The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communicate with confidence so you can argue less and talk more.
Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable strategies you can implement today to improve the way you communicate.
Make your next conversation the one that changes everything.
New episodes every Tuesday.
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Episodes (34)
How to Stay Calm When You’re Disrespected
You are not a target. Not a punching bag. Not the release valve for someone else’s frustration.
In the middle of the book tour whirlwind, I’m reflecting on a powerful review someone left for The Next...
Charles Duhigg: Asking Questions That Build Instant Connection
Ever feel like you’re talking but not really connecting? Or maybe you’re in a conversation, and you know the other person is just waiting for their turn to talk? Well, today’s episode is about to...
Bonus Episode: Chapter 1 from The Next Conversation
Alright, let’s do something different today.
This is a special bonus episode where you get to hear Chapter 1 of my new book, The Next Conversation.
In this first chapter, we’re setting the stage....
The Next Conversation Starts Here
Today is a big day, y’all. It’s book launch day. The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More is officially out in the world, and I could not be more excited (or honestly, more emotional) about...
Chris Voss: FBI-Backed Tactics for Better Communication
Ever walked into a conversation and felt like you were on the losing end before it even started? Whether it’s a tough negotiation, a disagreement at home, or just trying to get someone to see your...
Mel Robbins: How to Handle Difficult People with the Let Them Theory
Ever find yourself stuck in your own head, overthinking a conversation, or worrying about how someone will react? This episode is for you.
Today I sit down with the legendary Mel Robbins – NYT #1...
How My Parents Raised an Expert Communicator
How do you raise a good communicator? How do you teach kids to be kind but not a pushover? And what actually matters when it comes to parenting?
In this episode, I’m sitting down with the two people...
My Top 3 Lessons in Communication
You’re in a conversation, and things get heated. You want to make your point—but so do they.
Suddenly, it feels like a battle. And if you "win," what have you really won?
In this episode, I’m...
The Last Word
Today’s podcast is a little different. It’s personal.
I’m wrapping up season 1 of the podcast, sharing some big highlights from 2024, and giving you a preview of what’s coming in 2025. And yes… I’m...
Best Communication Advice from 2024
To wrap up 2024, I’ve pulled together my top 3 podcast episodes of the year—all in one place.
You’ll get tools to handle rude comments, navigate belittling remarks, and stay calm when someone isn’t...
How to Never Struggle with Small Talk
Small talk can be so awkward.
You’re trying to fill the silence, but the conversation just isn’t clicking. What do you do?
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to make small talk feel natural,...
How to Handle People Who Dominate Conversations
You’re in a conversation, and someone turns it into their personal monologue.
They just keep talking and talking—totally dominating the conversation.
It’s frustrating. But you don’t have to sit...
What to Say to a One-Upper
You’re excited to share something you’re proud of, and then someone jumps in with, “Oh, that’s nothing—I’ve done [insert bigger, better thing here].”
It’s like they can’t help but make it a...
What to Say to Dismissive Replies
Someone brushes off their rude comments with, “It was just a joke.” Or they tell you, “Don’t take it personally,” or, “You’re too sensitive.”
These comments might seem small. But they can slowly tear...
How to Not Get Defensive
Someone says something that hits a nerve, and before you know it, you’re on the defensive.
Defensiveness is a normal reaction. But it can quickly escalate arguments and make things worse. Good news:...
How to Accept a Compliment
Ever feel awkward when someone compliments you? You’re not alone. It’s easy to downplay, dismiss, or deflect compliments.
But there’s a better way to respond to compliments. A way that shows...
How to Respond to Gaslighting
Ever been in an argument where someone twists your words, denies things that happened, or makes you doubt your own reality?
Gaslighting can be one of the most frustrating and confusing behaviors to...
How to Handle Liars
Ever had that nagging feeling that someone isn’t being honest with you?
It’s frustrating when you know something’s off, but you’re not sure how to address it. Especially without things getting...
How to Handle Inappropriate Questions
Ever been caught off guard by a question that feels too personal, invasive, or just plain inappropriate?
You’ve probably found yourself scrambling for the right way to respond—without getting...
How to Respond with Confidence
Find yourself using filler words like “um” or “uh,” or ending your sentences with uncertainty? You want to sound more confident, but you’re not sure what to do.
Good news: There’s an easy way to...
How to Argue with Strong Personalities
Ever found yourself in a heated argument with someone who just won't back down?
Arguing with strong personalities can feel like you're constantly being overpowered, but there's a way to stay in...
How to Handle Unwanted Conversations
You’re stuck in a conversation that you wish you could escape.
Maybe it’s office gossip, someone oversharing, or a topic that doesn’t interest you.
But you’re not sure how to get out without...
What to Say When Someone Belittles You
Ever had someone put you down, but you weren’t sure how to respond?
You don’t need to get defensive or fire back. There’s a better way.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to handle belittling...
My Top 3 Argument Responses
Ever find yourself in an argument where the other person gets defensive, no matter what you say?
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 easy phrases that can help you calm things down and handle defensive...
How to Talk to a Narcissist
No matter what you say, a narcissist either wants praise or want to provoke you into frustration.
It’s a tricky game—but there’s a way to handle it without getting pulled into the mess.
In this...
How to Stand Up for Yourself
You want to advocate for yourself more.
But you’re not sure how to do that.
You know you deserve to be heard, but finding the right words—and the confidence to say them—can be tough.
In this...
How to Increase Your Emotional Intelligence
We all have moments where our emotions get the best of us.
Maybe it’s a tough conversation at work or a heated discussion at home. If you want to have more effective communication, you must increase...
What to Say When You Cry in an Argument
You’re in a heated argument, and suddenly, tears start to well up. No matter how hard you try, you can’t stop them from falling. What do you do when you cry during an argument?
In this episode, I’m...
How to Handle Bad Apologies
Ever received an apology that didn’t feel genuine? How do you react and what do you say?
In this episode, I’m revealing 3 types of bad apologies and how you need to respond.
When you use these 3...
How to Handle Interruptions
You want to handle interruptions kindly, but you're not sure how to assert yourself without escalating the situation.
In this episode, I'm revealing 3 simple ways to handle interruptions effectively....
How to Respond to Rude Comments
How should you respond to rude comments? Do you say something? And if so, what do you say?
In this episode, I’m revealing 3 ways to respond to rude comments.
Plus, I’m sharing a few common mistakes...
How to Sound Assertive
You want to sound more assertive. But you’re not sure what to say or how to say it.
In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple ways to instantly sound more assertive.
These are easy phrases you can say...
How to Have a Difficult Conversation
Need to have a difficult conversation, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it?
In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple steps to confidently approach your next hard conversation.
I'll guide...
Welcome to The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Communicate with confidence and make your next conversation the one that changes everything.
Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable communication strategies you can...
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