Speaker 7 Yes, I agree with that. It was hard for me a long time because my mom was, you know, without my father for a long time.
And

Speaker 7 she would go to church all the time and give them money and stuff i'm like well you're just giving them you know your hard-earned money is driving me crazy but then like the entertainment to me is like oh that's just the price of admission for the show well that's how i kind of felt too well i was obsessed with being a priest as a little boy and it was really just because

Speaker 2 oh yeah but it was because i realized over time it was because he had guaranteed time the priest had an hour every week where everybody had to show up and believe everything that that guy had to say and he could say whatever he wanted and then eventually realized, like, oh, I could be a comedian.

Speaker 2 Yeah, like, I don't need this power.

Speaker 2 You know, like, I could do this.

Speaker 8 And you can do it more than an hour a week.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 look at me now. All I do is yeah.

Speaker 2 Yeah. And you don't have to learn Latin or whatever.

Speaker 8 Um, so that's good.

Speaker 2 Not unless we're trying to break into Vatican City podcast market, which has honestly been very difficult. Yes, I can do it.
It is so hard

Speaker 2 to get into the papacy podcast now, world.

Speaker 8 It's mainly just one guy who's kind of controlling

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Speaker 7 uh now i gotta ask this question just because you're here and henry's here henry fancies himself a satanist and what does that when you hear that what do you think

Speaker 8 so my my understanding and you mean you know you'll have to tell me if I'm wrong, is that it's there, it is a subversive belief system.

Speaker 8 And it is like, I mean, my, I feel like one of the things that I know most about the Satanists is the ways in which they have really worked within the legal system to sort of

Speaker 8 counteract some of the Christian nationalist moves and say, oh, well, then can we go to the public school and hand out our flyers too?

Speaker 8 And sort of leading us to question how the ways in which which our society

Speaker 8 favors one belief system over the others.

Speaker 8 And I don't know, I heard someone say, like, you know, the Satanists don't really believe in Satan.

Speaker 2 They don't.

Speaker 2 The whole point of Satanism is that

Speaker 2 it is an edge-lord

Speaker 2 political position. I am a Satanist and I believe in that.
The idea that, like, you're just supposed to remind everybody, like, you know, the church needs the devil.

Speaker 2 You know, like, that's the whole thing. Like in 1984.

Speaker 2 There's like a whole thing here where, like, there's a whole side of this story that's not being told, which is this serpent gave them the ability to be wise.

Speaker 2 Like, it gave humans the ability to not, because that's the idea. They were living in a fantasy world and they were living in the Garden of Eden, which is essentially a really nice cage.

Speaker 2 And then the devil came and released them.

Speaker 8 24-hour a day surveillance. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 And then we gave them all, we gave people autonomy.

Speaker 6 But then that's the problem, isn't it?

Speaker 2 And then it's been the problem ever since.

Speaker 2 Here we are. Here we are.

Speaker 2 Thank you. This has been wonderful.

Speaker 7 Sasha, you're a delight.

Speaker 2 This is wonderful. Thank you.

Speaker 8 Same to you both. Please.
I just enjoyed this so much.

Speaker 2 Thank you. Please buy the book for small creatures such as we by Sasha Sagan.
Anything you want to leave people on? Anything that you want? Any socials? I know you must love TikTok.

Speaker 2 you must love social media

Speaker 8 I am very nearly 42 years old so I don't think I'm allowed on TikTok

Speaker 2 it's not good out there

Speaker 8 no millennials are sadly in charge of tick tock it's not good that is that's even worse okay no but I am on Instagram I am I'm Sasha say again on Instagram and I just had the best time talking to you both thank you thank you and go check out the podcast strange customs because it's still out right?

Speaker 2 Because

Speaker 2 are you still hosting it actively?

Speaker 6 Just had a question.

Speaker 8 No, I'm on a little break right now, but I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I want to come back to it. I, yeah, I really enjoy doing it.

Speaker 8 I like, I like asking people questions about why they feel like really strongly about you know, um, April Fool's Day and such a Scorpio.

Speaker 2 Can't believe it.

Speaker 2 I walked right into that one.

Speaker 2 Thank you so much for being with us.

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